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Gagare1:
That was never a sin, is never a sin and will never be a sin. Infact, for me, giving my wife that mind blowing O can be my way of saying happy Sunday. She can start the Sunday praise and worship from za oza room. I know say she go thank God for me when testimony time reach.
She will be like, "I want to thank God for giving me a good husband. Praise the living God."

No be small testimony o

princewarri1985:
Bro am a guy, you are not matured enough for marriage. If you have 2k at home and your wife have 1 million naira, the total money you have at home is 2k. Secondly you are very wrong for not disclosing how much you earn to your wife, because you might be earning 150k and she will assume you earn 1million monthly, so show her your pay slip open up to her use wisdom and treat her right i promise you she will love you more and open up to you and tell you everything including her account balance, she will empty her account for you when she knows you need it even without you asking. Your wife can be an angel or a jezebel and it all depends on how you treat her

You are very wise.This is just the entire truth.

WHOYOUUU:
I WILL WRITE MY ADVISE IN CAPITAL LETTER SO IT WILL BE BOLD, COS I U NEED TO KNOW U ARE THE MAN AND HER HUSBAND AND HER BUSINESS AND HER IS UNDER U.

NOW MY ADVISE IS DONT SEND HER PACKING, I THINK SHE IS NOT YET UNDERSTAND SHE IS UR WIFE IN ALL ROUNDIFICATION.
LOCK THE SHOP SIR FOR SOME MONTH AND TELL HER THE SHOP IS DISTRACTING HER AND NOT MAKING HER BE A WIFE, TELL HER TO SIT AT HOME TILL U KNOW IS RITE TIME TO OPEN THE SHOP,AFTERALL SHE USE TO BE AT HOME BEFORE NOW TELL HER U WILL PROVIDE FOR THE HOME. FINAL.

wow!

GerogeI:
Bros, be truthful.
You started the whole thing, with your "it's my money attitude.

1. Your wife does not know how much you earn? How then will she size up or manage her expectations of you? At least if you do not what to tell her the truth , tell her what you want her to think.

2. You swallowed the red pill? Are you married or just dating her? You think marriage is about red pill. You have been acting quite stingy for a bred winner, not for what you did not give, but for the suspicion that accompanies everything you give.

3. So tell me, your wife, a tailor says she wants to open shop as a priority before getting married. Knowing she needs are career and to earn money. You said no no no, let's spend 1 millions plus on owambe. Effectively she got her people to open the shop. Probably with what you paid as bride price. Now you are going to Facebook and whatsapp snooping trying to control that income that you refused to help establish.


I think you are immature and not ready for marriage. Poor lady is responding to what you are moulding her to be. Money conscious. Money means a lot to you, and she is learning to match your attitude to survive. Do you know how many men that pray for a wife that says give me money to start some work. Most ask for money for hair, dress, or even ask you for a house for her family, but yours asked for something that could feed both of you in hard times, yet you acted like a jerk.

She is not your responsibility till marriage, you said so bluntly and hurtful. "Very legal Bro." But now she responds in like manner telling you she is not the bread winner to spend on the family, "Very Legal too" you now come to nairaland to seek advice on the foundation you laid. I think you are a simpleton masquerading as intelligent.

One cold bottle of whatever you drink for you!You nailed it.

igwebest23:
Oga I never told u I m expectating proceed from d job. I don't ask my wife money. I have my own money. All I telling her is to use d money in her account to pay her rent since she is not contributing anything at home. U said I never opened d shop for her, do u know how much I have supported her with buying this in d shop, including machine, fans and chairs. Hope u know many ladies that are working, is that their husband that secured d job for them. At d of d month d submit their salary to d husband.

hehehehe,abeg na which woman dey submit salary to their husband o?See ,get off nairaland and sort this out like a man.Small 7 months marriage u don run come nairaland come report.U never start sef.
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You see that bedroom where u guys enjoy yourselves as husband and wife, that's not the only use.My mum told me when i was getting married that my marital issues should be resolved within the confines of that bedroom.Make sure she's comfortable and and in a good mood,then talk to her calmly.Also give her room to talk and bare her soul.You will be amazed what you will achieve.I blame you for not being open about your finances.Your wife and you are one now.Oneness is not just about doing d do raw..Nah! It's about being one in finances, communication and understanding.
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You have to show her your payslip sef, that way she knows what you make.I can't blame her for not pitying you or helping you out, cos she may even feel u make 1million naira monthly but decided not to tell her,so bottom line she feels u have money but just being miserly.My husband told me what he earns before we got married, showed me payslip too so i know what he makes and how we can live on it.That's the way to go,so she doesn't start asking you for things your salary can't carry.
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Oga Make your wife your friend, don't use hurtful words on her, correct her with love,find a calm time to talk to her on things you don't like and would want her to work on.Don't do that Lord and Master thing with her,you will end up making her resent you.
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Try this!Na you go dey tell her say "no honey,keep your money.Don't buy this or don't pay for this". She will be willing to support you and do stuffs for the home without you even asking.

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Lastly,remove divorce from your mind,i haven't seen what happened that you are even thinking of sending her packing.Have a mindset that your marriage is for life.It will change d way u handle issues when they arise.

igwebest23:
The issue now is that she have enough money in her account to pay for d rent. I have seen her account balance. Why is asking me d money. I have told her am not a Yahoo guy. Am a salary earner. She was busy telling me that is d husband that supposed to pay for d wife shop rent that other people are doing it for their wife. I equally told her wife too I helping their husband. Like my sister bought Jeep for her hubby and d contributed money to build house

Say whatA successful business woman should be able to pay her shop rent herself.My husband has never paid my shop rent.Even fixtures and electronics i buy for my showroom,the business funds pays for it.It's her business,if she's doing things right,the rent should not be an issue.

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AAbuja:
Did you graduate in 2016? How have you been coping?

After all these years all I can point at is a teaching job I Engaged in Fetching 15k a month. I quit tho after innumerable nonsense and pathetic experiences.


I feel like I am not doing enough. I feel like I am not trying enough. When I look at my dad and see his Grey hair, I feel like I have failed him because I am still eating his food bought with monthly pension. I am still sleeping and waking up under his roof at over 30years old.

As a child, I remembered the week when I was to enter Jss1, dad took me to a boutique and bought me a very fine white canvass. Now over the years I can't even afford to buy him a shoe. The last time I bought him anything was 2017 during my NYSC.

I feel I have failed not only him but a lot of people that hoped in me to become something reasonable. Laundry sef no work, always in the shop regretting my entire journey. Maybe I should have waited and studied another course or maybe I should have just chosen and engaged in a trade with with my 100 level tuition

I just regret everything. Under the hot sun, People will see me walking from one company to another establishment with my credentials. Most times i have to Beg for money just to move from one place to another online. The situation is that terrible

I have asked myself what I am doing wrong but I apply to jobs everyday. Or maybe I am afraid of starting a family on 15k salary just like most of my colleagues back in university. We do meet and they tell me how I am delaying in starting a family, and then goes ahead to tell me how poor their teaching salaries are and how they have had to depend on friends and family. But me I have no one to fall on.

A times I feel really sad and end up praying for those unemployed graduates going through the same phase I am phase I am passing through. Even though you don't know me, I pray for you

Where una dey see these jobs.Like it's crazy how someone will pay a graduate 15k!I pay my staff 20k and she's an ND holder.It is well o.

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Keke o ... Someone i know built a house from it.

boldx:
Young man, please calm down. I had a similar experience and my wife did not conceive even after 2 to 3 months into the marriage. She told me about it but because of my faith in God, I told her that she should remove her mind from that matter that God will do it. I was not perturbed about it one bit.

And it happened that she became pregnant almost immediately. We never discussed her worries again.

Bottom line:
1) Don't stress your wife
2) Don't cause wahala in your marriage.
3) Support her and do not give room to fear!!!

It will come to pass if you believe without doubting in Jesus' name. It all depends on your faith and relationship with God.

Exactly,i had my first baby almost two years after marriage.Just enjoy your marriage as a couple alone first before kids come.Pregnancy and having a baby comes with it's own stress and major financial/living changes that I don't think a couple should even take on immediately after marriage.Best approach is to chill,it will happen when it will happen.There is no competition or timeline for having kids.

Gptech:
Chai! Dis ppl, even fibonacci2526 sef, only God kw her plan .

hehehe.She na mi 11 ultra.

OllyFair:
In fact nha everyday pepper dem we go dey see, eyes done dey pain meself. Anyway, the brand dey give us better package every year.

Lolz,the tensioning no be here. Xiaomi gives value for money sha!

sunshineV:
U go come use ur mn10l do giveaway for boys

No be small!

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Buzz me on WhatsApp, make I give you referral.

Spend this money! All of you na....we sabi you o. [/color]

where d money abeg?Me when dey find urgent 127k laidis so.

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Buzz me on WhatsApp, make I give you referral.

Spend this money! All of you na....we sabi you o. [/color]

mistaken identity o

genius43:
We know our competition.

where are those peeps bashing Xiaomi abeeg..This video go pain dem o See eh, Xiaomi is not anyone's mate.We die here!All their sins have been officially forgiven.Definitely getting the RN10pro!

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Buy and add am join your MN10L. Never too much never too much.... [/color]

i need who go sell credit for me.I go pay small small for 3 years

Babsolala:
To be very honest, I'm kind of shocked about this review. I'm impressed.

A few persons that have handled my RN10Pro also had great things to say about the device. Two of them (one an iPhone user and the other a Samsung A71 user) have said that there's just something about the phone that makes them love it. Obviously, they see things that I don't even see. And just last night, I played music via the speakers with the Dolby Atmos on and I was sincerely blown away.
Some persons might think one is just hyping this device, but no, this is just a part of my very sincere view about the device in my hands.

Na wa o,wahala for we when no get money to buy RN10pro .Shey na so dem go dey pepper us abi?

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Males
1. Any scent by Tomford.
2. Sauvage by Dior
3. Wanted by Azzaro
4. Boss Orange(this has a masculine citrus scent)
5. Bacarat rogue
6. Gentleman only
7. Creed Aventus
Female
1. Live platinum by Jlo
2. Bombshell by Victoria secret
3. Burberry for her
4. J'Ador

what are your prices

Xucooldesign:
last price ?

it's even 20k,u can do that 18

Xucooldesign:
10k?

Check how it's sold for by Anker themselves, even Amazon and our very own jumia.

Brand new anker Powercore 20100mah powerbank for sale @ N20000

fibonacci2526:
They can't tension me jare, let me be managing my size kolobo.

hehehe