Politics › Re: Army Kills Boko Haram Members Who Attacked Soldiers In Borno. Graphic by Ralphdan(m): 8:43am On Mar 30, 2016 |
I sure say dem4 don pay una for this nairaland make una de carry dis propaganda for FG. |
Politics › Re: APC Wouldn’t Have Won Without Tinubu –Buhari by Ralphdan(m): 8:35am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Most def. How can the confused mofo had wonb by himself when he is so clueless today. All thanks an no thanks to Greedy Tinubu. |
Politics › Re: Monorail: Wike Is A Shameless Liar – Amaechi by Ralphdan(m): 8:30am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Amechi and his big mouth again. Spend such a huge amount in a no distanced mono rail.Money that could have been used to create plenty of jobs for the masses. #irrelevant projects. |
Politics › Re: Hypocrisy : Reno Omokri Blasts Buhari ( Screenshot) by Ralphdan(m): 8:24am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Buhari,i mean the president is a confused mofo. |
Politics › Re: Fayose Insults Sheikh Muhydeen Ajani-Bello, Islamic Cleric by Ralphdan(m): 8:20am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Religion and politics in Nigeria;A case study of Ekiti state.  |
Family › Re: Man Beaten For Peeping At Couple In Bed by Ralphdan(m): 9:39pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
ah konji  |
Celebrities › Re: Krystal Okeke Shows Love To Less Priviledged (Photos) by Ralphdan(m): 8:07pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Igbos making Nigeria proud since 1914 |
Politics › Re: Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu And Wife Blasted By Trolls [PICS] by Ralphdan(m): 11:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Xo Op u expect him to go and marry someone his size. He needs a small cali bae who can u knw......  |
Family › Re: Any Married Lady Who Never Had This Is As Good As unmarried. by Ralphdan(m): 9:01pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Toks2008: It is no longer news that tradition is the opium of the people and no one is contending that.
But when it comes to marriage,while some believe that without paying of bride price,the man can not be said to be married to a lady and some believe that without the white wedding,a marriage can not be said to have received GOD's blessings.
Well i'm not here to discus on that aspect of marriage and i had to drop this quick one as a result of the mentioned i got on a thread relating to this.
[size=13pt]I am not sorry to write this...
Any married lady who never had a legal wedding otherwise called Court or registry wedding is as good as single.Quote me anywhere in the world.[/size]
And this is very true for some reasons but i will mention a few.
1. He can not just wake up one day and say he does not like your face again and send you out of your matrimonial home. 2. He dares not marry another wife except he divorces you 3. He must have a valid reason for divorcing you and must be able to convince the court. 4. You have protection under the law for yourself and your child(ren) in case he dies
I can continue to list several other reasons but let me just stop here.If you like, say you trust your husband,he loves you,he can never treat you bad..O.Y.O lo wa.
If you like let the man spend 1billion on your traditional wedding and do a white,blue,green,indigo wedding with a trillion naira. The fact is that these two ceremonies combined with all the money spent is not as binding and constitutional as a simple court wedding with just 4 people in attendance.
Unfortunately we have seen many people getting away with bad acts despite the fact that they had a legal wedding but the reason is because the affected individual usually lets go without putting up a fight due to high cost of legal battle and no thanks to parents and family members who always preach to them that "what is yours will always stay with you" and that they should let go which i see as stories for the gods.
Ladies be wise..as an endangered specie in the cruel world of men,legal wedding was specifically created to protect more of the lady's marital right so take advantage of it or ignore at your own risk.
I will stop here. Op i bin tink say u be woman o abi u be gay? Anyways go get a job and let Nigerians leave their lives not coming here to talk poo. court marriage ku. |
Education › Re: Nigerian University With The Best Hostel Facilities? by Ralphdan(m): 8:08pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Sir Ralph's University. Their hostel facilities are out of this world. Beyond international standards. |
Celebrities › Re: Nnajiofor Christabel Releases Photos After Media Visit In Abuja(photos) by Ralphdan(m): 8:00pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
This woman is 32 quote me anywhere  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Olumba's Supreme Temple Calabar: God's Third And Last Temple Will Be In Calabar by Ralphdan(m): 7:58pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Oh it has begun  For in the last days......... |
Politics › Re: Chief Offered Sons To Kill Hitler (Throwback) by Ralphdan(m): 7:05pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Am sure that man must be a Yoruba mofo.  |
Celebrities › Re: Onyi Anekwe's Tears Saved P-Square From Breakup (see Photos) by Ralphdan(m): 4:53pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
she go good2 f**k  |
Business › Re: Yankura Market In Kano Currently On Fire by Ralphdan(m): 4:42pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
My kinsmen(igboz)be like...chai ngwa afia mo....... my milliyuns  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Throwback Photo Of Bishop David Oyedepo And His Family by Ralphdan(m): 4:36pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
I was like let me check out his daughter,buh........  |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa The Fashionista Steps Out In Gorgeous Outfit (Photos) by Ralphdan(m): 9:28pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
ci ur fake face  just give it time #Go marry abeg, now wey u fit stop2 de find mehn wey de ur level. |
Agriculture › Re: The Yams I Bought To Eat Have Started Growing In My Room by Ralphdan(m): 8:34pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Eh let it be.U can become a farmer u know,after some months u can harvest them  |
Romance › Re: Couple Who Met On Twitter Set To Marry by Ralphdan(m): 8:23pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Abag mk d bae remove dat her mkup xo we go knw whether she fine. |
Politics › Re: Fulani Herdsmen: Troubled Spots Awaiting Govt’s Action - VANGUARD by Ralphdan(m): 2:46pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Buhari brought this upon us. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy That Loves His Girlfriend Should Be Paying Her Salary Every Month by Ralphdan(m): 2:08pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
As long as i can be treating her like a slave No P. Lovu gbakwa oku. |
Romance › What Do Ladies Really Want Good Sex Or Love N Care? by Ralphdan(op): 2:04pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Please ladies in the house let me ask what is it you really want?is it good sex,love and care,money for shopping n co or something else. |
Romance › Re: Characteristics Of An Alpha Male...(the Ladies Man) by Ralphdan(m): 1:59pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
PushPlay: Becoming an alpha male is one of the highest achievements a man can ever have. Its not just about learning how to be smooth with the ladies (but that’s also part of it), there is so much more to the Alpha male lifestyle. Its all about living a life full of fulfillment and self actualization. An alpha male lives inside all men, its what makes us manly as men. Its the Big Difference between us and the ladies. And women love it! They find it so irresistible. Its what really attracts them to men. A woman will say she wants a man who buy her flowers and listens to her stories and cares and bla bla bla (all that sissy stuff) but at the end of the day she will fall for the alpha male (Usually found in Badboys) and break all her rules. This is because for women attraction is not in the head; its in the heart. Its how they are wired – To fall for Alpha Males – And they can’t help it. This is why you want to become an alpha male.
Here are the 25 Traits of an Alpha male
1. An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how people think of him. Confidence is him. He knows he is more important than anyone else in his life.
2.Is very passionate in life. He knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams. A true Alpha male has goals and ambitions, and really high ones. He follows these to the ultimate end, and ends up living a fulfilled life. (And women love passionate men with ambition. They see these kind of men becoming very successful in life and in their subconcious minds this is a qualifying factor in choosing a mate that will be able to provide for their future kids.)
3. Failure is only a minor setback for a real Alpha Male. Its only part of the process, he is learning. He is moving. He will always bounce back from failure, learn from the experience and move ahead with life. Nothing holds him back, after all, he is the Alpha male. Nothing can put him down. This is how he overcomes the challenges in his life.
4. He is always composed. An alpha male never loses composure, he is always himself, thoughtful and calculated. He won’t be carried away in emotional spasms.
5. Driven. A real Alpha male is very self- driven and self disciplined. Once he decides his target, all his attention will be at achieving his goal. He will do everything persistently to achieve what he wants. This is also why Alpha males drive women crazy, they are men of their own, they don’t need to be told what they should do. Women prefer men who make the decisions.
6. High morals and values. A true Alpha male is not what we will call a ‘loose’ man. He has high moral principles. He is not abusive or arrogant and does not look down upon others. Many people confuse Alpha males and Bullies. But generally, while bullies are very agressive on the outside, alpha males are very calm, calculated and controlled people.
7. An Alpha male is a natural leader. He is always looked up upon to provide direction when needed.
8. An Alpha male is a Problem Solver. In a company or organization, he will always be put in a challenging position and because of this, he will be highly regarded and compensated. He will always be the best at what he does.
9. Dress- Code- Smart. Not that he really cares what anyone thinks of how he dresses; that is not very important to him. But he still dresses the best way possible, always. Its just part of his nature, after all, he wants the best in life! He doesn’t have to but he knows he should.
10. He believes in growth. He knows that change is an internal process and takes time. He does not blame anyone for his mistakes because he knows that he has the power to make his life better and become a better man. Life for him is all about constant growth. This is the real essence of a man living a life of purpose. Every successful man in history knew this. That life is learning process. It is only an arrogant person who thinks they know it all. Humble yourself and learn!
11. With women he always poses a challenge. No, he is not chosen by women, he CHOOSES them! He does not throw himself at women and start acting needy with women. For him its the other way round. They really have to impress him and earn his attention.
12. A True Alpha male is not bossy. Not at all. He likes to listen to others’ opinions. If he is in a position of leadership he will let everyone share their thoughts and collectively find the solution. That’s why his co- workers love him! His team always wins.
13. He is not afraid to face his faults or admit when he is wrong. For a real Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with admitting when he has done something wrong. Its all about moving on with life, finding a solution, moving forward. If he wronged someone, he will politely admit and apologise, without making a big deal out of it, then move on to the next best thing.
14. He does not have to prove himself. An alpha male is being of very high self esteem, he does not need anyone’s approval to make him feel better about himself.
15. Alpha males are very clever, smart and cunning people. He’s got a real keen mind. He will assess situations and find the best logical solutions. In business alpha males do very well, their analytical skill and keen mind goes a long way.
16. Dominant, not aggressive, Alpha males also posess superior social skills.
17. Social behaviour – Hang out mostly with other alpha males. A true Alpha male finds the most value in hanging out with others like him. He also finds growth in doing this by learning from others who are better than him at one thing or another. That is why he never fails in life, he surrounds himself with people who are either like him or better achieved than him. Those are his company.
18. Physically fit. Alpha males are into healthy living and proper eating. They workout regularly, this also helps them become more focused on their goals and ambitions. This is why most Alpha’s are well built and all masculine.
19. Optimistic. Alpha males will always see the positive side of things and make the best out of what they have. A true Alpha male knows that in every problem there lies therein an opportunity. They just have to find it.
Body Language
20. Alpha males talk slowly. They never rush things, they are always in control. They have a way of having there audience eat at their every word. They know they are important and when they talk they command this importance.
21. They walk slowly, not not lazily. There is a difference. Alpha males are very controlled people. They are not always in a rush like everyone else. An Alpha male will be very disciplined to be on time or earlier for a meeting and well prepared. He will therefor have enough time to observe and think through his strategy.
22. Really Good Communicators. The alpha male is a great communicator both verbal and non-verbal. He shows his feelings through positive body language and is not afraid to show his sexual side. Women love this too – Men who are not wussies at flirting and showing their sexuality. It is not about telling a woman that you love her. Its about Expressing it in body Language and letting her read it with her subconscious mind.
23. Witty. Alpha males have a high sense of humor, they always live on the fun side of life. Its never always too serious fo them.
24. Alpha males know that they are important. When you call them (Unlike Beta males) they will take their time to turn their head and focus on you. You always have to prove worthy of their attention.
25. Alpha males Demonstrate Strength. The kind of strength that will make a woman believe that she is safe with him and that he can protect her when it comes to that. Women are generally the weaker sex, and always look for comfort in Alpha males; men who are dominant.
Question now is, are you an Alpha male and what makes you think you are one or not? Op what of alpha females. |
Romance › Re: If Nigeria Ladies Are To Be OS Which Are You Using? by Ralphdan(m): 1:25pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Na Android sure pass o buh na apple i de use |
Properties › Re: Help!!! Solution To Constant Paint Peeling From My Ceiling Board. by Ralphdan(m): 12:54pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Get a better ceiling. |
Phones › Re: Face10: An Alternative Facebook App For All Blackberry 10 Users And Others by Ralphdan(m): 12:48pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Wetin blackberry do mac? |
Celebrities › Re: How Toyin Aimakhu Eventually Shamed Me After All I Did For Her - Seun Egbegbe by Ralphdan(m): 11:56am On Mar 21, 2016 |
The b**ch ain't loyal. |
Crime › Re: Man Steals 7-month-old Baby In Lagos (Photo) by Ralphdan(m): 10:31am On Mar 21, 2016 |
God!That pikin black.  |
Education › Re: Student Battered By Principal Of Eva Adelaja Girls Secondary -"Graphic Pictures" by Ralphdan(m): 10:27am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Brigadier7: FOR HER To have returned a slap to her senior prefect shows how rude she is!!! She should even be expelled from the school!! Am against the Mal treated but this teachers you are talking about they are mothers and Parents too!! They cant just wake up one mrng and decide to descend on only her!! She must have been rude to them when she was invited to the staff room!! Op tell us the full story and stop being sentimental!! That's you people aid and abet bad children and when they get to the universities, they bcome secret cult members and runs girls and Problems to the society!! Shame on the NPF for wanting to arrest the management without proper investigation!! That what's how I read the other day how a secondary school cultist kiLled his Ex- Headmistress who is a grandmother in Benin, the headmistressed must have been dealing with him in school those days, now that he is a cultist, he decided to pay her back!! @Op your are biased in your account! OP I CHALLENGE YOU AND AM ASKING YOU TO QUESTION THE CHILD AGAIN TO TELL YOU WHAT SHE DID OR SAID TO THE TEACHERS THAT WARRANTED THE TREATED!!! If you decide to go to court remember they can still afford to get lawyers too. And there will be witnesses but student witnesses and Teacher witnesses that will come and testify THE TRUTH! So you better look before you leap!! I have seen a situation exactly like dis, the parent when to court and they ended up Apologizing to the school management and the Child was expelled too! U talking poo in this 21century. Was she sent to school to recive slaps or to learn.If any teacher ever do this to my sibling or child he/she would regret it. |
Politics › Re: Rivers Election: Hold Buhari Accountable For Violence, Loss Of Lives - Fayose by Ralphdan(m): 9:36am On Mar 21, 2016 |
nusirat: I always wonder if Fayose have secondary school certificate because of the way he reason just want people to know that he existing, i just prayed that military took over and clear all this barbarian called politician. Really the truth hurts. |
Politics › Re: Those Asking Me To Account For Abacha’s Loot Are silly — Obasanjo by Ralphdan(m): 8:29am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Oga shut up your trap and go continue with the enjoyment of your loots. |
Politics › Re: Femi Gbajabiamila Meets Ayodele Daniel-Dada (Pictured) by Ralphdan(m): 8:22am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Omo i no fit read like dat abeg.  |