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A lot of naija ladies/guys will definitely seek pastor's or Alfa's or babalawo's insight before marriage, to know if they are compatible or not. I see it as trash. I only believe in marriage counsel. What do u guys think?

Adetutubae:
for me, break up sex is a very nice idea, tho it depends on how that relationship has always been, i have ones been in situation whereby me and my ex were about to tie the knot and diff messages from pastors says we cant marry, gosh! it was a bad situation for the both of us to handle, and we refuse to end the relationship having known that we cant marry each other, along the line, i met another guy that w"re now engaged, but before the engagement, me n my ex had a lovely breakup sex which was like never before, to me, it was fun coz we were best of friends, i mean good friends. to me ooo, break up sex is just a fun thing but not in a situation whereby one is breaking one anthers heart out of wickedness and heatless and u think breakup sex will happen, taar lie.

Seriously? U made your life decision based on what one so called pastor said? Even pastors are getting divorced!

I wish you all the goodness and happiness you seek. Drop my keys!

Mine, probably boxers... Ladies are kinda stingy!

eberetos:
Sometimes you see ladies forgiving their cheating partner and accepting him back, but many guys can never do such, why?

Note, for a married man cheated upon, the best choice is to forgive and see how to make the marriage work by fixing up the lapses...

I lie not, I tell you the genuine truth, God is my witness, my neighbors wife had sex with someone when she was with a 4 month old child, but the woman is still in that house....The man has over-large heart!!!!

Psychologically, their is a higher touch in a man's ego and emotions when he is cheated upon, and to be real, it is also an ego issue that makes them hardly forgive...

But if you have additional reasons why guys do not forgive cheating, please post.....

U think it's large heart working? Its vegetables ooo

tosyne2much:
Nawa ooooh

BTW, hope you don find another babe?

For where? Its few months ago. Taking my time making more money jare. One should not transfer the disappointment to next person. When it was fresh, u look at ladies and ur mind will be screaming "awon oloshi"

tosyne2much:
You don't mean it bro

Wetin eyes never see. One has to brace up!

Welcome to the club... Mine was after introduction, 2 months to wedding. I didn't know where to start, all efforts, time n resources down the drain.. Worst thing her family just kept quiet. Like they say, life goes on!!!

DeadRat:
you No Get Brain. Dont You Know Your Girlfriend's Phone Is Your Phone

Get a life bruv!

Lordygram:
IN December 20 last year,,,, i saw and encountered what i will never forget in my life,, it was 5days to christmas, everywhere was busy with bangers shooting everywhere, so by 10 pm at night, i left my friend's home and headed for my home,, So i got to the front of our street and entered, There was electricity, so as i was walking down the street, suprisingly i saw a dog with four heads and a lady holding the chains to the dog headed my way,, AT 1st, i wanted to run, but i held my cool because the street was lively and i was not the only one that was walking on the street.. Suprisingly, nobody saw this very tall lady with a dog with 4heads, i was the only one that saw her, When i got home, i told my story but nobody believed me... That day, i know what i saw and the pictures still flashes in my memory.

After how many bottles?

U don play penalty go throwing...

I once saw iPhone with my ex gf and I asked about it. After some cunning questions n answer she later confessed that her ex in US sent it to her. That was the end of the relationship...
I just realised most ladies especially married one do this a lot. Any idea why they do this?

Don't waste your time on any lady. She has been dating another person. Maybe she has been promised beautiful nonsense... Don't worry, she will come back begging in few months when she is no more traveling out..

When will people realise that RELIGION IS SCAM? Most Pastors are even struggling with their marriage.

The last thing I will consider in a lady is her religion.

Mcowubaba:
Personally, I don't think I can marry any lady who has done abortion(s), with exceptions in Therapeutic abortion or threatened abortion..

Reasons being that
1) I haven't impregnated any girl BEFORE (To the best of my knowledge)
2) I haven't even use any form of emergency contraceptive before.
3) I try my best to be DECENT in my sexual life, this I have done steadfastly, I can't give that all up for someone who may have been more sexually careless than me, Yes I say careless in a context

I didn't say I'm a virgin or not, but I think I have the moral justification to make this decision.

And I know dozens of men are like me.

Everyone has a past you say, but believe me some past are too damaging.
Abortion is a no no for me

I have my own bad past, and any girl who refuses to marry me on account of any aspect of my past, is highly welcomed...

Unless I don't know about the abortion, once I know, I can't engage with that.

We shouldn't marry or settle down out of pity, empathy or sympathy..

Anyways, I'm a free thinker in a way, so I will keep an open mind

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If she is not a virgin, the probability of her having abortion is 90%