₦airaland Forum

I have one question,

Will you be upset if your spouse didn't tell you she or he had an affair? Wouldn't you like to know if your partner has an affair or not? Whatever your answer is that how you should address your spouse, because what good for the goose is good for the gander,

If you keep it hidden, it okay for your spouse to keep their hidden,


Check it boo!

If her husband indeed cheating on her, she need to make sure that the man is wearing protection it too many diseases out there, YOUR LIFE IS MORE IMPORTANT POSTER, IF HE IS CHEATING MAKE SURE HE CARRIES RUBBER, you can't stop him from cheating, but you can stop you from getting diseases,

Your aunty have no business in your marriage, for some reason she feel that she can tell you how to run your marriage because you invites her in it, what you need to do is keep your marriage private and keep people out of your business, the list of reasons why marriage fails is because you have too many people sitting in the marriage, it between two people not two people plus fifty,

Are you afraid of your aunty? Tell her to back off and mind her business!

Communicate to your husband and let him know how you feel,

Ebony,

I have seen large group of African men dating other nationalities of women than african women or black women in UK, I want to say that it alot to do with Mainstream Pollution,


Mainstream Pollution is when a person is assimilating to "fit" and to adapt to the evolutionzed way of thinking, for example, white women represent status.

In America, many black men who reach to a certain income status most of them marries or dates WHITE WOMEN, then hispanic women, than asian women, and black women will be last.

Although there are alot of interracial marriages in AMERICA, in comparison with UK, there are more black men in UK marrying other race of women than black man in American marrying other race of women in America.

A white woman once asked me is it true that black men have bigger penis? I asked her is that all black men is worth to you?
CHeckit boo!

Pinkie,

You do not have SOLID EVIDENCE that you husband is cheating or doing something that he is not supposed to do. Some of the things you said does not make sense, but then again it must be the language barrier so I will leave that alone, HOWEVER, COMMUNICATION is very important instead of snooping or playing Inspector Gadget simply confront your husband of your feelings and talk it out, I hate for people to get divorce or seperate over simple misunderstandings,

Talk to YOUR HUSBAND and not us, you are married to HIM,

If he does not listen then you will need to involve the pastor or whomever is your religion leader for mediation, sometimes writing a letter helps, you can express fully when you write because the person is not there as you try to express and give it to him, BUT BE HONEST,

If he truly loves you, things will change if not, then the question will be WHAT WILL YOU DO?

Awww, yall could at least show some pearly whites, is it custom to have two men behind the bride?


Weddings shouldn't be expensive because it usually a one day event and in some cultures, it a three days event, but simple things is overlooked, many people want to spend five hundred dollars on a cake that only gon be have eaten, the rest in the dumpster, decorations cost about a grand used for five hours and in dumspter, see simple things can make weddings memorable, but if you gotta showboat, DO YOU AND CRY LATER!

Nice pictures, the bride looked like she was nervous, or worried one,

Life,

If I winked my eye at you, that cheating on my fiance?

Nekkie,

If I was you I would simply date all three of the guys if you are doubting, if you are not engaged and just in a relationship, DATE, don't put all of your eggs in one basket until you are certain of the one that you about to marry, OF COURSE DON'T take my westernized way of thinking, like a chump on Nairaland said,

You will be more peaceful if you do that, now if you was married, NOW CHILE, love that man until the end of time, I don't believe in divorces, but I dont believe in rushed marriage either,

Check it Boo!

Naija,
This will be my last comment about your insecurity and the fact that you feel threatened enough to show your stupidity, I will say this and let you breathe in peace, that if you can air out your hut, and move the cows, ANYWAY,

I know you got your green card from your love-vendor, and in order for you to get a green card your husband has to either be American or legal resident either way, so basically you married him for a GREEN CARD, BE REAL,

Second, if you are sending ANY MAN other than your husband photos of you tell me two things, well in America we call that  A SLUT AND a jump off chick, but then again, BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU ARE HO, ney!

Third, I don't deny that there isn't any smart Nigerians, I SAID YO DUMB ARSE is not SMART, don't try to put other Nigerians in this, they don't have a dang thing to do with this conversation, and you beneath me intellectually, girl boo,

Fourth, if THAT ALL MY FIANCE WANTED WAS A GREEN CARD, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED AN AMERICAN LOOOOOOONG TIME AGO, why would a person who want to move, WAIT?!!  See you dumb!  

Fifth and last, Let make a bet and see who stay married the longest, YOU SCARED CHUMP?

CHECK IT BOO!

BUAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, SHE SAID CHICKEN HEAD, YOU NEED TO STOP WATCHING RAP VIDEOS GIRL, THAT WHY YOU DUMB AS HELL!

BAWOLO, YOU WANT A GREEN CARD BABY? I got one in shiny lime green and it glows in the dark! Buahahahhaha!

lol@FREE WILLY,

Just like I said let have a bet and see who stay married the longest, CHUMP!

Send yo hungry looking, anorexic,skeletal arse back to dumpville chile, all you need is some dirt and flies, somebody will send you money!

Lmao again on FREE WILLY and your "valuable" time,

Check it boo!

The only want to know, CHECK FOR A HYMAN,

When you get through talking, You hating,

Quit hating Kenny!

Don't mind him Life,

Neither!

Naija,


Does your husband know you posting pictures to other men?

Now if I was hella dumb like you I would have made a sophomoric statement like this: Nigerian women is ONLY GOOD FOR to make babies and being a HELLA DUMB doormat, but, I know better,

It sucks being on the other end huh?

You are funny and I will say that much, "When he married you, he will drop you like hot" Let make a bet and see who stay married the longest, WINKS!

Check it boo!

Naija,

Is that how you got your green card sweety?

It funny how you said you took America history but you couldn't even intellectually answer my question about why africans are marrying other women from other countries instead of your kinds,

Posting a general picture aint chit on here, they can't do nothing with it but look at my bling chile!

Oh, is your husband the serial harrasser MAMA GEE posting about? Yikes!

Girl, I am MOST CERTAIN, it wasn't your brains he was attracted to,

Check it boo!

I am sure you fioooooone, you just bullchitting!

I hope she leave you,

Just because a woman is a virgin does not mean she can't get play that usually means she is waiting for her prince charming and I SURELY HOPE SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS HER PRINCE CHARMING YOU MISCREANT!


YOUTH!

Awwww, I have a friend though, she can't have kids, but she will appreciate you! Interested?

Oh Naija,

Can you get a black American man to marry you, if you are already married, try to woo you or steal you away from you hubby?


Peace be still,

Oh, you not the guy I just told to go to hell five hours ago in another thread are you?  Rejected men think everybody ugly,

Ugo1on1,

Honey, please do not join the BRAIN BOWL IN 2011,

The pow was to show my ring, blind miscreant!


You need help with the definition, www.dictionary.com

Go in peace,

Wow Naija,

Well, you must miss the BRAIN BOAT WHEN YOU CAME TO AMERICA, as you should know that 70% of AMERICANS ARE IMMIGRANTS and 30% of them are African immigrants.  I think you need to take some refresher course in your surroundings and think before you speak because you sound HELLA DUMB, 

It funny how you typing from the American soil and got the nerves to sterotype black women as the reason why black men are dating other races, LET ME ASK YOU THIS, why is TOO MANY AFRICAN MEN ARE MARRY OTHER WOMEN FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND THE AFRICAN MEN ARE MARRYING WHITE WOMEN FROM LONDON, GERMANY, FRANCE, AND ITALY 

What the African women excuse for that huh? 

If you gon diss, diss with some sense chile!