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But why would someone be squatting in someone else's house and have the conscience to be bringing his own guests anyhow? Smh. That's bad house guest etiquette.
I am accommodating you. I will still accommodate your friends and their girlfriends.
Even his family won't take it but it would have been wiser for his own brother to help him go away Or he goes away on his own.

You are very lucky she didn't die. Now you know your wife is seriously emotional and not the tough -words-cant -hurt-me kind of lady. Pls handle her softly and with wisdom henceforth. When angry, instead of shouting and raising hell, try talking to her in gentle but firm tones .This will appeal to her heart more and make her want to please you. Harsh words don't change or touch some people's hearts. People like me. It just makes the recipient to resent and sometimes fear the one spitting out the harsh words.
When I was a child/adolescent, I preferred to be flogged than being talked to harshly or criticized non-stop. Talk and stop or you beat me. Let the matter end. I understand your wife though she went too too far. Pls handle her gently till she is stable and doesn't think suicidal thoughts again as an option when she is down. She is not abnormal . Just going through a lot of emotional despair. Oga, change approach. Love her, show her you love her despite her flaws in money management. I am sure she has other strengths. Encourage her.

Weak defence.
Give it up, madam clique. @Zaynie.
She didn't call your name. You just felt very important that you had to answer. Abegii. Make we hear word. Dont bother replying. Going to sleep.
*goes back to peeping mode

ReneeNuttall:
Ywc,if she goes ahead and do what her husbands says,the whole blame will still fall on her.After all blood is always thicker than water.

You've hit the nail on the head. A spouse may be divorced but blood relatives will remain. Use wisdom my dear. Your husband seems like someone that may not be able to stand when push comes to shove. So thread carefully. He is actually the one that is supposed to handle his people. Sometimes, by his mere showing them how much he loves you..., they will advise themselves cos they know he loves his wife and will defend her.
The way one treats his spouse outside is the way people will treat that spouse too. Same applies to treating your relatives the way you want your spouse to treat them.

ifyalways:
Thank you. Working out (long walks especially) eating right(no eating after 6pm, less carb, more protein and veggies) , living right (I no dey joke with my owambe, local and foreign vacations, taking myself out, drink good wine occasionally, taking life easy and jeje) and working hard (lagos hustle no be here o) over the years has been my secret.

Thank you Sophie 11

No wonder. You can compete with us with this kind of body o. Keep it up , ma.

Liftedhands and her food that will be making someone to salivate. Hian

Ifyalways , you are so fit. Grandmum wey no gree old You go dey do your children jealousy bronzer!
Wey Bronzer enter na? Make una no mind me. I admit say I like trouble.
*runs away from incoming blows

Thank God it was only fainting. See wickedness.

Why should an adult be beating up another adult? His wife for that matter. Is she a child? Use other means to pass your message across.

Oga, man up. What nonsense is all these?

I enjoyed the atmosphere here today. Pictures to feed my eyes.

pweetymii:
no now....where is your humourous spirit?she was only campaigning and we saw the joke innit....

Yes dear I saw the joke in it too till I didn't see the joke anymore
Anyway, make she carry her China cup drink tea sleep well this night cos she truly 'worked hard'
I hope she learns sha.

Omojudy , if I were a judge, based on character I will disqualify you

Loisemm:
...I no kom competition today o with my no make up house pishure. I kom show face. Lolz. My own time don expire to show face so pix taken down. Luv you all. I love how our thread ran today. I love the jovial spirit today. God bless us.

If you are that pretty without make-up, then how will you now look with make-up on?
We TTC mummies are so on point o.

Liftedhands:
Nne Na only one more(a girl in particular) I need! I know how e be me weh make me talk so. Papa God sef will not give me more than I can cope with He knows my capabilities and capacity.

I'll ask Him to give another mama any additional He may have for me.

God bless you.

Oh alright mama. From your mouth to God's ears. May He answer our prayers.

Anugod , nawa o. Its like we are cut from the same cloth. I don't mind some weekend drama It makes the thread more interesting. Is that not when you will see 20plus mamas viewing and following drama?
Last last, we go throw cold water resolve am.
*evil grin too
Ebonychic18 always 'spoiling' show with too early peacemaking Hian. lolz

Liftedhands:
One please! I'm very OK with one more you know I'm not greedy lolz Amen and amen.

Sister, Pls just try and keep an open mind to receive. Some of us should have passed this choosy stage.

Congrats to new Mothers. Happy bumping to others.

Charity begins at home. Good work though.

Phlakkeys , accept my condolences. Its hard for any mother to accept that God knows best in this kind of situation but take heart and take care because you will surely have the last laugh.

Darling Benignasweety and Mbula , I haff hear. I am not quarrelsome but I don't like seeing others trying to intimidate or cheat people. That's why it seems I jump into issues from my observation corner. My bad. I think I should have become a lawyer to fight for people. lolz. I accept the native soup
Lemme come and be going.

Naomi14:
Wow wow it got to that extent I sighted a particular moniker that only shows up when there is a quarrel to fuel things up

Yimu
We know you are just an attention seeker. Anytime the lights are not on you, you begin to squirm. You have not recovered abi from the last word I gave you here.

Coldfeet:
Sleep in pieces​ sassyangel and raincolour! It's nearing midnight and ive got to fly

Back to sender. I cover myself with the Blood.

Coldfeet:
madam oga is on the bed waiting for you his sperm tonight may be the ticket you've been waiting for! Don't waste it doing aproko. May God grant you your heart desire on yourself.

There you go again with your foolish memes
When will you outgrow this childish attitude? I've been enjoying your drama today though Drama queen.

Seriously, coldfeet just accept that you've met your match today and back down like a lady. You usually like using foolish memes to abuse and bully people you disagree with but you didn't know sassyangel1 is a badass mouthed mama. Lmao. You forgot she gave it very hot to one hubby that was maltreating his wife who just gave birth here. She didn't let that man rest with calculated mouthed words.
My dear, go and rest. For once, accept you can't always have the last word. See a mature woman dropping email and full name on a public forum for an imaginary fight. What a pity.
Sassyangel1 , u too no suppose come down to her level. You fall our hand. Abeg ignore the woman.

Coldfeet:
If a child injures yours wouldn't it be sensible to ask the parents to foot the medical bill? Or you are so sadistic that you prefer the child is beaten instead? An eye for an eye I see.

Should it even get to this stage? No spoilt child should injure my child
Medical bill my foot. Train ur child not to injure or bully others please. I won't hear 'sorry I will pay medical bill'. I am not broke or destitute, madam. Hold your child well.

Nawa o. This small girl obviously wasn't aware that some polygamists hardly provide for their wives and kids. That's why they marry business or working class women who will take care of themselves and their kids. Women entering polygamy enter with reasons best known to them.

Naomi14:
Shey you see why I say she for no mention her ex-hubby name for her post most mamas thought am being mean

I actually cringed at the way u ordered her not to derail the thread again. You forgot its God that keeps marriages even yours. And like someone mentioned, she just lost a baby then...

This is one downside of being a widow. The woman can not drink water and drop the cup in peace. If its a man now, 1year after his wife's death...its these same people that will start pressuring him to re-marry! And of course, it's that same bed and house the new wife will sleep in. Some will even be bringing in women before re-marrying. Now, grandma is ostracised for having sex because she is 70 and a widow. Life!

Anugod:
Of course, yeast is alive. If it were dead or inactive, it wouldn't have produced this result. Yeast needs to be alive and at active temperature in order to 'prove' or 'raise' the dough. That's before the heat from your boiling oil kills it sha.

You are scaring me

Kellibae:
My dear i tire for them.
Anyone marryin yoruba is making a big mistakr.

TUFIAKWA!!.

You are terribly tribalistic and it stinks. Only local people think like you. Shior.
Pls go back and dwell in your village so you won't interact and benefit from other tribes. You think wealthy people who impact their society keep only friends from their tribe?! Bush woman.

Did you say 3weeks overdue? Abeg oo. Start doing all you can to go into labour. Eat foods or drinks for that like excess zobo, pineapple, bitterleaf etc. Induction and CS are options too. Better CS with a live baby than stories that touch which will not be your portion.
God give you safe delivery with joy at the end. Remember to pray too and try not to be too anxious. You shall come out with good news.

Double post

Just be yourself but be nice, friendly and welcoming. No need for over sabi or over familiarity. Follow ur Hubby's cue. You can even ask him if he minds you being in close contact with so so and so. For me, hubby doesn't mind me being close with his immediate family members but has asked me to limit contact with his extended family members. His reason is that he doesn't want them knowing too much about us through me as he feels women are more vulnerable. Na so I respect myself. lolz.

smithsydny:
Guys make unah check well.. Most women today who has not giving birth in years don't be surprised they are guilty of this and so many are reaping it today.. And u see them going from church to church. I only pity us men.. That fall into this Jezebel of women. May God not allow them come our way..

I don't want you to run with this mentality. When you marry, marry a lady you can trust. Some women are innocently trying to conceive. They didn't do abortions, didn't throw their babies away, some even married as virgins. But they are still waiting. While some that were loose have excess children today and family planning is failing them. That's life.