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First of all, I sympathize with you, and please accept my condolences. This case is a very serious once.

My advice for you is to contact Brekete Radio in Abuja, He is the helper to all widows, he fights against justice. Call this number anytime from 9am Nigeria time, he will listen to you and fight for you till you get justice. You can reach them on .+234 818 889 1011quote author=Yinabim post=132258101]Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.
He has 5 children plus my two years old makes 6, tbh my husband is a very wonderful man and I doubt if men like him still exist. He holds my hands in middle of the night praying for me and my baby, he loved me sincerely. He met me in 100level and waited till I finished school. Anyways after I had a baby he said he wanted me to go to Canada to further my studies. I didn’t want to go because I was thinking of how he would cope without me, he promised to come every quarter and assured me it was for the best.

I left Nigeria in 2023 (April) , his last visit was January 2024, he was preparing to come again in September, however, I got the news of his death July 17th 2024. My whole world came crashing. I didn’t believe it, why did God give me such a wonderful man only to take him away from me suddenly.

For clarity purpose, it’s important to state that he has six children including mine

First child (female) married and resides in Australia
My husband told me that her mother (woman A) had walked out of the marriage because he was poor, saying “she wouldn’t sit down with him in poverty” . They never had a legal marriage. So Woman A left to marry another man.


Woman B, legally married him had four children (two males and two females), I didn’t hear her side of the story and out of respect for her, I’ll just say irreconcilable differences, he decided he couldn’t move on with her and he divorced her. He however left her in their matrimonial house and left her with the water factory which she was running, although he didn’t hand over the documents


I am woman C.

I came home for the funeral, but before I could make it home , Woman A’s daughter has gotten home, gone to my matrimonial home and cleared all documents.

Please note that , no one ever lived with my husband and I in the house apart from my younger brother, Woman A daughter has also never visited the house.

My husband was into properties and he has two schools also (primary and secondary in different locations) .
Durning my stay in Nigeria, Woman A’s daughter (lady A) has conducted herself like a kind person , although I saw red flags but in my state of grief I didn’t think much about them, from Fighting for my husband’s phones , to taking away his SUV, changing security guards at the gate etc. I honestly didn’t see her as a greedy person.

I came back to Canada that same week, she already brought in some lawyers who will handle letter of Administration and help oversee estate matters. Myself and all the children were on the same page till lady A said she wanted to be the sole signatory to the schools account.

I disagreed and suggested that three of us (myself, Lady A and one of woman B children) should sign concurrently alongside on all transactions.

Lady A was so adamant about the signatory issue that she started to throw shades and subtle insults , I stood my ground and it took her lawyer’s intervention before she agreed. Since then I have become lady As enemy.

Guess what?
Lady A in recent development had instructed the security that no one should enter into my matrimonial home without her permission, I sent my brother there on two occasions and he was denied access, I can’t imagine seeking the permission of lady A who is in Australia in her husbands house before entering my own husbands house, a place she has never lived in or visited!! I don’t want this to lead to legal suits here and there, but these people are not so gentle and peaceful, I paid my dues in that house it was uncompleted when I married my husband and I contributed in my own way.
I am not greedy and I’m willing to meet everyone in middle but Nigerians are so terrible, she is in Australia and she knows no one can do these nonsense abroad but they take advantage of gentility.[/quote]

First of all, I sympathize with you, and please accept my condolences. This case is a very serious once.

My advice for you is to contact Brekete Radio in Abuja, He is the helper to all widows, he fights against justice. Call this number anytime from 9am Nigeria time, he will listen to you and fight for you till you get justice.

Yinabim:
Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.
He has 5 children plus my two years old makes 6, tbh my husband is a very wonderful man and I doubt if men like him still exist. He holds my hands in middle of the night praying for me and my baby, he loved me sincerely. He met me in 100level and waited till I finished school. Anyways after I had a baby he said he wanted me to go to Canada to further my studies. I didn’t want to go because I was thinking of how he would cope without me, he promised to come every quarter and assured me it was for the best.

I left Nigeria in 2023 (April) , his last visit was January 2024, he was preparing to come again in September, however, I got the news of his death July 17th 2024. My whole world came crashing. I didn’t believe it, why did God give me such a wonderful man only to take him away from me suddenly.

For clarity purpose, it’s important to state that he has six children including mine

First child (female) married and resides in Australia
My husband told me that her mother (woman A) had walked out of the marriage because he was poor, saying “she wouldn’t sit down with him in poverty” . They never had a legal marriage. So Woman A left to marry another man.


Woman B, legally married him had four children (two males and two females), I didn’t hear her side of the story and out of respect for her, I’ll just say irreconcilable differences, he decided he couldn’t move on with her and he divorced her. He however left her in their matrimonial house and left her with the water factory which she was running, although he didn’t hand over the documents


I am woman C.

I came home for the funeral, but before I could make it home , Woman A’s daughter has gotten home, gone to my matrimonial home and cleared all documents.

Please note that , no one ever lived with my husband and I in the house apart from my younger brother, Woman A daughter has also never visited the house.

My husband was into properties and he has two schools also (primary and secondary in different locations) .
Durning my stay in Nigeria, Woman A’s daughter (lady A) has conducted herself like a kind person , although I saw red flags but in my state of grief I didn’t think much about them, from Fighting for my husband’s phones , to taking away his SUV, changing security guards at the gate etc. I honestly didn’t see her as a greedy person.

I came back to Canada that same week, she already brought in some lawyers who will handle letter of Administration and help oversee estate matters. Myself and all the children were on the same page till lady A said she wanted to be the sole signatory to the schools account.

I disagreed and suggested that three of us (myself, Lady A and one of woman B children) should sign concurrently alongside on all transactions.

Lady A was so adamant about the signatory issue that she started to throw shades and subtle insults , I stood my ground and it took her lawyer’s intervention before she agreed. Since then I have become lady As enemy.

Guess what?
Lady A in recent development had instructed the security that no one should enter into my matrimonial home without her permission, I sent my brother there on two occasions and he was denied access, I can’t imagine seeking the permission of lady A who is in Australia in her husbands house before entering my own husbands house, a place she has never lived in or visited!! I don’t want this to lead to legal suits here and there, but these people are not so gentle and peaceful, I paid my dues in that house it was uncompleted when I married my husband and I contributed in my own way.
I am not greedy and I’m willing to meet everyone in middle but Nigerians are so terrible, she is in Australia and she knows no one can do these nonsense abroad but they take advantage of gentility.

I get before no be property

Softmirror:
It doesn't make any difference. Go through their history as far back as when they were called Persia. People who have a very, very, very deep history of war can't be frightened by war. That is my point.

Have you eaten today? You must be the type that is been fed with silver spoon, if not, you won't said such. Nigerian are suffering, all the states in Nigeria are living from in poverty except your type that go eat in such restaurant.quote author=flokii post=131076898]

Who told you Reno needs appointment?.. why do you people from that part of the country always feel threatened by the truth?
Someone is dishing out facts to you, you're busy derailing the topic.

Going by logic sef.. the worst performing States and their Governors should be the ones to face protest not Lagos State that is performing very well.[/quote]

Make this man keep quiet, him no dey buy food, so him no know how much the price of food be. People are hungry, #100kis like #5k as @ 2014

Gbajamialla house go take 10Billion to renovate, VP house in Abuja go also take 15Billion, and in Lagos go take 15Billion. Na who then dey deceive? Today Na 30billion to revive Ajaokuta light still company. There is God watching everything we are doing.

I pray for my Baby Illebaye

This thing must be very mad, it's not her fault though, have been bribed.

Nigerian and religion is like human without blood.

Atiku should accept his fate as a Muslim.[/quote]

How many plane are we talking about?

Hear the nonsense coming from this idiot. You want to paddle everything to the north just like how Buhari did, do the north think they own Nigeria, nothing rather thank banditry, kidnapping and killing innocent souls. Nonsense set of people.

Ofunaofu:
https://dailytrust.com/akpabios-senate-presidency-will-spell-doom-for-the-north-acf/

You are too selfish, instead of you to say they should reach you for palliative measures since you have stockpiled our cash, you are talking about buying their landed property.

Wale Ojo-Lanre doesn't know the difference between hiring people for campaign which comprises of wearing branded T-Shirts and Caps with just a commoner in the streets showing love and respect for someone. Everybody love Obi except the enemy of a better Nigerian.
Abi Obi come catch them from house say them go must campaign for him?

If it were to be Peter Obi now, the corrupt NBA will never say he is innocent. What is wrong with Nigerian, why can't we detest what is not right, who did to us? Nigerian will not use this to disqualify this drugs Baron. I hate this country.

Chinjo2:
I can bet any amount that just like Buhari, Tinubu will not attend any debate.

Wetin Tinubu won come do there? Abi na ewa and agbado him won come talk, abi you want make em faint

JOemmy:
I really wonder how he moves around nigeria effortlessly is it by air or by road?

Why you dey ask this kind question, with this insecurities wey full this country? Abi them send you? I cover all Obedient and supporters from the eyes of the wicked people like Oemmy. IJN

Do you have sense at all, anyways two blind people leading themselves

Abuja

Obidified is flowing in my blood.
Obidient is my nickname.
Peter Obi is my Vote.

Did you planned this with your girlfriend?
Cuz what I see as the result of your running away maybe a planned out between you and her, if not my brother, go to your house or go meet her mum make una trash am out. She no get two heads.

Wait oh, who do this man self, Fed Uni Lokoja no be Kofi State e dey

Person wey no fit pay salary for a very small state won come rule Nigeria for em mind.

Make una tell am make em bury em face.

AA
O Negative

I pity that man

Why dem no open the bag make we see.
This country na cruise abeg.

Please, after getting married to her, take her to Abuja and get her an android phone, you will be surprise.

Please stop taking this too far, get married to any lady and teach her what is good and bad.

Wife material lies in the hand of God.

My Brother, buying her a phone is nothing to me. You can buy that same phone for a brother or a male friend.

Just make her happy at least by surprising her with a phone depends the weight of your pocket and she will not forget you.

When has the Nig Army became CBN to be moving cash worth that sum. Make una stop all these kind stories abeg.

Even maraba rido is hot too, but sabon tasha is cool now because of presence of security agents. May God help us all.

baba.......
na u biko

na so we d hear am. Anyway, hustling guys still dey street