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rampagain: we are basically saying the same thing.As long as the man is employable and taking steps towards getting a job,l'll manage with him ![]() But if he sits around eating puff puff and waiting for me. na that time I go tell am say difference dey between love and lovu |
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Ruby_Pearl: lookie here, my little sis If any man comes trekking towards you with no employment. Cast him out like a demon ![]() Tell him I sent you na love you go chop? |
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rampagain: jenny I'm with you here. I wouldn't walk out on a husband or fiancee or even a boyfriend that falls on hard times as long as he's making efforts towards getting a job. Then again,I wouldn't with my korokoro eyes seek to be entangled with a jobless man. No money no love. ![]() ![]() I wish I knew what this lady's situation was. Was he unemployed from the get go? |
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come o where does this unemployed lover live? In his mother's house? at 31? Lord have mercy! |
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A-40: Like what? get a job today today or be gone? LOL |
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RichyBlacK: Of course if you make a whole lot more than $250,000 by your admission with no wife and children to support, but ocassional Somalian ashewos here and there ,you have more spare change than you can handle. ![]() A lot of men are not in that category. They have actual mouths to feed and kids to send to college. You cannot compare yourself to the average man. ![]() what do you know about manly responsibilities nonsense! |
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She logged off before answering my simple question. If the guy just recently lost his job,I don't think it's enough reason to dump him if he's a great guy.She must have benefited from his handouts too while he was working. Women have this tendency to cry foul when the tables are turned meanwhile they'll have no problems chopping off the guy in his good times. Hopefully you can also graciously accept it when you get dumped by the new boyfriend,should you lose your job. !f the guy has never worked since you knew him,why complain now? You obviously knew his financial situaton before accepting his hand of lovership ![]() You got into the relationship with a 31 year old unemployed man,you can get out when you're no longer able to support him. Personally I would not have dated an unemployed 31 year old man talk less of handing out money not just to him but his family also. This guy is just a boyfriend,not even a fiancee. 1 Like |
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SeanT21: I'm that good ![]() |
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SeanT21: OMG I'm chatting with someone that could be my offspring? perhaps making minimum wage at Chuck E cheeses? what do you know? |
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davidylan: That's a blatant looking at the comparison. In his plan.the middle class will definitely get less money than MCains plan but they will not be paying more than they're already paying. |
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Donald trump does not make $250,000. He's not middle class. $250,000 is a middle income salary. An average physician with a school teacher wife will make that amount easily. It's not a lot of money after he's paid his $150,000 school loan and hers plus a hefty ,malpractice insurance. People look at the raw figures and forget that the average people with that salary owe money to get there. Either way we look at it,MCain has a better tax plan for everyone in a nut shell. Obama just wants to give a whole lot more to the lower income class than MCain and tax the upper class a whole lot more than MCain. Either way the wealthy is paying more. I don't think they should pay more than they're already paying That's enough to change me over to MCain |
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@ joichi,how long have you been with this guy and when was the last time he worked? |
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davidylan: I wonder. josh josh already said a little. Where are all the men hiding their marital status I won't mention names |
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rikkyjen: CU I meant was Christian union AKA NIFES not that new university that started d after my time. I went to a proper University ![]() |
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yemivictor: let the person ask for their organ back ![]() |
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SeanT21:and so what? they worked hard to get there. you folks think $250,000 is a lot of money. not when you have school loans and kids who you hope to send to college. this is unfair they're already paying 35% of their income in taxes ,why punish them more? they typically spend more too and put in more money into the economy through property taxes and indirect taxation.It'll be unfair to punish them. go MCain! |
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RichyBlacK: Minority group indeed. people in those tax brackets usually also have higher expenditures. They should not be robbed to feed the rest of soceity They already pay more,they don't need to pay anymore than they're already paying. well people would just put their money away in tax shelters. |
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Found it. It's clearer now. Obama's plan won't punish me and my oga as I thought.http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/story/2008/06/09/ST2008060900950.html but MCcain will certainly put more money in my pocket. |
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I hear there's a site that compares both tax plans,can someone post it,if they have it. |
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[b]After careful look at the Obama tax plan,I'm beginning not to have the love for my Obama that I earlier did. MC Bush is becoming attractive to me. The only deciding issue for me is the taxes.[/b]Anyone who will increase my taxes has lost my vote. My Oga works too hard to have a lot of our income end up at the feet of the federal Govt. That is unfair. To punish those who have suffered,sweated and denied themselves things just to get ahead. |
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@ Gucci did you see the other one about a woman who actually caught her man in bed pants down with another female Not all marriages are good and some are worse than others. Sadly women in Nigeria have to deal with so much and most of the ones in unhealthy marriages stay because of lack of finances and soceital stigma as do many women all over the world esp the lack of finances part. |
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@ gamine,these are just 2 of the several from unknown names. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-165735.0.html#msg2728916 https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-52335.0.html#msg1097492 |
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So Gamine now that you've graduated, you can start looking carefully. If he comes riding in an Okada nko? ![]() Gamine: There are tons and tons of threads from Nigerians about their spouses. The only difference is that they come in with new names most of the time. We've had threads about cheating spouses,physically abusive,husbands not talking to wives,mother in law issues and I bet they were from Nigerians |
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Brash!: LOL how about Leilah who's told us everything from her non loving husband to his painful anals with her. Brash!: scare ke? we are telling the hard truths. It's a learning process and it starts with picking the right spouse. Not everyone in shokoto is marriage material |
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Gamine: You've not read from sistawoman then. I hope I didn't give the impression anyway that i'm living in gloryland I emphasized several times that marriage is a lot of hard work,a lot of give and take,a lot of seflessness is required. You make your mistakes and learn I made loads and still make them. But I am happy with mine. ![]() If I had to do it over again,it'll be with the same man. |
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Ruby_Pearl: oya onyinye na you get the mantle now. |
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Ruby_Pearl: how can you keep someone in line when he's thousands of miles away? how can he "keep her in line" I'm not a believer in long distance marriage. It's not for me. when people decide to do marriage across rivers and oceans,they should take whatever comes with it. |
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It's been nice chatting. good nite y'all. |
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Ruby_Pearl: Having said all this if my man ever disappears for days and weeks without him being gone on work related stuff or if I ever get wind that he's cheating,that's it I'm gone. AIDS is real and I refuse to be killed by a third leg. |
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Gucci_Babe: Yes he needs to get a job and fast too. and I'll help whatever way I can Queenisha ain't babysitting no grown man but I won't question his manhood while he's unemployed. I must admit that I haven't been in this situation for any length of time For women who work and their men is sitting at home watching Montel,I have no idea how they do it. It must not be easy |
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Ruby_Pearl: OSANOBUA!! a marriage is spiced up by the parties not taking each other for granted. I still dress up good. I'm usually the best looking wife at the parties not because I'm the prettiest but because I take good care to look my best WE still cuddle and smooch at corners, at the movies if it's almost an empty theatre, in his office ![]() we are still as spontaneous as we were before the kids came He would still come home for lunch and a "session" on my days off. We would still do it in his home office,living room,bathroom and shower. Try new things ![]() That's the way to keep it spiced up and makes us look forward to it |
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Gucci_Babe: Ruby_Pearl: onyinye2: I don't know for other people but for me the day I set my eyes on my husband I knew he was the one. That's why I believe in love at first sight I had the qualities I needed in a man and he fit them all. and moreover I prayed to marry the right spouse Mine was also easier because I didn't date a whole lot and had never had my heart broken by anyone so I have no man horror stories. That's why I believe girls should marry young when there are men coming in droves asking for yourhand. If you wait till the clock begins to tick,desperation may set in and you settle for anyone that comes along just to answer mrs. |
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