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Negodu...And how many times Have you people created a thread praising men? You personally have you opened one?? "change begins with me" let that sink in!

misspicy:
[b]It is understandable that the bashing is not going to stop anytime soon,but I totally disagree that women started it.
Nairalanders have been bashing famales a long time ago,only recently like last two years that females got enough courage to type back,infact a moniker like that trolled me severally until I responded by bashing him too,even though,I initially ignored.
The (f) are just reacting because there is a limit one can take insultive remarks even if it was not directed to one.

Eg myself,most threads are not affecting me but I am forced to type something in defence of my gender.

Now to the ladies on the frontpage,I don't think anybody commended the lady on what she did,they were only against the norm of bashing women,call it paranoia but that is what this thread is aimed at,and its not surprising that many (m) monikers are out in their droves to add fabricated stories to the Initial post already.

Bottom line-------->
The men should create threads praising women as much as they create threads bashing them for a change.[/b]

Nairaland Women and Hypocrisy are like this...I dont have that Zuma picture again mtchww

5minsmadness:
But the story was not of a man who wasn't responsible was it?

You ladies quickly see the worst thing in men and then you miraculously expect men not to see the worst in you. Lol.


As far as i can remember, the ladies started the bashing on nairaland. They insult guys at the drop of a hat then cry wolf when the guys retaliate. Guys have simply caught up on the insults, that's all. I doubt most guys here are interested in bashing women but we learnt to do so from the female folk online. I know i did.

Stop bashing guys and guys will stop bashing you. Simples.

Back to the story for instance.
Honestly tell me why the ladies in the first page responded the way they did. A story was told of a man who had fallen upon difficult times. He was not said to be irresponsible. It takes a lot from a proud man to beg but there he was, begging for a job. His wife left him. That's wrong. The op now remembered his mother and how she stood by her husbamd when he lost his own job, even when he was depressed. Thats a virtuos woman. That deserves praise. Yet they left her and went to bash the Op's father. Why would they behave in such a rude and uncultured way? If someone bashed your father here now, would you take it lightly? Why did they respond that way if they were not already primed to be bitter towards men generally?

Lol as in, I don taya

5minsmadness:
Did the storyline mention the man being irresponsible and 'unwilling to change'?

Do you believe your husband can be VERY irresponsible and refuse to change?? If not,don't quote me again!

montezz:
Nairaland is another world entirely. Ahn ahn! Nothing pesin no go see.

Trying so hard to justify leaving your marital home, Don't you know how to pray? Or are you an atheist?

ItsQuinn:
even though he becomes very irresponsible and refuse to change

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Seriously I don't know why They find it difficult 2 grasp the simple message, all these Feminist wannabes everywhere.

VikingsOO7:
Ovoko! I honestly dunno why something as simple as this is turning to a war.
The OP' message is simple. Stick with Your husband no matter how bad things are. Support him, encourage him.

Ffs, is the "For better for worse" vow now a poem You guys just recite in church? Nobody is saying the husband is blameless.
The message is: Don't dump Your marriage when things go bad for Your husband.
Nothing lasts forever.

Some women can be heartless. Name Checkers Assio. Where you at!!

Gbam!! Simple

Scholar8200:
Hence you are disobeying Jesus Who you claim to be following!

20 Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also. 27 [size=18pt]and ye also shall bear witness, because ye have been with me from the beginning.
[/size]John 15:20,27
No believer today can lay claim to being with Jesus from the beginning of His earthly ministry except the 12 hence if we reject their witness, we reject Jesus Himself!

After u accuse someone of using physical things to explain spiritual things, are human beings containers? Which container are you? Milo? Peak milk?.Apostle paul wrote clearly about this subject as The Holyspirit inspired him,if it was evil as you hope it is,he would have written it down

rexben:
I quite understand your christian view but it is very wrong.
I have a question for you; if you have two containers of water, then you emptied them to a larger container. How many containers do you now have?
If two shall become one. They're one. You can't separate them, you can't distribute roles to them. They share everything together. If the husband is the head, the wife is equally the head.

NOTICE!! NOTICE!! NOTICE!!
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I DID NOT CALL YOU
I did not call you unto slavery but unto Liberty
I did not call you unto judgement,but unto mercy
I did not call you unto struggle but unto Grace
I did not call you unto fear but unto courage and boldness
I did not call you unto sorrow but unto Joy in abundance
I did not call you unto worry but unto peace and a sound mind
I did not call you unto poverty but unto my riches in glory
I did not call you unto detest and Hate but unto Love,my deep unconditional love
I love you- Jesus

Who is talking about settling for less here? The writer talked about blogging siting linda Ikeji as an example, are you saying that the Op is earning more than Linda Ikeji? You call agriculture settling for less? Go and ask Obasanjo,he eill educate you better. you call programming settling for less!? Go and ask the guy that programmed Diamond Bank App how much he earns per everyone that makes use of that app. Dude wake up.

benedima:
Op, nice write up, lovely ideas but your topic disqualified everything.

Your topic means that You're in a paid job and you're enjoying it but advise the jobless to settle down for these (less) . You're indirectly telling us that your white collar job pays off than all these you've mentioned above and that's y you can't venture into it now.

On the foregoing, my question is that when you know your white collar job pays off, Y then do you advise people to settle for less.

You've painted the above mentioned things to do as something that brings in millions of dollars by week yet you're still in a paid job of like 200k - 300k per month

My oga, there are somethings you're not still telling us. Please speak up

Who is talking about settling for less here? The writer talked about blogging siting linda Ikeji as an example, are you saying that the Op is earning more than Linda Ikeji? You call agriculture settling for less? Go and ask Obasanjo, you call programming settling for less!? Go and ask the guy that programmed Diamond Bank App how much he earns per everyone that makes use of that app. Dude wake up.

benedima:
Op, nice write up, lovely ideas but your topic disqualified everything.

Your topic means that You're in a paid job and you're enjoying it but advise the jobless to settle down for these (less) . You're indirectly telling us that your white collar job pays off than all these you've mentioned above and that's y you can't venture into it now.

On the foregoing, my question is that when you know your white collar job pays off, Y then do you advise people to settle for less.

You've painted the above mentioned things to do as something that brings in millions of dollars by week yet you're still in a paid job of like 200k - 300k per month

My oga, there are somethings you're not still telling us. Please speak up

Pls We are living in Grace. Everything we do,we do to the glory of God! Even birthdays

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This is selfishness and Parasitism! Love is not Selfish! You can't give what you don't have! You don't know what is love!

LuvU2:
nah its a win win. I enjoy what my husband lacks and still stay to enjoy what he has.

Thanks bro you have done enough justice to this.peace

Splinz:
Wonder why they ignored the truth and will always do? Simple.

The devil does not stand in the truth because there's no truth in him, and their father's desires does his children. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44).

The true Church is the "ground and pillar of truth" (1 Timothy 3:15), not a den of lies! Also note that a true Christian is one sanctified in the truth (John 17:17), and also lives by every word that comes from the mouth of God (Matt. 4:4).

So you see bro, the truth is what sets one free (John 8:32). Free from satanic lies and yokes! It is what seperates the wheat from chaffs- sheeps from goats. Jesus said, "by their fruits, you shall know them". What fruits? The fruits of truthfulness!

Lastly, one great reason why these people blatantly refused or ignored the truth is based on long held cherished traditions, e.g, perpetual virginity of Mary. In Mark 7, Christ made these stunning but sobering statements. "You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men. And He said to them, "You have a fine way of rejecting the commandment of God in order to keep your tradition!" (verse 8-9). What an indictment! Now, here's the bomb to those who places traditions above God's word, "in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men" (verse 7). What a stunning statement! You often hear people say things like... "I've been asking God for help but no help"... "I've been praying for healing but none"... "I've been praying for financial success but things are getting worse", etc. Some because of these unanswered prayers have concluded that there's no God, e.g, atheists. "in vain do they worship me..." why

Walk in the truth, brother. Peace!

I wonder why they chose to ignore the truth,it's just so obvious!

chocodaviva:
@4kings Joseph and Mary had other children, Jesus’ half
brothers and sisters. That is evident from the question inhabitants
of Nazareth later asked about Jesus: “Is this not the carpenter’s
son? Is not his mother called Mary, and his brothers James and
Joseph and Simon and Judas? And his sisters, are they not all with
us?” ( ) We can conclude from
this that Jesus’ immediate family consisted of his parents, four
brothers, and at least two sisters.
However, some today do not believe that Jesus’ brothers and
sisters were children of Joseph and Mary. Why? “The Church,”
says the New Catholic Encyclopedia, “from its earliest days taught
that Mary was always a virgin. In view of this, then, there can be
no doubt that Mary did not have any other children.” The same
reference work claims that the words “brother” and “sister” can
refer to “some one or ones united in a religious or other common
bond” or to relatives, perhaps cousins.
Is that really the case? Even some Catholic theologians,
disagreeing with the traditional doctrine, support the view that
Jesus had fleshly brothers and sisters. John P. Meier, former
president of the Catholic Bible Association of America, wrote: “In
the N[ew] T[estament] adelphos [brother], when used not merely
figuratively or metaphorically but rather to designate some sort of
physical or legal relationship, means only full or half-brother, and
nothing else.” Yes, the Scriptures indicate that Jesus had brothers
and sisters who were born to Joseph and Mary.

Thanks bro. The truth is so glaring!! I wonder why they chose to Ignore it

Splinz:
Mary's other children has always been obvious to discerning minds and lovers of truth, as clearly seen from the above quoted passages. On the contrary, the father of lies and his children has always posited the opposite.

Please I'm going to start with a little build-up, read patiently.
In Church today,Our pastor was talking about the roles of the Holyspirit in the life of a christian.Today he taught the leading role of the Holyspirit and he now went ahead to show us three ways we can confirm the voice of the spirit:we have peace,war between our spirit and the flesh,and lastly confirmation(from God's word and a higher spiritual authourity) now he led us to Gal 1:18, Gal 2:9 where he infered that paul with all his exploits still went back to stay with peter(the head of the church) for fifteen days to confirm the revelaton he was given(to go to the gentiles), which was confirmed in Gal 2:9...sorry for the long epistle but something caught my eye.the verse after Gal 1:18,Gal 1:19 says Kjv "but other of the apostles I saw none,save JAMES THE LORD'S BROTHER" my mind went back to matt 12:46 "while he yet talked to the people,His mother and His Brethren stood without,desiring to speak with Him. Matt 13:55 also says "is not this the carpenter's son? Is not his mother called mary? And his brethren,JAMES, and Joses and simon,and Judas?" I have heard most people especially catholics argue that Mary only gave birth to Jesus using Ezekiel 44:2-3 as their standpoint.this post is getting long already so I won't quote it but that scripture has nothing to do with mary if you read from chapter 40,there were so many gates! Why will chapter 44 be singled out for Mary? Okay,from A human level, What will be Joseph's fate if Jesus was his only son? His lineage will be closed because he will have no one to "carry his name", and the bible did not mention of Joseph marrying another wife! Don't you think it is wickedness;you married a virgin and she got pregnant 'divinely'. It didnt stop there you discovered that she can only give birth to that child and no more, and God is against polygamy. How will you feel? My God is not a wicked God! He is loving and compassionate, He used mary to bring His son on earth and allowed the couple live their normal lives. Finally deut 19:15 and 2 cor 13:1 both says that in the mouth of two or three witnesses shall a matter be established. I have used 3 scriptures to show us that Jesus had siblings while on earth, can we establish it? Let's hear your thoughts. Thanks

I thessalonians 4:16-17
"for the lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout,with the voice of the arch angel,and with the trump of God:and the dead in Christ shall rise first: then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds,to meet the lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the lord." do not deceive people,Jesus is coming again, prepare yourself

So because you eat pork,having sex with a pig should'nt be different? Don't let your child see this #chillingComments

ifenes:
Bestiality is not wrong if the animal give you their consent. But since they are incapable of giving consent,a sex act with them is obviously an act of rape. Thinking of animal rights here. The dominant species is always perceived as right anyway. To human's it is wrong because it makes no sense genetically.

And also,because something doesn't make sense doesn't mean it is wrong. We eat theses animals,having sex with them couldn't be worse.

Faints* Imagine how the world will be if everyone was an atheist.still getting chills at "It's a go go"

ilovetheline:
These days people don't consent for their kids and if it's up to me. it's a go go[just don't go bigger than ur pussi can handle]

Please do,it is long overdue.God bless you

Elohim1:
;Maybe Ill Open One 2moro

Negodu.5000 religions and over a million Gods...but you are so obsessed with only the christian God.why? Who is deceiving who?

Afrokan:
Do you know, there are over 5000 religions and over a million Gods. YOur god is just one of them
So, i dare your God to strike me down with thunder and banish my soul into hell, if he cant do this small thing, then he should forever remain silent for he is impotent and powerless

Elohim1:
Of Cause I Think About Unicorn Dragons Sometimes Even About Zeus Or Hades Or Even Spiderman Does That Mean They Exist?? SO If I Open A Thread For Spiderman Base On The Movie Does That Mean He Is Real??

and how many times have you opened a thread for spiderman base?... Keep deceiving yourself

Negodu! So God u claim does not exist is now the one responsible for miscarriages in the world? You see how your hatred for God makes you reason like a kid, continue in your foolishness and delusion.

Ask am again

Geez this is gross! Thanks to civilization

I have observed that most atheist became atheist within the range of 17-27 yrs of age.I think it's because most of them feel that christianity is a form of bondage since they can not 'enjoy their youth' without answering to their creator.they want to be god of themselves,free to do whatever they want while hiding under their usual'prove to me out of the 5000+ gods that ur god is the true god' lie ...yeah Jesus talked about taking up ur cross,that an atheist doesn't want to hear