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how terrible is the abuse and how extreme is his anger?
it depends on you to decide if you can wait till 12weeks or leave now as you know the severity of your situation.
if you leave now, you can decide to get him to pay child support through the welfare office while you also look for something doing either a biz or a job .
if you wait till you get to Canada it will be better off since he won't lay his hands on you again.

buknija:
my dear husbands and wives in the house, there is a matter that bothers the most in my family, which is a major cause of concern to me the most. My wife is a care free and no cautious woman when it comes to the kids. Security wise, she has zero concern, she blvs she can trust anybody. I dont want to say much, its been going on for years in different forms, leave kids in the house with worker or house maid, the recent one is my daughter told me today that when they went out yesterday, after trimming low her hair cut, her barber had asked for a lift to 7up which is way far from and not in no way a route to home. She said she branched to get food at a restaurant and left she and her little brother in the car with the barber. That she wanted to let me know because she was aware of the fact that mummy should not leave us with strangers. I spoke to her of this and she got on the defensive. Dear fathers, how would you have handled this situation, because my asking her this now turned out to be that i am thinking otherwise about she and the barber, leaving the major issue of security which was what my worry was about.

the way your daughter reported her mum to you tho., hope you don't talk down on your wife in the presence of your kids.

since you've talked and she's not listening, you have to start over protecting your kids by yourself. you can restrict her from taking the kids out as much as you can.make decisions that doesn't expose your kids unnecessarily to strangers and stick to it

you should also teach your daughter since she's old enough things she should know and do when situations arises.

hopefully your wife will take note and come to the same page with you

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol.

You may be wrong, though.
I think an older one will treat you well than these younger bobos, but well, what do I know?

well, different strokes...........,

asides money to throw around,I don't fancy them for a relationship

prefer young romantic and energetic

not more than 7years Biko

someone within my age bracket will be more relatable and fun-filled so we can cruise together

need no old granny army man ordering me around

Sweetpink:
Whether It’s on Dstv, GoTv, StarTimes, YouTube, Twitter, Instagram, SnapChat, TikTok, NTA or even FM

You’ve got to admit it takes a certain level of gravitas and clout to attempt this, especially so early in her career.

Congrats & Best wishes Tacha.

you forgot to add WhatsApp

free your mind and you will meet the right guy for you.

sometimes,we find love in unthinkable places,so always keep your mind open.that you are on your own now doesn't necessarily mean that guys will start flocking around you immediately.it takes time and patience and you will get to pick the right one for you.

for now, just break up with this one. yours will definitely find you

See them bunch of confused human beings.

Same ones that have been singing on this section that women should be housewives or better off with a wifely suitable job now talking of shared financial responsibility

Take them serious at your own peril

This one tie wrapper come pim for ground.

No be small something

Something bigger is coming this February just for us to see Instagram show

She talks too much haba

Rubbish! let's hear from the woman first
I wonder how it's your problem. you even had to put the kids names and their classes here respect people's privacy

the show is even on Instagram abi YouTube
mtcccheew
I even pitied her small and upgraded her to mytv
that one no follow nah


meanwhile, couldn't she have used anyother name asides 'keeping up with'' that belongs to our dear Kim k

wanna be copy copy

Chaii, because we were looking forward to mercy being on screen this February this one too started her own
Copy cat award of the millennium goes to her
She should better not air it on DStv
We are occupied already come next week Sunday
She should go to mytv , that one is for secondary School children and her foolish Titans

Copy and paste human being

bnmbv:
You miss the point. I left out other danming things I could have said. Am I the one also responsible for the zero relationship between her family and her self. Am I the one responsible for her not able to have at least one single good friend ?

her relationship between her and her family shouldn't be your problem and that of her friends either.
you can't judge her because you don't know the actual details of what happened asides hearsay

concentrate on the relationship between you two and your kids.

It seems she has fallen out of love with you.maybe there are things that must have happened for it to get to this stage.

What I don't understand tho is the reason she would treat her kids that way too.
If you go ahead with the divorce, will the kids stay with you or with her? your youngest child is 7 and would still need motherly care which she is not even giving in the first place.

Call her,sit her down and have a lengthy discussion with her on the way to go. If she agrees to a divorce or separation first then fine but she should know that you are fed up with the marriage already and want nothing but happiness and peace which the marriage is not giving you.

Oh Perri!!
She has joined in getting the bags too
Good luck to her
The evablazing Edwards

Mercy is coming to imsu

Awww.... wish I am any where close to owerri

We love you Lamborghini mercy

DownChelsea:
why are you doing this to tarshar fans? You wicked o

Oh my Mike!

Manlikemike

I don't regret stannin you

Budweiser &Mike

DStv & Mike

Rope is very cheap in the market tho for haters

Keep winning Mike

Notasaints:
You are pathetic

don't tell me that drop your own opinion and move on

I think if he turns out to become a monster and hits me __in other words_domestic violence

how come that your sister that duped you of your money didn't make you have suicidal thoughts,is rather your wife's actions that is making you suicidal. your sister duped you knowing fully well you have three kids to take of under this harsh economy
you comfortably skipped the way your sister's actions caused you a lot of pain and rather focused on your wife's shortcomings knowing fully well she was not aware you no longer have a job and you kept on deceiving her to make her think otherwise
there's no way she can turn your kids against you in such a short period of time.be sincere to yourself you were not close to your kids from the onset.

channel your anger to your sister biko or you go get another job

Gbegirisouppp:
Mike Olayemi Edwards taking over the billboards.


You will now see him everywhere you go!!

MTN need to endorse him ASAP!

and they said he's not doing well
bad Belle people
seeing is believing
manlikemike

kodix:
Why is that people actually cause troubles for themselves,man you are very silly.you walked up to this lady and toss her and she told you where she lives and work which you know it will not be easy for her to relocate and you went on dating her! When she started having feelings for you hoping on settling down with you, thats when out of your selfish reasons came to nairaland to seek advice,what stops you from leaving at first tym, nonsense.Abeg no go carry your wahala go disturb that lady, better leave her alone,AlmightyGod will later provide best husband for her if it is that she is destined to marry, go and find yamayama girl that live in your location.nonsense,!

Exactly!

Gbegirisoupp:
ManLikeMike.
Zero noise but loud effect.
Mike keeps bagging the classy bags!
Kai!
I restan jor!

Congrats Mikey!

manlikemymike they've got to believe

Gbegirisoupp:
Good morning people!
Let's ride and grind!

wow!! mercy is the bomb
no wonder haters cry uncontrollably

prayed that my stolen phone would be returned back to me
prayed that I would stop having painful menstrual cramps
prayed and hoped to become an extrovert overnight wished all was answered back then tho

Sweetpink:
This bitterness and frustration is too much for you to handle.
Oya kee yo sef

Hahahaha... indirectly telling me how she feels
Kpele

I said it..I'm not surprised at all
Okrika collections, crashed site, copy and paste, cheap and low quality,
It can only come from one person
Her fans keeps getting dumb
I'M tired fa
Waiting for February 9th

We4all:
Like I said before:"Learn to understand first before commenting. I wasn't talking about 'babies', but a particular 'baby' who is old enough to take cereals.

Yes, orphaned babies may be used to feeding from a bottle, and I'm saying that no baby will die if he/she doesn't get breastfed for a few hours.

Mothers should learn to practice both breast and bottle feeding, so babies can easily adopt to them in case of emergencies. Parenting encompasses a whole lot, and a mother who can't improvise isn't ready to be a mother yet.

ok I'm done
keep being ignorant

rationalmind:
Well said. That guy is not only arrogant but extremely ignorant.

Besides, what's his business with someone who decides to expose her breast while breast feeding? It's her body, her breast and her child. How she decides to feed the child is her business.

exactly

rationalmind:
Well said. That guy is not only arrogant but extremely ignorant.

Besides, what's his business with someone who decides to expose her breast while breast feeding? It's her body, her breast and her child. How she decides to feed the child is her business.

exactly

please stay with them, it's just a matter of days and the ceremony will be over.if they hear that you stayed in a hotel they will likely misinterpret the whole thing which might create more problems for you in future