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Avre bin the *Hurt me wiv d truth buh dnt comfort me wiv a Lie* type

Cant even grab a point here. Smh

*faints*

legend of the attention seekers

mayten30: if you keep fainting like this it will be dangerous to your health and i hope you remembered what the doctor told us that you should take it easy with my baby!!!so oya come back to life***don't faint again****

for ur mind. D baby dat yaff aborted.

mayten30: if you faint i go wake u up with my kiss of life which is what i want ,so keep fainting while i continue doing the kissing!!!!

*wakes up 2 tell her mind* bera dnt bring kiss of life in 2 dis. *falls and faints again*

*tip toes in 2 thread* Mogbe *sees guyz throwing stones at diaselfz* *faints*

TrickofTech: Okay. I am really sorry to bring all this up AGAIN (pele o). I now fully expect a torrent of abuse and put downs from the Nairaland community, because it is what I am used to. But please, I pray, if there is any helpful people out there with an insight into the Nigerian woman's mind, please reply with some advice. What does she mean? What is she thinking? Because I do not want anyone to get hurt, particularly this amazing Nigerian woman:

This post follows on from: https://www.nairaland.com/1313544/really-liked-naija-yoruba-girl

So I had decided it was not even worth me explaining my feelings for her. That I care about her deeply. That I do not want to ruin things and risk hurting myself...but especially HER. I kind of gave up any chance in my head and thought we would stay friends.

I haven't contacted her for a couple of weeks. She phoned me during the day, I did not answer. I returned a call later in the evening. She had just returned to her family home. I THINK that there were family members near by. We had a phone call.

ME: "I saw my grandparents at the weekend"
HER: "They are still alive? You must work hard in this new job and have a family to make them proud"
ME: "Yes but I am still looking for a wife"
HER: "You must find one now, there is no time to waste, you must ask someone you know" [Context: She has said this a lot to me, along with 'return to Nigeria']
ME: "Yes I will find a good wife, what about you? You have found a husband?"
HER: "No I am still a little girl (giggles)" [Context: She is actually late 20's and a few years older than me] "You will have a Yoruba wedding in Nigeria abi?"
ME: "Yes I would like that very much! A street wedding! But I do not think I would find a oyinbo woman that would want a Yoruba wedding"
HER: "Ahhhh, so you are going to marry an oyinbo woman?"
ME: "Skin does not matter. Oyinbo or black. As long as they are good in character. What about you? I remember you said that you would marry Yoruba"
HER: "Yes, I must marry Yoruba {begins to whisper and talk very quietly} because they speak the same language, I do not want my husbands parents talking about me in a different language" [Context: She had repeatedly asked to speak to my parents on the telephone and say 'hello', I thought this a little odd from my culture's perspective and she always talks about it and repeats that she doesn't understand why she cannot talk to them]
ME: "Ahhhhh. I see. But you are very good character. Why would they talk about you?"
HER: {Still whispering} "Yes, Yoruba have very good character. They do not like to see harm to others"
ME: "Ahhhh, they are peaceful abi?"
HER: "Yes"
ME: "I remember very nice things about the Yoruba. You are very friendly and open, 'we are one' abi?"
HER: "Yes, 'we are one', you did not call me back earlier in the day. Why was that? You were busy abi?"
ME: "Yes I was out"

Conversation continues a little longer:

HER: "Do not let me waste your recharge"
ME: "Okay"

We end the conversation, but she sounds sadder and more downcast than usual when we ended the conversation.

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Am I going crazy or was she trying to tell me something? Was this just a normal conversation. I am sure we both like each other at least a little, although it has never been said. I played it very cool because I thought we were friends. She did a lot more talking than usual.

A little confused? My main concern is that she does not get hurt...but I would like to know peoples views on this conversation.

Thank you people!

kip palyin along wif her. She MIGHT...

runzlord: I remember when i was young even till last 3 yrs, i used to say i would be the world's richest man, i can argue on that day an night. One of my friend said i can manage 3rd richest that he, he is goint to be dashing money to countries to fix their economy. And so on, and so forth.
But i later realized that, it is not about being the richest man, but having enough to take care of your self and both your internal and external family.

But i want to know if you believed or still believe you are going to be the richest man?

ave neva wished 2 b d richest. Buh i till future wish 2 b among THE blessed

thweraja10: Yess i have seen this happen over and over again. The guy in question can be really annoying, treats her badly, doesnt call her, get her mad but you still find girls falling in love with this kind of guy. A friend of mine who usually get all the best girls happen to tell me the best way to get them is not to show your emotion and act like you dont care, how true is this?

seriously, i love any guy as such.

mayten30: where u dey run go?u wan run go fall for gutter abi?don't run from daddy oooo,daddy is here for u,is dad making u scared!u know dad will always love u!!hey my friend come back joor!!u no hear say singing***u can only run run run pass me when you run crazy!!so u can't run away from daddy!!!dust footie getting prepared to chase her!!here i come.

*mounts a bike*

mayten30: ROTFL na by force make person know if the wife him wan marry dey whatsapp?anyways my wife no vex***strokes her head***touch her cheek!!don't be naughty dear daddy is sorry oooooo!!oya come to daddy!!m

u ar d cheating type. *runs out*

mayten30: hmm nice decision though,and u don't need to cover ur face!!don't be shy darling daddy is here with u

love u like kilode.

mayten30: joke?do i look like basket mouth the comedian? well anyways am serious we are getting married very soon,just tell me the date then we are good to go!!!

*changes countenance 2 sad one* how will i b d one 2 choose d date now?

mayten30: are u on whatsapp?

u dnt even knw if sum1 u about gettin married to is on watsap or not? *faints*

Iykemmanuel: keep deceiving ur self

is it a crime to trust my CHEATING-BLOODED bf, Huh? :p *set to fight*

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]and what are you?

mumu fat lady pulling your hair around like mental patient.[/quote]IMAGINE!! wuz dis meant 2 get me annoyd? Grow up dear

mayten30: ur username na wa ooo,na u be queen and na u still be princess ba?lord have mercy!!"Lol,

hahahahaha. u o fear me now.

mayten30: but anyways i won't cheat on u when we get married but don't cheat on me too.

ohhhh!! Like really? Tell me it's a joke ar we gettn married? *drawz a seat,waitn for his response*

mayten30: haha ur own case na special case ooo wey suppose dey court of romance!!!4 girls?and u are still in the relationship!?abi u sef dey play away match?because girls cheat too and not the guys only!!oya whisper to me if you play away match too,oya come on whisper to daddy ear jare!!daddy is listening to u,dad won't tell anyone!!!!

*wishpers 2 his ear* i did dat jez once buh dat wuz wen i discovered he's bin cheatin. Lera i bliv if ave satisfied him he wudnt ave done dat, d satisfactn i cant provide since we aint legallly joined. *covers face*

I fink itz normal if u still single buh once u married i wont accept dat. Buh like seriously, can men cheat wifout we girlz?

viski: I still stand on the fact that you don't need to put up invectives, insult and abuse to get your point straight. Wait a minute, what I'm I still doing here?

he is a fool. Big tym. Stop xchangin words wiv him.

mayten30: na so every chick dey talk ooo but after e happen dem go come start to dey narrate the sweetest line in nolly-wood movies which is "all men are dogs"na that time dem dey know!!!that time wey dem dey talk say i trust my guy so much dem no remember ooo,but am glad u trust ur bf,u have to trust him to make the relationship work!!good luck madam and when u want to do ur wedding let us know so we go come chop fried rice and chicken!!m

haha!!! Wedding of life. Wuz jez jokin o. D last thin i'l eva do z to trust a guy. He's dated 4 girls after we met and like i dint and dnt care sinz he hasnt ringed my finger yet.

mayten30: wash!!!u never know anything,very soon u sef go open thread asking how to treat a cheating boy-friend!!!lolm

like really? dnt b pessimistic.. I trust him and i can vouch 4 him. I love him like muuuuuah:/

Frank Edward's songs.

I trust my G. Hezz not d cheating type.

telling a guy not to cheat is like takin away his Dick

Hbd.llnp 2 her

[quote author=Adeniyi A.]Happy Sunday to you all, as our 'ripe' sisters step out today probably to 'search' with internal eyes, here's an invaluable advice for them.
Ladies Stop killing yourselves looking for Mr. Right because u might never find him. Just get a hold of Mr. Left then drag him to the right. [/quote]too much stress

Divine-filled,Great and mighty

Almst evrytime.

lirusehn: may ma soul b wasted if i wud eva like a gal of ur type :> :| :/

e reach dat one?