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Jackal:
Say hi to Buffon when u see him.

Casillas is comin over tonight.

ikamefa:
so tell me have you ever gone back to an ex?

Yes

You can't look into dem boiz eyes? Na wa o

J, u saw the match? But anyway, I'm happy for Spain

Whitney!

lol. . .why u shocked?

Jackal:
Lord knows i won't clap for such sympathetic stuffs. . . .
I would be the first to kick her off the rope.

Ain't you a darling?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=144237.msg2405457#msg2405457 date=1214167806]Trust me girl - I've seen the beasts and thank GOD i'm not married to any of them .
Thanks for that assurance. Sometimes, guys say they love you but they show another side that contradicts that whole thing. So when I find the one that loves me that much, you'll be one of the first to hear me sing his praises on Nairaland for a long, long time.
For the Record - I would never ever vote for Hilary, she's weaker than they make her seem [/quote]Aight

saucekid:
lmao wetin?

You better back off and mind your black ass.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=144237.msg2405357#msg2405357 date=1214166519]Nah - i didn't mean it like that. Most feminists don't get married so obviously if i'm going to get married (which i highly doubt for reasons beyond my mental capability), I'm going to have to change my views as a married woman but I also believe my husband will love me enough to want me as his partner while retaining his position as a man. It's all about compromise.
When we're dating - it's a different ball game entirely. Things will have to change after marriage because we can't both be acting like single people. We have to learn to accomodate each other, our beliefs and things like that.
Back to the whole thing of feminism, my husband must learn to understand that women do not have an easy life and they go through various difficulties but he doesn't have to do anything about it.[/quote][b]Dearie, [/b]it's all about understanding. Only if you'll marry a beast will you be treated like an animal. I know some Nigerian men are very cruel with their wives but this is again due to irresponsibilty.

Your husband will love you don't worry. You may have passed through a lot in life but when you find a man that understands and respects you, with time you'll go back to your normal self and won't have to worry about feminism and Hillary Clinton.

Just take it one step at a time. There's that one man for you

Rofl . . .

Lmao. . .

Ika,

Jackal:
Can u be ma attorney, Rad?

Lol

genius33:
No it's not feminism, but it's not pleasant either, it's just the yoke we bear as women, I guess.

_{my brother's only three anywayz}

Thanks for clearing that up. Sweetie, don't call it our yoke. It's just what women usually do just as men have got their own share of duties

Anybody can throw the clothes into the machine and let the shit spin!

_{Your bro shud be a lil' bunny I guess}

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=144237.msg2405288#msg2405288 date=1214165548]Girl, I love the kind of controversy surrounding feminists. It's hilarious. I'm a feminist means I don't stand for maltreating and I still believe in an egalitarian society.
Of course, I'm a clown Just ask my mama. I didn't say i would stop - i just wished that guys would learn to see females as partners and not housegirls. It gets to my nerves when i see a wife acting a slave. It's just wrong. That's what I am against.[/quote]I understand what you mean and that's why I said that any reasonable man helps his wife. I was a bit surprised when you said your feminism will take a different turn after you get married because of dishes.

If he didn't help you when you were dating you think he'll help you when u marry? No need to fight for your right when you marry a responsible man who knows what mutual respect is. That's why you date/court so that you know the kind of person u be dealing with in the future

genius33:
And you don't think she'll feel the same about washing yours?

D'u have a brother that you always "help" to wash his clothes? D'u ever ask him to wash yours as many times as you do his? Is this feminism?

Jackal:
What these people are saying is equal rights between the husband and wife.
If i wash your undies this week. . . .u wash mine next week kind of thingy.
That to me is GROSS!!!!!

Lmao! So, I guess I'm not a feminist then. That's even a lot of trouble for me as a woman. what, I'll be nagging over who's turn it is to scrub the loo ? Don't make sense!! Mutual respect y'all !

There's the time so be stubborn and fight for your right. E.G, when I need to travel for a seminar and he says no. Umm. . .the outcome won't be nice at all.

arianne:
@radiant- nobody said its wrong, some just don't. it's a matter of choice and opinion. simple.

Some here could be shouting NO after they've broken up, made up and broken up again like 4/5 times with their ex. Wish we had a lie detector here

Jackal:
@ Radiant,

I just can't phatom out how Naija babes seem to be losing their African roots. . . .
Feminist this, feminist that just because some of them are now opportuned to rub shoulders with white women.
It's pure shittery.

The single most important factor is a woman's submission to her husband. . . . .Submission is not STUPIDITY.
Only a human-mutt of a man would think a woman is stupid because she is submissive to him.
Equality is totally out of it . . .

J, it's not really about loosing the African roots. Submission is not only when you cook and serve your husband 'cause husbands do that too for their wives, so what are we talking about here?

I take it that one definition of submission is doing more of the domestic work than the man, but on the other hand tho' men too help out. For real, which man doesn't help his wife with the chores??

OK! I don't get it. What is submission and when should acting feminist come in

No No No. . . bla bla bla. . . y'all can shout No but on the real, how can we be sure??

What's wrong with going back to your ex? Even if you were the one at fault and he's willing to take you back? Y'all don't bore moi

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=144237.msg2405105#msg2405105 date=1214162919]Funny enough, I'm patient in relationships because I believe all guys are babies that need to be taught how to act but when marriage is involved, my feminism will take a different turn.
What is wrong with a man and his wife cooking together in the kitchen? Or a man cleaning the dishes while the woman is washing it?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssss![/quote]Don't hiss girl. What are you tellin me? That if you were washing the dishes when you guys were dating you'll stop washing it when you guys get married?? You sound like the latest clown

Y'all let this feminist crap go and be yourself!

Jackal:
Please don't start!!!!
Anyways, your team will be kicked out tonight.
They MUST lose.

lmao. . . Does Italy sound like Portugalia to you? Buffon ain't takin no shit tonight

J, what happened to Portugalia ?

Jackal:
Feminist me ass. . . . .Yet, if u take em out on a date. . . .these blood suckers expect a man to pay for their gluttonic habits!!!

Ouch!

@post, you don't have to declare you're a feminist for a man to "respect" you and fear to "challenge you". Any reasonable man knows there has to be mutual respect between him and his wife/girlfriend/baby mama, etc

All the noise about feminism is dunghill. What you call yourself is what others will call you.

Sorry to burst your bubble girl, but the Nigerian boys I've kissed do it hella good!

What kind of guys u been with?

I get it

Pls tell me it's a joke

Rofl. . . .

Yea. Nice one from you guys today. Sorry I forgot to congratulate you

_{I'm equally getting off. Talk to y'all tmrw. Good night and spare no bed bugs}