₦airaland Forum

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Bae first let me complement ur looks,u beautiful.
Secondly pls get feminism of ur mind its western idea nt gud for Nigerian ladies.Ask ur mom she will explain bera.
#winks.

I continue to say that the main reason why Buhari came to power was to help depopulate the south especially the s.s n s.e

I cant help but cry fowl.

So its no longer democracy but northocracy.
well Biafra is the surest answer.

uboma:
this revelation from the chairman of Innoson Motors has finally laid to rest the arguement that for now they are only into assemblying of vehicle parts and repairs. I have some fellows who had argued blindly in the past that Innoson Motors are into the production of vehicles 100% (building of car engines inclusive).

Dumb ass. No auto company manufacturers 100‰ of its vehicle parts but if it could manufacture up to 60% it can always source for the rest that is is what we call SOCIAL PRODUCTION.

0YorubaParapo0:
He mentioned tribalism which you hateful lots 'remember' when it comes to SW/Hausa/Fulanis not patronizing Innoson. However, you forget we're reluctant to purchase innoson because igbo's hatred for two giant tribes and the other waka waka tribe, plus the fact that most of the products you sale are fake or second hand. Imagine someone calling me 'xyz', yet he wants me to be his customer. I mad? Plus how many SErn leaders advertise/buy from the SW?

The fact that ure2 poor to buy new car doesn't mean ur kinsmen are not buying innoson.
desist from hate it eats u up gradually.

0YorubaParapo0:
You want the same Yorubas you hate and abuse all over Nigeria to patronize your business? Is that how business work?
You want them to patronize your product, you make them trust you. Your downfall is your pride and hatred for "ofemanus" and "gworo chewer".
I fault any Yoruba that patronizes innoson until things change. It's even better for the SW to have their own regional car manufacturer. Competition is better, no?

Easy! hate doesn't pay in fact it kills.

micky2004:
how can somebody dat committed suicide rest in peace?

Re u judging him now? re u God to decided?

How en de take remove all dis rags straf small gals

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nduchucks:
These people were not protesting. They were arrested for law breaking activities - they have no business taking the law in their own hands.

Allah u na kparawo. Gaskia

garfield16:
Let me tell you something about wars and riots, it's only poor men that suffer, which big man die for Biafra? You don see riot wey reach Ikoyi or V/I before? All these riots for America, you don see any for rich man area? Funny you should mention Syria because i actually met a Syrian who told me I shouldn't mind the news, that his family is safe in Syria and he goes and comes from Syria freely, obviously he is a well heeled Syrian.

I dont want a war and neither should you, if you haven't learnt anything about us Africans know this: everything is about a power grab amongst the elite, whether Ghana, Liberia, Uganda, South Africa, Nigeria or Biafra. The masses are simply pawns in a shift of power from one corrupt group to another and end game is the primitive acquisition of wealth.. I'm just saying that should you guys be stoopid enough to start one, it's the common man that will die needlessly, 99% of casuauties will be in Biafra and it wont affect people like me. These are facts so think twice before you start what you can't finish. People smarter than the people making noise (and actually trained in warfare) tried it in 1967 and failed.

Nigga ure not that type of a rich man if u were believe me you would not be talking shits with me.
Dnt quote me again

He couldn't bear the heat of the change he probably voted for.
Buhari why?
RIP bro

garfield16:
Bro if war breaks I check out and I don't need refugee status because I have 2nd passport. When everything finish we come and survey the land.and count casuality and see if my house is still standing. But you know war no dey touch rich man area.

I see all your families and relations do2 ba? And if i may ask were there no rich men in Syria?

garfield16:
Nobody is stopping you. I will be here in Yoruba land enjoying the peace if war breaks out. Remember between 1967 and 1970, if you lived in the Sw or the North, you won't know we were engaged in a war.


I have nothing to lose

1967-1970 is not now bro,many things has changed and can assure you that no part of Nigeria will enjoy real peace if there is civil war.
Quote me anywhere.

garfield16:
I have no problem with the Ibo man leaving, he brings nothing to the table I have said if before that but for Oil, Nigeria would have long discarded the Ibos. They are more trouble than they are worth. the food and meat i eat is not from Ibo land, the Oil we are talking about is not Ibo Oil and even then Oil has been nothing but a curse, SW was better off under Awolowo when we didn't have Oil. But the Ibo man should know that the powers that be (i.e core North) will not allow the Oil to leave without a fight. That theater of war will be Ibo land and that fight will claim lives, so they had better make sure they have the capacity to win the war or it will just be repeat of history where millions died for nothing.

Just Boko Haram the zoo could not defeat for years even till now.Mind u 1967 is not 2016 there has be a lot of changes(gun don cast).No one prays for war but "anuhu eji maka mgbagbu hara ogu"(u dnt run frm war because u will be killed) so let it come we can die for what our descendants will enjoy,we can die for dis cause.

Let it come.

I dont knw why igbos the most peaceful of all ethnic unit in Nigeria should be hated this Much.

kolaaderin:
Igbo succession is only driven by greed, check ur comment and see for urself how greedy ur race are!! Our oil our oil, what if u don't have such in ur land will u wanna still go.? No I guess

Yes we would still want to go because even till now Igbos are independent of government we are self determined and success propelled.
We wan go abeg. For me self i dnt care about the oil we jst need freedom from North and west oppression and marginalisation.

Imagine what the figure of SE or SS would have been if they had the same geographical size as NW or NE.



Proudly an Igbo boi.

if its not fast and cheap they bera 4gerrit

This people thinks they are dealing with Igbos buh unfortunately they are under developing themselves.
Northerners and conspiracy against ibos.

Who no go demand sex 4rm dis ur big nyash.

Dnt worry frm now onwards it will turn to ur annual prank.
mumu gal.

Onukwube!

Bae am sure u were one of the pple that voted for CHange xo why not back relax and enjoy it.

It will be a prayer answered
They should brake into fragments.
what do you expect from a party based on lies and propaganda.

Its really working out just as planned.
@dis stage buhari would give to what ever demands they make.

Their daughter can marry @d right age buh those of poor men will marry underaged.

Issorit

So thats why you have decided to be a greedy mofo

Buhari why