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laptopsforsale:
How do I reach you?

You obviously don't want to respond.

laptopsforsale:
Somebody that calls himself a field agent of Obafemi Owode LG came to my site recently with this demand notice of 300k

Abeg, is this legit?
If yes, is it negotiable?
If yes, what should I negotiate it to?

Please, how much did you pay for the approval of the building. I am talking with someone who said that he stays at Abeokuta and is in the physical planning department of Ogun state.

He is charging 28 percent of the total land value plus 250k for the first batch of payment, according to him.

This is a 4 bedroom bungalow that I'm trying to build in the Obafemi Owode local government area.

I hope the so called local government officials will not come after making such a ridiculous payment

kiddaz:
See wetin religion dey cause? All them Abraham and Moses no go through all these rubbish na we dey do ourselves.

She can't leave her faith? She's the only one? Ticked all the boxes? The signs are facing you now but you're daydreaming and then later you will write a long essay on how my wife is making me uncomfortable with her extreme religious practices or something related.

She should be willing to bend for you as her man else she's something else underneath and she's just using Catholic denomination to cover.

And the two shall become one. She's not ready to be "one" with you and you still can't find someone better suited?

As you wan start to dey submit to her you better just continue ooh... Don't come here to complain later. She done show you the direction and you done dey follow. Keep following her lead and dare not complain make thunder no kiss you

There's nothing here to complain about. The lady was sincere enough with him, it's his choice to go ahead with the marriage or not.

A woman once rejected my marriage proposal on that ground and it's okay. I will not marry someone that will not follow me to my church, but there have been marriages where the woman is a Christian and the man a Muslim, and they worked out fine.

It depends on what you can tolerate and what's a deal breaker to you.

So stop making it look like the lady is evil for standing on what she wants

The fact that Bolt can block a driver because of an unverified report by a rider is disheartening.

I accepted a ride but changed my mind on embarking on the trip. When it seems to the rider that I have delayed in showing up, he cancelled and reported that I asked for an offline trip, which I never did.

Some of these riders are evil. They know the reason to report and get the driver penalised by useless Bolt.

This business is not fun at all.

TUBLEZ:
i dey always vex to off the app, they keep sending you same request u hv refused to pick , if I do one trip on Uber I don already ignore like 45 requests 😆 shey na that one person go dey do , and I don’t get how they calculate their commission, imagine me getting 6900 on a 10300 trip

The experience is same. You'll be angry with Bolt and Indrive and turn on your Uber app only to be angrier by the long distance pickup, same request coming multiple times, and ridiculous prices.


I don't even have any bonus on Uber. So, nothing is encouraging to use their app.

benjyyyyy07:
Thia is how you justified yourself? You wrote "CONSIDERING THE GIRL" You point am out say na her decision according to you

Let the sleeping dog lie. Why quoting a post of over 2 years? To get me to start arguing about something I should have gotten over?

You can do better

sandammy:
You go explain tire. Read number 41, i dont know what will take you guys to use seat belt if not daring the devil.

But why then does Lastma charge 70k for BRT lane violation?

Pearl1910:
Let's be real?
Why shouldn't lastma enforce road safety laws?
U can't separate traffic management from road safety or Driver competency.
We condemn d setting up of multiple govt agencies but still want to restrict d roles of govt officials? Do u prefer they setup another agency that will be checking or enforcing driving safety regulations??

That's the work of road safety. Seat belt has absolutely nothing to do with traffic management.

Pearl1910:
They have the right to arrest and fine you for failing to use your seat belt.
Have you seen the Lagos State Traffic Law?
No be by gragra o, maybe they no just get your time that day or because them don fuckup to request for DL which they don't have right to do. But for failing to use Seat belt or making calls while driving, etc Lastma has power over all that.

Any reform that will bring more money to the pocket of Lagos state government is quickly implemented.

Lagos is obviously a country of it's own. Because I don't understand how they'll be making laws that supersede the national laws.

Ideally, seatbelt is not a traffic offence, it's a safety offence. So, why is lastma empowered to arrest because of that if not that Lagos is a state of extortion without giving value to the residents.

ksmart027:
The basic category driver is 15 minutes away. That's a route compensated ride. You will have no option than to book other categories.

Even the Bolt category price is miserable for the distance that I want to go. Bolt and their ridiculous prices eeh

What does Bolt mean by this? Bolt basic price being higher than Bolt and Comfort category?

Shimmaa:
Isn't that same fare without commission? A trip that nets you 3600 on bolt or uber is definitely more than 5000, indrive only have leverage on others cox of their low commission..

Who cares about the gross? The driver should be concerned about the net. A 5000 trip on Indrive nets you 4400, the same amount of trip on Bolt nets you 3600.

Since Bolt wants to be greedy in their commission, they should increase the fare enough to give the driver the same net income.

How more wicked and heartless can Bolt be? With their ridiculous prices, they expect a driver to complete 18 trips in one day just to earn 16k?


Truly, Bolt is an enslavement app, designed to frustrate the living daylight out of their drivers.

Only Bolt still forces drivers to accept trips with acceptance rate score.
Same Bolt will not show you exactly where you're going by just showing the street name.
Same fraudulent Bolt will tell you that the rider is 3 mins away for pickup when the request is coming in and once you accept the request, the pickup time changes to 6 mins or more.
Even the said surge, you hardly get riders booking Bolt to good destination except in extreme cases.

Why is Bolt this wicked to their drivers? By

edoman2016:
Hold Time: 69 days
Hand reg at $4.96
Sales: Inbound

Congratulations bro.

Please, can you guide me on what to do next to list my domain on afternic

Uzosaint:
Please Check,for this stage the passport is white background not red background,check and reupload.

I've been uploading white background passport

Bigii:
Same here

I'm doing this at midnight and the result is still the same

FibonacciAI:
They have closed the website now...
That's why you need to join the group.
We have resolve several similar issues on the group as everyone facing any challenge share them.

They've reopened the portal. This is what I get when I try to submit

michode:
Hey guys, the scheduled date for the exam is fast approaching. I took my time and get some vitals information and like questions from my civil defense source. Everything is compiled and ready for reading. I beg 80% will definitely come out. It took my 3 days to add everything up. If you're interested, only whatsapp only please...08036050361.
We rise by lifting others.

Please, how does one know the venue for the exam.

FibonacciAI:
The list is coming out today according to latest circular.

Join the whatsapp group or dm me to add you.

Practice past questions and answers are free in the group.

My sister got shortlisted and was asked to choose time and date for her exam.

After uploading her passport and filling in the other details, when I click on submit, it will load and come back to the same page that I filled.

I don't know if that's how it should be. This morning, it's showing that the window is closed.

[quote author=Olaoinvestments post=30696604][/quote]Is this car still available? 😄

XaToXi:
Anyone else received compensation from binance?

Just got back 60% of the amount wrongly liquidated.

They sent me a mail that they'll send some USDC, I'm yet to receive mine

Robnectar:
u short zen

I short Zen my bro. When I got liquidated the first time, I went on revenge trading until I lost everything.

I have been having dreams of loss before now, so I just took it that it was meant to happen.

I put 1 million in crypto earlier this year. I can't boast of 200k inside it.

God help us. It's those coins that you want to be careful with that will pump towards your direction and give you a little profit.

By the time you choose to risk it, that's when the market will go against you and rekt you so hard

I lost all my capital on binance yesterday to Zen coin trading future. It seems that's when the manipulation was being cooked. By the time I woke up, my spot trades in Bybit has reduced to...


No safe zone in this space

Bonjovi13:
I hope you did not make up the whole story of your nephew accussing your wife just to end the possibilities of their continued friendship.
You sounded jealous and did not like the way your wife was free with your nephew. You may very well be insecure.

If your wife had been standoffish, you would still have complained that she wasn't friendly.

It seems playing mind games and being petty runs through your family because why would your sister "hate" your wife for expressing that she doesn’t like ice fish. I know people who would throw up if they eat ice fish.
Because of that your sister didnt come for the wedding.
That your wife has entered one chance marrying you.
Something is seriously off with your family.

You obviously need help with comprehension.

Baronthecelebri:
Why will your wife reject food, very bad from her.

There was a genuine reason for her to reject it. Although I told her that she could have done it a different way

kiddaz:
Now what would be the real reason he would want her image tarnished? Ask yourself why? I don't think so. Not that I'm accusing your wife but women do a lot. If I open my mouth to say what respectable church women do to me repeatedly when they have the slightest chance no one will believe, one was so much that I thought it was a set up but no way, she was and is still on my case.

Your nephew probably denied because he doesn't want to be in the middle of the whole mess and that's why he confided in his mom. He probably didn't want you to know the story but was probably trying to prevent his uncle from a mistake anonymously but the mom used the information to further buttress her dislike for your wife.
So going forward I would give her the benefit of a doubt that your wife might not have intentionally been rubbing against him suggestively but ignorantly, and because it happened once, might be so. But if I were you, I would not dismiss it totally but keep a keen eye on the whole saga from a vantage point without bias.

This guy has my number, he texts me to demand for money, but he cannot text me to tell me something like this. Rather he chose to tell his mother and deny it before me.

LilMissFavvy:
I do not believe your wife did what she's accused of. Your sisters simply didn't want you to marry, that's why they used your nephew to cook up Fake tales to ruin your relationship. In the past, I saw a situation where a very young family member told lies, but later confessed that she was lying. Truth is that, you are not $afe with $uch ev!ll family members, be warned and be careful for they can come up with something worse in future. There are very many pe0ple being manipulated by dem0ns.

I feel that the whole thing is being blown out of proportion for the obvious reason.

ColeworldMD:
Good day! Personally, i dont advise washing your dirty laundry in public. However, since you have done it i'll chip in. I see the work of the devil here trying to divide your house it's not a question of who is right or wrong but who is letting the devil mislead them.

Now, envy and jealousy is a natural weakness of women and that's they tend to be toxic towards their in laws. Hence as a man, your default position should be to always assume good intentions from everyone until proven otherwise because you're the logical one and the protector of your family and your enemy is the devil not your family members.

Regarding your wife, my first impression is that she's trying her best to be accepted by your family and that usually comes out as doing too much. Also her chemistry with your nephew is natural because they most likely are of the same age group and have similar interests that's how humans like to interact.

Regarding your sister, you've already said it she's unhappy your wife turned down her food and that makes your wife unhappy and creates distrust between both of them. This is natural between women then don't trust each other especially in laws because she subconsciously feels your wife is a competition and coming to take what your parents worked for to give you which your sister feels is her right.


So all in all, it's just basic human psychology and survival instincts at play being weaponized by the devil to divide your household.

Way forward:
As a muslim, the solution is first of all as a man you're not allowed to make physical contact or freely mix with females you're not related by blood including your first cousins and your in laws within puberty and pre menopause. The same goes For your wife & she should not dress exposing her body to these categories of males, hence why muslim women wear the hijab. This commandment from God. You should lead by example practicing this and request the same boundaries from your wife and nephew. It'll be hypocritical if you don't practice what you preach.

The reason is simple: AVOID TEMPTATION. YOU WILL ALWAYS LOSE THE BATTLE AGAINST TEMPTATION JUST LIKE ADAM AND EVE DID.

As for your wife and sister, it's a question of forgiveness. Are they willing to forgive each other for the benefit of the family? They don't have to be friends but can you explain to them how the devil to trying to divide your household? Also ensuring them that you will not forsake either of them? that you would treat them both fairly? The worst mistake you can make is to pick a side. DO NOT DO THAT. Rather, get both of them together in the same room let everyone air their grievances and plead for forgiveness (not necessarily friendship) and how it's NONE of their faults but honest misunderstandings.

Again, understand the psychology and instincts at play and who the real enemy is the devil.

Marriage is the most difficult test a man would ever face and I ask Allah to bless your union.

Thanks for the advice

lilyheaven:
Ur nephew said it , just to tarnish your wife image.
Why is he denying? Did your aunt generate the story from air ?
They don’t like her. So whatever she does, good or bad, they will surely find away to twist it.
If I’m your wife I will give all of them long spoon.
I don’t like unnecessary drama.

You and your family should stop dragging her mental health.

Exactly why I told her in the first place. So she could mind her behaviour around them going forward

felong:
True true dem no fit satisfy Nigerians. You say make dem advise you person manage reply you you talk say na Ai. Is this a job application ni way you de filter replies. You no need advise. This your post is Ai generated.

I need real human response. I could generate an AI response if I wanted an AI generated response

voortrekker966:
This is not saying your wife is guilty but many women deliberately do what your cousin is accusing your wife of. They will rub themselves on men, make eye contacts and become uncomfortably friendly with other men when they are with their boyfriends or husbands. I've found out they do these things mostly for fun and to see people's reactions.

My advice to any man is never to wife any woman that behaves like this.

I really don't know what happened. I didn't believe it because it was an open space and my other nephew and niece were there too.

The boy denied saying that, thereby putting me more into confusion.

kpankpangolo:
I no dey read made up stories.


Goodbye.

Whatever. Bye 👋