safex101:

rediant check your email he said he sent it to you confirm it

Yes I've received his NYSC, success letter from Uni and his CV.

ola olabiy:

i know you are well-intentioned. but, this guy? i am sorry i am a needy person too. so i don't have what he wants.
may God help us all.

but be careful, radiant , you never know. help him but stay out.

Be careful of what? Stay out of what?  

ola olabiy:

radiant.
exercise restraint.
ok?

Any hope for Menek from your side?

Aqva:

I don't have a job for him but i swear i will try all i can.
In life people are expected to meet one another half way.

Now we're getting somewhere.

You had actually planned to give that job to your cousin so please let's believe that slot wasn't meant for Menek irrespective of your interest to help.
I'm not sure anyone will leave their jobless cousin to help a stranger with a job. We all understand that so please look for something else for him.

MeGaStReEt:

If you dont have  the CV why dont you just tell us, ah ah

anyways sha,  you have opened the door for other SERIOUS job seekers. like Aqva said the serious NL will by the grace of God get the job,  When you are ready come back next 5 years, Oh i can imagine how rueful you will be.

If you see a serious person you will know them, If i were in your shoes i will not mind joggin from Island to Mainland, not matter how far the distance is, hungry never teaach you lesson reach, Infact i don change my mind, I dont believe you are poor, 2 years ago i lived in a house with about 4 jobless graduate, the alarm wey dey that period, them dey treck go any distance go look for job, sleep for street. make i no too talk sha,  guy kom back in 5years time jorrrr

You will be so disappointed. You want to bet?

The fact that he's on NL asking for a job doesn't mean he doesn't try outside NL.

Aqva:

@radiant, i won't dignify you with an answer.

Ohh don't even go there! Why are you threatening the boy? If you won't help him another person will! Quit ffucking about with your sorry pride. If it's not you then it wasn't meant to be you! Enough of your rubbish here.

Why don't you give the 12 people jobs if you're so well positioned? No, you want to whine about on NL because Menek hasn't sent his CV. Please!!!

odereghi:

@ Scooby1; i am afraid, that e-mail was opened recently using the poster's name cos the demand for his e-mail address went on a national level.

In essence, the e-mail is a freak! and was fabricated to deceive us nairalanders.

How many people on nl use their real e-mails?

I've just spoken with him and he said he was having problems posting on NL yesterday.

He said he will send his NYSC cert, CV, and 2 other certs from Uni. He said he will forward them to Aqva and Chejik as well.


If you're interested to help this guy get a job please can you post your e-mail here or contact him on his menekpigi4all@gmail.com.

I wonder why we're blaming him for asking for help.

Who has made it without help in this life? Some girls sleep around to make money due to situations like this. Some men get into all sorts of crime due to situations like this.
Why is it a problem that this guy is asking for help? I really don't get it.

If you don't want to give him money then please help him find a job! He probably doesn't need your money but may need only your kind heart

David, I'm sure your mother asked for that job of a house girl or at least her situation was very pitiable for her uncle to offer her that job.
That is exactly what this poster is here to do. Tell his story and ask for help. How is it different from what your mother went through?
There's always a starting point so please allow this guys seek help. He might end up being a consultant physiologist one day.

Never despise the days of little beginning.

Igwe.:

oh, you guys want his phone number on here

Seriously. Post his number, home address, what else?

Like I said, his number is not hidden.

Aqva or whatever your name is, thanks for trying to help. I'm yet to see where a job advert lasts just a couple of hours except it's an emergency for just a shift.

I don't wish to be helped by someone like you. What are you feeling like? A king because you've got a vacant position? Please spare me that foolish pride of yours!

The fact that you can't be patient with him doesn't mean he's not serious. I wonder how long it took to get that job you have now!

Being at the mercy of man is just awful. Rubbish!

odereghi:

All those that collaborated with the poster over his story for the aim of receiving cash plus other items have started emerging.

Very soon, we shall them all.

If you can't give allow those who can to give! Stop being a bloody nuisance!

LOL. . .

So because he didn't send his CV yesterday makes him a fraud?

I don't think that makes him unserious. Give him a week and if he still hasn't forwarded his CV then we can call him what we like.

The guy asked for a job and not money! What makes him a fraud? Of course he knows that he will have to provide documents before he can secure a job so he obviously didn't come here to play about. No CV and other necessary documents means no job and he knows this.

Please let's give him more time.

If you want his number you can get it. It is not hidden.

evaradiant@yahoo.com

It would be nice if others can suggest some business ideas so that the poster can have more options

LOL. . .

May be y'all don't know that some whites speak better pidgen than Nigerians themselves. They mingle and swim with Nigerians to the point that you can't tell when it's a Naija person or a white speaking pidgen.

Some of them can speak a bit of our local languages. This is not unbelievable.

This lady may just be one of them peeps. I won't be surprised but who knows the real truth?

chiejik:

is like 200,000 depending on the area

Is this for a room or what?

Bim4u, I'm willing to share the rent with you if you don't mind. We do 50/50.

Another idea is starting a business. May be some of us can put money together and he can start a business.

Either one he prefers to do I'm willing to assist.

Thanks.

That's a known complication no doubt.

However, in the interest of that baby, they should not have sent the baby home and hand over care to Mother. Knowing what the end result of such complication could be, that baby shouldn't have left hospital for a second even if Mother insisted to take him home! That baby has got rights and every care should be in his interest even if parents object. And you blame mother for taking baby home? Don't they have policies in Nigeria? How do you let such a baby go home? What did you say Mother was gon' use to dress the baby's wound?

There's no way you'll explain this incident/ the possible complications to a mother/family and they will insist on taking the baby home to "dress" him herself. A sick child should not leave hospital even if parents object. As long as that child needs medical attention he should get it. This is absolute nonsense! Why the hell are you a doctor? If I was a judge I'll definitely sentence you to hanging! No two ways.

Secondly, how long do they keep ex-CS patients in hospital? I know minimum is 2-3 days. Are you telling me this woman went home from theatre? This whole story doesn't make sense.
In fact, if that baby was actually rendered incapacitated right from the cut then I don't see how the doctors and nurses and even Mother didn't notice the progress of this baby. Was this noted and just ignored?

The Consultant was present and all this rubbish just got swept under the carpet?

Why did they hide all the details from the parents? Even the test results?

This whole story doesn't just add up. I just can't believe the way patients are managed in Nigeria. I wish I had an answer to all my questions.

I sympathise with the family.

Gekko:

CERTIFIED RUBBISH!!

Jonathan needs to face his business and get this country moving forward.

Being on facebook doesn't stop him from carrying out his duties. I bet y'all prefer those bastards in the military who will only dictate and you must obey! How dare you cough when they speak? And to crown it all nothing will still move in Nigeria.

Now, you have a President who wants to reach out to you and hear you but no you prefer to be left in the rat hole and die grumbling without no one giving a hoot about your pathetic life!

Like being on facebook automatically means Nigeria is doomed! Go hit your head if you can't stand the news.

I know that but I wouldn't call him an Orphan though. I think it's too harsh considering he still has his Mum. That's just me anyway.

So those of you on facebook don't go to work, attend to other issues, have other priorities? You guys only sit and ffuck yourselves on facebook?

You lot make me sick! I mean, come on!

First of all, you're not an Orphan. You still have your mother, okay? Sorry about your situation though but once there's life there's hope. Be strong and hopeful. Favour will locate you.

Do you want to do business or you want to go back to school?

I'll suggest you start a business so that you can raise money to go back to Uni if you still want.

What kind of business do you have in mind?

zeal500:

@Radiant pls leave our mama gee alone o! she's d only comic relief we enjoy on this forum.

It's no longer a joke and I feel for her.

mama-gee:

The matter is that you're blinded by Cataracts to notice that this thread was created months ago.

Even a 2 year Old would have checked for the date it was created and simply ignored it casue it's on old thread.

There we go again *sigh* What are you saying?

Mama gee, on a serious note something is wrong with you upstairs.

Even a 5 year old wouldn't ask this question. I'm worried about you. You just never make sense! No joke. What's the matter?

susannaija:

@michelin89 do not have issues you on the other hand have some issues that is y you are so very single

susannaija:

Ok my thing is if everyone is chasing african oyinbo, you will find a lot of girls single ok answer this genevieve or peters girl who is fine. i can bet you will say peters girl

What cheap and embarrassing talk. Why don't you go have babies with a white dude and have a life!

LOL. . . funny dude. Does he expect the woman to leave a "very big house" and move into an apartment

The dude should move in jare and stop 'being a man' my asss    _{Like he's not there for the money}

FredyP:

NLders, thank you for your posts. I am sori i have been away for a while, i felt it necessary to take time out with an unmarried friend way out in the village - without communications so that i can clear my head.
Some comments have been so incisive, it seems some of you know me well well. Whilst others have been way off the mark.

Would be nice if you could update us after you've cleared your head. _{I'm not nosy I just like a complete story.}

londoner:

you are not owed the affections of every Black man, just because you are both Black.

Priceless!

Fredy, please update us.

jenibayo:


Y dont u go and ask him, his my brother and not my guy.
I just dey vex say e leave e girlfrd.

Oh I see! You fooled me then

jenibayo:

Yes am de girl, anything de matter.

I think this is the first time we have the chance to hear from both parties on NL instead of all them single stories we hear everyday.

So, what happened?