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I really think its high time the gov makes a law banning all forms of child sexual relationships be it marriage or free illicit sex. Even in the US and other western countries that we always emulate, I don't think u can find a girl younger than 18 involved in dating or any form of sexual relationship with an adult. But here in the 3rd world, girls far younger than 18are being forced into unions they don't understand or barely prepared for. Poverty and hardship is even complicating issues.I think ministry of women affairs and humanitarian affairs shd take this up urgently before things get worse pls

It seems an inherited trait which she might do to another man. Just be close to her more, then u can truly show her that u not like other men who would have fornicated her, u know a lot of women believe that men can't resist a woman will holes

Demigod22:
Honestly, the revelation affected my affection for her, but we didn't break up because of her confession. I ended the relationship because she attempted to cheat or she even cheated.

maybe u never truly loved her. If she on her part never loved u, she would not have revealed those secret dirty details to u.
My advise to u , pls go back to her if she is still single

Yes and that's why its not good for a lady to have more than one man otherwise the thing widens. Sometimes if a woman cheats while d husband is away, she quickly uses Tighteners before d husband come back if not d husband will feel n know that she cheated as a result of d widened orifice

dkidd:
I don't care the kinda life u lived me i have my own story too but never u keep it away from me only for me to find out later and then u want to start explaining. I wouldn't accept that

even if her past is so shockingly dirty are u gonna still appreciate her n be with her?

Demigod22:
Lol, the relationship is over.

I have this girl I dated in Port Harcourt and she always talk of marriage, I wasn't worried because she is the only one I got. At some point, this girl started telling me stories about her past, I just weak. She told me she had abortion before, she said she lived together with a guy more than two years, how she was easily laid in the past, even her boyfriend's friend laid her, she had done it with fellow girl, shared nudes, slept with her friend's sugar daddy, and all that.

Guy, I just lose faith in the relationship. One month after I returned to Abuja, we broke up on her birthday.

nawa for u o,what if she had kept mute and didn't tell u her history b4 marriage? Why u punishing her for being truthful? Don't u know that women are truly deeper than men? Abeg go back n marry her

I believe u all know what I'm saying. If During one of ur free marital romantic chat, ur wife just revealed things or experience of how she lived arough life like doing things like 5some with strange men or relating with foreign men- how arevu gonna feel? Or u will just laugh it over and consider her repentance and changed life b4 meeting u? I believe many of these girls have lived coded dirty lives in the past but now pretend to be chaste queens.

But why are u trying to discourage us from trusting our girlfriends and wives? Not everygirl does hookup even if living in sodom

Olosho that sleep with all d toms, dicks and harries for pittance must surely b above ur so- called regular girls in d game of indecency

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Why are these Igbo ppl so bent on destroying kano youths with liquor?

U guys just want atiku to b president in 3 yes time period

PerfectStranger:
They're on instagram and tiktok shaking a$$ and b00bs

u mean they are not been employed by employers?

More opinions pls

I don't really know if much ppl have noticed that in most productive sectors of the economy like bank workers,doctors/nurses, teachers, market women you can hardly ever find extremely beautiful women as if they are tnot intelligent enough to be found in public places or is it that they are hastily married off whilst very young. Guys, whats really happening to our very beautiful women and girls, why are they being emasculated? Isn't there enough space for all to thrive?
Pls guys, allow our beautiful girls grow and develop their talents without been turned to something else. After all, beauty isn't a curse, its actually a blessing.

This post is for forkers. Forkers pls realise b4 it's too late that D's is not fun but a very sinful way

Yes , very much. Pls invite us

I believe many ppl know what I mean. You see some girls sleeping with men of one religious grp to make money and for fun but seriously dating and later marry another man from her religious GRP, question is: are they gonna b comfortably married, won't they b wretched and sick of associating with an infidel before marring a Fidel man, are they pure and clean again, as a man can u date a lady that had been yoked wit an infidel?

Why can't they be? Haven't u seen many girls on campuses who have guys as best friends n they remain cool

Over to Igbo ppl go n open asawo n alcohol joint to spoil all those poor local Hausa n nupe men

Just get her a good business

Naijatask:
18 you say? Mutanen Nan pa, tun a primary schools suke dating kananun yara pa

oga abeg say d truth na! Who de date primary sch girls, even for north nothing like that happens. Even urself imagine it, how is it possible for a man to sex a 10 yr old girl? Make una de lie small small abeg

1Sharon:
As long as poor Muslims exist, there will always be child marriage.

no d issue of child marriage is a thing of d past now

Just sincerely confess yà action

Lovemeharder:
Good for them.

so I guess u can marry a nicee Hausa man now

Most Hausa men have realised that dating or marrying young girls is a liability because you gonna have to provide all their financial need as against marrying ladies 30 to 35.
They also realised that many parents are not willing to allow their daughters get into relationships before they are up to 25. Also the campaign by southerners against marrying girls younger than 18 is fast catching up among the Hausa Fulani folks. Similarly , many educated northerners have realised that they could be accused of statutory rape and imprisoned by a court of law , if they date girls younger than 18. Another reason is that they have realised that southerners are on a higher pedestal in d dating world cos they date highly sexually experienced girls who have higher body counts

Guys are not fuckers

If he is a fornicator. Just dump him n wait for best man

ItisWell22:
Trust no one!

Always ensure:
CORRECT AND CONSISTENT CONDOM USE no matter how clean or smooth they appear, if you can’t
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE OR PARTNER.
Better still; ABSTAIN!

the issue I have with u is that you are female and u are not defending ur fellow sisters.

Honestly I must confess that I dont know the type of vibe these hookup or ashewo prone girls give that some players recognise or decode? I once was with a girl, I barely knew for any
much length of a tme and I saw her as decent n chaste by her mode of behavior, religious and ethical knowledge and dressing , until some some bad guys around started showing interest in her and some even saying that ' just because a girl is decently dressed dosent necessary make her a decent - that he could
get a prostitute to be well dressed just to deceive ppl'. With another saying that, ' if he wanted to do something with her ,he could easily do it,'
So guys, what's it that some indecentt girls express even when they appear chaste n decent that players easily pick?

Na ona talk say d fear of God is only in de heart