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Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Quoteit: 9:59am On Mar 03
@ iLegendd and everyone

Please how do you convert on bybit at zero or very low fee? The fees I can see are high.
Romance / . by Quoteit: 2:47pm On May 31, 2022
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Business / Re: How To Make Regular Income Offering HOT Digital Marketing Services On Fiverr by Quoteit: 1:26pm On Apr 29, 2022
Fiverr review. Anyone?
Travel / Re: Drama As Unruly Max Air Pilot Holds Passengers Hostage For 4 Hours After Boardin by Quoteit: 5:24pm On Apr 20, 2022
Impunity everywhere.

How is the pilot better than brutal policemen?

Small pilot work he don dey show himself.

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Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Quoteit: 8:27am On Apr 13, 2022
EmmanuelScott1:
The P2P rate in binance is f**kin crazy, those guys re mad.

I tell you.

Please What was the rate before the recent crash? I'm thinking of buying USDT but something keeps telling me to exercise patience.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 12:30pm On Mar 26, 2022
sajmark:



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M@rtinez39 s
C@veAdulla m

I'll like to send you guys an email, and also
Can we get together in a WhatsApp/Telegram group for a discussion?

I want us to gradually start talking about the bolded message, and how to actualise it... I see a lot of kings here benefiting from it if we can pull it off.

Serious and interested guys can indicate too, especially if you know a thing or two about blogging and web development/ design.

I blog and will love to be a part of this. You can contact me.
waybackjournal@gmail.com

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Business / Re: Chuksbaby Is Back After A Long While by Quoteit: 8:13pm On Feb 23, 2022
Please has chuksbaby created the thread? Today is Wednesday.
Romance / Who Else Has Been Diving Raw But Never Got A Woman Pregnant? by Quoteit: 2:27pm On Jan 23, 2022
Seeing the sharp increase of threads about men unintentionally impregnating women, I can't help but wonder, is diving raw very risky or have I and other 'niggar raw' been so lucky?

I'm confused here and becoming scared of raw adventures because the non-expecting expectant fathers never said anything about nutting inside in their threads.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 1:42am On Jan 06, 2022
Godbless TRP

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Computers / Re: Post Your Laptop Problems Here And Get Solution To Fix It Yourself by Quoteit: 8:54pm On Sep 27, 2021
Yinksdavid:


The issue could be related to Touchpad drivers.

Please perform on your machine a windows update, install everything, then restart the machine.

You may also uninstall the Touchpad / install back

Open Control Panel click on Administrative tools, open Computer Management.
Click on Device Manger, Search the Touchpad .
Then do a right click on the Touchpad, click on uninstall.
After it finishes, restart the machine.

Thanks a lot it worked. The last persisting problem is that I can't turn off my keyboard light despite using combinations of Fn + F3 among other combinations. It has been always on since I purchased the laptop. Please see the laptop below

Computers / Re: Post Your Laptop Problems Here And Get Solution To Fix It Yourself by Quoteit: 8:49pm On Sep 25, 2021
My windows 11 laptop often highlights texts when I move the cursor (without me pressing the left touch pad button). Please help.
Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Quoteit: 8:46pm On Sep 25, 2021
My windows 11 laptop often highlights texts whenever I move the cursor (without me pressing the left touch pad button). Please help.
Celebrities / Re: “Souls being sold out here” Korede Bello talks about the price of fame by Quoteit: 5:10pm On Sep 22, 2021
HEAVEN4444:
grin i made a post a couple of years ago that korede bello will have a spiritual awakening based on his astrological alignments. ITS HAPpENING. let me look for that post

yup the post is here. my name then was orunmila144

https://www.nairaland.com/5652615/astrological-reason-why-dr-sids/2#86196154

Interesting.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 10:31pm On Jul 22, 2021
Oyin2212:
The thread has gone to the dogs

I'm afraid so my brother. When I observed the speed with which new pages were added I thought the thread must have struck gold in a diamond mine. I'll revert back to reading from where I left off (page 150).

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 3:08pm On Jul 17, 2021
BigJoe19:
I'm really happy reading this thread.

Same here man. I've been religiously following from page 1.
I'm currently on page 140 (December 12) and - unlike other threads - I don't want to skip pages to catch up from page 690 or wherever the 'latest' page is.

Happy new year to the folks on this page. It's not yet Christmas if you go wayback 140. The journey is slow but impactful.

Respect!!!.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 2:55pm On Jul 17, 2021
CaveAdullam:
The essence of not saying "NO" blatantly is because as humans we're interdependent. No man can do all things by his own abilities as he must definitely require the assistance of others as he climbs the ladder to victory.

Definitely, one way or the other; directly or indirectly, he will certainly require her help, and since women have a record book of emotions, they will crosscheck to determine if you are on the dark or light side. You get right.

Hey caveadullam, but you said women don't appreciate your good gestures as time passes. Yes, they don't, and that is why you must reward her on a MUTUAL SCALE: YOU DO FOR ME; I DO FOR YOU. Now, she knows that you always deliver if she does her part, and don't have an idea about the prize of the current need you definitely want her for. Rather than been a simp that gave her whatever she wants without any form of labour on her side. You must be frugal with your coins, knowing when to give the least or highest coin. In a mutual relationship no one suffers. However, you can as well become PARASITIC as a form of leverage on your side. Don't allow others become a parasite on yourself.

Life is a game: you must be coquettish in all your approach, maintaining balance or knowing when to go to the extreme as per particular time.

Redpill is beyond the intersexual dynamics.

Thanks.

Hallelujah.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 2:50pm On Jul 17, 2021
LordAdam16:


Apologies for the delay in my response.

As always, I'll open with a disclaimer (when necessary):

I'm MGTOW. By default, I'm a proponent of 1 Corinthians 7:1. As such, it's fair to actively parse my comment for bias and I may not be the best person to listen to on purple pill matters.

That said, the good thing is quite a portion--if not a majority of commercially successful media personalities in the manosphere are purple-pillers. So there isn't a shortage of good advice from folks who've taken the same path you intend to and who you might better relate with on shared experiences.

Take this remarkable comment by pansophist for example ('twas a response to yet another blue-pilled complainant):



If you need a precis or a pocketbook guide to committed relationships for a redpiller in the 21st century, importantly by someone who is walking the talk, that's as concise as it'd get.

The template is reproducible and easy to grasp.

A: Be certain of what you want.
B. Know what you'd compromise on and what you wouldn't compromise on.
C. Be willing to take your leave if she fails to meet her end of the bargain on a key benefit in the "no compromise" column.

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Now, maybe you want to hear what I have to say on the subject. In which case, I'd oblige.

I'd answer your question first. Then touch on the wider subject matter for emphasis

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Your question was:



Seeking women who are into the culture of previous generations is still possible in traditional climes like ours. However, times are changing for everyone and she'll inevitably be influenced by the changes. Especially if you reside in an urban setting or your own attempts at self-improvement offer her the opportunity to see first-hand what 'modern' women are up to and the complete insanity they can get away with.

Now you might be fortunate that she stays traditional ad infinitum. But the odds of that are low.

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You may have heard the expression:

Hard times create strong men, Strong men create good times, Good times create weak men, and Weak men create hard times.

This is relevant because by definition, culture is the way of life of a particular group of people. We are at the "good times create weak men" stage, which explains the changing culture. Thinking you can flip the script as a one-man army is wishful thinking.

To be accurate, we've been down this road before. In times of weariness and disaster, women don't care about rights. They just want to be safe and have access to resources. Of course, men have to bear the brunt of it and pay with our lives. However, when hard times are over and things are blissful, they get their rights without much prodding.

Ancient Egyptian women during the Middle Kingdom had more rights than modern Egyptian women. Why wouldn't they? The Empire was the dominant power on the planet, there was zero unemployment, little to no social mobility, and the concept of Ma'at meant everyone knew their place and their roles in keeping the empire running.
Spartan women had more rights than Athenian and even Persian women. Why wouldn't they? Their men subjugated a slave population that outnumbered the native Spartan population and they were feared on the battlefield. Like today with Western women having machines perform all their menial tasks. Spartan women had slaves do all their menial tasks.
Likewise with Roman women (citizens) compared to their contemporaries.

With the end of World War II and the ensuing prosperity and bliss, the same thing is happening with Western women.

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Now in the past, because of existential threats, there were hard limits to how much leeway women could get when times were good.

Today, most of those existential threats are no more with sovereignty, rules of engagement, war crimes, the ratification of fundamental human rights, mutually assured destruction and other fail-safe mechanisms.

As such, eventually that culture of previous generations that you fondly reminisce about will die out as simping becomes the gold standard. And those of us who live in urban settings or in the West/West-leaning conclaves are on the front-row.

This explains why it is not accurate to use some of the enduring longstanding marriages of yesteryears as templates for today. Ma Adeboye will not tell Pa Adeboye to go sleep on the couch after an argument. Joke Silva does not expect Olu Jacobs to share the chores 50:50. So while they celebrate their golden jubilees and you're fantasizing about replicating it or using them as #relationshipgoals, understand that the pillars and culture that made that possible are not available to you.

To get to that same point, be prepared to be chewed inside out and embark on a wildly different and rigorous journey.

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Thus, if you still decide to go for committed relationships, even though contemporary culture puts you at a disadvantage; the last thing you want to do is hope to find a unicorn. The idea of unicorns is that they're rare. Not enough to go round, are always sought after even if they're spoken for, and that at the end of the day, they're still horses.

A traditional woman is still a woman. And to give a lucid instance, most of the diaspora men who failed to realize that fact by inviting "women who are into the culture of previous generations" from Nigeria were sharply lectured with cold, hard horror experiences.

The best you can do is prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Mind you, this is not as nihilistic as it sounds. This is not to mean that you would not have happy times in a committed relationship or marriage as a purple-piller. Especially if you continue to improve yourself and apply TRP nuggets shared here.

Heck, there are a lot of purple-pillers who say the good times are worth the risk and eventual lull periods. In any case, it's not my place to question your reality. That's one of the few good things about the current climate and one I hope more TRPillers take advantage of, you're at liberty to do whatever makes you happy.

Just remember that as investment bankers say "past performance is no guarantee of future results" and ensure you've made appropriate preparations or contingency plans should you become a statistic. Because we only hear complaints after the women have showed their wild side. But when modern men are feeling like Jay Z thinking they have their partners wrapped around their fingers, rather than make hay while the sun shines, they're usually reckless both in words and deeds.

Don't be reckless.

1. Enter every relationship with a clear idea of what you expect to get out of it and what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

If you're going in because you prefer to raise your kids in a nuclear family and are willing to sacrifice your individuality, many of your dreams, some of your cherished friendships, amongst many other things. Then by the gods, if years later she becomes insufferable that it begins to affect the family unit and your kids well being, read her the Riot Act.

2. I have to repeat this, have a clear idea of what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

Everything has a price. Including entering a marriage or a committed relationship. It might not sound like a big deal now. But 12 years later, you'd wake up, look at her face as she sleeps and wonder "how the f*ck was I so arrogant to believe I could deal with this sh*t for decades".

3. If you're improving yourself, she should be too.

If you choose to overlook this or tolerate her nasty, that's your prerogative and should be your choice. Don't be knackered into believing that while you're working on yourself and literally sucking up to your boss to maintain your lifestyle and not lose her, that her flaws are a package deal that you MUST accept without her even attempting to work on them.

In the 21st century, that's a pile of crap. If marriage is work, you should not be the only one stacking bricks.

4. Live in the moment, enjoy the little things, and soak up the experiences.

Because it might not last, it might be all that gets you through the bad times, it might be your only respite when you look back on your misadventure, or even be a critical reason why your marriage, civil union, or committed relationship lasts.

5. Have an insurance plan.

Whether it's walking away, getting a mistress, separation, signing a prenup if you're in the diaspora, having a sizable nest egg that can't be touched even if she goes scorched earth; never as a rule of thumb let yourself be at the mercy of a woman (or any human being for that matter).

Don't tempt fate! And don't let anyone guilt-trip you into thinking looking out for yourself means you don't "love" her enough. That should go both ways, if she "loves" you enough, she should want you to be happy if things don't work out.

6. Doing all these things and more does not guarantee anything.

People discover new things about themselves. Circumstances change and people react differently to change. Also, everyone has a breaking point.

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In fairness, I'll admit, it is depressing.

Most guys out there are just looking for dependable companionship, respect, and appreciation and are willing to walk to the ends of the earth for any woman who'd provide that or even the mere illusion of that. Unfortunately, they have to go searching through treacherous terrain for something their grand and great grand fathers probably took for granted.

That said, in the voice of Eneke the Bird, "Since [hunters] have learned to shoot without missing, I have learned to fly without perching."

Be like Eneke the Bird.

-Lord

Burst my brain!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Quoteit: 2:44pm On Jul 17, 2021
sweet7oyin:
Some guys think the only way you can be a beta male is by being her financial sponsor.

Lol

Ur time
Ur attention
Validation by giving unnecessary likes on social medias and comments on her stats
Etc

Your non sexual qualities are equals to her sexual qualities.

Girls don't need sex cause yh they can get it at anytime
If she goes out and feels like fucking
Thousands of guys would be ready.

But what she cant get is the non sexual qualities.
The one listed above.

Some guys are besties
Drivers
Status likers

Its soo sad
You see a girl posts a picture and she has 1000likes
And your wondering what are they liking.

Some guys even comment
Your beautiful
Would you date me??
And stuffs like that.

Like wtf
Why do guys act this way.

When a girl tells you she dosent need a bf
Most likely she has a bestie that is a guy
And that guy is giving her all the non sexual attention.

And she probably have other guys online validating her.

What every girl needs is your non sexual attention plus money actually
And what you as a guy need is her sexual attention.

When you go around giving your non sexual attention for free
You are a ..........
A girl would not go round giving her sexual attention for free

So many guys see women as queens and they forget to see themselves as Kings.

You know what i mean

Word!

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