@seun, you're absolutely right, just a little addition. A marriage without consummation is annulled by the court and pronounced void ab initio... meaning void from the beginning. It was never a marriage because there can be no consummation. A man who neglects to tell his intended bride that he is impotent is beyond forgiveness, I plead forgiveness for saying that but it's just the truth.

CimonJorr:

John Legend's "Used to love you..."

- A nice blend of a D'angelo-like voice with keyboard skills remniscent of Stevie Wonder ...

That's a good one actually.

Marvin Gaye..... Let's Get It On

Olaoluwatomiwa

Eninlaloluwa (Eni)

Dipeolu

Boyz2Men I'll Make Love To You

chimanu2000:

hey don't rush the party cus I am presently far upnorth(by cameroun actually)in taraba so reign in your horses keep in under your hearts till september

....erm...... because you say so?

Just kidding, mate.

Well, nothing so dramatic, I'm afraid. I was simply one of many to migrate here from mobilenigeria

Wow, it's my first time reading this thread and I must say it's such a brilliant idea.

Well, why not adopt the pringles motto: once we pop, we can't stop......

Might as well have a get together around here as well. Somewhere central (a cafe or something in central London) for those of us in the UK. Let each fraction come back after the party to post their experiences........

Talodabioluwa (Dabbi..... my niece's name )

Shiyanbola

I would love to see what your Rita looks like after 3/4 children and yes...... with a little less pancake. Have you noticed? her neck and her face are worlds apart colour wise... that's what excess foundation does to you. Nothing personal, I don't even know the lady but comparing her to Omotola is tantamount to blasphemy.

pkrix:

What would she have done but to pick the heel and walk out of the crowd shamefacedly.

Or at best, forget about the heel and still walk out of the crowd less shamefacedly.

Forgive me but why shamefacedly at all? She didn't ask for the shoe to misbehave and well... she didn't make the shoe and it's not a reflection on how inexpensive the shoe was or any such thing. Just last Wednesday; I was walking home from work (I quite enjoy that) on a very busy road, smack in the middle of the city centre and my heel snapped. Imagine... all suited up and all. It was just my very 2nd time of wearing the shoes and they were bought from no less than the acclaimed city of fashion itself, Milan. I felt like going back there to rant and rave but that will only be crazy not to mention penny-wise pound-foolish. What did I do? I naturally had to forget about walking home for the next 30 minutes even though the weather was gorgeous. I laughed and believe me, every other person who noticed what had happened couldn't stop laughing either. Some even came over to see if they could help. Luckily, a colleague was just driving past and volunteered to give me a lift home.

Cohort

Oluwadarasimi ('Dara)

Kelekun

tayotina......... you're something else..

This minute and at work I am listening to Keith Sweat's Twisted.... old, I know, but still nice.

Woyinoluwa

c0dec:

78 % of women that chat online are fat and unattractive and geeky with no life at all! the other % do it as a hobby.

How parochial. You must have some fact to back this up...... what? ........You don't?.......... sigh

Umm dating someone significantly older is something that has been on from time immemorial. My dad (of ever loving and blessed memory) was 17 years older than my mum and they remain the best matched couple I have ever seen. 17 years and 20 years sounds the same to me.

I'm with someone who is 10 years older than me and absolutely prefer it to my last relationship where the guy was merely 2 years older and, needless to say, without a clue.

Now would I date a guy who is 20 years older? It would very much depend on the circumstances. A guy 20 years older who approached me in the way and manner the man in question approached you, a definite no! Nothing turns me off a guy faster than the condescending words 'I'll take care of you'. Implying that I look impoverished to him or could do with better care or what?

Other equally vital issues also come into play such as 'how will my family cope with a guy who's older than all my siblings and a mere 5 years younger than my mum?' 'Is he married, divorced with children?' The list is endless, really.

But then again, this is simply my personal opinion.

Amala with abula (bean soup, draw soup and stew) and this isn't solely because I'm a proud Ibadan girl (it's said to be Ibadan's customary meal), I simply love it.

Tanwa

Dance With My Father.... Luther Vandross

legs:

Ra you no fit again?

Sarunmi

legs darling, my username is RA... my initials....... tayotina posted Remilekun.... work out the rest

Ponmile

Bisade

@ alladin, if you permit, I'll be very blunt and say that this sounds like a typical case of babe 'using' guy to me.

If she professes her feelings and tells you how much she misses you ONLY when she's far from you, it suggests that she feels safe far away from you, safe enough to say those things and not have you at her door asking for a serious relationship. When you're together, she's back to been the Ice Queen.

It's very common. Some girls have what we call 'Insurance Policy'. They're with other guys but keep another who really likes them on the tenterhook, thinking should something go wrong with the other guy they're with, they only have to call and you're there. I might be wrong, but then again, I might be right.

I suggest that you take out time to study the lady in question and be very honest and objective with what you see. If the above narration describes her, you, my dear, deserve better. No one deserves to be used.

Technique