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Capensis:
It is the direct responsibility of the man to take care of his home, his wife and children and provide 101% for them and should the wife choose to help, the man should be very excited and be thankful for such assistance.

This sounds very weird and crazy but if you consider the Religious writings in the good books, as well as the traditional rites of marriage you'd understand my view and why it works 100% of the time.

The Christian Bible stated that the Elohim Gods created Eve because of Adam's loneliness. The only reason for creating the Eve lady, first of all, was because Adam was lonely, not really because of Reproduction because we have been designed to reproduce asexually via replications, stem cells etc. So, Eve becomes Adams responsibility to take care of, to behold, to take care of, till death do part them.

Now, let us ponder on that, and take a dive into our Traditional Marriages:
Price is an amount appropriate for an item. We have witness the cost of marriages rising with time, not really because of inflation, but in recent times parents believe that they better they train their daughters, the better or wealthier the husband she could get.

So, Brice Price means cost of Bride. So, If you have to pay a price to get a woman, it is a purchase.
To buttress my point above, there is a change of title if you purchase a house, you change the name to your name. Same with car, we do change of ownership and put our names on what we purchase.

So when you insist that your wife change her name by adding yours to hers, you are doing change of ownership, so it is a purchase.

So therefore, if you had to purchase a woman to be by you and help eliminate loneliness, then you should understand that you have to take care of her 100% and also for your kids since they are on your name.

I know your mind will go to western culture. Yes, western countries are smart. They decide not to take bride price, and liberated women, so women work and share bills at home compulsorily.

If we must stop taking care of our wives 100% and want them to share the bills, we should equally eliminate bride price so our women can share equal rights with us, and if there is divorce we pack from the house and go into the street and start afresh.

We have been mixing this up, that is why Africa is upside down, cos we are hypocrites. We have bad cultures and we embrace western cultures, yet the foundation of the culture is destroying marriages.

I knew this because I study about how to be a great husband, so when I found this since I was a teenager, I worked extra hard knowing I must provide 100% and having that at the back of my mind helps me a lot. So, I do not expect a woman to make any expense at home and my wife has not made any expense, and I pay my bills 1 year ahead if possible and ensure that nothing lacks, if it happens, I have to apologize for that and find a way to manage until I get it.

Makes a man work harder and end up being very rich, and manage resources effectively.

I hope I have helped you out.

Guy you're a manipulated man and most women like your type

Well, mugus will never go extinct

Of course, you love him

The North should not feel too big..... Na SS dey Bleep this country up

Capensis:
I am not religious. I know for sure that everything MUST fail and it is my fault. So, I take responsibility to study systems and processes and ensure they do not fail and if they do, I fix it instantly and I use data to extrapolate and scale everything and event as well as the reaction.

In essence, I determine the mood of my home daily, and I ensure that every minute I am home, I engineer the mood of the home. From Movies to music, to massage etc. Everything has time-table. I ensure that there is enough fuel for the home one year in advance, so you see what I mean. There must be planned actioning on everything, if not, the vampire brainwave can alter the dynamics of homes and cause women mind to wander off. It is natural.

These things have nothing to do with being a black man or white man, it has 100% to do with the reading culture and getting education on all aspects of Life. You need to have a home library and study after work and plan when you are retiring to your own business and train your crack team of staff to handle most repeting processes so you can focus on actually having a life. You are not alive for your job, you are alive for your home and real existence.

Above all, once in awhile, take your wife out and have a dance. Get her into dancing classes and build a real life, not living on survival mode of working working working. You didnt come to this world to work, you came here to fix things and enjoy while at it.

I think it is time to leave the thread and focus on other important things.


Social media break is over.

Peace.

A man whose palm kernel was cracked by the Gods would consider his kinsmen Lazy
....Chinua A. Achebe

Jessyjack:
now this is real love.......... when you love someone beyond physically appearance or attributes.... if na this one go give you peace of mind,my sister, abeg enjoy..... congratulations to the newly married couple....

A woman does nothing without benefits... She is already an evening newspaper so she decided to sell the market anyhow before menopause strucks

lNEC should just announce PDP and APC results. Others should buy INEC scratch card to check their results abeg

howkay

lonelydora:
Churchill, why didn't you put your house in order?


Issues in marriage springs up often, but the maturity with which the man handles it makes a lot of difference.

Poor boy, growing under a separate home.

oluku....that's why you're lonely

JasonScolari:
The most painful thing is that she couldn't wait to witness the swearing-in ceremony of the incoming President, Alhaji Atiku "Aguero" Abubakar.

you dey find trouble ooo.....missile from Stamford bridge fit land on top your head oo?

Today is 13 of Feb....no masturbation, no porn. l have defeated the devil and my village people!!!!... new year resolution still intact


God make me the kind of man that will make my wife fear whenever l threaten divorce. Mehn na women dey beg men now

Amicable22:
Yeah some parts were numerical..

There were some English questions too. Questions were also asked after some recorded talks from former Trainees.

See I can't totally explain it to you...just take the test, its not that bad. I had few hitches c.uz I'm not that bright.

Good luck

pls amicable.. l need you to answer my question. l'm not sure l did the right thing

otugbem:
For those who are yet to do their video interview:

Note that the video interview is not a one-on-one thing i.e. it's not like a video call.

You'll be asked about 6 different questions from different staffs (HR department inclusive).

Click on the play icon on your screen for the recorded questions. After the question, you'll be given 20sec to think about whatsoever thing you gotta say. Then the recording for your answer starts immediately.

Let your answers be brief and concise. Go straight to the point o cos no time ooooo. After app 45sec or more, the recording stops automatically and you'll be asked to submit your video.
NB: Video frame feature is available

The following are likely questions you'll be asked�:

1. What defines your interest in your chosen function?�
2. What's your approach to building a successful relationship?�
3. How do you bring results in an unfriendly environment?
4. What makes you the right person for this job?�
5. What would you do to adapt to a new culture?�

PS: If you've not had an experience of video interview before, it's advisable you freestyle a little with your phone's video recorder and examine how you performed before embarking on the Heineken interview gaan gaan.

All the best peeps.

what if one started talking before recording starts?

Pls pls....l have a feeling that my video was not properly recoreded..l'd start talking immediately l saw my face on the screen... Someone said l ought to have waited for few seconds before talking... please who has done theirs?

Amicable22:
Me too...I'll have to use my phone

phone?

ozonechrome:
Married two years ago to a narcissist.

I saw all the red flags but felt he would change. How ignorant of me.

Any regrets??
No. I walked out that same year didn't want to live a life of regrets. Had to tell myself the truth.

Advice:
1.Never marry a man that doesn't respect ANYBODY. Even his parents.

2.How he treats others is how he'll treat you eventually.
3. Read about Narcissism. Lots of people are narcissist. Never end up with them.

you women always learn in the hindsight

Debra911:
I've once met a player, this guy was so cool, handsome, a doctor, smooth speaker. When I saw all these qualities ,I know say I don jam player. Na so I acted d confused lady,my words were different from my actions ,he was acting smart but I read him all ,& I played along,those moments, I wasn't ready for any serious relationship, na d guy use him hand block me sef, Ahhaaa...

There are good guys, there are also bad guys. And same goes to ladies, its a 50:50 thing. Ladies use your head, 4 d good girls don't allow yourself 2 be too carried away by emotions, else u won't see d real person u r dealing with.

You mean his blocking you confirmed your fear... Would you have chabged your if he only stopped (not blocking)

aelai:
I also received the mail

do you understand how to go about this shit. I also got the mail and l'm confused... Especially recording video thing...l don't have webcam ..lol

While registering for this prison stuff, l mistakenly selected 'female' instead of male. Pls l so bothered about it

Vince77:
Please na.

l swear you be fool

The first examination l wrote as a fresher in the University, l Left my script open so that this particular girl could copy.. She hadn't written anything. Unfortunately, an eagle-eyed, edo-istic invigilator caught me, collected my script and sent me out.

I was troubled because l'm a perfectionist. I was a fresher who had come with the high hopes.
Now imagine what the girl told me after the exam," why you dey vex na? Haven't you answered all the questions?"

I made E in that course, my worst throughout my stay in the University.

Perhaps, that was my first experience about what a woman could do if she knew you had soft spot for her.

I began to fear women!! I'm no longer deceived by their smiles, looks or delicate facade

Na God go punish prison

StrawberryGloss:
that one in the middle is not even sober

Remorseful or contrite would fit better

I want to change the date on my national Id card. How do l go about it?

Hidemyface:
From experience guys that have played such game, any regrets? Been avoiding them but the temptation just heighten this week cos I work from home.

you'll soon park out in Shame...take it from me

Since you guys are forming busy .....see una head like list

BOJO123:
serious?...how did you check pls

did prison screening for this recruitment?

Hurray the list is out finally... Thank God l made it

Ibuske:
I believe if the great news will be out in February..then we need to chill and keep our hopes alive as February is just around the corner.

lbuske please answer my question

Ibuske:
I believe if the great news will be out in February..then we need to chill and keep our hopes alive as February is just around the corner.

pls did prison organise screening/interview for this recruitment/ ?