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Pls ask hm o. Who say a muslim cnt rule America?

I wil lyk ma mum to stil be ma mum. She was a great mum, may GOD bless hr soul. Only ths tym i wil want hr to be as rich as Kimora Lee

Tnx pple. Shev already startd a smal biznes her father organisd 4 her. Her huby is jst a weakly nd a coward.

Haba! Why? At first i thought its because you were just a kid, i cant belive you nurtured the hatred through adulthood. U mean even being a father did not even soften you? How do u feel when your chidren play with there mum? The only thing yot can do is change and ask for God's forgiveness. Obviously your mum has forgiven you

What are you quiting from? Cant you see she dumped you a long time ago? Pls get a life.

The truth is; for an affair most guys like their gals wierd, hot and spoilt. They want to have the best of their bachelorhood with such gals. But when it comes to marriage every man wants a decent and collected lady, but unfurtunately, not all collected ladies are hot. So the men even in marriage still want to go after their hot and spoilt chics. I have learnt to be a combination of both. At home i can be hot, spoilt and dirty, but outside im a decent and understanding wife. I try to give him all he wants in a woman.

@ malaika, God is on your side and will always be the insha Allah.

So true

Pls dont lie with death. For now you can tell your baby that his father is out of the country. your bf will come around

Common sense should tell you that you are not the only people at home. Why not bedroom?

It isnt luv, untill she cant even remember your name. Im sure her memory has been taken over by your luv.

@ quadrant 4, i see u dont even trust yourself, so pls dont even atempt marriage cos its obvious u will cheat on your partner. This is just a social forum and not a dating site.

His matured nature and calmness attracted him to me. He was intelligent and caring. My uncle was a major opposition, my culture and believe allow cousins to marry. So becos my uncle had intrest in marring me, he joind forces with some family membes to stop the marriage but with prayers we over came them. Honestly there are times my hubby make me cry and i want to quit the marriage there are times i wish i was not married but free to do things i used to do. Sometimes i feel like having an affair not for the fun of it but just to make him mad and jelous. But honestly i do not hav the heart to cheat on him. Reading other peaple's story have made me understand that marriage is not a bed of roses all the way. I hav learnt to put in my best and appreciate my hubby. I dont regret marring him at all and ill want to be married to him forever. Im a product of brokn home and dont wish my son the same. I just didnt know wat i hav until i read other pples story

I saw S first at a saloon where i went to make my hair with a friend. My friend and i were talking out side the saloon when S drove by, my friend and S are friends so he stop the car and they got talking i didnt pay any attention to him. After a year (23 dec 2006), i received a phone call from him, he introduced himself and said we met sometime ago and i gave him my number. I couldnt remember the face or the name so i asked him to come to my house the next day. He came to my house and when i saw him i instantly new that i have never met with him nor given him my number. I instantly told him i wasnt goin to grant him audience unless he say where he got my number. He pleaded that he promised nt to disclose the person's identity, but i insisted and he told me he got it from the guy i was with a the saloon. Then i askd him what i can do for him.

Then he told me he want a wife and he want me to be the wife. What he said made me laugh and i told myself that this guy is looking for whom to decieve. I felt he was too blunt to be true. Already i was dating two guys and was confuse as to which of them to choose as a life partner. A close friend advice me to put marriage out of my mind and concentrate on my work. It was shortly after i graduated from uni and was awaiting NYSC. I kept praying to God to help clear my confusion. It was during the period that S came along asking for marriage , i prayed again and ask God to let he will be done. Nine months later (25 AUG 2007) I was married to S. There was no honeymoon because he had to go back to work. I was looking forward to a happy married lyf. Eleven month after marriage i gav birth to a big baby boy.

Poor guy, ur taking a slap in her presence is enough reason for her continue to cheat on cos by now im sure she sees you as a weaklin nd fool who cant protect his intrest. My advice is dont take her back cos if u do, u've sold yourself out to her

@yumi, u write as if the woman said she is looking for a way out of the mariage. @poster, i think ur hubby is just being friendly but if it hurts you, pls tell him to stop. If he respects you he wil stop. I used to have a bf who calls every girl "princess" i felt bad cos dat wat he calls me too. When i talkd to him, he stoped

its not a crime in all part of nigeria. in the north where i come from even 1st cousins can get married. its believd that(considering divorce rate) such mariages last longer cos of the family ties. though mariages like this are to the guys advantage. he offends the wife and she is told to apologise cos he is her elder brother. i dont encourage it.

Woman, not even for the kids dont accept him. he might be back cos of your wealth or to use one of the kids for rituals. its good you have forgiven him, if u can just assist him financialy once and for all, im sure you can buy the the kids parternity off him, he can never make a good father and the kids wont be proud of him. Dont take him back, he is dangerous.

Thanx sissy, her husband doesnt beat her, he refused to allow her work even when her father invited him for a talk about it he didnt go. now her uncle gave her some money to start a business.

Dear nairalanders pleas advice. i have this young and beautiful hausa friend who has been married for fifteen years now and god blessed the marriage with four kids. Two years ago her husband decided to take a second wife in acordance with islam. he asked for her concent and even went to her parent to promise he was not going 2 stop loving her, he even went to the new wife's parent and asked them to warn their daughter to respect his first wife when he marries her. After the marriage he changed completely. he doesnt eat her food, he doesnt want to see her and her kids, he dosent want to talk to her and even when he does it is to insult her. he has given the new wife liberty to talk and insult her at will. My once beautiful friend is now a shadow of herself, she was sick nd i asked her to see a doctor, the doctor confirmed she is hypertensive nd prescribed some medication, the husband refused to buy them or give her money, and my friend doesnt work. now she is confused should she go and leave her kids behind cos he made it clear she cant leave with them or should she stay for the kids with hope things will get better and risk dying of hypertention? please help this woman save her marriage.

Dear nairalanders pleas advice. i have this young and beautiful hausa friend who has been married for fifteen years now and god blessed the marriage with four kids. Two years ago her husband decided to take a second wife in acordance with islam. he asked for her concent and even went to her parent to promise he was not going 2 stop loving her, he even went to the new wife's parent and asked them to warn their daughter to respect his first wife when he marries her. After the marriage he changed completely. he doesnt eat her food, he doesnt want to see her and her kids, he dosent want to talk to her and even when he does it is to insult her. he has given the new wife liberty to talk and insult her at will. My once beautiful friend is now a shadow of herself, she was sick nd i asked her to see a doctor, the doctor confirmed she is hypertensive nd prescribed some medication, the husband refused to buy them or give her money, and my friend doesnt work. now she is confused should she go and leave her kids behind cos he made it clear she cant leave with them or should she stay for the kids with hope things will get better and risk dying of hypertention? please help this woman save her marriage.

Dear nairalanders pleas advice. i have this young and beautiful hausa friend who has been married for fifteen years now and god blessed the marriage with four kids. Two years ago her husband decided to take a second wife in acordance with islam. he asked for her concent and even went to her parent to promise he was not going 2 stop loving her, he even went to the new wife's parent and asked them to warn their daughter to respect his first wife when he marries her. After the marriage he changed completely. he doesnt eat her food, he doesnt want to see her and her kids, he dosent want to talk to her and even when he does it is to insult her. he has given the new wife liberty to talk and insult her at will. My once beautiful friend is now a shadow of herself, she was sick nd i asked her to see a doctor, the doctor confirmed she is hypertensive nd prescribed some medication, the husband refused to buy them or give her money, and my friend doesnt work. now she is confused should she go and leave her kids behind cos he made it clear she cant leave with them or should she stay for the kids with hope things will get better and risk dying of hypertention? please help this woman save her marriage.

Dear nairalanders pleas advice. i have this young and beautiful hausa friend who has been married for fifteen years now and god blessed the marriage with four kids. Two years ago her husband decided to take a second wife in acordance with islam. he asked for her concent and even went to her parent to promise he was not going 2 stop loving her, he even went to the new wife's parent and asked them to warn their daughter to respect his first wife when he marries her. After the marriage he changed completely. he doesnt eat her food, he doesnt want to see her and her kids, he dosent want to talk to her and even when he does it is to insult her. he has given the new wife liberty to talk and insult her at will. My once beautiful friend is now a shadow of herself, she was sick nd i asked her to see a doctor, the doctor confirmed she is hypertensive nd prescribed some medication, the husband refused to buy them or give her money, and my friend doesnt work. now she is confused should she go and leave her kids behind cos he made it clear she cant leave with them or should she stay for the kids with hope things will get better and risk dying of hypertention? please help this woman save her marriage.

Dear nairalanders pleas advice. i have this young and beautiful hausa friend who has been married for fifteen years now and god blessed the marriage with four kids. Two years ago her husband decided to take a second wife in acordance with islam. he asked for her concent and even went to her parent to promise he was not going 2 stop loving her, he even went to the new wife's parent and asked them to warn their daughter to respect his first wife when he marries her. After the marriage he changed completely. he doesnt eat her food, he doesnt want to see her and her kids, he dosent want to talk to her and even when he does it is to insult her. he has given the new wife liberty to talk and insult her at will. My once beautiful friend is now a shadow of herself, she was sick nd i asked her to see a doctor, the doctor confirmed she is hypertensive nd prescribed some medication, the husband refused to buy them or give her money, and my friend doesnt work. now she is confused should she go and leave her kids behind cos he made it clear she cant leave with them or should she stay for the kids with hope things will get better and risk dying of hypertention? please help this woman save her marriage.

May be the yoruba parents you know are just as silly as your name. the ones i knw are nothing close to laziness, they are not just hard working parents, but very successful ones and they show their kids the way to success. they teach their kids how to express love and appreciate love. yoruba parents are wonderful parent.

what happend to the luv u felt at first? are u sure its not one of those chanllenges u face in life? please try to understand the things happening and a way of solving your issues. divorce should be the last option you choose.

what happend to the luv u felt at first? are u sure its not one of those chanllenges u face in life? please try to understand the things happening and a way of solving your issues. divorce should be the last option you choose.

what happend to the luv u felt at first? are u sure its not one of those chanllenges u face in life? please try to understand the things happening and a way of solving your issues. divorce should be the last option you choose.

he will have to call to say he will be home late, if he doesnt then i will have to ask. keeping quiet can simply mean "i dont care what you do or what happens to you."