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PAYnDRIVE:
Never, I don’t see myself doing that ever again.

3 sec of s*x made me lose my ex .. she was such an angel caring and loving although she never complained of my poor sex performance for once,,, she meah ….

😆

I have a babe now tho.

Libido is of different class.

I can Bleep a girl five times, masturbate add join and still wake her up with a hard Bleep the next morning.

Most girls I have been with complain of me wanting sex all the time and never getting tired.

Some accuse me of taking drugs but I don't. It's in our lineage. We Bleep for a living

ShootThemAll:
Masturbate before knacking your gf and see how long you will last, you will stay up to 45mins plus.

With his current situation, if he masturbates before meeting the girl, he may not sustain erection enough to even Bleep her that day at all.

First round is equivalent to masturbation. If his second and third round is the same, then masturbation can't help but worsen it.

ShootThemAll:
You don't know what you are saying bro, masturbating often will make you last longer during sex.

It's your first time putting it in a juicy hole so definitely you won't last much but with time you will improve. Nothing is wrong with you....

Excessive masturbation causes quick ejaculation. There's nothing to debate here

EnglishUsa:
please help, I have law sperm count and I think the course is from this masturbation of a thing and I did mine for 23 years, his own story is a child play compared to mine... I need herb please suggest

Masturbation cannot cause low sperm count. Quick ejaculation does not equate impotency.

Notatribalist:
Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs?

He said girlfriend. You should be able to trust your girlfriend enough to have unprotected sex with her.

Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that x videos became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!

Don't listen to anyone asking you to go for treatment.

Firstly, you need to stop masturbation to heal from the quick ejaculations.

Secondly, you need to be having sex regularly with this your girlfriend. If you have sex once in a while, you are most likely to ejaculate prematurely.

Thirdly, try sex with and without condom. I have noticed that condom make me ejaculate quickly or lose erection at the slightest distraction.

Lastly, make sure the girl is extra ordinarily attractive to you, sexually. There's a difference between a girl being beautiful and being attracted to you. Her body type, shape, and color should be able to entice you anytime, any day, twice on Fridays m

But whatever you do, do not waste money on drugs and herbs. They don't work. At best, you can use natural substances like bitter cola, banana, etc, to boost your sperm level. That way, you should be able to maintain erection on the second round. First rounds generally don't last.

Houseontherock1:
You should have accepted the gift even if you'll not eat it. The biscuits you gave are equally sold in the village but they accepted your gift. You could have gone with clothes, wine and other "city gifts".

They stay in Port Harcourt city and not any village. This is not a social class issue.

Uyi168:
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the guy u quoted is 100% right.
you should have collected the bread, even if you end up not eating it.

What tribe are you?

Mindlog:
You, who on a first time visit went visiting your intending in-laws with shortcake biscuits and juice and they returned the energy with loaves of bread, yet you regard it as awkward?

If na me be the family, na dat biscuit and juice una bring come na im I go serve una since na from your village farm u harvest am.

Applying social intelligence is very key when dealing with such.

You guys are just foaming in the mouth. These people already served us food and we ate.

I don't really think we need bread again to take home.

Itiskdg121:
That's a big mistake, Sir.
I experienced the same with my father inlaw (my mother inlaw is late), while my wife was in school. The old my cooked for me, to make it worse, he forgot to add salt, but I ate the food like that. Normally I don't eat outside you know. It's called respect.

Please, find a way to apologise to your inlaw. We can't run away from the truth.

I accept I would have collected it. My friend told me that but I needed a broader opinion

Kajaard:
You did not apply emotional intelligence at all.

Yes, you should have collected the bread.

Most African parents/ In laws et al might think you are disrespectful by rejecting their gift.

This is not the western world. You should have collected the bread no matter how local or little it looks. Cheers.

It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.

Gifts are symbolic you know.

I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

Omoapena:
We have talked about this here many times that bolt is now more or less a fixed price, the difference dont use to be much if you're stuck in traffic for hours, the only way bolt will increase the fare is, if you pass a longer km then the one they estimated for the rider...

I'm liking the discussion in this thread right now. This is the type of discussion that we should be having here. Issues that affect the business everyday.

Bolt price is more or less fixed. Paid waiting is a lie to convince you to wait for the rider for as long as they stay. It doesn't add up to anything. I have had to wait for over 25 minutes and at the end of the trip, the fare ended the estimated amount. Even the riders were surprised.

Same with traffic except when you carry the rider on a high surge like 1.7x. Otherwise, you just burned your fuel for nothing.

vivalavida:
Funny enough, I have lived òn same route most part of my ife. My office is around same area too. I did è-hailing briefly last year. No time will I switch on my bolt or indrive app without getting a ride. Most times the ride takes me to the island. There are always ride. The main road has even been completed which makes it all better. At least from my base in iyana-isashi to either mile 2 or egbeda can be done without breaking a sweat except for minor traffic at igando on that egbeda route. As far as it is rides, there are always rides.

It's all about areas people are familiar with. I can take a trip to Benin City, but will never take a trip to Ibadan here.

The first time I took a ride to Ayobo, police arrested me for one way.

Some of these places may have a smooth road to drive through but when there's any diversion into the streets, it's horrible.

Festac has terrible bad roads with Okada driving recklessly in between cars. It's only on Sunday that anyone that wants to experiment with these places can do so.

Getting trips in those places isn't the problem, but getting trips bringing you back to your desired destination is. Most trips you get will have a long pick up distance and time due to obvious reason - fewer driver availability. Also, the time of the day matters the most. I stay at Yaba and you don't expect me to take a trip to such a place by 4pm. Most trips on that axis revolve around that axis.

Like this, I even avoid trips going to Lekki phase 2 as much as I avoid trips going to that Alasia side.

mh53:
I know the tricks on the platform. I hardly ever call, I use their chat feature 90% of the time. Been a year on and off that platform so I doubt if I can be described as new...they essentially make drivers pay for glitches in their system. A friend of mine's bank card was debited without having his account wallet credited, I assumed he didn't follow the due process until it happened to me after using the same recharge procedure for 9months. The new one wey dey bust my head are rides cancelled by passengers not appearing on trip history, under normal circumstances they don't debit accounts in such circumstances as long as a call wasn't made but lately...they do so at random without even adding the value to the refund balance. The way I track these is by scrutinizing balance statistics. Drivers go hear am once they get significantly higher market share.

Indriver is a criminal company. They charge you for trips that did not happen and will never refund.

God help you if you go to Airport to pick a rider on Indriver and the person later cancelled.

You will lose your commission, your parking fee, and your time plus fuel for driving down to that place.

Worst are those ones that will book at a bus stop. You will get to a place where you can't park and the rider will be asking you to park there. Once you drive away from that place, your commission is gone.

I would rather lose my rating on Bolt than my real money on Indriver.

Their prices self is so ridiculous.

udede:
In the first picture the lady is like, Kam togbugogu nwoke a bulu ego gbafuo.

It is not the lady that's holding the man. It's the man that's holding the lady. Check the pictures well.

It's the man that's strangling the lady, not the other way round.

Glithronix:
Those wey dey drive today, Wetin dey happen on Gbagada express way to-&-fro?
Why is there road closure sign there?
Abi dem dey repair that road, too?
Cos I no see any reason for that though.

Much respect, bosses.

Heard there's a protest going on in Lagos today. Anyone can confirm please

A private vehicle killed two Lawma sweepers

victooman:
Thanks bro,, honestly l fvcked her as much too,, all this girls are not just loyal,, finding another girl naa that will soon come with her wahala is demoralizing honestly..
But dont u think she is genuinely sorry for her to call the guy and ask him to end all conversation with her,, the guy is in Lagos and we are in Abuja ,, l am sure nothing have go down yet,, please l need ur input on this bro

There is no girl that's a saint bro. Don't mind these nairaland guys.

If you break up with her, then you will understand when you try to hook up with other girls.

Those girls will lack the major qualities your babe has and still be some cheats

GeneralZodd:
You can register with Bolt, you will get enough trips, but most likely far distance request nowadays, if you decline too much. Your account might end up blocked

I thought Bolt has repented until I started getting these yesterday... I knew it was time to close and go home.

They mostly do this when there are scarcity of drivers around an area or when some request is being rejected by drivers nearby.

Pearl1910:
No trip is a must to complete!
I repeat, no trip is by force to complete!!
I say again, there is no trip that it is a must or by force to complete it!!!

And you will be blocked when you reject trips too much

MrReeseG:
Lmao! People wey dey craze, otherwise wetin be this?

You were given out of radius option to decline. I wasn't.

Please, can I sue Bolt for this? Especially when they block me because I believe this should be against the labour law.

doyin01:
People like them will never admit that they are wrong or that they were wrong..

Just watch and see how he will still find another excuse again , the irritating part is that he is even lying and trying to claim that the abokis later adjusted to the price on binance p2p after he made that previous post.. very irritating

What makes one a matured person is the ability to accept whenever you are wrong..

Dollar was sold at 1100 naira two days ago at Aboki rate. The Binance rate is even higher than the aboki rate.

Did you try exchanging dollars to establish your facts before arguing?

frozen70:
No matter the negative sides about their women, we still have good ones among them

I think if you love her and she respects you, go ahead with whatever plans you have with her

If she later starts displaying those naughty attitudes of their people, just go your ways

One of the things I know about them is
When nature calls, you don't burry them in their husband's place, you return her back to her father's family

I'm already seeing the signs bro. I'm on a crossroad because she's carrying my child already

Shinjawestern:
Op are Ur sisters faithful too?

You know aw many Dick's dem don Bleep too...

Every tribe for Naija get gals wey no faithful..

Just choose gal wey dey good to u and marry...

My girl is giving me reasons to believe my sisters' opinion

2special:
That doesn't mean everybody from the state cheats

I think so but what's the average rate

Shapeaso:
Op, those people don't last in a relationship. They're after enjoyment.

Any personal experience? Can you explain what you know

illicit:
Na Yellow Yellow girls full PH

😳

Not the answer to my curiosity

preekahantas:
Why do you think Ned The Perv took Regina to swear an oath?

I'm a Christian

Kestolove:
Doctors and lawyers...

Out of context

capnies:
ABSOLUTE NONSENSE. FUNNILY THE CALL GIRLS IN PH ARE FROM THE UNIVERSITIES IN THE EAST.

We're not doing comparison here. Just your honest opinion on women from River State and how much they can be faithful in a relationship