I used to have one of my legs bent to a slightly radial degree than the other and guess what? I didn't care, although I was a child. I grew up and developed bow legs that were unevenly curved and people would look at my legs when I walked on the road and I'd almost feel ashamed. Until I got used to it and knew that people didn't actually care about anything. Now, they're more straighter than usual-although still curved a little. But, I don't care anymore, it's not important again.

I remember my semi-simp days in SS1, even if I scored one of the hottest girls in school (one class above), I couldn't keep her, I still had simp genes in me man, I remember when another girl apologized for not returning my call, here's what I said; "who returned call epp?". I still had that shit in my gene stream and I'm literally laughing right now. I actually had the attitude of a reckless leader who goes against authority (I became prefect.lol) in my secondary school days but there was that simp gene inside.
Now, it's a very very different story. Let's not talk about this part. Hehe

KosiGee:



You made a promise to your parents that you wouldn’t indulge in ‘anything sexual’
You met a lady and made out with her but you didn’t penetrate. You had taken ‘manpower ‘ earlier!
Now your mind is troubled but you’ve told your parents about it and prayed but you are still troubled.

Try this: Grow up and stop abusing substances for either courage or enhanced performance.

You disappointed. Did you not consider how the girl would’ve felt? Have you called or spoken to her to apologise for that disastrous encounter or you ran to your parents and after knelt down...daddy, mummy, Oh God, forgive me for I have derailed and fallen short of your glory?

Did you tell your parents that you’ve wanked? Did you tell them about your nocturnal emissions too? I don’t know the sort of male children that’s been introduced into the society anymore! Ha

Stop embarrassing yourself, men and women. Sex is for men not for boys, sex is not for boys with a few strand of hairs on their chin, sex is for men with pubic hairs and balls the size of avocados.
Stay away from sex, read your books and pass your exams and stay away from substances.

Lastly, thank your stars that you didn’t get priapism.

See ehn, it's a matter nature vs nurture. His parents have successfully suppressed his sexuality with maybe religion and now his natural desires are kicking in. Plus society trains boys like girls with all these stupid movements and agitations against masculinity. Plus it's not just a male thing, females too have their piece of the stupid pie. Now you just told him to stay away from sex. I think we can see where all the emasculation comes from. It comes from females (men without balls are females too BTW).

What is wrong with the men of this generation?

You're Bleep!ng 22 man! You were too anxious to f.uck that girl, now you
wish you had done it. You're supposed to be concerned with improving
your personality and becoming autonomous.

Look, you're human. Even the angels that fell from heaven had sex. You're
thinking about an ordinary make out. You need to embrace your biology as
a man and be sexual. Sexual repression is your problem now. Call that girl
back and fucc her.

See, you should probably be dead by now from sin and immorality but you're
not. Why? Because it's supposed to shape you into becoming a better human.
You can't be saintly without having the experiences of sinners. You have to know
why sin is called sin.

Kobojunkie:

Wiser? According to a report I read not too long ago, wisdom is something we have not gotten more of in the last 150 years. People aren't wiser..

True!

Are you teaching seduction? I'm very interested in being a seducer, one with so much sexual vibration.

Many things are wrong with our style of parenting. But it's not about the style of parenting but the quality of parents, many parents carry their own insecurities and peer influences as a model for their own children(this is why you have a so called "style" of parenting). Everyone is reading medicine, my child will be a doctor. At a young age, they plant seeds of insecurity in the minds of the children.

Another part is their immature outlook on life. Our philosophy as a nation is one that is too focused on religion and pseudo-spirituality. We have the idea that whatever we are facing, "God will handle it" and "it's our village people's work". We don't take responsibility for our lives and control the things we can. Parents are fucgked! But I must say, it's a worldwide thing. As long as you're human, you don't have sense basically. You're in the world to acquire sense. But many parents are still oblivious to many things.

When was the last time you heard a father teach his son about money or sex or life or something? It's rare because they don't know anything about it. If they do, they teach you the wrong lessons.

It's more about the individual than his parents. Your parents only brought you to the world, how you end up is your responsibility not theirs. But you're free to blame them for the dipshit you are-if it makes you feel any better.

We are going higher someday.

Although I'm not a user but I'm here to support.

900winer:

But that won't stop herders and farmers clashes.

Solutions to problems like these are long term. I see this as a solution that averts bloodshed and hostility towards any sect. If not, military intervention solves the problem at once but it's not a step the government is willing to take so why not try the other subtle but effective means?

900winer:

Yes the idea of ranch is good but the herdmens will not accept it.

It's not about acceptance. They'll slowly go out business if there are enough ranches in the nation. They'll obviously not oblige to working in a ranch themselves but if their means of livelihood becomes threatened, they might come to a compromise. But it's not about them basically, if we rear cattle and every state in the country has ranches of their own, preference will be given to state produced meat and diary products rather than the patronage of herders.

900winer:
Herdmen is the only challenge farmers face in Nigeria.

This is more than what farmers face, in fact it terrorism masked behind Nomadic culture. What do you think about the idea of a ranch instaed of open grazing as we have it now?

Agriculture happens to be the base of all human activitiy. No human civilization would stay alive if there was no form of agriculture. This leads me to ask Nigerian farmers and everyone who is actively practicing some form of agriculture;

"What are the challenges you face with agriculture in Nigeria?"

I'd know if I were into agriculture but as it is, many Nigerians like myself are unaware of what goes on in your world. I'd like to know what your challenges are and if it's possible to think out a solution through mobile software and computer science.

sharone21:


Then bear a bit longer naw.....if she gives birth similar time gap or more till she HEALS whether she gives birth naturally or otherwise....
Remember baby must be breastfed and she would want to be on drug to prevent unwanted early pregnancy and this may not be too good for baby feeding on breast. Sacrifice\ self denial is what makes many women praise their hubby.

Many men behave as if when they leave this world they won't be able to cope without sex.

Sex is the chain that binds men and tames them. If a man can think logically enough, he'll know how much power that's been taken from him by his wanton desire for sex. Testosterone *smh*

wany:


Hahahaha cave man rant.how many ladies do you see getting married from their father's house,go check 80% are living free and nice in their own creep.so which papa house are you sending her to.except na secondary school girl. While you will are flirting in her absent ,she will equally be doing same, abi you Don forget say Facebook, badoo ,exotiicnigeria and the likes full ground.ogbeni sitt down and communicate with your wife ,this is not the 90s but the melinium ,women are different

In other words, you support her actions. "Send her packing", it's more figurative than literal(who cares where she's going?). She obviously has enough money for herself and someone she's already having sex with outside her marriage. She's only waiting for our man to call off the wedding.

No matter how independent women get, they'll never be known to take responsibility and blame for their actions. She has successfully emasculated our brother by withdrawing sex and care. When she once showed altruism to him. It's a women's classic. I wouldn't be surprised why he has not called off the wedding, he probably spent a of money for the wedding, given up many things and concentrate on being a married man-something he should have never done.

It's quite obvious you can't spell correctly, I hope you can read what I wrote. If all independent women spelled their words this way, I fear how much independence they'll have had.

At the moment, it might seem a little less obvious that we are losing the number of native speakers of our various languages. You might not observe this but it's true. The idea of passing down the language causes it to lose it's essence over time. That said, one may argue that we don't really need tribal languages since we have English to communicate with. But I'm more interested in the promotion and preservation of our histories as Africans. The aesthetic appeal of our various tribes, their art, their myths, their legends et cetera. As it is, history is not taught in elementary schools or secondary schools save for the students who learn history, linguistics and related topics in colleges. I was trying to think of a software project for myself earlier today and I it crossed my mind to build a mobile app that can help anyone learn their tribal languages and stuff. But more importantly, I'm asking you the question; "How can we preserve our tribal languages and history?"

@joeblack62

"When she replies, what next?".

You are so sure she will reply. What if she doesn't?
This would probably shatter any momentum you have built in your hopes for a reply from this girl. That's not how you handle women and human beings. You're already handing power to the girl by anticipating a reply. If she notices desperation in your text, forget it.
Regarding your question, if she replies;

Her: Lol. Thanks.

What will you do with this reply?
Not much.

OR

Her: Lol, that's not true.

You: That's true, I have more curves than you do blah blah..

This reply comes if she's trying to just continue the conversation.

Now, if I'm texting a girl for the first time, I'll probably pull a topic from the conversation I had with her earlier OR if I got the number from someone (which I hardly do), I'll just say 'hola''. I mean, are they even worth racking my brain? I prefer a call or real life conversation.

OR

You just text her saying:

1."Found her!"

2."Make it or break it question; Matte black or satin?"/"taupe or mauve?"/"Peruvian or Brazilian?"
Whatever she says, tell her the relationship is not going to work anymore.(Please roll with a girl that knows these things).
If she asks who you are, tell her, your marriage is next week and you need to shop for that thing. Don't answer her question yet. Make her guess.

Just have fun man, she's unimportant.

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A literal long story.
*yawns*

Constantly tell yourself you're a particular way, watch yourself become that way.
It's a mental construct you have carved for yourself and your neural networks keep affirming
your beliefs. What can you do?


I don't know.


Too much advice doesn't help. Everyone holds the answer to their problems (apart from math
homework). NL happens to be a classroom where everyone holds an authority in the course.


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It's simple.
Let's go down memory lane for 10 seconds shall we?

You're a 4, maybe 5 year old boy, all you want to do is play, run around, cause as much trouble
as you want, build sand castles and igloos, destroy stuffed animals here and there. However,
your friend who is about the same age as you are is playing with her Barbie doll and having a
tea party. WTF? How is that even fun? Yet she seems to be having fun in her own way.

Girls are hardwired to care for things, becoming emotional about things. 'Bad Boys' or what you
call them are like this 4 year old, they live with reckless abandon, they don't care about anything.
It's like some ying-yang thing you know.

Another angle is, as a 'bad boy'(I f.cking hate using this word BTW), you are unattainable. Humans
want what they can't get. She knows you have tons of women to pick from(reflecting from your behaviour)
and for some reason, she's trying to own you(because she likes you) this inturn causes her to justify your
actions hoping you'll change for the better. Just like when you like a girl and you can't see the flaws in her?
Something like that? You'll get the point.




















Read this too, it's unimportant.

KingZaddy:
Rafoski

i would like to know why you hate my moniker.



to your question on getting her to visit, well, some guys get cunning with askin a girl to come and help them cook one thing or the other, i know a couple of girls who know that cliche and wouldnt fall for it.

but here is something a woman cant resist and that is VALUE.

when building attraction with a woman establish value along side... girls ask me when will i take them to my house.

if you get her attracted she would request coming but if that doesnt happen then you can use a hang out line "you know, i have this tradition of having a light home feast every third friday with me, myself and i, i have refused to allow any lady join despite their requesting but luckily for you, i want you to join me this friday"

I get this part clearly-VALUE.
How do I build value?
Usually I think I'm already valuable for making women feel good emotions
and making them feel like they're in a James Bond movie.

About your moniker, 'KingZaddy", it's just my nature to revolt against Kings and Fathers in general.lol.
I don't care who the king is.
But, I make the exception here for the sake of knowledge.

KingZaddy:
Rafoski

To your second question, in short term sexual relationship, money can do that since its short term and nothing serious.


friends with benefit? well, you will have to start by mixing friendship with sexual talks, act like a boyfriend and a friend, mix it up. the way you touch and hold her.

but you will need to build a close friendship with her and make her feel comfortable relaxin in your arms despite being friends, this is the point where you tease her with naughty and funny boyfriend lines, for example if a regular guy is talking to her you walk up to them and tease "so you are the guy that wants to steal my babe abi", keep her in the friendzone, when you walk on the road put your hand over her shoulder, hold her hand, snick up from behind and kiss her cheek.

Well, I have tried the latter and I hate it when girls start feeling the relationship vibe
and call you sweetheart the next morning. After statements like these, I keep my
distance long enough to douse attraction (rather than dousing it by being readily available)
I can achieve this with any girl but I don't want anybody to start feeling warm-it gets out
of hand most times.

About the short term part, I like the heat of the moment-money almost can't get you that.
What I want to know is how you get them to trust you enough for sex without those
societal pressures of being labelled a ho.(like meet and Bleep immediately?)

You want to be interesting.
Humans are interested in what they cannot predict.

If you raise the fence of a building so high, you also
raise the curiousity of the passersby.

You're a female, you need to allow yourself be one.
(I don't mean Barbie)
Let me explain.

The Female is an amazing creature, one of sophistication,
of elegance and grace with every movement she takes.
A female is not predictable, it's her nature. This makes her
interesting.

Plus, the energy you put out doesn't exactly say you're an elegant
female. You already put your vibrations down with your own hand.

I could give you a litany of things to do to make you interesting but I
must tell you the basics of an amazing personality.(female)

Confidence.
Elegance.
Sense of humor and good wit.
Androgyny

These skirt-chasing streetboys will not approach you if you are a female
(You won't belong to their league)
I mean like Adichie Chimamanda or some other person.

Bottom line is, raise your energy and personality by yourself. You're responsible for how you are perceived.
Lastly, don't give a fuc.k (except literally) just be happy, f.uck societal demands for once

@KingZaddy
Although I hate to call you by your moniker but for the sake of the thread, I will.

I like this thread BTW and I was going to ask how you get a girl to come over?
I usually don't invite every girl I meet-not everyone deserves my genetic material.
But if I do, I use something silly(I once asked a girl to help me boil water.lol) just
so there's an excuse that she can use for coming but I still need help in this area.

Plus, when a girl asks if I have a roommate, I usually answer in the affirmative, but
not without her working for the answer. I don't like to lie about this about this.

My second question is how do you get short term sexual relationships from a woman?
Friends for Benefits situations? What do you spell in times like this?

Kimsokrates:
Why will she finally break free from the confines of being a sixteen year old?

She's going to be 16 forever.

Harddon sir,
I have a question to ask. I don't know if you have tackled this question before but I'll need help with girls in a group. The beautiful ones are not always alone most times. How do I handle such?





Before you anwer tho, I have failed at it before.
I and my guy went to the mall. After he dampened my enthusiasm, I still went to talk to the girl. She was with two other girls. One was older, the other younger. Outside the mall, the convo went like this;

Me: Hello, my friend and I(pointing to my friend-but the stupid ass niggà was walking away from my finger direction) are in a little banter about how women see more colours than guys.

She: Okay?


Me: So I came to ask, how many shades of black are there?


She: I'm not sure there are. Black is black I guess?


Me: Well, I'm asking becausee....(still talking)


Her older friend sucks teeth like mstcheeew and boards a cab.. cuts in and says; "Let's go"


She: I have to go. Sorry.


Me: ..... ..... . .


since then, I have fear of approaching groups.






I learnt from The Game, you talk to the obstacle first and et.c




But I need help with this tho!

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Harddon

Is there any way to get the whole drills complete cos it’s very disorganized on this thread .. I mean I want to read it completely from drill one up till drill 22 ... and I’m looking for where you laid down the steps when it’s time to get down with the lady .. I mean you finally got her in your room or wherever.. how do you get down with her like a pro

Hola, there's the blog that is more organized but I don't think much has been discussed there. datingdrill.com

midehill:


I quess u r a gay

I think what you mean is "I'm not a he-goat like yourself". I am scared that when you lower your guard, she'll hold your balls. Thereby making you another puppet.

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Minemrys:

lol @ the pun. I don't see how warner can regain the faith of the fand0m on the dceu again. Infinity war made sure that will never happen. Maybe they should cancel the whole thing.

Lol..They should just stick to making cartoons..