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bioman:
pluck flowers and send to her.

malaika:
I guess we're all wired differently, just because I'm married to a man doesn't mean I must fear him, what!
pinkielove you need to pull up your skirts, tighten your bra and push up your sleeves and prepare to fight for
1)your self-esteem
2)your marriage

Look for a job, enroll to further your studies, make friends (young married mothers like you) so that you can have play-dates and such. Basically, try not to make your husband the be-all and end-all of your existence. Exude confidence and inner peace. Pray a lot. Laugh a lot (read funny books or chat with family/friends that make you happy). Sing a lot if that's your thing, listen to inspirational music. Write down positive self-affirmations. Small things that might help repair your damaged self-worth and fragile emotional state.

Once your husband starts to feel that he no longer has to 'babysit' you, he will start treating you like a partner in this marriage, not some little girl he seems to be burdened with. Do not fear him. He is also human, not some demi-god. Address him with humility, but without fear. He will take a while to get used to this new fearless, independent woman in his midst, he might even rebel against it (I get the feeling he enjoys the fear he instils in you whenever you try to address any issue with him) but eventually he will come to respect you.

mutter:
Since she always puts away his cloths it is not as i she was spying and yes she has a right to confront him.
The story about the spermatozoa with the urine does not make sense.
His reaction shows he took it seriously too.
His being annoyed later on is just attack as a defense method. Stand your ground there was no harm in asking.
Do not go about now apologizing any longer. There is nothing as pathetic as a constantly wining and crying wife.
A bit of jealousy is allowed in a marriage.
If I might ask how old are you? Is there a big age difference?
When an experienced man marries  younger wife he has to do some babysitting
You need to learn allot but that too comes with time.
Stop making too much effort to please him. It is the man that woos the woman.
When one is not as experienced let him do most of the talking when it comes to delicate issues.
Thia is a strategy in conversation. He starts repeating himself when his arguments are exhausted you now stand in a better position to make your case.
Be polite, friendly and go about your duties and concentrate on doing something for yourself like you have been advised to. He will come wooing you.

Tru Mantra:
Hmmm . . . great that you will NOT hold it against me, but I'd sure love you to hold "em" against me. Maybe only for a split second, while I get my bearing.
My kinda photography requires that I set up my tripod . . . aim . . . and then fire!

I can focus like a hammer if you let me "nail" you. I can be straight as a bow if you will be my quiver!

Missy B:
Mine - I Love to battle with bones. I'm worse than a dog when it comes to bones. 

Others - Teeth picking. Geez!! Do that thing where no one can see You. . . . Irritating!!!

Imagine someone doing this on the table . . .
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[/quote]dont find this attractive. what's wit the bulge?

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nice, but he has a baby face look.


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kweenchi:
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she looks like a barbie doll here.