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I hope this serves as a lesson to the Youths.

There is no shortcut to success.

What a shame they are to their families.

Everyone deserves happiness regardless of their condition.

Congrats to both of em.

Lol..

Seems you don't get the aim of the advertisement...

She stated "a cool and responsible man", in other words a working class man.

The "skin revealing" pictures they attach to those adverts is to send a coded message to the potential clients (The responsible men with cash] that, it's all for fun.
You don't expect every wh*re to be bold enough to advertise her market in a dirty manner.... Lol...

So my friend, those adverts you see are for made men..

It's a coded message... Lol

I was raised on the streets. Lived with Grandma throughout my teenage days.

I used to be the shy type but the environment I grew up in did alot to me.

Anyways, it's all cool now.

Though environment and nurture have a lot to do with one's psychological identity or personality but nature of an individual says a whole lot in a man.
Some men have experienced hell and yet they didn't bend to pressure, instead they grew in it to curb/control the situation without having to follow other's footsteps.

SweetGuy225:
Is Nigeria a country? The country we call Nigeria is dead. It died in 1966 when some reckless soldiers pierced a dagger through the heart of country. We are all living in the grave and shadows of that country.

Nigeria is the perfect example of a dysfunctional society. We lack cohesion, we lack purpose, we lack a political philosophy, the country is just a cacophony of madness and retardation.

It is not really about corruption. Iraq is equally a very corrupt country but they're striving. Even with its wars, that has spanned almost a decade, they're still richer than Nigeria.

The truth about Nigeria is that this country will barely develop. No country like Nigeria develops because there's currently no country in the whole world with similar conditions like Nigeria. We're isolated in our pain and misery.

South Sudan, Togo, Benin etc will eventually all become developed countries before Nigeria. That's if we fail to tell ourselves the truth.

But if we continue to chase shadows and decide to fight corruption, we'll continue to be in the gallows.

Sire, are you saying we shouldn't fight corruption when it's the main problem of the country?

Fighting corruption is not only to hunt/strangle the past corrupt officials but to set a standard as to prevent such occurrence in the future.

I believe this present government is step forward in creating a better future and of course it won't be easy.
And yet some set of people are doing all in their power to make the government's effort fruitless b'cos of their political ambition.

We can't just ignore all these.

suyamasta:
No no no population is not the problem rather its an advantage for fast market growth look at China or India

Nigeria is a country with less Human power though many but its citizens are lady.

You can't compare China with Nigeria, an average Chinese man's work improves the economy.

Some foreign investors complain about workers not being up to standards.
Mediocrity has eaten deep into our public sectors and so as the private and yet most Youth want quick money to live their fantasies (Talk about Internet Scammers and 419s).

To develop the country is a Job for everyone. We shouldn't be looking for a miracle worker.

jbamerican27:
When I first met him I dropped him off at that apartment and since he came back to America he's been at that apartment his wife is nigerian and its her apartment he did show me his house in Nigeria on video chat and everytime we chat he's at the house I don't know what else to tell but maybe its something he's not telling me I asked him straight up an honest why he was cheating on his wife and he said that he just want something else plus they are friends he told me he likes conservative women so I'm guessing she is not meeting his needs then he say he has a 6 month old baby

Ooh! Okay.

Where do you think your relationship with him heading to?
I suppose you don't think he will leave his wife for you.

jbamerican27:
Could he be using me for ritual material

Lol..

Nah, I don't think so.

jbamerican27:
Hey stays at 1700 apartment in one of the nicest part of town plus he said he doesn't want to live here

And how are you so sure he's telling the truth? And even if he is, I think no responsible man will make advances at other women when nothing is wrong in his marriage.
I think you feel strongly about him, and it's clouding your reasoning.

It's your choice ma'am, there is a reason you are doubting him. Maybe you are holding something back, come clean so people can really advice you. I think there is something you aren't telling us.

jbamerican27:
What could be his agenda? I don't want a relationship right now only friends he knows this

You stay in America, right?
He lives in Nigeria and prolly has a plan of settling Overseas (Most likely USA) one day, which that can only be achieved if he scores a green card.

Deduce that ma'am.

PunkyV:
I'm based in Pretoria. Lol, see you around

Yes Ma'am!

PunkyV:
Oh. The tribe of the reputable men *sarcasm* I'm South African.

Lol... It's just a stereotype. Trust me.... I know you are South African. I want to know where you base in SA. I would have loved to keep this going but I've got to go now. I will shoot you a pm, you can reply whenever you want. In the mean time you can do the sniffing... Lol.. You seem pretty smart and I like smart.

PunkyV:
Good.

Where are you from in Nigeria? Just curious.

I'm from the West (Yoruba).
You?

PunkyV:
What's that animal that likes to sniff & circle others before getting to know them? Can't remember it now. But that routine sounds like a GREAT idea....for now

Sniff you around, PW

Loool...

Okay.. I can wait.

PunkyV:


I'm an Aquarius.

Indeed @ the last part. You're bags of fun chatting to. Nice meeting you. Hope to see you around

Woow Wow! Easy....
You aren't getting off me that easy... Atleast not without a pm from me... Aye?

PunkyV:
Hahaha. The list just grew- smart, sleek & swift
All I can say is "Hmmmm" @ the 1st part. Sounds intriguing & jackal-like

It's nice & easy talking to you, what's your sign? I mean astrological/zodiac sign.

Hmm.. You are pretty crafty with words too, and now you are being swift with this one.. You are gonna get me a little here..

Alright then, I'm July Cancer. You?

P.S: Experience and Will to be better have done a lot to me.. i.e Zodiac sign can't predict me perfectly, but of course it goes a long way..

PunkyV:
I concur. You sound very smart, btw A point on that So which category do you fall in, predator or prey?

No comment on the last part How about you? Good?

I'm Ofcourse a Predator, though I don't go about preying on people but I've designed my own algorithm for getting what I want.

Yeah, I'm good.
And incase you're throwing me the question I asked you, well, maybe you should find that out via pm.

PunkyV:
.

You have a point, but if it's not in your nature, then..I prefer the guilt-free bloodbath of self-defense. The innocent killa

Awwww @ the last part. I huge part of me thinks I make a fantastic GF too However there's a Ms Jerkyll to this Hyde & it's all other people's fault she exists. LMAO

Ooh! Yeah... Ms Jerkyll is necessary.. Lol.

This right here, Guilt-Free, is a matter of one's perception.
Sometimes, we close our eyes so dirt won't enter it. We fumigate the land so pest won't flow.

It's a matter of how best to handle things.

Anyways, I get you.
I'd bet my last cash, you are a good gf already. Right?

Happy birthday man.

The guy is crazy... Lol..

Very Very!

PunkyV:
Lol, you're trying to corrupt me. I'm not good at that sort of thing, preying on others. My only interest is my own safety & when it's threatened, that's when I become the predator Other than that, the world is a safe place with me in it

Lol.. I'm not trying to corrupt you. I just think it's better to be a Predator than being preyed.

But I like your Orientation though, it's cool.. You will make a good gf.

PunkyV:
Man, people lie so much, so it's hard not to wanna interrogate & investigate...just to be on the safe side. I'd hook them to a lie detector if I could

I'm cool. It's all about protecting the big ole boombox (heart) in my case

Yeah.. True.

Seems you are always on the defensive side ..
Maybe you need to gut up and offend a little then watch how vulnerable people can be.
This is a sure way of protecting your "big ole boombox"... Lol..


A good offence is a good defence.

PunkyV:
Nature or nurture, I can't say for sure. All I know is that I don't take things at face value, ever. I'll be a fool to do that imo. I'm like a mole, I dig. Unlike a mole, I don't dig for bugs

Lol..

Ooh! My
Like a Mole?

You can be dangerous, but if your motives are good, then you're cool.
I hope you are cool?

PunkyV:
Handle what? Suspicion? I get it because I'm the most suspicious person I know

Lol..
Crazy past huh?

Well, mystery is Hot..

Ooh! I think there are elements of truth in your write up.

PunkyV:
Hmmm...I like suspicious people. Dead on!

Really? I bet you can't handle some.

PunkyV has said it all.

You are in a vulnerable state, don't give in to the thought in your head.
Maybe you're feeling like, you don't have many options b'cos you've had 3 kids with your husband already, but trust me a married man is not the solution to your Loneliness...

Who knows maybe the man is just after you for some personal gains, he may have a hidden agenda.

Yeah, I can see she's fat..

Next

pinkiberry:
LOL,that Your Guy Is Very Funny . NA BY FORCE TO GET ANGRY

I tire oh

mii4u:
guys do u look attractive while job hunting and the pocket is dry?

Lol..
It's just a question ma'am.

I love older ladies, and most of the single ones I know are Single Mums.
I don't make move on them b'cos I know I have no plan for them.

But Hell Yeah! Some single mums are damn hot and I find them very attractive.
Like they say, one man's food is another man's poison, so many guys may not feel the same.