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El Guapo:
This got to be the best quote in Nairaland for the year running but that gets me into a doubt if at all i'ld be a happy man years frm today cos i jxt dream for a 'perfect' wife.

Are you perfect?

abereoje:
Marriage is an institution established by God. It is imperative that God should be the bedrock and solid foundation of our marriage. when there is challenge in a marriage which definitely is bound to happen from time to time, it is the responsibility of the couple or either of the party to draw help from God. A wife/husband as a priority to observing the moral obligation and duties expected of him/her in marriage should endeavour to commit the spouse to the almighty.

A praying wife will always keep her husband no matter how stormy it may look. Even if the husband is wayward, rather than naggin or going into fruitless dispute that ould even harden the man, a woman should turn attention to God who has the heart of a man in his hand. IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME, THE HUBBY WILL COME BACK TO HER.

As long as the man behaves the same way if reverse was the case then your post is valid. Marriage involves two people so there's nothing like "fruitless disputes" if a man or woman is wayward. Human beings are not toilets that don't have feelings and would 'swallow' whatever that is pushed down it.

Let's learn to respect each other and work towards a good relationship or marriage. It's only fair to do so. I wonder why it's so difficult. Enough of expecting so much from women while the men just punk about.

buzugee:
* hugs Radiant *  yummy

You bet 

harakiri:
If you believe that, then you're living in fantasy island. Look, EVERYTHING and every situation we find ourselves in life is conditional."Love" is no exception. I'll explain. . .

Let's assume you're in love ( or probably married) and someone asks you what makes you love this particular man.You're typical response would be "i love him because he does this and that, he is kind and generous, he is handsome, he is this and that". All these are the CONDITIONS that trigger your love for him.When those conditions disappear, the love dies a natural death. It's a universal law that works for everyone with no exceptions.

If there is anything such as "unconditional love", then why are the most loving couples divorcing themselves at astronomical rates?

Get back to the real world sister.

Nuff said!

I agree you talk a lot to prove a point but Mister, true love which is unconditional does exist. In my post I said "true love does exist and it is unconditional. It might not be reciprocated but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist."

May be you should pray to experience it then you would understand.

"17-year-old Peace Asukwo Commits Suicide Over Disagreement With Yoruba Boyfriend"

You really had to emphasize his tribe on the topic?

Roymary, sorry to say but you sound like an empty barrel.

Proud of you man. That's how it should be.

Enjoy your honeymoon

jennykadry:
Katy - who had imposed a one-month sex band before tying the knot

Too much info.

tpia@:
dangerous advice generally speaking.

being ugly is no guarantee a man will make a good husband.

neither extreme-too ugly or too handsome- is enough to keep a man, in itself.

some ugly men are the worst players imaginable.

Harakiri, I beg to defer. True love does exist and it is unconditional. It might not be reciprocated but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It's just a matter of the right people meeting each other.

buzugee:
3, always stay on point with your body. dont gain any crazy weight. stay fit, eat right, smell nice, keep your hygiene up to par. just always look classy and sexxxxxy

4, your hubby is not into incest. he did not marry his mom so please do not try to become his mum. stop nagging. learn to let things go. life is not that serious. learn to relax. learn to be easy-going. be happy. be joyful. stay stress free. dont be an uptight beyatchhhhh. nobody likes an uptight beyatchhhh. they might tolerate you but thats about it . if there is something that is bothering you, like the toilet sit is up ? do it yourself. put it down. dont always make an issue of trivial things.

I think the key point here is "learn to let things go". I would hug you if I could see you right now.

Rofl. . .I sure had a good laugh

mutter:
@Radiant, why should we speculate about absurd things. Have you ever heard of a child asking its mother how to self-service?If my kid asked me what mastrubation is about, and why people do it I shall tell my kid the truth.
Do you really believe that kids are that silly. I do not tell my kids lies. Do you imagine that my kids will take me serious if I start telling them cock and bull stories.
I think you need to find out what psychologist say about self-service and kids/ teenagers. I want my kids to grow up with a health state of mind also regarding such topics.

All kids can't be that 'smart' not to ask such a question and your kids may be among them. Can you answer my question without assuming your kids will never ask you such?

By the way, what's wrong if your child tells you he wants to masturbate and asks you how it's done? I really wouldn't call it silly to be honest so let's face it.

likeme:
There is a man out there that want to keep you, take care of you , make you happy, see you progress without any condition attached, I pray you find him. Then you will value this post. When you meet such a man, you wouldn't want to let him go.

I can't even deny the truth in your post. Absolutely true! I am speaking from experience and I wouldn't trade him for any other. And trust me, you don't even have to do so much when you got the right man. Love my Angel!

mutter:
@Jokytech,
Now I cannot imagine a child of mine coming to tell me the want to do such a thing. I definitely would not encourage it, but I would not condemn it.

Sorry Ma'am, but you will have to either encourage it or discourage it. There's no grey area here.

Let's just say your child comes to you and starts to question you about masturbatio.n and tells you he/she is having urges and he heard from his friends that masturbatio.n helps calm the body. What will you do? And you're supposed to be the right person to break it down for him.

What if he tells you he wants to do it but he doesn't know how to do it?

iaabc:
So Mrs Siena's mum slaps you (God forbid)!, you're telling me you will slap her back. What will that make you? And how iwll Mrs Siena feel about that?

Just because you know his wife is on NL doesn't mean you should ask this nonsense. Sorry, but Siena is not a coward. Marriage is no joke.

lalasun:
@ Radiant: No biggie, these are just some pics taken from the official wedding album, I just thought folks would want to see some them. And as for promotion it's a free for all forum, i don't think any of the rules are being broken

Yea, but we already have them here on NL. If you had something new to show that woulda been good instead of showing us the exact same thing but on a different site

Do ur thang tho'

mens dept:
1st of all you have a point in the sense that coaches need time. But let's be careful here because that shouldnt be used as an excuse to promote mediocrity.

Spot on!

Oh yes Spiky Wow! Now we're talking Very lovely and the setting is very unique Beautiful bride and yes Baskie looks way better now

Linda Ikeji needs to learn a lot from Bella Naija

OK!

Rofl. . . Bella Adenuga's wedding planner You be true comedian for real

Missy ★ B:
Basket mouth looks happy and excited? For where?

Lol. . .at least he was smiling unlike the bride. What can I say?

spikedcylinder:
These photos are one kain jor.
When are the photographer's copies coming out? Those ones will portray the couple in a better light. Maybe then, the man's dada will look berra.

These are the real pictures not the professional ones where they'll pretend to be so in love

spikedcylinder:
I doubt it jor. With the kain million million they spent on wedding planner, this and that, they must have hired a photog. Lets just wait and see.

Spiky u sef na comedian. So you believe say wedding planner plan this wedding?

mens dept:
Abeg. What is this for? Do you want him to come and say Naija will reach semi final like Lagerbeer? Up SIA1

All I'm saying is that he should stop pulling out before he even begins. Giving a notice in case things go wrong. Whoever expects much from him. Or let's see if he'll blame his pay

Get a good, well experienced coach, give him enough time to adjust and get used to the Nigerian madness, pay him well and let's see if things won't turn around.

Whatever, Siasia. Just go do your damn job and stop pulling out before you even begin. Patience ko, Patricia ni

A very wicked mother. Which God does she serve? Christian my arse!

Pathetic!

Lmao. . that hair is scary I agree.

Rofl @ topic 

Truth be told. Women can't handle rejection/break up better than men  Men would only feel it to their marrows once or twice in their life time but a woman will always feel it and at a point she'll begin to think it's a spiritual problem 

I love my fellow women no doubt but y'all gotta admit we just too complicated  _{( Marriage is a different case though  )}

They didn't even go to a church  Why does the girl look sad, both during their trad and white wedding  Baskie even looks happy and excited. No hugs, no kisses, no emotions 

So many questions to ask. 

Is this the long awaited wedding with so many expectations What was all that hype about?

I'm not even sure about the 6m Naira car, sorry.