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prettythicksme: and what of those men that take care of their wives real good and dont allow them to work is that a crime or what??

That's their Choice not yours as a woman, as you said they don't allow them to work and they take care of them.

prettythicksme: so you are telling our man should not take care of us if they have the money or whateven though a lady is working a man should also give I can never go into a relationship whereby my husband will not give me money even though I have mine. what you saying is not right okay

When you say Man are you referring to your Husband or your Boyfriend?

If you are referring to your Boyfriend, then let me ask, what Morally justification do you have to demand for him to take care of you , what ownership do u have over him? Is it a right for him to succumb to you demand? HELL NO. What ever he will do for you should be consider a privilege not a Right.

If you are referring to your Husband , then he as the Man of the House has a responsibility to take care of his Household , you his wife inclusive. Even the Bible says in 1 Timothy 5:8 "any man that does not take care of his Household is worst than an Infidel"

My dear if you mindset has been that of a Guy to take care of his Babe all the time, you have to change that mindset and learn to fend and take care of yourself with or without a man, But if you are Married , please support your Husband in fending for your Household.

Men don't like Liability.

prettythicksme: cheap how enumerate?

So you hve se.x with your BF so that he can take care of your needs? Or take care of what he is fucking as u put it

Any lady that waits for a guy to take care of her needs is Lazy and Cheap.

#work for your money

prettythicksme: because I said the truth rightwhy do you put your bb pin on Nairaland

What you call truth sounds cheap, my PiN on Nairaland is for Business, if you go through my First Thread you will Understand.

OlamiB: Must Ɣ☺u butress your point by calling me foolish?nd who says I dnt have my own money? I respect my bf a lot and I see him as my husband already

Your body language says otherwise

prettythicksme: chaii broke guys they can bleep heaven yet they don't have money to take care of the thing they bleep.I have friend that date them so annoying

Your comment portrays lack of self worth,

PassingShot: Evil is thriving in Nigeria because those who should know better and do something are either silent or supporting it.

“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” ― Edmund Burke

"Throughout history, it has been the inaction of those who could have acted, the indifference of those who should have known better, the silence of the voice of justice when it mattered most, that has made it possible for evil to triumph." - Haile Selassie I

But they should also remember that:

“No evil deed can go unpunished. Any evil done by man to man will be redressed, if not now, then certainly later; if not by man, then certainly by God, for the victory of evil over good can only be temporary” - Dele Giwa

You have Quoted what People have said, oya what are you doing about the "evils" . Talk is cheap you know.

JayKayMaybachz: There's no connectivity here.... Stale jare

Attention Seeker.... i dey Greet oh

Liability: madam sabi sabi, sto playing the blame game.

Linda makes money or seun makes money is non of my business.

Carry waka with your joblessness. Such agrandized fool.

The babe( abi Dude) is Pained

Liability: madam sabi sabi, sto playing the blame game.

Linda makes money or seun makes money is non of my business.

Carry waka with your joblessness. Such agrandized fool.

The babe( abi Dude) is Pained

Liability: life is cruel when you get entangled in a crossroad. Crossroad that you cant find a way out.

This is my situation. I am in a dilemma right now. I could hardly believe that the guy i sincerely love in totality is now an hijacker of my sextape.

We were going well with our relationship until two weeks ago, i was having complications with my period [heavy flow].
He demanded to sleep with me, i rejected the idea because of my situation. He was mad with me. And promised to deal with me.

Just when i thought things were settled, he showed me my sextape which he secretly had transferred to his phone.

I begged him to delete it. Instead he uses it as a means to sleep with me everytime he wishes. He even threatened to post it online. With that am too scared to refuse him.

Please how do i escape this situation? What can i do to escape this torture?

Matured advice only

Reason why Nairaland can never be a Global brand.

No wonder Linda Ikeji is Making more money than Nairaland

destante: He is spreading his nets more broadly now

Hmmm, I see

looking4job: HELLO NAIRALANDERS,

PLEASE SAVE A BROTHER. SAVE A SOUL. I'M FRUSTRATED AND SINKING IN ABJECT POVERTY. I NEED A JOB URGENTLY AND I WILL SINCERELY APPRECIATE ANY FORM OF HELP RENDERED TO ME CONCERNING GETTING EMPLOYED. IF YOU'RE IN POSITION TO HELP WITH ANY USEFUL INFORMATION, KINDLY PM ME. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

You are Looking for Job, and your Most active Sections on Nairaland are "Politics, Romance and Celebrities" i was Expecting to see that you are active in "Jobs/ Vacancy".

IyawoToBe: Oh lord! I have never flown first class God pls elevate me... The people buying first class tickets don't have two heads.

Thats the spirit Sister!

ifex370: if plane crash nkor?

Change your Mindset,

Why are you living eating , earn money since your are gonna die one day?

Whilson: I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?

What does " Asking one out " entails?

ChukwuCantDie: Who are you calling dude? Which part of naija dem say dat? Anyway..im tired of these threads praising oyibos for rubbish they create, and my mpa is very well is yours?

Pained Dude, Which side of naija Speaks English

ChukwuCantDie: Rubbish thread, dont care.

Pained Dude, Your Dad did not Changed the World?

datguru: so, should i start crying that my dad didnt change the world because of me ?

So , whose fault is it that you dad did not change the world because of you?

am0s: what about Jesus Christ

Was Jesus Christ a Dad?

Why don't you read before you comment.

IFY124: It took us over a year before I could concieve for my first baby. When I broke the news to hubby. He was mad with joy. I have never seen him that happy before. 7months after my first child, it happened again. He was even more excited than the first time. Looking forward to the third.

I can see you really wanna multiple and fill the earth.

cantona2014: Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

Be Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

cantona2014: Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

By Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

Afolabs101: Quote from TJohnson

The Air Force and Federal Government seem to have absolutely concern about the whereabouts of the pilot, or how his family must be feeling. All they have mentioned is the plane, as if bit was flying itself!

Incoherent Dude

maltharzaer: #25K

You are still a Learner

BoiledCorn: Can you beleave this...becose me don't beleave it myself, I jus don undersatnd why my bf will want to carry hes woman cosine to uk when I beg first. They always hang round too much for my likeness. I even beleave there are molesting on themselfs behind society back very bad.
This is how ee take happen, He live in a 1 room self yard and when I go to sanity his room, I see the fly tickets. I comfront him and he says it for her schoolings. He thinks I no longer have sense. I raise alarms. And yard members seperete us from fight.

One Reason why Nairaland can never be a global brand

MissYuzedo: there's dis guy dat i met sm few wks back and really
it just started as frendship but as time goes on i
discovered i was getting too attached sort of,and
he's attached too smhow although not as much as i
am to him,now d issue is dat he's not ready for a
relationship and he stays far away from me.really i
want myself out of dis mess and d issue now is how
do i get rid of dis feelin?

A reason why Nairaland can Never be a global Brand.

You cant see such nonsense on facebook, twitter or Instagram.

Seun if you dont learn to sanitize your forum it will just begin to die just like 2go

jonaji: The actor Lost weight 75lb inorder to act the role of a cancer patient ...... Not good I tell you.....
Let's support the cancer victims around us today !!! #REspect

Did the Picture Bring tears to you own eyes? Silly Heading for a topic

juman: Very sad.

Our roads are bad.

Our roads might be bad but a higher percentage of the accidents are caused by drivers' neglegence and poor maintaince of our vehicles

EddyNumerouno: Y'all should read my first post esp d bolded, and I have on 3 occasions had money refunded to my account...because I registered my displeasure with MTN, so keep shouting on NL when u can get to customer care and sove ur problem, quit grumbling.
Lastly, u can all suck my salty balls. Case closed

PAINED DUDE

On the below thread , you came to nairaland to request for help to load your ipad, meanwhile someone is helping out and u are nagging.

Why did you not go to a telco to load your ipad instead of coming to nairaland to ask for help.

https://www.nairaland.com/1810748/how-load-data-ipad-mini