₦airaland Forum

Just learnt that sex, even though practised by both male and females, is more of a womans thing than it is a man's thing. Hence women are gonna see it a right and won't easily give it up, hence are more likely to indulge in it more in a natural setting ie without artificial promoters. So only girls who haven't indulged in it can easily keep away from it

If ur woman/wife or whatever trusts u enough to tell u that, u shd thank her n seize d opportunity. There are even many husbands whose wives deny them such opportunity

So this western culture is been imported into d north!

That is very sinnful

I just keep wondering why guys can be easilytalked out fornication , but very difficult or almost impossible for girls to be talked out fornication, often seeing sexual activities as their right. Many of such girls will easily disrespect parents, elders or other respectable person if they try their illicit sexual lives.

Abeg ladies here, is it a part of Nigerian ladies culture to hiss to attract a man to ask her out or what exactly is the meaning of a lady hissing on the approach of a highly decent ,responsible gentle man? I was about going with the advise of a close one that hot slaps is what should be the response before deciding to seek opinions here.

Natbrowny:
Younger hausa girls r sold to the highest bidders. It's all about the Azikwe, Awolowo, ahlmadu bello and others.

The gals have no choice. They agree to the cultural bullshit and a mix of religious jargons attached to it

AFFECTS ONLY THE POOR.

Go kannywood. See many exposed babes unmarried at 25 - 30 Go ABU and BUK and see plenty young girls getting education.

those ones are not average class babes, go to d core northern communities in sokoto, zamfara etc n c for urself.

Many people especially those from the south of the country feel that girls and women from the north are been deprived and deprived of enjoying their childhood and youthful years by being married to elderly men while still in their teenage years. Well, that's not entirely true. These marriages to older elderly men are actually loved and craved by many of these young ladies and teenagers because most times these girls are from very poor families where three square meals is almost impossible , can't afford decent shelter, clothing,schooling and other activities of daily living. Also, most northern girls are usually virgins and only elderly men truly value virgins unlike all these forrk boys and young men who are only interested in corrupting young women and girs. And lastly is the issue of betrothal, many community elders and families still value and like to betroth young girls to families so as to strengthen bonds.
It is also instrumental to state that most Hausa folks believe that ladies above 25 are not virgins and may be marriageable or make good wives
In summary, the major reasons are, cultural or traditional reasons, poverty ,chastity and community pressures

Why not an Igbo man

Apply okowa oil

After my visit to Sokoto state, I discovered that girls around there especially the indigenous ones don't do all these indiscriminate dating our girls here in the south do. There their girls like to marry as virgins which is one of the reasons they are careful with men before marriage and consequently avoid indiscriminate dating. I think another reason may have to do with the very low westernization over there

Na we we, so make una leave am

That's PDP for you

Its real o. No be joke

What's he afraid of

Looks like youthful exuberance taken too far

Apc won

From my journeys and observations, I just realised all over the cities and towns in the country, prostitution and hookup culture is very much on the rise especially among teenage girls and those in the age, 20 to 25. The only part of the country that still seemed not very much affected is the far north, probably because of the lower western educational levels, coupled with sharia laws in those states.
After making more research, it occurred to me that driving force for this astronomical increase in hookup culture among ladies is nothing but the high level of poverty and lack of good parental upbringing. Many parents and guardians have now neglected their parental roles, they only care about pitting food on the tables and not anymore about proper moral upbringing again. Çhildren are left on their own to do as they please

Fidecoo:
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Hahaha
See you.
Them go still go collect if Them want collect.
No just waste your time and stress yourself extra

but its better they know that men care n can't b taken for fools

Its really not funny at all but that's the realistic thing to do. No sane or serious man should take chances in this era of high moral decadence. If men don't close mark their wives or future wives, then whatever they get is their own fault.These days, ladies sleep around with boyfriends and even strange men weeks and days before marriage, with the belief that they can't get pregnant with those last minute good bye sex or that they can cleverly parcel it for their husbands.
Guys pls get wise, don't allow urself to be so badly played and fooled by these so called wise ladies

So u guys have now belittled our own popularly elected governor,who was also unanimously confirmed by d supreme court to a common criminal or suspect?

He is d boss

christejames:
The SIMPsons support his action with a carton of Hero Larger Beer 🍻 😂

this isn't redpill but foolishness

Since u in relationship ,why not put her on monthly stipend or any financial poverty alleviation measure

Everything isn't about sex abeg

The fact that an intelligent brain as peter obi lost the presidential election should not mean that we should be deprived of his intelligent contributions to the progress of the country. Pls let all who can prevail on Tinubu, prevail on him to give the young man an appointment

Na wa o? Is that d kind of things guys n kids in d south are exposed to? I pray God save men's marriages and protect d morals of d young ones over there, its really not easy, there is need for moral laws to be implemented all over d south so that ppl including young women can be moral and sane