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[quote author=MinorityOpinion post=89243704][/quote]Is that not what I am saying. His opinion is irrelevant to me.

TheArchangel:
You are sick.

Have you ever had a severe sore throat and difficulty in swallowing yet someone is forcefully force-feeding you a bowl of thick pap? That's aclose analogy.

The truth is that it is what it is. It is the conjugal right of the man. The man is within his right. There is no rape in marriage.

nazablossom:
I pity whoever that's going to marry you. SMH

Stop pitying whoever that is going to marry me, pity the man that will marry you.

Plead:
According to Nigerian customary law, a husband can’t rape his wife....

Courtesy ; bride price.

Try going to the police station and tell them that you were raped by your husband...

wolgrace come and hear what I have been trying to tell you.

Wolgrace:
You failed logically & critically. Will you give me the "CONSENT" to kill you because you belong to me? Have you witness woman giving birth in the labour room? I doubt because of your secondary school bf & gf reasoning. The wife's stomach, private part & blood circulation are still under process of healings, she needs some rest. Forceful sex with her without "CONSENT" is marital rape.

Should I force you to do chores when recovering from sickness?

You still missed the point. Who is talking about killing here? Attempting suicide which is killing of oneself is a crime. A wife owes his man what we call conjugal right brother. The woman who gave birth can still sexually satisfy the husband in other ways, it is all about understanding that is not even my point. My point is that there is nothing like rape in marriage or what you termed marital rape. I have never heard that a man was convicted of marital rape before in Nigeria. Stop blackmailing me emotionally by saying that I have not seen a woman give birth before.

Sagay is right but Sagay is an idio.t too.

Swtbabyvee:
lol guys with sense,, take care of their babe , their babe worship then n they live happy ever after

I wish you well, you will meet the senseless guy and live happily ever after.

Swtbabyvee:
guys with sense will continue to do the needful

You meant to say guy without sense will continue to do the needful.

This is a hard truth. A young girl that you are dating is not your financial responsibility, she got a father, a mother and brothers. Affection is all you owe her. Reno is right.

Wolgrace:
Please, I'm your father who gave birth to you, carters for you, and nurture you to be an obedient and a submissive son to me. Can I just end your life now afterall you belong to me as my obedient and submissive son?? Should I as your father do what I like to you as my obedient and submissive son without sanity, sense, and fruit of love?

This your example is grossly exaggerated. First of all, nobody is talking about killing here. Secondly, it is not about father and son relationship. Thirdly, I was careful to only talk about rape, I didn't mention about beating the woman might be receiving from the man. It is even wrong for a man to hit a woman who didn't attack him.

My point is that a sex a man got from his wife is not a rape. A man and woman who enters into marriage become one, the question is can you rape yourself? I am waiting for your answer.

MinorityOpinion:
Bring out a report or documented evidence that suggests the minorities were happy with the Biafrans or prove the above article wrong

So Quora( A question and answer forum) is now a documented evidence.

MinorityOpinion:
What concern me with ogbunigwe. Nonsense. You see a well documented article and you're talking of ogbunigwe.



The Forgotten Victims: Ethnic Minorities in the
Nigeria-Biafra War, 1967-1970
Arua Oko Omaka

I pointed out Ogbunigwe for you because it is well documented and a lot of people who told the story of the Nigerian civil war made mention of it.
You failed to address the Philip Effiong part, where I told you that he would have made mention of all those atrocities you came up with in his book since he is also from the minority group the question is why didn't he? The answer is because it didn't happen.

I cringed when you said that your article is well documented, it is a well documented lies. I would love that you quote a minority soldier that fought with Biafran soldiers coming up or supporting this lies. Who is Arua Oko Omaka? A Phd holder in war speciality. Nigga you can do better than this. You can deceive a lot of people with this gibberish you wrote above not me that have read widely about the civil war, you can't change the narrative.

I don't think it is bad parenting, it is more of peer group or peer pressure. My parents raised us very well, but sometimes I hear my sisters makes comment that shocks me, something like " I can't marry a poor man." They didn't learn that from home, it is from school.

Too bad for the boy. Going to be trained in a dysfunctional family.

Banmeallday:
Yep he didnt...These people spend so much time chasing shadows instead of facing front regarding Biafra because they are AFRAID of what will become of them or what the world will come to see them as. So far the world already sees them as Niggers and shythole......that is with oil access, contracts, international ports and FG sponsorship and yet they are nothing......imagine when that is taken away....


Anyway the oil will be supplied for free still

The aim of the Op is to misinform and I don't know why?

MinorityOpinion:
Was obasanjo present when the attrocities were happening. Why would he write about what he didn't see. Then suddenly the book of a Yoruba man is now a. Good Reference, what happen to ewedu media?

This is from the true victims (the minorities) and you're here saying obansajo.

Obasanjo was a commander and was leading the war in favour of Nigerian nation. He would have been happy to point those things out if they really happened. I made reference to Obasanjo book because, I know that it is very difficult for an average Yoruba man to say something good about an Igbo man. I have read the part of Philip Effiong story about the civil war titled " NIGERIA AND BIAFRA: MY STORY." He never said anything about this gibberish you wrote above. Philip Effiong was also from a minority group leading from the Biafran side. If his people were brutalized as you were saying, he would have mentioned it in his book.
Finally, the Biafran soldiers killed Nigerian soldiers with Ogbunigwe which is a locally manufactured bomb. It is in record and most people affirm to that.

Obasanjo didn't make any refrence about this in his book titled "MY COMMAND." I think you are lying.

Never tell a woman, that you don't trust her.

Life is too short, enjoy the moment while it last.

I came to check Abacha's name and it was not there. Op, your list is flawed.

Lawly:
for blood money ofcourse.
I have been saying it that those people are money ritualists but thank god my god has vindicated me.

Are you for real? I don't beleive in money ritual.

I choose to beleive the story because the question is why would the crew want to kill her?

Freely I was given and freely will I give.

None of the parties where wrong. It is a free world.

The only fun fact I know is that they kill whether provoked or not.

The way women are complaining of being sex starved this days, what is happening? Why the boldness this day? Is aphrodisac an ingredients in noodles?

As a student I met face to face with hunger. I never knew that hunger could cause parkison(HUNGER INDUCED PARKISON).

Any person undergoing a surgery should know that he/she could die on the table or out of table.

Nonsense people blasting for blasting sake. Would he date a 32 year old woman that is approaching menopause. I am waiting to be 33 years, so that I will go and marry an 18 year old girl.

Everything on her body is normal. Normal breast, normal nyash, normal height.