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I have realised that most men instead of insulting and slapping women who harass them simply just ignore them. That really isn't the be best way to go. Disgrace such ladies so that they won't try it again another time. Because these ladies who sexually harass men usually think that men are beasts who can be easily sexually stimulated and will impulsively act on the sexual impulse- they seem to have failed to realise that men are not hegoats, even he goats do have some level of control over themselves and can't always be impulsively turned on.

Some of these 21st century females really seem so desperate to lure some male folks into sexual illicitly by all cost for reasons best known to them. These girls who are into harassment and seduction of guys use various means which are not normal in the sense of civil every day relationships.
Guys, have you ever experienced any form of sexual harassment, molestation or sexual inappropriateness- what was it and how did it happen, together with ur response or get used to it?

CandidAdmin:
Women, you better wisen up. Most men in your DM are just there to lick your body.

KEEP YA SELF

they shd rather sift the men cos there are still good men na

EreluRoz:
😳 you served in 2015? And I actually thought you were a small boy.
Like a teenager

oga na ya son mate na!

That's y ladies use mini n super mini skirts to further confuse men into seeking for sex

Have no fears because whether older or younger you gonna still be controlling her

God1000:
As a lady, the best thing is to live a good life, don't be a baby mama for any guy, don't get pregnant and do abortion as well, we all know the stigma of being a baby mama in our society.

For guys that always sleep with girls, get them pregnant and dump them, they should stop doing such thing.

that's it

Many guys will never date or even have any relationship whatsoever with a lady who is a baby mama, they will condemn such ladies as if they are devils because they got pregnant in an earlier relationship. In some scenarios even the guys who impregnated them would abandon and run away from them . Here in the north girls from other tribes who date Hausa guys usually have to abort the pregnancies or the guys would tell such girls that such babies are not accepted in their cultures and places.
Most guys seem to prefer dating girls who are completely single, but isnt it far better to date and marry a baby mama who has never aborted/ murder any human being in her life than to marry these so - called innocent babes who may have become professional murderers and abortionists, without realising it? Do most of these of these guys even know the number of abortions there girls may have committed in the past- do they know know d kind of sin/ evils these their single girls are carrying about? Would it not have been better to marry a baby mama with an intact womb than to marry all these abortionists with damaged wombs?
Some of these girls don't even commit abortion, they secretly carry the pregnancies to term, give birth and they squueze the babies necks.
A girl who is pregnant out of wedlock has certainly committed an error but deciding to kill or abort such tender lives is an additional crime and sin. They should forget about any shame, rumours and slander but rather focus on their lives and make it a point not to repeat mistakes like that of getting pregnant in the wrong way again.

He lacked wisdom n knowlegde

Dexy4yah:
You go explain tire cuz we get coconut head

na for d innocent naive girls to take a lesson not necessarily for d experienced

Many people erroneously think that dating is synonymous with courtship but thats only at a glance. In reality they are very different and they lead to different thinhgd. While courtship is quite legal and usually leads to marriage, dating on the other hand is pure rascality and can be said to be nothing but decent prostitution- if there is anything like that.
The major reason why dating is turning to prostitution is the male folks. Any guy who is dating a girl mostly want to have sex with her in exchange for material benefits, if the girl refuses she is quickly dumped and even insulted with negative comments like "ashewo" bitch" . Some guys even arrange to rape such girls claiming that she is giving it to other random dudes, that should they be denied. Of course these are false insults from a corrupt mind.
Girls, while I will not and cannot stop you from dating. Pls let it sink into ur mind that any guy who claims he wants to date you and while discussing he is busy touching and handling with ur body is only looking for sex-a hit and run type of guy. Pls flee from such ptostitute men
Another antic of these bad guys is to tell unsuspecting girls to come snd meet them in their hotel rooms or that when will they come and know their houses and similar talks like that.
Pls be ware, dating isn't suppose to be prostitution and those who are dating are also not supposed to be pro statutes and bitches. I rest my case.

enter123:
Hook-up

pls don't attack chaste religious men and women. They are not to blame for people's irreligiosity

Government needs to do something about the skyrocketing prices of things esp food commodities. This food price inflation is giving rise to higher rate of crimes and vices in the land. Here in the north where I'm writing from, its no more surprising to hear of people stealing pots of foods on fire, nor of seeing married women and young girls competing to sell their bodies for peanuts just to have what to eat and survive for another day. I even fear that these otherwise decent ladies might even engage in indecency and prostitution during the forthcoming Ramadan season. Big men and the government have got to do something urgently to reverse the situation and guard against further spiralling of virtues pls

Fear fear and lack of trust/suspicion De worry una. What's all these Condoms for? Why can't u folks abstain from heinous sins?

Seun, this post shdnt be in romance section pls, d best place activities like this is d crime section. Anyway, pastors also have sexual feelings and know how to enjoy, only that adultery is a sinful enjoyment

Igbo ppl gonna cry persecution of their biafran son if charged n imprisoned

How can they dare smuggling this massive amount of product without arranging with d customs area command before going aheaud?

Natbrowny:
What are the Criteria for recognizing decency on people esp the ones u met randomly on the social media sites.

Anyway, date her normally to know if she's good. World is made of good and evil. There r good people out there.

In good, there is evil
In evil, there is good

OK

U won't b able to frolick with lose babes around since u know u have a woman around
U will b highly respected in ur area
Ur foothold there gonna b strong

What was he looking for in a girls vagina in the first place even when he isnt yet married to her? He shd just ho and manage his dx and keep quiet, he only got what he bargained for

Sometimes I doubt and wonder if an Igbo president will ever forgive the rest of the Nigerian regions and her folks if and when they ever become the president of this great country, Nigeria
My Igbo ,southern folks, pls what's it gonna take for you guys to accept and forgive us for denying u guys d presidency of this country for so long and the way the civil war was handled by the northern Nigerian generals and its outcome?

amnesty7:
You can try na.

I nor get enough experience for women matter my oga

Social media is now so popular and is here to stay. Many girls are now on different sites like badoo etc for various reasons. While many girls on those dites are crooked or can be crooked, however, we cant just claim that they are all out here for prostitution deals, some may actually be decent innocent girls out to find out whats going on around.
Guys, can u take a girl u met on any of those SMs serious to the extent of proposing and marrying her or do u think that they are they are all morally incapable of being goof wives and mothers to the upcoming generations?

Mikespecialone:
Oga , it’s has been like that since the first testament

oga things are going out of hand, so many ppl are now crazy about sex. Haven't u seen or heard of youths now having sex in d open at night and other indecent sexual acts?

falcon01:
5 children, 3 months pregnant and Nursing a baby? Oshey Kyocera

y u complaining? Our ancestor's wives had more than 20 children per woman, so what with 6 or 7 children in these times?

Oga no vex abeg. Help with whatever amount u have if u can't give her all she needs, things are really hard for a vast majority of d populace, we don't have to keep reminding or doubting ourselves of the hardship and difficulties in the land.

muykem:
Another ugly face in the race. Handsome guys no dey Edo again.

how dare u call him ugly? Is it ppl like him and present governor that gave birth to all those beautiful trending Edo babes in italy? Its even possible ur woman is from Edo

123yes:
Fake enjoyment. Sometimes it leds to regret that may last through out someone's life time

of course its gonna lead to regrets if they don't repent

No wonder Hausa men always get f Igbo girls so easily but my problem with Hausa men is that they never take or accept responsibility for pregnancies

Ppl everyday are engaging in highly risky sexual ventures like sleeping with ppl who are not their spouses- do u know their sexual histories, or the diseases and curses hidden in them? Do u even know each others general health- how are sure that you or ur sexual partner won't pass out as a result of heart attack? Or do u think that u can just sneak out from the hotel unknowingly? Or do u think that using condoms on untrusted partner will save you, after all d use of condoms is actually a sign of fear and a lack of trust. We really need to stop engaging in bad risky behaviors that are not worth it

Still trying to work out d bearing from chad to Spain thru morocco by road