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NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Rakash(f): 10:57pm On Jul 18, 2018
[quote author=sheyizy1 post=69505693][/quote] thanks so much pls i cant see it clearly pls are u on any social media aside this so that i can get it via that means.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by Rakash(f): 6:48pm On Jul 18, 2018
collinoblaze:


Hit me up on whatsapp I'll send it to you there
what is your whatsapp number
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by Rakash(f): 11:47am On Jul 17, 2018
Please who has an idea of the timetable inside the nysc orientation camp or camps, by timetable i mean- Wake Up Time, Bath Time, Morning Parade Time, Breakfast Time etc. Thanks
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Rakash(f): 11:46am On Jul 17, 2018
Please who has an idea of the timetable inside the nysc orientation camp or camps, by timetable i mean- Wake Up Time, Bath Time, Morning Parade Time, Breakfast Time etc. Thanks
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch B Corps Members Thread by Rakash(f): 11:45am On Jul 17, 2018
Please who has an idea of the timetable inside the nysc orientation camp or camps, by timetable i mean- Wake Up Time, Bath Time, Morning Parade Time, Breakfast Time etc. Thanks
Religion / Re: 'Laughing' Church Banner In Calabar By Believers' Right Ministry (Photo) by Rakash(f): 10:00pm On Jul 16, 2018
Girlsavage:
This has Got to be the Most Hilarious Church Banner i have seen, Chai..lol... The post was spotted somewhere in Calabar.. see few reaction i grabbed below!


From Ebiwali---
http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/07/see-church-banner-spotted-in-calabar.html




that church is on my street few step from my house.
Family / Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Rakash(f): 11:29pm On Jul 14, 2018
LewsTherin:


Ok, got that.

Now like I said, normally, I am all for playing the fool in a relationship but your husband has set a bad precedent. First, he changed a joint agreement meant for your joint family in favour of his own family. Then he kicked you out of his house (as he thought it was). Then he insists you use your share of a joint decision, a decision that he reneged on, for his own benefit. Insisted on that twice ie before he knew it was in yiur name and after he knew it was in your name.

That is not good. Basically he has shown he is willing to abandon you and your kids if he “feels” like it. Sweetheart, no offense intended, but you don't have a good husband.

My advice to you and those in similar straits is
First, pray for your husband. Pray for God to change his person, to change his ways. If he claims to be a Christian, he sure as heck isn't showing Christ-like characters

Plan for your kids. Not to the exemption of your husband, but until he shows he can be different, plan to be able to live without him for your kids. I didn't say leave him. I said to be able to live without him. Different things.

Like you have been adviced, get an independent third party to mediate and see how that goes. I understand why you don't want to let your family know but it is dicey if they don't especially as he has involved his family from the beginning. I don't agree, but I understand. Maybe a compromise will be to tell your dad. Not your mum, not your sisters. Women by nature are very emotional and they can let their emotions overwhelm them. Tell your dad in confidence and ask him to keep it that way.

Finally, under no circumstances whatsoever should you add his name to that document. In mediations, the best you should do is to place the property in a trust for your children. Children! Not you, not him, not Mr and Mrs. Put it in the names of ALL your kids with a caveat that it cannot be sold by any one until all kids are above 18 years old.

Most of all, seek mediation and pray a lot for him.

My own advice.
HEseesall this is the best advice so ever. learn to stand on your feet and do what is right, the honest truth is that your pastor, father, mother, his father, or his mother wont always be there with you forever especially when things go wrong and he eventually pushes u away after u have changed it to his name. the honest truth is that ego or not, that man doesnt mean well for u. suggest u change it to his children name as this person up said, if he doesnt agree to it then i am sorry prepare ur mind for a divorce. trust me when your children grow older, they would understand why you made that decision. please be careful and wise.

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Crime / Re: Armed Robbers In Delta Tie Dog For Barking As They Tried Robbing (pics by Rakash(f): 10:21pm On Jul 09, 2018
meobizy:
How is it that armed robbers are able to make a quick example of ruthless dogs?
In my area my neighbours had a huge dog which terrorized the neighbourhood. It's bark always scared children and adults alike. No one dared to enter their house uninvited and strangers always made sure one of the family members escorted them inside the compound.

One fateful night armed robbers raided our street. The dog kept barking as a warning to the would be intruders. The robbers, numbering over 40 of them, stormed into the house at the same time via climbing the fence. Come see confusion na, the dog didn't know who to attack and kept barking only to see the strangers inch closer with every intimidating bark.

Na so the dog pick race go hide under motor. The already enraged robbers pulled the dog out and designed its body with machete strikes. The next day the injured animal was a shell of its former self. It didn't make it to the end of the week.

R.I.P. Bingo. You were a terror but didn't know levels pass levels.
is it just me that noticed you were actually part of those robbers that night.

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Romance / Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Rakash(f): 4:31pm On Jun 17, 2018
chloride6:
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So she found a husband and planned her wedding between June 2 and now?

Nawa ooh
that is not what i am saying, yes she was mean and wicked but that doesnt change the fact that he also wasnt much of a good boyfriend to her.
Romance / Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Rakash(f): 3:55pm On Jun 17, 2018
drdaniels:
I'm finding it very difficult to type right now because I just discovered my fiancee just got married today.

My sister got married on June 2nd and my girl was supposed to make up for the bride but she gave a silly excuse not to attend despite that I already bought thesame native attire for her and myself for the event.

Every member of my family were asking me why she didn't come but I tried to cover her up not knowing she had other plans. I wasn't happy with her because of her absence and attitude, so I didn't call her since then only to get the shocker this evening
God knows I really wanted to marry her
Guy i am sorry about what happened to you but the honest truth is that you got beaten to your own game, so because your girlfriend did not come around to make your sister up as planned you didnt call her till now, that shows exactly the type of boyfriend you have been to her all this while, you couldnt even call her to find out what really went wrong. i guess she saw that you were not a marriageable material or husband material so she had to zoom off. take heart better women are to come

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Celebrities / Re: Olakunle Churchill Responds To Zainab Rufai's Allegation by Rakash(f): 2:57pm On May 30, 2018
obrigado080:
What if they are lying?
Some women are evil liars.
Guy when we see a spade we should call it what it is, how come several women will lie on him with almost the same fault, each women that have been in his life complained about something similar

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Romance / Re: Guy Gets Engaged And He Discovered This!!!!!! by Rakash(f): 6:47pm On Feb 26, 2018
LukeSkywalker78:
OMG...... I'm in trouble.



I met this girl last year Feburary
..... She was every thing I wanted in a woman. I wooed her and she drew me into her Ken. My friends told me that I didn't stand a chance with her but I pushed on. I asked her to be my girlfriend and she agreed. When I asked her how her dating life has been.... She told me that she has been dating players all along and that now she just wants a nice and God fearing man that will love hom with all his heart and she's not sharing. I was happy and the relationship was going on smoothly. I proposed to her this January and she saod yes. We then got engaged this January. I wa so happy. She then started to pester me for sex but I'm the conservative kind but she kept pressuring me so I gave in. We had some preintimacy and when it got to the real deal...... I just inserted and I felt nothing...... I didn't enjoy our sex and then she told me that she had a borehole pussy and there is nothing I can do about it since we are now engaged so there is no going back.

I've just had sex three times in My life and I just don't want my marriage sex life to be boring. Please what do I do? Wedding plans are already in motion.
Guy i dont know what to believe, this post of meeting ur girlfriend Feb last year doesnt correspond with ur previous posts on Nairaland.
Romance / Re: My Wife Insecurity Will Soon Destroy Our Marriage by Rakash(f): 3:33pm On Feb 16, 2018
hmmm
Celebrities / Re: Harrysong Signs Lami Phillips To Alter Plate Music by Rakash(f): 9:55am On Feb 16, 2018
hmmm
Romance / Re: I Regretted My Last Relationship by Rakash(f): 7:48pm On Jan 31, 2018
cheesy had a stressful day but thank God the movie just started, oya were is my popcorn and chilled vitamilk. Op ride on jare.
Romance / Re: ! by Rakash(f): 4:32pm On Oct 29, 2017
undecided
Celebrities / Re: Actress Adunni Ade Expose Cleavage As She Rock New Hairstyle by Rakash(f): 10:52pm On Oct 27, 2017
buffalowings:
OK
Say no to bleaching
Guy abeg she is mix breed.....read about someone well before u open mouth
Romance / Re: Bobrisky Gang Invade Calabar Carnival Dry Run (Pics) by Rakash(f): 11:03am On Oct 27, 2017
swazpedro:
Where them imports this olaniyis from?
from the western part of Nigeria

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Education / Re: I Am Been Disturbed By A Guy Bearing Same Name As Mine For My WAEC Result by Rakash(f): 11:00am On Oct 27, 2017
Dawinlove:
A guy bearing same name as mine has been disturbing me for weeks now to help him with my waec result. The said person which I haven't met before but only on Facebook says he was told to ask anyone who has same name as his to help him with his waec result to make changes in his JAMB as regards his date of birth, explaining that an error was made and without the correction he wont be allowed for NYSC posting,he has NECO result but they are requesting for waec for the correction according to him.He said he does not have WAEC and needed someone with same name to assist him. I have given him series of advise but this same guy is begging and I can't release it.He even said he had no intention using my result and asked his mum to speak with me about the issue. The mistake was made during his Remedial days when applying for Jamb he said his initial date of birth on NECO was mistaken for another year and the two aren't corresponding. Please I need advise from you guys.
Am sorry but reading this ur post got me really angry, so angry than how i have felt in a very long while. You 100% stuupid.....why not carry all ur life and give him. block the motherfxxxker. but nevertheless u can listen to all his cries and that of his mum and give him ur result i would come visit u when u have been thrown into jail where you would receive sense. Didirin

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Family / Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Rakash(f): 8:29pm On Oct 24, 2017
wrongchoice:

are u saying that one should by force marry his or her first girlfriend just to avoid this kind woman?
Iam simply saying most times we guys tend to make mistakes while choosing women to spend the rest of our lives with, we always want to settle down wit the girl who has no fault, but we shud also know that something that seems too good isnt true. You said it urself that u had other people u loved but u chose her because she seemed better. Now u got more than u bargained for

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Family / Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Rakash(f): 11:00am On Oct 24, 2017
wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW


Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me
it is ur cross carry it, iam sure there was a girl in ur past u messed with her heart. probably because you offended her and she reacted and u had to dump her. na her swear dey work so. Take heart my brother
Education / Re: Uniabuja Economics Students Sign Out In Style, Storm Gwagwalada Major Road by Rakash(f): 3:02pm On Oct 22, 2017
lelvin:
It's not easy, after enough strike. Graduates of UniAbuja aka Strikers

BTW... Who's that fair slim girl? shocked
her name is favour, a model used to like her so much then in my finals, she was in 100l
Romance / Re: What Does It Mean When A Man Says, "Your Butt Is My Lust?" by Rakash(f): 1:29am On Mar 24, 2017
ShawttySoFyne:
you wanna know what's miserable?
look in the mirror
Your face like moulded eba
Babe show ur real pics na because for an expired amala we shud kno wat kinda soup to manage it with
Romance / Re: What Does It Mean When A Man Says, "Your Butt Is My Lust?" by Rakash(f): 1:27am On Mar 24, 2017
Behira:
ouch still beta dan urs that looks like an expired amala left under the rain tongue ........atleast God was sweet enof to hav calmed down and moulded my eba looking face while he forgot urs under the rain
Babe nice lips tho

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Romance / Re: What Does It Mean When A Man Says, "Your Butt Is My Lust?" by Rakash(f): 1:25am On Mar 24, 2017
Behira:
ouch still beta dan urs that looks like an expired amala left under the rain tongue ........atleast God was sweet enof to hav calmed down and moulded my eba looking face while he forgot urs under the rain
cheesy Babe are u a rapper, Jeez u gat great punch lines

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Celebrities / Re: Is This Suppose To Be A Pre-wedding Photo? by Rakash(f): 4:17pm On Oct 16, 2016
mordtonia:
Pre-knacking photo cheesy
cheesy I agree with u on this
Jokes Etc / Re: When Teacher Ask U To Define Goodluck And Badluck by Rakash(f): 5:07pm On Oct 08, 2016
Afriifa:
Goodluck is when Nigeria was ruled by the past administration and Badluck is the present administration
abi oh my brother

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Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe-gentry Expresses Undying Love For Husband As He Adds A Year by Rakash(f): 12:00pm On Oct 08, 2016
Those lips are to die for
Romance / Re: PHOTO: What Can You Say About The Inscription On This Boy's Tee Shirt? by Rakash(f): 11:44pm On Oct 07, 2016
cheesy Lol he really does look f#cked

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Politics / Re: Man Turns Into Cat After Spending Days In A Coffin (photo) by Rakash(f): 8:36pm On Oct 06, 2016
I doubt this

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