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[quote author=Sunndaywillie post=112240098][/quote]Baba!!! What do you think?

stillmaticOG:
I owe a lot to this great thread, haven't been an active member but I've always been a silent reader hear.

I first heard about Solana from this thread, decided to buy it when the price was $30 with $30k.

Now the price is almost at 260 and I'm almost 260k rich

I tap into this smart move boss. Am a newbie in crypto and I currently stacking solana . Any advise if this is a still a good move? I stacked most at $98 usd .

Giantgyal:
I got my transcripts in two weeks from uniben and it was sent to my mail directly.

Big Congrats to you. Did you make request for the transcript to be sent to your email? Please can you share the process you used that made this happen so fast. I am currently in serious need of Transcript to be sent to spantran evaluation company. I have paid for it but still no luck.

mickel00:
I sent a WhatsApp message to the number in this picture and it was processed in 10 working days. I even got a call from the Dean of Exams and Record because of the message I sent.

Thanks a lot for this update. I have messaged them and still no response from them. This is my first time of applying for transcript.

Ronnnie:
I just finished watching some YouTube videos of Darius M....Mehn the cheating game played by women has gone haywire....I just have pity for guys who is in a relationship or about to get into one.
The more I learn about Redpill and Women,the more uninterested I am in them...few years ago(Before learning about Redpill ofc),I would go around FB searching for cute girls and imagine have them as my girlfriend..I mistook their beauty for innocence..but after a few heartbreaks and learning about Redpill,I just imagine their body counts when I look at them and I feel disgusted sometimes...
In this generation,being single is the best option for men willing to live their best life...MTGOW are not men who hate women or their ways,they are just men who value their time,energy and money and invest it in somewhere more fruitful than a woman who offer no return for such investment except sex...it doesn't mean we don't get sex .but looking at this generation of relationships,Having a girlfriend is far more expensive than even patronising a prostitute but they offer the same benefit...so ask yourself
"Why should I pay more for a product that I can get an alternative for a lesser price?"
I am not advising guy to visit brothels,but looking at the way the society is going,I think that the best resolve to it...patronising a prostitute saves you money,time,energy and other resources that can be deemed useful in the later future,and the best of all IT OFFERS YOU PEACE OF MIND,just use your PROTECTION always....
Most of these girls live a boring life ...forget all these pictures online,they are easily bored and always searching for a new Source of entertainment.....That's why she can chat with you much today and tomorrow she ignoring you or act uninterested...meaning the excitement she got from you previously is dwindling and your value is reducing...why do you think the upload those pictures on WhatsApp and Facebook,just for attention and excitement...seeing guys chase her and call her beautiful and sweet names causes a dopamine rush for her so she constantly seeks it,so she goes extra miles to get it by even revealing her body just for likes and comments...
Going back to social media,the amount of time and energy one has to invest to get a girls attention over there is just not worth it...yet after getting her attention,she gets bored of you sooner or later then moves to the next source of excitement (Guy)
My advice for Men
Go the Single route
Go MTGOW
Go the sigma way
Go the MONk way
That's the best assured way of living a life with peace of mind....Especially if you are a generally Nice Guy....
jUST FOCUS ON YOURSELF

I agree with virtually all you have said !!!!! Just that if you have tested the sex from a woman who chooses you, an unfamiliar prostitute sex would irritate you cos she would not be willing to go extra mile to please you.

Ajibade123:
it like USEG, ENSV and NINE are not on trove
I can't find it there
or am I searching wrongly??

Even on Chaka can’t find them.

I have to ask with the way dick game and making women cum is being put as a criteria for being redpill. So it’s safe to say a large percent of guys on here lick plate Seeing the aim is to satisfy her and make her never forget you. Kai I can never bring my self to do that.

heartofcity12:

Bro this touched me cos I have someone who checks all this criteria. Infact through her hard work plus my mentoring she is growing fast in her chosen field of profession. The problem I am facing with the Long term relationship(LTR) is that it gets choking for me and I have noticed I have started developing the oneitis syndrome. Thinking she is the one.
I had to put a break on things. Feb 14 na em she go understand that she can’t be too comfortable with me.

In the words of Drake
“ And if you pillow-talkin' with the women that are screwin' you
Just know that she gon' tell another nigga
When she through with you”
In this case she told the world lol

GAZZUZZ:
Check harness sir.

Good evening sir thank you for your response. Please what do you mean by harness?? Part of what I am experiencing is that the car does not move smart as before and the fuel consumption is a bit on the high side.
Looking forward to your reply.

Good morning sir,
I did a scanned on my car and it returned a p2238 O2 sensor positive current control circuit low bank 1 sensor 1. It’s a 2012 camry xle. 4 plug. Please I need help getting the original part that would fit for it. I have tried replacing but still returns the same error code.
Look forward to your response.
@Gazzuzz

I am broke too
I can't role with a broke dude

It’s not your fault hypergamy is in y’all’s DNA

DaddyRochie1642:
The thing is, assuming am to marry a thick woman,..then she gets pregnant, definitely she will add weight due to the pregnancy and the percentage of her going from being Thick to being "Fat" is definitely High,
And in the process, I'll loose appetite for her.

Now, assuming I marry a Lady that her body's showing promise,.. she's not too slim and she's not fat either and her body has those Curves that haven't reached its peak yet, .. when she gets pregnant and she starts adding weight because of the pregnancy, I can swear with my Balls, that's her Body Reaches it's full potential because that weight she'll gain will be Channeled towards the right Places, (you know what I mean) ... I have seen this happen severally.

Legend

forex24:
To process your visa and the exam is easy. Here in benin city and the agent I trust with 2million you are covered to Canada.

Please can I have the agents contacts. I am also in Benin city and would want to process.

MJBOLT:

Lol truly truly no be him fault.

Powerful extract.

“Men’s instincts tend toward polygamy, women’s toward hypergamy. Hypergamy, for those who don’t know, is women’s congenital inclination to continually trade up in men. The word has Greek origins (hyper meaning ‘above’ and gamos meaning ‘marriage’) and originally referred to women’s tendency to “marry up”, but applies equally to non-matrimonial relationships.

Whereas all men have a natural urge to copulate with a great variety of fertile women (because, in our evolutionary history, such behavior improved our chances of gene proliferation), women have a corresponding biological drive to have relations with the highest quality man they possible can (for the same reason) and to gain exclusive commitment from that man. Briefly put, men want a lot of women, women want one really great guy.

Men and women’s respective sexual interests are therefore perpetually at odds, and the competition is zero sum in nature; for one sexual strategy to succeed, the other must be thwarted. If women are to fulfill their reproductive goal of getting exclusive commitment from a man, the man cannot simultaneously fulfill his reproductive objective of impregnating a harem and vice versa.

Which of the two strategies prevails has varied throughout history. During certain periods and in certain areas, men were free to indulge their polygamous nature, as indeed they still are in certain contemporary societies. In the current industrialized world, however, female reproductive interests benefit the most. Polygamy is banned and monogamy is strongly encouraged, while hypergamy is not discouraged. Women are thus at liberty to fulfill their natural biological imperatives at the expense of men.

For most of human history, only a minority of men but a majority of women managed to reproduce, because a relatively smaller proportion of dominant men slept with a relatively larger proportion of the women, partly because the dominant males within a tribe tended to mate with many women but also because far more men than women suffered a violent demise.

Picture an armed conflict between two tribes. What happened to the men and what happened to the women? The men from each tribe fought each other and the losing side of males were killed, often along with their children. The women, however, were kept for mating purposes. Women who pledged eternal allegiance to her tribe, the “I would rather die than sleep with the enemy”-types, were killed. So women developed a certain willingness to (sometimes reluctantly, other times not) mate with the men who killed their husbands, fathers and brothers. This happens even today.

Monogamy later developed because it promoted superior civilizations and stabilized society. Dominant chiefs who did not hoard all the women for themselves but instead let more of his followers have wives could build a greater degree of support among a larger number of men, making his army more formidable and reducing the occurrence of internecine strife. Monogamy is also the healthiest environment in which a child can grow up (because having both a mother and a father improved the child’s security and access to resources), which meant higher rates of survival within monogamous tribes.

Both male polygamy and female hypergamy are perfectly natural and healthy preferences insofar as they have evolved over the years to better ensure the continuation of our DNA. All other things being equal, a woman who had children with the most successful and highest possible status man she could get (status and success have, admittedly, meant a variety of things over the years), had a greater chance of passing along her genes. A woman who, after first having children with one man, bore the child of another, only enjoyed a genetic advantage if the next man was of higher status.

Conversely, the more fertile women a man banged, the greater his chances of passing along his genes. The reportedly prolific lover Genghis Khan, for instance, who spent decades bedding the wives and daughters of the men he subjugated and killed, as well as building a harem of thousands of young women, was perhaps history’s most successful man in terms of reproduction: A 2003 study headed by Chris Tyler-Smith found that 0.5% of all men alive are direct descendants of the great Mongol invader of lands and wombs.

Whereas men’s natural desire for promiscuity is curbed through institutional and social reinforcement mechanisms (marriage, religious edicts, disapproval), female hypergamy is somewhat more tolerated in post-industrial societies. If you want to understand more about why this is the case, read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

Hypergamy is also the reason why men and women love differently. The abovementioned Tomassi was the first to introduce me to this idea: Only men are truly able to love a mate unconditionally. Women are not.

When discussing some of the topics in this book with a friend of mine, he asked “Shouldn’t men find women who love them for who they are instead of what they are? One who doesn’t care if you are rich or poor. One who will stay with you through thick and thin?”. This is a sentiment shared by a lot of good men and I admire the ingenuousness with which he asked the question. It reflects my friend’s propensity for unconditional love and his projecting of that same capacity onto women.

But a woman’s love is always conditional. When a man says he want a woman to love him for who he is, the type of love he is referring to is the kind only his mother can give him. Your mother is the only woman who can love you unconditionally.

In our brutish past, a man who fell out of love with and subsequently left his aging and bloating wife would jeopardize the survival of their common offspring. So nature left a fail-safe mechanism in place to ensure that men didn’t leave their wives even when they were no longer as aesthetically pleasing as in their youth: unconditional love. This is one reason, incidentally, that although high SMV men often take on younger mistresses later in life (because they are hotter) they still profess undying love and devotion for their wives. They aren’t usually lying when they say this.

On the other hand, a woman who remained in love with a man who had, say, become a cripple and lost all his provisioning ability (the male equivalent to a hysterectomy in women) would severely limit her chances of passing along her genes. Women, or rather, women’s genes, could not afford to be irrationally devoted to a man without the capacity to feed and protect his children. And this is why nature left in place an inverse fail-safe for women: conditional love.

The truth is, all female love is conditional in one way or another and a man can never separate who he is from what he is. Women marry men either on the basis of already manifested accomplishments or the potential for such accomplishments. A woman who falls in love with and marries young to a man with a promising future is taking a chance on him, but if he turns out to be a listless couch potato later in life, she will fall out of love with him.

Now, before you start disparaging women for being so calculating and pragmatic in matters of the heart, remember that a) hypergamy is a perfectly rational reproductive strategy in light of the greater physical responsibilities and risks women have in terms of childbearing and b) it is actually great for civilization. Women are looking to get the most resource-rich men they can and that’s why we have cell-phones, symphonies and self-driving cars. Guys who didn’t look like Brad Pitt still wanted to find a high quality mate, which meant they needed to bring something other than looks to the table. So they went out and created more resources for themselves (and others).

Since women invariably flock to the highest quality males this pushes men to continually strive for improvements. Improving themselves, improving the world, creating useful tools, crafting beautiful works of art, writing moving songs and so on.

Someone (I don’t know exactly who) once remarked that a man guaranteed a steady flow of blowjobs from supermodels for the rest of his life would be perfectly content to live in a cardboard box. While that statement is no doubt an exaggeration, it illustrates the point that the amenities men have created in this world have not been primarily intended for their own enjoyment, but rather for that of women. We can thank hypergamy for the fact that we all, regardless of gender, get to enjoy these comforts today.

Besides, hypergamy doesn’t go on forever. Usually, the impulse to find a higher quality mate stops once a woman has found a man with (what she subjectively perceives to be) an SMV 1-3 points above her own. Women stop acting on their hypergamous impulse when they feel they can’t do better. This is the most salient explanation for why divorce rates are lower among couples that marry later: The women (who in the United States initiate two-thirds of all divorces) have fewer options because they aren’t getting as many lustful glances from men as they used to.

This also means that childbearing is a major contributing factor to the curtailing of hypergamy because once a woman becomes pregnant her SMV unquestionably nosedives because she now has children (an additional cost and burden) as well as a less attractive physique than before. Let’s say a woman who has an SMV of 8 marries a man who is a 9 to whom she consequently bears a child. During and after pregnancy, her SMV will be closer to 6 and any further hypergamy would be futile for her as she already has a man three points above her. No other niner men are looking at her today like they used to before she was pregnant, but her husband (who is still a niner) will be by her side.

EndRape2:
So if a girl is not satisfy with a lazy loofer she does not worth a true lover,. Mumu Do not go and hustle stay here and be deceiving your your self, anyway you will marry your class , a girl that will be satisfy with you in your one room, and also eat soup without fish from you,


So she will be satisfy with you, some ladies are ment for the top,not to be satisfy with selfish ,stingy people

CASE IN POINT. This hypergamous quote is the reason why as men on our purpose you have to be selfish always put yourself first. Meaning never manage any woman shortcoming. ( Etc if she has a hoe past and she tells you that everybody has a past and you should forgive her)My brothers dump her straight. From the above monikers post it is clear they would not think twice in dumping you for the next guy unapologetically . It’s in there dna. Men be wise chase excellence not women. I rest my case.

Pjoko:
To keep it short and simple!

I promise to get my girlfriend an iPhone 11 pro max because her phone was bad. Few weeks later I got myself an iPhone 11. She saw the phone and was like oh cool, then I told her I would buy her own any moment but I keep delaying it and teasing her just because I'm still thinking if this my girlfriend who had cheated on me truly worth this phone?!

This girl I'm talking about had cheated on me, I saw her WhatsApp chat telling a guy I love you, and all that. I confronted her and she said she was sorry, that a friend of her gave her number to the guy without telling her and she kept talking and met the guy once at the mall.
I told her I called the guy and he told me he knew the girl had a guy because of her body movement when she visits him. But my girl swear with her mother in the grave that he had never visited this guy at his house, that they only met once at the mall and after then he keeps sending her money while at school.

The truth is that I forgive her because she swear with her mother in the grave. That one really touched me that is why I believe her that she never visited the guy in his house which means they never had sex.

But I said to myself, this relationship will never lead to marriage for her to hangout with a guy while still dating me. I honestly lost the trust I had for this girl. Now I'm planning to breakup with her in a calm and coded way because I don't longer trust her. But because she currently has no phone, I said I will buy her the iPhone and then use distance issue to breakup gradually with her as I'm planning to go on a month trip soon.

But surprisingly, my girl was with me yesterday and I was teasing her that, since she has been using my iPhone 11 and even went home with it for a week, there was no need buying her the iPhone 11 pro max. And she replied:

No, it's the iPhone 11 pro max I want, but you keep delaying this, do you feel pained to buy the phone for me??

This her response didn't go down well with me, I keep wondering why she said if I feel pained to buy her the phone? I told her I'm not happy with such question, that it means if I buy her the phone she won't appreciate it because she would feel like I bought out of pain and she said no that she was sorry, I shouldn't take it that way.

She is 20yrs old.

Please advise me, I love her and care for her that is why I just decided I will get her the phone and break up with her, so it doesn't hurt her too much. But due to this I decided never to get her the phone again by giving her excuses until I travel.

I was doing a search for whom is ready to do hire purchase in Benin city and I stumbled on your comment. Please and please be wise. Am sure you have seen the comments from naira landers. You should be thankful you caught her most modern girl have mastered the act of pretending. Please follow this thread below and learn from wise men with experience about life.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

In addition there is a mistake guys make. When oil they your head and money keeps coming you tend to think it will keep coming forever. It might be so but to be realistic there would always be the slow season. Use your money well. A woman would never appreciate anything you do for her because she has the myopic mentality that your where fu$king her and so you are both even. Be wise bro.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjA5h86j-2k

Lightheaded:
https://www.nairaland.com/6881129/asked-cant-parent-provide-basic


An example of "sunk-cost fallacy". When you head into a relationship with money flying around, you just started what you can't finish.

Some said he should marry her so that his "investments" won't waste, it sounds like sarcasm to me.

A red-piller shouldn't even be in this situation from the get-go.

Kai thankful for the things I learnt on this platform. Amongst which is that The moment you upgrade a woman to fit your standard you are also letting her know her value has increased and she can attract higher and better that you. Hypergamy is a bitch.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Sadly all this this you are doing to upgrade this girl is only increasing her value. Soon she would realize she can attract higher and better than you. Then the problems would begin.
My God na wah oooo.

Wow I came from the Redpill thread. After reading phase 1 all the way to phase 2. Now have a great understanding about life and women in general far greater than I ever did. @Theundercover may you never stumble. More grease to your elbow. Please I would also need a copy of this enormous wisdom. AlAswadtrading@outlook.com.

ubunja:
Women will not buy the cow if the milk is free.

SEXUAL VS NON SEXUAL NEEDS.
Women's needs are divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.

Men's needs are also divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.

Sexual needs are sex, cuddles, kisses, MouthAction, massages, sex pics, sexting, phone intimacy etc. Anything that is sexual.

Non Sexual needs are food, shelter, money, clothes etc. Anything that has nothing to do with sex.

Women date for non sexual needs.

Men date for sexual needs.

That is, women date FOR THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX: i.e a man's resources, money, time, energy, protection, skills, investments etc. If a woman already has these things by herself she will see no reason to date: "I make my own money I don't need a man"
Women don't see a relationship as a source of sex the way men do. Women ALWAYS get sex offered to them everywhere they go. They don't need a relationship to get it.

Meanwhile men date FOR SEX AND THOSE THINGS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH SEX. And a man who gets plenty of sex from plenty of women will see no reason to date, e.g a Player.

For men relationships are sexual. The loss of a relationship usually means the loss of sex.

Men and women do not date for the same reason: Women date for financial security. Men date for sexual security.

A woman dates to monopolize a man's finances and have exclusive access to his resources. A man dates to monopolize a woman's sexuality and have exclusive access to her body.

THE MILK.
If the milk is free the cow will not be bought.

Women's milk is anything that is sexual - sex, BJs, kisses, hugs, sex pics etc - their Sexuality. If women give their sexuality free to men, then men will not buy the cow. The cow is the woman. And buying the cow is marrying the woman. Since marriage is the One thing women want from men. Since marriage is the One thing that gives a woman access to all his resources, even after he dies.

Men's milk are the things a man can do for a woman OUTSIDE of sex. THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX : his time, energy, money etc. If a man gives these things free to women, then women will not buy the cow. The cow is the man. And buying the cow is giving the man sex.

In a marriage, you are a husband because you bring the Non Sexual Things.

And a woman is a wife because she brings the Sexual Things.

Hence a man who can no longer provide is replaced.

And a woman who is no longer sexually appealing is similarly replaced.

DADDY GOVERNMENT.
When the government provides women with money, assistance, protection etc - things that have NOTHING to do with sex - we say women are now married to the government.

The government is now their husband.

Because a husband is not a husband by bringing in sex but by bringing in things that have nothing to do with sex. A wife is the one who is a wife by bringing sex and things that have to do with sex.

A WOMAN'S MILK.
A woman's milk is her sexuality. And her sexuality are the things she does for a man she loves. Some of these things may not be strictly sexual, like cooking, washing and cleaning for him, but they're nonetheless intimate. A wife will be pissed if she finds some woman cooking for her husband or washing his clothes. Because it's as good as that woman is sleeping with him. Because no woman does those things for a man she's not intimate with.

Which is why if a man asks a female stranger to wash his clothes or cook for him she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
And if he asks for sex, again she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
Which is the same exact response to two different questions because household chores and sex fall under the same category of Wifey Duties. And Wifey Duties ARE the woman's milk.

If a woman gives a man this milk free, then the man will see no reason to marry her. Because already he has a wife without a wife.

BUT UNFORTUNATELY women give milk free to men.

Because of the way women's logic works.

When women date a man, they test his ability to provide by making him spend as a boyfriend. If he consistently provides at the boyfriend stage, women conclude, "There must be more money where that came from". And there usually is. Now, women take that same mentality, that same mindset, and apply it to sex.

Women feel they must do household chores for a boyfriend and especially sleep with him for him to see what they can do, for him to "sample the goods", to give him a taste of things to come, to show him what he can look forward to if he marries them. To show him "there's more where that came from".

But here's the problem; men NEVER view sex as a sample.

To men sex is a conquest. Always. As a woman, once a man tastes your pussy, he's NOT wondering how sweet it will be after he marries you. Or what he must do to wife it up. Instead he's wondering how your best friend tastes like, compared to you, since she has a bigger booty. He's wondering how your sister tastes like, since she's younger and fresher. You, he's done with you.

The only way a woman can give a man a foretaste or a sample of the goods, is in how she dresses. She dresses to feed his imagination. The glimpses he'll get of her thighs and breasts will show him there's more where that came from.

But it goes deeper than this.

If a man approaches a woman, it's because he's taken by what he sees and hears - her face, body and voice. All these are the woman's milk. And she must not freely give these away without compensation. Especially over the phone.

Phones have given men access to women's milk for free. And as a woman you'll have to severely limit your presence and availability over the phone and on Social Media. To guard your milk. This means:

No chatting with a man on WhatsApp or any chat app. Ever. If a man wants to talk to you he must call you - over the phone - not over WhatsApp or Skype. And even then you keep calls brief and push for him to come see you personally. If a man wants to talk to you for hours he must take you out on a date. Instead of spending on airtime he must spend on you directly on a date.

And this is going to sound crazy, but NO PICS online whatsoever. No dirty pics. No clean pics. No pics whatsoever on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. And especially no profile pics on WhatsApp. A man must come see you to see your pretty face, not take out his phone and open your profile pic.
If you absolutely must post a pic, then choose a dull one. As counterproductive as that may sound. While most girls use filters to enhance their profile pics and they become hotter in pictures than in real life, you oppose them: You post mediocre pics but dazzle in person. That way men will look forward to hanging out with you in person.

Be unavailable EVERYWHERE except face to face. And you'll score more dates from men.

And the more men take you out on dates, the more they're forced to spend and the more they spend the more they get invested and the more they get invested the more they'll take you seriously. We talked about this on Pleasures Of The Cash.

And on dates don't allow a man to take selfies with you. To miss you he must have no pics of you. And when he misses you he must know that the only way to see you is to come see you. Not open his phone gallery.

This is how a woman guards her milk.

A MAN'S MILK.
Everything that a man does for, or gives to, his MALE FRIENDS (favours, money, time, connections, etc), these are called Non Sexual Attention and they are the same exact Non Sexual Attention a woman wants from a man.

These are the same exact things that fall under the category of "Husband Duties".

Husband Duties and Friend Duties are one and the same thing. They are a man's Non Sexual Attention. His Non Sexual Attention is the man's milk.

The difference between what a man does for his friends and what he does for his wife is a matter of degrees. Levels. He does the same for them, only in varying degrees.

If it always appears like your girlfriend or wife is always competing with your friends for your time, money, favours etc. IT IS BECAUSE REALLY YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE IS COMPETING WITH YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOUR TIME, MONEY, FAVOURS etc. All which are your Non Sexual Attention. Your Non Sexual Attention is the one thing you share with your guy friends. The one thing you share with women. That's why your girlfriend is always complaining about your friends. Because she's COMPETING with your friends.

The very things men share with each other are the same exact things women want from a boyfriend or a husband.

Men better learn to guard these things jealously. Because they are the only thing of value they have that women want.

Some guys last had sex months ago, because they're doing women favour after favour that women should have been paying for with sex. Some guys don't have girlfriends because girls have seen no point in dating them because the guys are doing boyfriend duties without being boyfriends.

No one is going to buy the cow if the milk is free. Not men. Not women.

YOUR SEXUAL ATTENTION IS TRASH.
As a man your Sexual Attention, of which your dick is central, is worthless garbage. It literally has no value to women. A woman can't marry you for sex. Because women are offered sex 24/7 365. Everywhere a woman goes, men want to fvck her. Why will she marry for something freely available to her?

YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION IS PURE GOLD.
While as a guy, your Sexual Attention is rubbish, your Non Sexual Attention, of which your money is central, is the diamond mine.

No matter you're the ugliest baboon in the hood or the fattest pig in the township, no matter you're blind, or in a wheelchair or you don't even have a dick; your Non Sexual Attention remains as precious as diamonds and rubies to women.

Because when a woman has heavy items to lift, and the ugliest baboon offers his help, she won't say no. When a girl is stranded far from home and the blackest ugliest man offers her transport fare back home, she won't say no. When the prettiest girl in class can't get her assignments done on time and the fattest unsightly boy in class offers to write them for her, she won't say no. When Ms Nigeria is being robbed and Nigeria's brokest man intervenes to save her, she will gladly welcome it.

All these things that these men are doing for these women are the men's Non Sexual Attention. It is the only thing of value men have to offer women. All because men are stronger, smarter and faster. This is the selling point of men. It is their treasure. Their milk.

And they need to guard it jealousy.

WOMEN'S NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Women's Non Sexual Attention - of which money is core - is worthless and has little value. That is why a woman can come into a marriage broke and empty-handed and a man be okay with it.

A woman's money and a man's dick have the same value: ZERO. Men don't date women for money, just like women don't date men for dick.

Meanwhile, A woman's pussy and a man's money also have the same value: IT'S PURE GOLD. Men date and marry for sex. Women date and marry for money.

"HEY! CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOUR?"
A woman, instead of asking for money from men, she can instead ask for favours. And because men don't mind doing things for women as long as those things don't cost money they'll do it for her. But what men don't realise is that a favour or a free service is really money in another form.

A man's time, a man's attention and a man's money are the same thing because they're equal and have the same value. Since Attention = looking, and looking = Time, and time = Money. Giving someone your attention is giving them your time and your time is really your money.

That is why in Red Pill philosophy money and attention are used interchangeably as the most valuable thing men have. And the sweetest thing in the universe for women.

A WOMAN IS NEVER A STRANGER.
Women are the weaker sex and they won't last one day if men dealt with them the way men deal with other men.

Men are hard on each other and don't do each other favours unless it's between friends. If you're a guy and the other man doesn't know you he will never give you a lift in his car, buy you a drink, pay your transport fare, fight for you, give you a place to sleep or buy you food. That only happens between men who are friends.

But here's the thing, when a man deals with a woman, a total stranger of a woman, a woman he has NEVER MET BEFORE whose name he doesn't even know and whom he'll never see again in this life, that man, by nature, deals with that woman the same exact way he deals with a long time friend who is a guy.

As long as he's dealing with men, A guy will only allow a close friend he has known for years to spend the night in his house. Yet a girl he met barely 10 mins ago he'll also allow her to spend a night at his house.

Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.

While Maxwell needs to be friends with Isaac to get favours from Isaac, Sandra here doesn't have to be someone Isaac knows to get the same favours. Isaac doesn't even have to know Sandra's name or where she's from. The fact that Sandra is a woman means that even if she's a stranger to Isaac, she automatically gets the same benefits from Isaac that Isaac reserves for guys he's been friends with for years. Sandra whom Isaac just met barely 5 mins ago will get the same level of favours that Maxwell has earned over many years of loyal friendship with Isaac.

Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.

A WOMAN WITH MANY MALE FRIENDS DOESN'T NEED A BOYFRIEND.
The best strategy for a woman to properly benefit from a guy, without giving the guy any sex whatsoever, is actually to ask to be his Friend.
To never make him her Boyfriend.

Men are raised to treat all women nice. That is what it is to be a gentleman. So even if a man is not in a relationship with a particular woman, he'll still treat her well. Now if a girl has many men regularly treating her well, that good treatment will add up to the treatment he could get from an official Boyfriend.

Which is to say, If a girl gets about, say 8 guys who give her platonic friendship benefits, if she combines all that help it will equal the help a romantic boyfriend will give her. Because what a woman needs from a lover are the same things she needs from a platonic friend. ---------> RESOURCES.

If a girl has enough guy friends he won't need a boyfriend. The more guys a girl has in her friendzone the less she needs to make any of them her boyfriend.

This is the reason why friendship with women is highly discouraged in Red Pill philosophy because it's like the woman is dating you but you're not dating the woman because she's receiving GF benefits from you but not performing GF duties on you.

Even if you're just helping a girl with a lift to work, that may seem insignificant to you, but if at the same time, another guy is helping her out with lunch money (something also insignificant to him), and another guy, living next door her, watches over her (something also insignificant to him), while three other guys help her out with her rent (something also insignificant to them), and the guy at the local store gives her free groceries (something also insignificant to him), at the end, combining all the help from all these men, A WOMAN WILL NOT NEED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. She'll simply get a vibrator and live her life.

The Milk has been given to her free so she doesn't have to buy the cow.

A girl won't enter a relationship for what she's getting without a relationship. She's not dumb.

You and those other helpful men, by being gentlemen, have disqualified yourselves from being made a boyfriend.

A girl gains far more from 10 guys in her friendzone than she gains from 1 romantic boyfriend.

That's why friendship with men is so important for women. And that's why men must not be friends with women. Because to be a woman's friend is to be her boyfriend but without her being your girlfriend.

If every man everywhere became as selfish and as stingy with his time, money and favours the way every woman everywhere is selfish and stingy with her pussy, kisses and ass, society would reorder itself in record time. And especially women, having been left to navigate a dangerous world without the male protection and provisions that they take for granted, will be kinder, gentler and more respectful to men. Most importantly every woman will seek her own man to get protected and provided by and there won't be so many single lonely men.

But instead the opposite is happening...

Guys are going above and beyond the call of duty for girls they don't even know. Doing women favour after favour, paying bill after bill, satisfying need after need, of women. For what? To be thanked and made to feel like a "real man"! For validation. SMH.

As a result women are seeing no need to date. They're just hooking up with the few pretty boys for sex and that's it. The rest of what they need they can get without having to date.

If The Milk Is Free, the cow won't be bought. Women are not stupid.

THE FEMALE SOURCE CODE.
In the writeup The Female Source Code, we talked about how attention means so much to women that if a woman gets a lot of it from many men, it will cancel out her need for a man. And maybe some readers thought that was too farfetched a concept. Check out the first picture below and see a girl choose the attention of her Instagram followers over her relationship with her Boyfriend.
Here's the original tweet: https://mobile.twitter.com/theebryonnaab/status/1327690562108084224

Maybe guys will have something of an idea of what makes women tick at the most basic level.

Read The Female Source Code here: https://www.nairaland.com/5520258/ubunjas-miseducation-female-source-code


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Kai thumbs up boss. Timeless Powerful write up as usual . I have a question, judging by what you have explained, is it wrong to give random girls lifts with the intent of having there phone numbers? Would it not be seen as part of giving free milk?

Tonnyray:
Quick one. Popular question: How can I find my purpose?
Good question. Google and you will find several answers. I have only one answer: WORK.
Not exactly a popular answer but the absolute truth. You will hardly ever discover yourself while doing nothing.
The concept of taking a trip to some calm beaches in the Caribbeans "to find yourself" is a hoax.
Your purpose is discoverable mainly in the grind.
"But I'm jobless..." No bro, 98% of the time we're just lazy. Mentally lazy. We're just one of the majority that keep externalizing the aetiopathogenesis of life's ills:
Politicians with their lootocracy are the problem..
the Fulani hegemony that's wanton and directionless..
the older generation that squandered our sovereign wealth and opportunities,
the younger generation that has no focus,
the hypergamous women that are unsupportive and parasitic,
the white man...
the China man......
man, when you're done making excuses you will face the real enemy staring back at you in the mirror of life.
Life is hard, life is tough, life is not fair, will never be fair, but that is how life makes men MEN.

Typing........

Very deep. For a man to become, Work must be done in other for a man to truly discover his purpose.Also he has to minimize distraction from those who “simply are” by default. Good one bro.

Fathers are the real MVP. We are often blinded to believe in our mothers love and all. Let’s not forget our responsible fathers toiled and bleed to create the enabling environment in which our mothers showered us with love. I for one, now I stay own my own and am an adult of my own. Everyday I realize just how much my father really loved me, how his strictness was just preparing me for the harshness of the real world.
Fathers rock Abeg e no easy. As long as I am alive my parents would never ever suffer.

Martinez39s:
When you see a redpiller continuously engaging a female on a red-pill thread.

I tire oo.

Martinez39s:
At a time, we must pass the stage of asking for body counts. Women won't tell you the truth and you can't disprove whatever answer they give you, so what is the point?

If she tells you that she did it once and you multiple it by 2, how can you be certain that it is 2? It is pointless. Either you take whatever answer a hoe gives you or you pick a virgin wife.

True talk my brother.

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Kai I am extremely elated to have discovered this forum. Wisdom and intelligence overload. I done take notes tire today. Thumbs up bros.

adambeatz:
Ibeg to differ, this can only happen if after giving you kids, you've made her believe what you did that kept her on the edge has been neutralized.

Here's an experience of mine, i had a girl i dated sometime back, i gave her rules and regulations like madt and made sure even in my sleep i dare not bend or break them for anything. We dated a year plus and i always her know not to try and shit test me, the moment she decides to do that she should make sure her IQ is higher than mine and i never find out. One day after i hanged out with my younger bro to some bottle of drinks i came back home to meet her, it was that day the daughter of jezebel decided to have a heart to heart talk with me. I told her she would not like my response due to my mood but she carried on regardless. Among some questions she asked me was my view on divorce, i told her i don't feel ashamed about divorce and feel its perfectly normal to me,
should i decide to marry and my wife bleeps up in anyway to warrant my madness then I'd divorce on the spot and collect my kids no time wasted, as i also don't subscribe to court marriage but prefer making a will incase of any drama. She also asked who is the one person i can't do without and my reply was "myself" as there is no one living or dead that i can't do without.

Longstory cut short she relocated and the moment she started giving excuses in terms of communication, my brother i moved like mtn no time to waste.

I believe it is human nature to want to see finish and it cant be avoided so if you equip your mindset to always keep your spouse on her edge for the rest of her life the tendency to misbehave can be drastically reduced. Besides we men know all women love drama and its our duty as men to give them drama (keep her on edge) all the days of their life.

Isn't that what marriage is about?

Very Well said bro. its Just that I have heard it from so many of my married friends that one tends to believe.

adambeatz:
Bro, im yet discover myself, when I've set myself on my life path and im fucking comfortable with the works of my hand, ill make sure i sit down and have an alone time with myself and decide if ill get married or not. If i do decide to get married ill make sure to send you an invitation all expenses paid. But be rest assured ill never give whoever i wish to marry the room to step out of line with me in anyway. I fear see finish for this life pass death.

Regarding the stepping out of line part.Someone once told me you can never know a woman’s true character till she gives you kids. So the woman you think you have control over and all would have a different mindset when she has your kids.

luminouz:
Who be that who dey flood everywhere with 'f' pics na? Another troll?

Jesus. Don't these mudafuckers ever rest?


I woke up to read some pills. It's a new week.

Qasak, nice story. I don't believe that girl and her sob stories but I know how judgemental humans can be once you tell them your secret.
Protection is good but stereotype about HIV is very bad in Nigeria. It's only in Nigeria that someone with diabetes, hypertension, cancer or some fuqed up shiit taking daily drugs, still believes he/she is better than someone with HIV. It's all about stereotype.

Yeah bro I get you but. She was first unapologetic when I confronted her. She said it’s a guy like me that gave her and that I should drop her Abeg. It was when I force was melted on her she started with the pity story but I totally get you.