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Frankicent:
My guy you're been used to file love form. She's using to get cozy. When the real owner come she will dispose you like a bag.



Mind you, she might not even give you sex. She only way you to fill that empty space.

Tell her straight to her face that you can't be with a girl who's emotional unstable for her ex. It's bad for you.


Give her long space. If she calls tell her that you can't come that you're busy. And ask her to come..

Trust me, she wouldn't want to come because she knows you'll touch her.

She want to be in control.

Now turn the table to your favour. Limit the way you talk to her, stop going to her place, Infact don't give her attention.

If she asked why.. Tell her straight. You are not desperate or needy. If she want you. She knows where to find you.


Bone the girl before she use you finished.


Toast another girl

I don advice you as guy man.. If you go let your emotion Bleep you up.. You go cry last last oo.

Thanks for the advice.
I would've bounced a long time ago. but, this girl keeps coming back, even up-to-date.

cooooooks:
A new book by a friend correctly describes this describes this 'relationship' as a situationship.

You cannot and should not condone this level of ambiguity. Define your situation and if she refuses to acknowledge your definition, bounce.

Do not further waste both of your time.

Thanks man.
I would've ended this a long time ago. but, she just keeps coming back.

broflovski:
You are not in love yet worried she still loves her ex. Both of you fit each other. Confused mou'fvckers

Everything is not all about love bruh.
You'll get so close to someone to an extent, their problems is also your problem.
She's someone I really care for.

On behalf of the folk; we disown this guy — for he is no longer one of Us. What a disgrace.

evansjeff:
see this mumu, that which you're fleeing from is what many real niggars seek. And that which you seek is what many real niggars flee from. As far as constant bleep is sure, who love help? it's obvious you've not learnt, don't learn the hard way.

I subtly get your point.

0rion:
OLODO. WHY ARE YOU STILL AFTER A GIRL THAT IS STILL EMOTIONALLY IN LOVE WITH HER EX.

COME CLOSER MAKE I SLAP YOU

I'm not in love man. I know her too well to fall in love with her.
She's just someone I hold dear, I just wish you can relate.

Rilwayne001:
I don't waste my advise on dumbos, because I know it's quite futile mission.

Continue loving up shogbo

Am not a dummy man.
Your advice would've been appreciated, but it seems you have none to give.
Anyways, thanks for dropping by.

samdavjustin:
Ofcourse she is using you, you are rebound guy and don’t want that. At this stage you can’t be sure of anything she says that’s why I suggested another girl

I actually have a girl in mind.

Sleyanya1:
The confusion is really much.
I honestly don't Think you heed to any advise requiring you to leave the girl alone.


Truth is, you're her rebound guy.
She's using you to satisfy her emotions while waiting for her ex's attention.

She's Indeed a friend.
Some girls are just confused in life.

maxjax:
i think you have a spiritual wife, while she have spiritual husband

I didn't get your point.
can you elaborate?

Angelacruz:
It will end in customized tears

Thanks anyways.

samdavjustin:
You have a good thing going on bro don’t mess it up with love matter, as long as you get access to the pussy what else do you want? now all you need Is take your time and find another girl that is available emotionally while you enjoy the confused girl. When you have had enough you port to your serious GF

Let's just forget the constant sex for a second.
I think she's using me to fill a gap in her life and to also satisfy her sexual fantasies.

toyotamuscle:
let me give you a real good advice.stop mastubation. and you will value that girl more.cos she could still not be your girlfriend but still give you solution to your conji problems.my last word.untill you get another free TOTO dont let that TOTO go.

Your advice is superb.
but, how does masturbation correlates with this?

Thiago890:
We cannot pardon any error. Are you not in college? :

In my country, English is a borrowed Language Sir.

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Vyzz:
It's clear her ex treated her well in all aspect.....





That's why I tell my niggas.. Always give ur gf a reason to remember u after u are gone....



At least for the sake of okafor's law

Lols.
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Yes. I broke my ex’s heart.

I left when she wanted me to stay. I decided to separate even when she wanted Us to be together.

It’s one of the most difficult decisions of my life. I knew I was breaking her heart but I also knew I could never be happy. I don’t regret the decision at all but remembering how much it hurt her makes me feel I really betrayed her trust.

There are certain times and certain relations in life that just aren’t meant to be. She is a gem of person.

Feel free to share yours.

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In the nearest future Africans will always Unite — I can bet my all on that.
But, you see Nigeria — A country without an official language can never be United.
One Nigeria Is a scam.

So, In summary; You're just another client, she uses to scratch her unending itches.
Oga there is no future in what you two are doing, In honesty — you're basically dating yourself. All I can say is that, The is no special traits, attributes or whatsoever about her, You're just hooked on the free sexes you get constantly.
Make haste, while the sun sets.

Forget the Nude pictures for a second. She should be more concern about her skin — Is that krawkraw or heat rashes?

This Op is just confused in life.

Wow. Only if — I was not a Nigerian.

Wow. Only if, I was not a Nigerian.

Romangalactic:
Meeehhnn, live life and stop wondering wat u will be remembered for. Highest people that will remember u for anything are your grandchildren & great grandchildren if u live to see them. Most people don't know and never met their greatgrandparents or remember dem for anything in particular.

The exception are royal families and political leaders, due to record keeping & then der are those whose names are etched in history cos of something extraordinarily good or bad they did for their community or country,and guess wat, these people are not many in every generation. Michael Jacksons, Adolf Hitlers, Usman Danfodios, and Nnamdi Azikwes are very rare

Just do good,be good, teach it to your children and rest in peace. Daz all! If you want to do something very extraordinary for multiple generations to remember, go for it but not because u want to be remembered.

Nice input.
but you have not answered the question, or you don't want to leave any legacy behind?

BakedCake:
I will change 2 things in this life

one communication

two the definition of a home.

bonus will be to integrate artificial intelligence in ways that will shock the world ...


a bold statement I know

but mark my word..I was born for these reasons.

Your words are marked.
All the best.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Haha. Why are you projecting yourself on to me?

Insecure much?




You truly have more pressing issues, but I'm not quite sure you're attending to them— or at least rightly.

Adios.
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