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Nazgul:
This is a very serious matter that if not approached with caution, can wreck your home.

Therefore, I’ll advise you to first reassure your wife that you believe her and understand how hurtful the accusation is. She needs to feel your trust clearly. She was accused of something serious that she insists never happened, and even though you dismissed the accusation, she may still feel humiliated and misrepresented. Let her know clearly that you believe her and understand why she’s hurt. That reassurance will help rebuild her emotional safety.

Secondly, make it clear to her that you stand firmly by her side. She needs to know that your trust isn’t shaken by what anyone in your family says. This will give her confidence and stop the issue from growing into a bigger emotional wound.

Third, instead of encouraging a direct confrontation between your wife and the nephew like she suggested...you should know that such action could escalate the issue and create more drama in the family, therefore advise her to let time and her character speak for her. Family gossip often fades off when it doesn’t get attention.

At the same time, gently encourage her to be more mindful of how she interacts with male relatives in the future. Not because she did anything wrong, but because some people are quick to misinterpret innocent actions. A little caution can prevent similar situations.

Finally, you should draw healthy boundaries with your family. Don’t let their biases or gossip interfere in your marriage. If needed, calmly make your stance known. You trust your wife and won’t entertain unfounded accusations.

By combining empathy toward your wife with firm boundaries toward your family, your marriage, your peace and your mental health would be protected.

Thanks for your contribution, even though this reply looks AI generated.

GloriousGbola:
my advise is:

before you answer some posts, look at the OP's post/topic history

this is just a click farmer

like that obo something guy

You're a joker really. What do I do with your clicks. Did I post any link there?

The first story I posted was with my ex and that was over two years ago. So you think if I care so much about clicks, I wouldn't have created several of such topics.

The effect of such happening is in the relationship going forward

Dabadwela:
Bad belle dey worry am. Matured man getting triggered by driver's earnings

You should argue logically. Bad belle as per I don't own a car or I don't have access to the same trips that you do?

You'll can do you. But just know that the screenshots you post here or anywhere else is the reason they're targeting drivers now.

You all claim it's a motivation but I see it as false hope and deception.

It's been raining for some days now and there are surges here and there, and thus, the reason for the increased earnings.

Post your earnings on a normal day let's see how much strength you get to net 80k per day consistently.

Conner44:
Bro, can you succinctly explain to me exactly how the bolded above actually concerns YOU YOURSELF as an individual? That his profits get 'blown away' (according to you) has absolutely no effect on your own life and livelihood so why bother? 🤷🏾‍♂️

It does.

This plenty papers that they're requesting from drivers is as a result of these screenshots.

During those dry times that there were no surge and request was scarce, nobody posted screenshots

Conner44:
Allow the man post what he wants to post and boast as he feels or hype what he likes

It has NO SINGLE EFFECT on you or your life than maybe making you feel either insecure, jealous and lazy.

Is that how you currently feel after seeing his post up there? If so I believe you should just work harder and earn better for yourself instead of trying to shoot him down from his 'happy place'

In ehailing the sky is big enough for all birds to fly meanwhile in the labor market we are still waiting for the government to create more jobs to accommodate just below 20% of our current unemployed labor force. You think getting a job is beans? even 1st class graduates will find it hard because of nepotism and 'man - know - man

If you feel comfortable going out to net 40k and the next man feels glad going out to net 100k . . . Why tell him to cover his mouth when he's gleeful? He deserves a pat on the back isn't it? After all if you're applying for a job or contract wouldn't you wish to find out your salary/payment package beforehand?


You guys should stop talking down at peeps who post their dashboards here, if you won't like to post yours (for whatever reason you can conjure up) then stay back and allow those without such 'fears' to post theirs

In this life it's good to mostly COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS because problems come to us all wether you want it or not

Good morning people 🤗 happy weekend to us all

Tell me how many professionals post their salaries online at the end of the month.

The problem with ehailing is that it's unregulated. If you must know, there are drivers that earned more than his earnings, drivers whose yesterday's earnings will dwarf his screenshot.

I see it as being simple minded. Getting blown away over meagre earning that one case of a wrong turn to a one way lane will wipe away.

Dabadwela:
Please help share the softer work make them know

Before I answer that, are you a graduate?

Because if you are, you'll know that there are some office works that their yearly bonuses will rival whatever you make in 6 months and they don't need to struggle under sun and rain.

Vela01:
We have one of the best jobs in Nigeria right now.

How many jobs can boast of this earning in day.
Added with offlines and other apps o

And what's your purpose for posting this?

Do you make this every time or you just rushed to post yesterday's earnings because it surged?

This is becoming childish and a threat to other people who don't do this job on a full time basis.

You guys should stop already. I hope you post the days you spend hours at Ladipo and your mechanic workshop spending thousands of naira to fix your car.

For your information, this work is still a hard work that comes with body pains and high risk. There are softer works that pay better with more dignity.

Trip duration: 26 minutes
Net income before fuel: 2118.71
Bolt commission: 996.84

Please, can someone help me define wickedness again?

Pearl1910:
I am not forcing anybody to do that, just giving a regiment for 50k earnings.
If it's 30k that u can do consistently, focus on it and keep at it.
If u work paid employment when do u leave ur house and when do u come back home?
People just want to go out for few hours and come back with thousands. Not that there aren't surge jobs/hussles but ehailing isn't one of such. From time immemorial, u have to put in hours to make big money.
I am not to tell u how much to make or how many hours to work, do what works for u but
My point has always been that when someone says he makes xyz, rather than say he is lying, u should ask how he is doing it.

I want you or those that earn that 50k net consistently to share with us the magic strategy that they use.

Because I am not refuting the fact that there are good days, lucky days that one can net 50k even 60k.

But saying it can be done consistently is a lie. We all know what's obtainable in the street out there. Nobody can consistently work from 7am to 10pm.

Those that do salary work get to office by 8-9am latest and close 4-5pm, latest 7pm. Nobody goes to office by 7am and stay till 10pm, only to resume by 7am the next day.

Before you talk about break, also know that those in paid employment do have some breaks during their working hours. Nobody sits down on one desk for several hours... The person will just collapse and die

kanuisagoat:
Some years ago when I did this hustle briefly, you could net 30k on a Sunday doing the barest minimum. 40k if you drive from 7am to 10am. 40k at the time was 100 dollars

100 dollars is now 153k. Maybe that's a stretch but anything less than 100k net on a Sunday means you are hustling backwards.

I greet all the bosses in the house.

Go tell that to the app companies. The prices reduced due to competition.

Your analysis with the exchange rate is flawed. The household income of Nigerians did not rise in commensuration with the inflation rate.

Except in the afternoon and evening that the prices become a little better, Sunday is one of the days with the poorest fare and trip scarcity.

The reason is because, from morning till 12 noon, people are only going to church or coming back from church. Most times, short trips with ridiculous fares. Sometimes when you get to some churches, you'll have difficulty getting trips because everyone is coming into the church, no one is leaving yet.

If you're a Christian, you'll still need to attend church service, go home and eat before you start hustling.

All in all, I hate Sunday hustle the most.

Pearl1910:
Good Gross Earnings.
Your tool is the only undoing.
I guess u have now discovered it is possible to take home 50k on a full days work.
Even with the high fuel consumption, if u had started from 7/8am in d morning and closed around 10pm, U would have still made 50k.
Hope u are a believer now.

Don't you think you're being extreme with your analysis.

How do you expect someone to start working by 7am and close by 10pm? That's overstretching yourself.

Nobody can do that consistently. Because if you close by 10pm, before you would get home, eat, bath, and sleep, it should be around 12am.

And you'll wake up by 5am again to prepare and go out by 7am. This is not a good practice and almost unrealistic.

Let's be sincere, the effort we put in this work is no longer measuring up with the reward. All this 40k, 50k net analysis is to give hope to people that something is still left of the business.

To me, 30k for a 1.8 litre engine is more practical to be earned consistently.

Openair:
Let's go back to the beginning..he said scan showed she's 8 weeks and he came around from 7th week, so if we're to use 7th week to confirm the pregnancy, isn't she supposed to be 9 weeks gone ?? If we're calculating fetal age...

And she's 8 weeks gone.

Are you saying the conception must happen the exact day that he returned?

Xso666:
But how sure are you about this please

Take the gestational age and subtract two weeks to get your fetal age.

The actual age of the pregnancy

Xso666:
But how sure are you about this please

There's a difference between fetal age and gestational age.

Openair:
Please don't say what you don't know..ultrasound scan in the first trimester (1-13 weeks) is the MOST ACCURATE method for dating pregnancy.

Ask medical practitioners... Ask chatgpt... Ask Google.

The scan result is always plus or minus two weeks, because it starts counting from the last menstrual cycle.

Xso666:
She is 2 months pregnant and I came back from work a month and 3 weeks which was when we had sex so how come the pregnancy is 2 months already when I have not stayed up to 2 months in the house

The child is obviously yours. You can doubt her movements, but don't doubt the paternity of the child. You've been around for a month and 3 weeks and the scan is just reading 2 months.

The gestational age of the scan is not always matching the actual date of conception.

MoneyMan5:
She can hold conversation with men but there's limit to what married women can do with the opposite sex. According to OP she visited a single man, lied to covered their tracks and what's a single man doing with a married women to the extent of sneaking around with her ? Which business require them to be that close ? Married women shouldn't even have male friends if they want their marriage to last.

If it was the man doing the same thing can any woman tolerate it ?

That lady is obviously catching cruise. Imagine lying about your whereabout and still being caught with another man.

To me, you go explain tire oo. Some men can tolerate.

Xso666:
I am just managing my life I don’t really think I can afford a dna test and that is why it’s breaking my heart and she has sworn that she has never cheated on me and I’m still thinking if I am over reacting to this

The scan result should show plus two weeks from the last sex you had.

It happened with my woman too. It starts counting from her last menstrual period.

I don't know why women like making things difficult for themselves. They'll do things that will put them in a suspicious position, and then start swearing to innocence.

Just tell her upfront that you'll do DNA once the baby is born and relax.

I don't beg my woman to stop chatting with men. For every man I catch her talking with, she'll catch me chatting with three women.

And no, women can't stand having you talk to another woman and ignoring them, no matter the level of your relationship with them.

That way, she'll advise herself.

Juliearth:
1st deal

Buys goat = $60

Sells goat = $70

Profit = $70 – $60 = $10


2nd deal:

Buys goat again = $80

Sells goat = $90

Profit = $90 – $80 = $10


Total profit from both deals= $10 + $10 = $20

Following your calculations, he made $10 when he sold for $70.

Now, he went to buy back the same product but this time, he added the $10 profit to the $60 initial capital and borrowed $10 to purchase the item, leaving him with no initial gain anymore but $10 debt.

The he sold the product for $90. He will first remove the $10 borrowed, leaving him with $80. The total profit will now be $20. The reason is because, if he set out with $60 and is returning with $80, he's had additional $20 irrespective of how many transactions were performed to achieve that.

This is to inform the general public that Abudu Street is now one-way entering from University Road.

I saw those touts hold one Corolla there on Friday.

The bad thing is that Google maps will ask you to follow there.

You need to go straight further and enter through Davies street and then come out through Abudu street.

Nico360:
Next time, when you get the order on indrive, disable your location asap before driving to pick up point. , should incase the rider move mad.

How do you navigate to the rider's pickup location after you've disabled your phone location?

Because Google maps will cease functioning, once the phone location is unchecked.

Most of the time, you must have heard women say, “all men are the same”. But I tell you, the phrase should be reversed to all women are the same.
When a man talks about women in general, most women will attack him by saying, “including your sisters and mother”. Well, the truth is, there is no exception when it comes to female characters.

Just as a girl will give you special attention when she knows that you have money or something of value that she could get, so it is for female family relatives in whatever form they are related to the man. Just that, unlike a random girl out there, the family female members are a little more patient until a time when they will no longer be patient, especially if it is taking too long for you to give them the value they expect.

An example of the herd mentality common among women is in the choice of men that they want. When you ask a woman the kind of man that she want’s, 99% of them will say a man that is tall, dark, and handsome. This sounds so rhythmic. The question is, are men who do not fall into this category not getting women? They are. And no, not all of them get the girls because the girls did not get the type of man they desire; those men are genuinely attracted to those ladies, but online, they will say something different.

In the world of men, the game is different. Some men will beat their chest and tell you that they don’t like chubby girls, do not care about ass and boobs, and will maintain their choice and preference in women, no matter what other guys want or say.

Here are other areas where women exhibit the herd mentality.

Trending fashion and beauty standards.
Many ladies tend to wear the same things that the other ladies are wearing. There is this colored skirt that my ex-girlfriend wears to my house, and whenever I see some girls wearing that skirt on the street, I will just laugh. Now, that is the problem with buying trendy clothes. It will reign and fade. When you wear it later than the trending period, it will look funny on you.

Wedding and Relationship Goals
You see that girl you are dating? Forget whatever good girl and understanding girl that she is showing you. Low key, she wants to be proposed to in the most romantic way, have the most talked about wedding in town, and take the most exotic photoshoot, all just to post online and feel among. To them, your proposal is not valid unless done like the ones they see on Instagram and TikTok.

Soft Life Movement
You know the saying that if wishes were horses, beggars might ride? That’s women! If you know the mentality of an average girl, you will marvel. Many will go online and watch videos of women and what their men did for them. And when they are not lucky enough to get a man with the financial capacity to give them that baby girl treatment, they feel like the gods have cursed them.

Celebrity Influence
Just as women go to church the most, and worship pastors like their God, so are their herd following of celebrities and their trends. A large number of women quickly make adjustments to their preferences and choices because of a celebrity endorsement. Even if a girl is using a product that she is very comfortable with, the urge to try something because someone they know or a public figure claims to be using that product is very high.

Massive Support for Victim Narratives
I do fight my sisters because of this. Whenever a man is accused of any wrongdoing by a woman, a large group of women will immediately take side in solidarity, even before the fact is established. Their default position is to always support women online, even when deep down, they do not believe in what they are saying, but they don’t want to sound different from what every other woman is saying online.

Friend Group Mentality in Dating
If you have been close to women enough, you will agree with me that the saying that the friend of my enemy is my enemy. Once you are dealing with a group of girls, just remain in the good books of all. Because once one of them dislikes you, all of them will dislike you. This is why ladies are advised to avoid keeping so many female friends once they are married. A woman can avoid dating a man or continue dating him, just to align with what her friends think is acceptable. Her friends’ standard is mostly her standard.

Gender War Argument.
This one is the funniest of them all. Anytime there is a discussion online that involves men versus women, certain phrases are repeated across all platforms, even by women who may not personally believe in them. Such phrases as “men are intimidated by successful women”, “high-value men do XYZ”, “men are scum”, etc. The question is, if all women share this belief about men, how come they are all still hooked with men in real life?

In the end, herd mentality among female circles often trades personal judgment for group loyalty. While solidarity has its place, following the crowd blindly can blur the line between support and bias. Real strength lies in thinking independently, even when it’s unpopular.

Source: https://web.facebook.com/share/p/1CRNyxA8Pc/

Glithronix:
What car do you use?


Much respect, sir.

2006 Corolla

Glithronix:
That means 30k fuel will only serve you 4hrs 30mins... 🤔
25k fuel I dey use work full day and 75k gross is guaranteed.
I use the 03/04 version.
If you have the check engine light on, please find out what the issue is.

Much respect, boss.

I use 15k fuel for the whole day. I don't look at gross for any reason. I ensure my 15k fuel gets me 40k net after fuel and commission.

XGhost:
Your toll fees are included in the final fare, your rider pays. If you're going to pickup and you have to pass a tool road it's also included in the rider fare. Same for parking at recognized car parks. Also with your receipt you can make a claim if the fees were not included in the fare. ON UBER O

Indrive doesn't include the toll fee. Some toll fees like the Ikeja City Mall, Nahco complex, etc., are not included in the fare and no, nobody adds the pickup toll to the fare please.

You only get the toll fee included if you have already started the trip and pass the toll gate.

Because I usually have this argument with riders. They'll tell me that the other driver didn't charge extra for it and I will tell them that he didn't charge extra for it doesn't mean he shouldn't.

dav1002:
Just imagine 3100 from Anthony to oshodi
So those people shouting bolt is better, can you see how ridiculous bolt prices are🙄

To be honest, Indrive is becoming better than Bolt. The only problem with Indrive is the wait time to get a good ride which is becoming the same with Bolt now.

Also, Bolt trips are mostly short short trips of 1100, 1900, etc. Any trip that will pay you up to 5k net on Bolt eeh...

This trip here was 40 mins, 10.1km and my net was 4400.

People will hardly accept this trip at that price on Indrive.

Doris4ever:
I have N4,000,000 left.

I paid N4,000,000 out of N8,000,000

Shiit, that's a lot. Funny enough, the price of Corolla has really dropped right now. You can get a Nigeria used Corolla for 3.8 million. So that car is currently worth less than the 4 million in the real sense of it.

Doris4ever:
Your are right about the fact I was not supposed to take the car for inspection as it was nowhere written in the agreement.

The soldier he used convinced me that other cars have been coming for the inspection and it will be done every 2 months.

Because I was not on any default, I didn't suspect anything.

Borrowing money to pay the man off would have been the best, but the thing is I have no where to get such amount of loan.

How much do you have left to complete the payment?