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DavidGodwin:
Are you a born again Christian, sir?

I'm an Apostle A Nazarine A True Worshipper !

Enahi:
Yes it is if is a guy that we truly like or love.

Wow..than God for web,this is too complex for my mind to have comprehended if yu hadn't said it.So you make a nest even in a relationship with excess strain and stress.. ..I'm confused at the ideology..I'm the reverse anyway the more i lie u the easier it is to walk away..Warri style..this way can't be hurt...

DavidGodwin:
Tor. God dey help us. I dey Nassarawa now. I just enter into the work full time, but still on a low key. I go finish service 1st b4 I open ma studio.
I saw God's hand in the relationship sha. I'm glad that I left without defilement. I laugh most times when I read comments and threads on this forum. But it's all good.

I admire you jare,no worry whenever God replaces it's always beta than the previous Trust me ! There's alwaiz someone beta than Messi and Ronaldo coming from behind

Me i manage to dodge my own hurt by replacing the female specie with wor..though i'm on the loo out thesedays sha

DavidGodwin:
We started dating in 2013 when I was in 200L. She was in her finals then (2 yrs ahead of me). Everything went well until 2015. I lost my mom in January that same year and it was as if all ma hopes were on her. Toward the end of her service year, she told me another guy (whom I know) went to where she was serving and proposed to her. I asked her what she told him and she said (in her words): "It's true we are together, but we haven't taken any solid conclusion". After 2 and half yrs?! ALMOST HALF of my family knew about her. Some were even calling her from time to time.
Like Nigerian movies, she left me for the guy. I was devastated throughout that year, more so that that was my final year. But God saw me through. While we were together, I told her that even if I don't marry her, whoever does, I'd be happy for her cos of how she had suffered in life (she's also an orphan like me).
Funny enough, I was the 1st to be at the wedding. I swept the altar, ran some errands and played keyboard for her wedding (I'm a keyboardist and recently a gospel music producer). That's my story. Sorry for boring you.

@David on the contrary you didn't bore me,i'm workin i nid this chat..

Na wa o,no loyalty atall in life again..

Correct my feeble thinkin but if a guy doesnt sleep with the bae he's dating for 2years and remains in the relationship isn't that an accurate pointer that it's a relationship saved for marriage ?

As my hommies would say ladies act first and think later,it's her loss anyways..i hope u gave her tfare on the way out.

I'm glad u mentioned u went to the wedding even swept the place,it purifies ur heart and helps one get over it faster..with age i'm coming to believe no one is really worth it to hurt one's self over..

How's gospal music production jare

Yu sabi Vik Da Praise? R u based in Lag

I'm seriously a gospel fan we no dey tae God mather play

DeeTus:
She was complaining that i don't take to the salon to make her hair,

I don't buy undies for her, i don't cook for her, blah blah blah.

At a time, my niggas were all laughing including their gfs. Her stress was too much i had to run.

@DeeTus ineventually ur not romantic " KWA " na wa o.we humans find issues in life even when there's nothin to be bothered about.
But guy...it's what we've both been sayin it's life Nigerian women have too much negative baggage and side effect,anyways i've completely stayed away until i find the good brands i've met quite a few but one way or the other one guy go come i go free am...May God help us find the ryt ladies o... !!

DeeTus:
She was complaining that i don't take to the salon to make her hair,

I don't buy undies for her, i don't cook for her, blah blah blah.

At a time, my niggas were all laughing including their gfs. Her stress was too much i had to run.

@DeeTus ineventually ur not romantic " KWA " na wa o.we humans find issues in life even when there's nothin to be bothered about.
But guy...it's what we've both been sayin it's life Nigerian women have too much negative baggage and side effect,anyways i've completely stayed away until i find the good brands i've met quite a few but one way or the other one guy go come i go free am...May God help us find the ryt ladies o...

DavidGodwin:
Well, not in all cases. I'm 26+ but haven't had sex. I had a (failed) relationship that lasted 2 years plus but never even kissed the lady. It all depends on the individuals involved, ma dear.

@Dave i admire yu.It's rare to see this from a guy...didn't the issue of lac of sex in your relationship cause riot ?

DavidGodwin:
Hope you've not had sex with him before? Quote me

@DavidGodwin yu dey joke ?

Witch type embarassing question be dat.Sex starts thesedays the day guy meets bae

DeeTus:
Man, leave these girls alone. They too have problems.

One of my ex who is a make up artist always complain of me to my niggas. Till today my niggas still make fun of me and often laugh.

Wow brotha.. for ur niggas to complain and mae fun of you,mehn the chic go don spill tire..God help us men,that's why it's hard for some of us to go into relationships seriously with as we all say these-naija-girls... The side effects of dating them mehn..If only a man had options

DeeTus:
Aside men, women still have a lot of problems. Ranging from latest fashion, looks and so on.

@DeeTus have u been paying attention to the threads with the same kind of complain.it's become an epidemy..my boyfriend this n that i rily dnt knw if they hav problems besides men..

Enahi:
Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems

@Enahi the forum is flooded with this same issues over and over...Is it so difficult to leave a guy? is it this difficult ?

DeeTus:
yea just wanted to add more value to it.

@DeeTus hmmph..

REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

I NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

HOW SILLY FOR ME TO FORGET IGBO KWENU IGBO KWENU IGBO KWENU IGBO CHA CHA CHA,GET SET SOUTH EAST SAI BIAFRA !

LIBERTY IS COMING,WE HAVE AN ANTECEDENT IN MODERN ERA WORLD WE WILL HAVE OURS SOON ENOUGH SOUTH SOUTH - SOUTH EAST TANGO AND BUILD AN UNIMAGINABLE REGION..


CONGRATS GUYS

WE WON UK LEAVES THE EU FINALLY NIGERIA YOUR TURN COMING HOLLA SOUTH SOUTH GET READY FOR THE OIL STATE BLOC GET SET THE ENTIRE SOUTH SOUTH IT WON'T BE LONG FREEDOM COMING BABY

@DeeTus but bro Jesus Christ in a romance thread is like " Kim Kirdashion and Work " used in the same sentence,you're not supposed to find both of them in a single sentence,Trust me !

@DeeTus but bro Jesus Christ in a romance thread is like " Kim Kirdashion and Work " used in the same sentence,you're not supposed to find both of them in a single sentence

DeeTus:


Jesus! Clap for urself. I shouldn't even waste my time anymore advising these girls.

She's already trapped and would need another bad boy to get her off the hook. After that, she can go on to date a good guy who will love her whole-heartedly.

It is as it is bro,people attract who they are she just maybe a trap attractants,they dnt nid pep talk anymore,imma drive it down way deep

ebosie11:
Immediate past councilor ward 1 Abua/Odual local government Council 7th legislative Assembly and Chieftain of the All Progressives Congress, Hon. John Alali Morri was allegedly murdered by unknown assailants around Emughan junction as he was on his way to the village, while returning from appeal court Port Harcourt where he went to show solidarity with his colleagues and party during the ruling of the court on Monday 20 June 2016. Read statement released by Rivers Councillors Forum below; 





We receive with disbelief and sadness the unfortunate news of the gruesome murder of one of our former colleague Hon. John Alali Morris, the immediate past councillor Ward 1 Abua/Odual local government Council 7th legislative Assembly and Chieftain of the All Progressives Congress.

Hon. John Alali Morris fondly called "Alaska" we hear was killed by yet to be identified assailants around Emughan junction in his native land Abua, as he was said to be on his way to the village, while returning from appeal court Port Harcourt were he went to show solidarity with his colleagues and party during the ruling of the court on Monday 20 June 2016.

Our heart is heavy and we sincerely condole with the bereaved and the Abua/Odual APC family. The Rivers councillors forum of the 8th Legislative Assembly is deeply pained and devastated by the news of this devilish, shameful, devastating and barbaric act. It is our earnest prayers that the good Lord will grant the families he left behind the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.

We therefore condemn in its entirety and in the most strongest possible term this bizarre and clueless wastage of the life of this innocent and promising young Man for no justifiable reason whatsoever. This killing is to us one too many and we believe it should not have happened in a modern and contemporary times.

The Forum at this moment will like to passionately call on the new commissioner of police in Rivers State to quickly swing into action with a view to bringing the perpetrators of this shocking and dastardly act to justice. For us, it is a litmus test for the new Rivers CP, as we believe it will not be swept under the carpet as was the case in the past. We sincerely trust and hope that the coming of the new police boss to Rivers State will bring renewed confidence and trust of the people on the Nigerian police' uncompromising ability of discharging its constitutional responsibilities of protecting lives and properties in the state without fear or favour.

We call on our party members all over the state not to be intimidated by this ceaseless and unwarranted killings going on unabated, as we know these are part of Orchestrated and desperate plans by some unpatriotic persons aimed at silencing the opposition in the state, but all that shall fail. As the Bible says; "The Egyptian you see today, you shall see them no more". There time of judgement is near.

Finally, we call on all well meaning citizens and residence of the state to be extremely vigilant and security conscious and to assist the police and other security agencies in curbing crimes and criminality by reporting any suspicious elements and characters in our various communities."

Signed:

Dae (Hon) Stephen Deegbara
Chairman, State Steering Committee.
Rivers Councillors Forum.
(8th Legislative Assembly) 

Source: http://www.trezzyblog.com/2016/06/apc-chieftain-brutally-murdered-in.html

This guy too young to die lie this o Rivers take it easy

BeeBeeOoh:
http://www.thecable.ng/fayose-asks-efcc-officials-read-john-8-vs-7

When the president's spoke people talk it's dull.When my man Fayose speaks it's so juicy it rains juice for hours.

I told you i'll wait for Fayose's response when everybody speaks first.

People are eager to crucify you Fayose come to the Niger Delta leave the people amongst you that want u dead for no reason..

..Fayose do people remember that during the case with the EX-PCP chair we all saw the guy only gave yu a pantry sum of 24Million for a whole campaign for a presidential election in which you delivered the state,won the house of reps and should i go on..

IJN i command the rope they have programmed for you to hook the neck of your accussers and kill them off,as they intend to kill you not even to trouble you only cause the thief comes to kill steal and destroy,so i stand as an authority in my office and i curse your accusers they will have an IMPLOSION..I wrote this thread ahead.Don't be afraid Fayose people think this is ordinary even but you know and have prepared your mind even to die as i can see from here..i'm seeing it.. but you're doing what He chose you to come back to Ekiti for..

APC will have an implosion withn a duration i keep to my chest,wait for it Fayose and well done.

dre11:
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http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/06/24/fg-senate-face-off-deepens-divisions-among-apc-senators/

What's all of the trouble in this article for.

Since when did arresting people become an instrument for celebration..

lindabon:
http://pix11.com/2016/06/23/uk-broadcasters-project-that-britain-has-voted-to-leave-the-28-nation-european-union-in-historic-referendum/

We're in with you UK allt he best !

DeeTus:
That's pretty good one. What works for women is the opposite. He's a good bad boy and you will continue to love him.

There's nothing you can do about it. Women love good bad-boys who know how to keep them on their toes.

Too much soceity trauma thesedays because he dis virgined someone,what if a person dis virgins another and he dies in an incident like a plane crash...Have some self esteem the shame of this dude dis-virgining you and your present deformed image unlike when u were still chic has gotten to your mind,would u endure 40 years of torment just becos of savin the image of your puss if you chose to move on ?

You're in for an avalanche if this relationship continues without this guy changing,Newton's law of motion an object continues in it's path unless it is forced by external stimuli to change direction,unless a change comes which many females pray for go into relationship and then u find out 15 years change hasn't come...Why not go for something with insurance..don't yu knw there are men who will die and kill for you even with been dis-virgined.. i'm so worriedd for yu less u labor in vain cause the virginity u mentioned implies u pay even more attention to image than in your well being..

you need your perspectives and perception re-calibrated to gain focus as your sight is strained cause of the trauma..look at your age look at what you're going thru when the young generation are turning away from the ways of their parents and becoming more caring in relationships..you're crying on Nairaland isn't this public enough to know the aswer to ur question yourself..or wait u need seecond confirmation or validation to what you gut has already told u which is to leave..

..or u hate to fell like i let dad and mum down becos they will say they told u so.. and what happens when mum and dad goes or the guy hammers seriously and then no one can talk to him..

u dnt nid a sweet innocent pep talk..

Walk or deal with the issues

Oliviaarims:
Honestly, I used to think it was only the bad girls or those who draw unnecessary attention to themselves that suffered such fate at the hands of lecturers...until it happened to me.

When it first started, I was flummoxed. "Why me?" I asked. I was a typical good student, I don't miss classes or tests or get into any situation that would amount to going to my lecturer to start pleading for favours...always early to class, don't talk unnecessarily while the lecture's on, don't dress indecently to school, don't gallivant around the school premises... I actually thought none of my lecturers knew me. But this man still found me and then the others...



OP's points make a lot of sense.

Cc. Amateur.

@Olivia lovely comment..i like this part " But this man still found me and then the others... " but you leave it to us to imagine way so much,when u got found what and what how did u deal with it,spill some of ur gent-mate may need to knw how to deal with theirs with the knowledge from how u dealt with urs

Trudiee:

Maan, ladies nowadays.. talking about women subjugation, we r the ones who subjugate ourselves. my dear, first rule of dating.. love yourself FIRST. he treats u like trash.. u just said so and u still need advice. he deflowered you.. so freaking what?? u ve always wanted to marry the man that deflowers u, u probably should've waited till u actually got married to him..

but that's by the way. the fact that he was ur first does not make him perfect for u or.. how do i put it.. compulsory that u d marry him.

come to think of it, he hits u. I'm tired of typing. find a man who respects you first. if he hits u, he s a freaking coward.. and an animal. you sure as hell don't want to get stuck with one.

Sweet i smell guts !

chidozieikeji2:
my broda we will call fayose to pay for her flight ticket wat we need from aisha is a selfie pics @ jfk airport in usa and We will believe her stories as for now all her stories cannot convince us at all the match score is now aisha 0 fayose 1

Lol. Nice one

I'm off guys gotta tie some loose ends..

God helps this country

dammytosh:
I pray God provide a better job for your employees.

It must have been difficult coping with an uncultured illiterate.

I will advise you to start using emoticon to express yourself since you can not write anything intelligently.

How about you sending something like :



lol @ yawns off.

I just did.

If yu cant read ordinary vocab but quote verboise eloquence well displayed what could u be useful for..

Oay u got the job u dust the foot mat in my company daily,that's only wat u kwalify 4..

My vocab's just way above ur range so i knew u wouldnt undastand well ofcos it would break ur brains and liquefy your existence son of the progenitor of fullishness

chidozieikeji2:
the first lady owes us enough explanation which she can clear by traveling to america we will charge fayose to foot for all her travelling expenses atleast. This will end this drama

@Chi when some of us tal we are attacked,they will not back facts with facts even with their dull minds they try to enter the ring of champions..But when Lai-Nus Mohammed-Mba speaks they tell people nt to question it and say it's d truth they want to be the sole propiertor of information dissemination.No be their fault...

opal4real:
THE UNCOUTH AISHA SHOULD VISIT THE UNITED STATES TO DOUSE THE RUMOUR. A VISIT TO YANKEE WILL CONVINCE NIGERIANS!!!

Help us tell them o Opa