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FamilyRe: Multiple Cabinet Drawer 5ft By 4ft For Sale @ 30k by ranmoor: 5:25pm On Sep 07, 2018
SeanArden:
IT'S STILL AVAILABLE
15k?, I will pick it up tomorrow
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 8:03am On Sep 07, 2018
Tsauce:
Please everybody buying heavy furniture, how are you moving it across Lagos? Want to pick a big shoe rack from Bariga to Ojodu ASAP but can't get a truck at a reasonable price.
Help a sister abeg.
if it can enter the booth of a car, u better call taxify or uber. It's kinda more reasonable
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 9:26am On Sep 04, 2018
Ibiyomee:
Neatly used wardrobe
20k, I pick it up by weekend
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 12:36pm On Sep 03, 2018
Ibiyomee:
Kitchen Cabinet sold out
I have Wardrobe available for sale
Price 35k
Location: Iyana Ipaja, Lagos
Picture
FamilyRe: Tope Mark-Odigie: Your Husband Has Right To Do Whatever He Wants With Your Body by ranmoor:
I think we are lumping things together. Nigeria is quite a unique place. We want to blend marriage in Oyinbo and our tradition context together and that is why we are in chaos.

In court wedding which is designed in oyinbo's way, man n woman get married to become one. U don't need the parents, no need of any list, no need of party, no need of prostration, so far she is not a minor, all u need is a witness. In that case, Man and Woman are equal and are one. The lady's opinions matters, you can talk of rape in marriage and all the equality probs.

In Traditional wedding, the man is acquiring a child bearing, cooking and sex machine. The man pays through his nose to acquire the woman and he is expected to maintain her throughout his lifetime. He probably use his 5-7yrs savings to acquire the woman. Like all boss-slave relationship, it's whatever the man wants. That's why the man can decide he wants another wife (a new machine) and the woman has no say. The woman cannot say no whenever he wants sex and she cannot be raped. She must endure the marriage. in fact she does need to know that man b4 marriage, so far the price is good for her clan.

Now let's blend the 2 marriage concept together, u see the confusion? Until we decide which one is good for us in this country there will always be chaos in our marriages.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 3:21pm On Aug 17, 2018
Ibiyomee:
I have kitchen cabinet
Location -Iyana Ipaja, Lagos
Whatapp me d pix n price on 07064558900
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 5:04am On Aug 17, 2018
Otnias:
yes please, what's your location? I'm in ABA
Sorry, someone in Lagos!
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ranmoor: 7:14pm On Aug 16, 2018
Anyone with kitchen cabinets?
RomanceRe: With My Baddest Cliq Later Tonight - Pics by ranmoor: 6:55am On Aug 16, 2018
[quote author=912 post=70316286]Dude are you sure you are not just a waiter that is snapping pictures of the drinks in the beer parlour bar and claiming you are high. Because none of the bottles in the second pix is open and the wall and seat in the first picture definitely look like what you will find in a bar and not someone's living room.

And why is it that it's only the cheapest wine that looks like Eva wine bottle that you managed to open in the picture Why not open one of the seemingly expensive ones?

something tells me that even the wad of cash you sometimes flash here might just be your sales for the day that you are claiming to be your doh.
Besides, for someone that is claiming to be doing well, the quality of your phone camera is really poor. Meaning you are using one those cheap Chinese phones. Seeing how heavily filtered all your pictures usually are it is obvious that that phone is not worth more than 12k.

I thought he is a memory card seller and cultural dancer/singer? Maybe he has 3 jobs. Computer village in the morning, Bartender at night and cultural dancer on weekends. Surely, something is chasing him
RomanceRe: Can You Be In A Relationship Without Sex, Kisses, Getting Physical Etc? by ranmoor: 8:19am On Aug 12, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:
OH.. AND I'VE BEEN HERE MASTERING JUST THESE 10 ALL MY LIFE.
Sorry jare, the 10 commandments. Although they're all bull crap!
RomanceRe: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by ranmoor: 12:32am On Aug 12, 2018
Caseless:
what is it about you that makes men lose control? Even the therapist attempted? Just stay strong.
I'm really Sorry for what happened!
Why kind therapist? She only visited all this church "therapist" not a professional I think!
RomanceRe: Can You Be In A Relationship Without Sex, Kisses, Getting Physical Etc? by ranmoor: 12:27am On Aug 12, 2018
tee59:
Even God said, flee from formication or any appearance of evil.
God or Paul? The only commandments from God is the 20 commandment, and when u read that he only said "Thy shall not commit adultery" There is a huge difference between adultery and fornication. And Paul can only advice! Besides, is kissing, hugging, sex etc evil?
RomanceRe: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by ranmoor: 11:21pm On Aug 11, 2018
I believe this is exactly what the guy wants!!!

InMyOpinion:
Many "Saints" here calling the guy a beast. Give me a break!. While i dont endorse forceful sex, he may just have run out of control on this particular day but then he didnt run away from her after taking her virginity as many people condemning him here have done to a lot of girls- he wants to marry her- and if I read the story right, the girl also loves him- so my sister- try to forgive him (what he did is certainly wrong) but then there are worse guys out there trust me- dont let faceless people on Nairaland deceive you- if you love this guy enough- forget what happened and accept his proposal. You will forget all that after a while and you will be proud you married the man who took your pride - and he will certainly respect you more knowing he was your first (yes- whether we admit it or not, most men wish they were their wives' first)

Wish you the very best
RomanceRe: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by ranmoor: 11:17pm On Aug 11, 2018
You are lumping a lot of things together. You love him. You are reluctant to marry him bcoz of future seers. Your highest value is your virginity to the extent of thinking that's all that matters.
Truth is that u have let the guy to realize u are about to dump him and he knows how much value u place on hymen. His thinking was, if he deflowers u will be hooked to him.
I think he is just a selfish person. Your only mistake is telling him pastors, soothsayer, prophets and heavens are against ur relationship (I'm pretty sure you/someone would have told him). Don't mind ppl saying you shouldn't have gone to his house alone, ain't they doing the same.
U are not even citing ABUSE as your reason for not wanting to marry him and I hope you are not pregnant.
It depends on what you want : if u love him (pls forget about those yeye pastors stuff) n u can forgive him (both for d past n future cos he will do it again) go ahead and marry him afterall abt 80% married women always claim domestic rape. But if you feel abused, he should be in custody by now.
PropertiesRe: Did U Just Get A Job And Need To Relocate? Check Out This Affordable Apartments by ranmoor: 4:09pm On Jul 24, 2018
chawmartltd:
Here is another lovely and affordable apartment that just got listed on the Mainland.

A Mini Flat in Akoka

Here are the features that make this Mini flat suitable for young couples, working class single and even students:

Good location
Very spacious
Floors are tiled
Car Park (rare to find wink)
Running Borehole water
Stable power supply, and many more

RENT IS 300K YEARLY

If you are interested or knows someone who might be, contact me on these lines 09038311985, 08100868608, 07080318032 Chawmart Limited

check below for the pics
Is it room and parlour or just single room? Besides how many years rent? Any additional monthly expenses? Total Package?
RomanceRe: Please I Need Advice I Don't Know What To Do About My Gf And Best friend by ranmoor: 8:42pm On Jul 18, 2018
Flickzvill:
2. I respect her for coming to me she doesn't hide anything if she really wanted to cheat she wouldn't mention that's women maybe she just wants me to knw d kind of friend I have
U are so naive, well you are young. I remember when I was about your age my gf then told me that one of my area big bro was toasting her, calling him so names bla bla bla. I decided to share it with another big bro who just smiled and told me I should come to him around 8pm. On getting to his place we went to the other bro's house but he said we should wait across the street. Few minutes later I saw my so called gf leaving his house with the big bro telling her 'till tomorrow with a peck' The other bro told me he just wanted me to see it with my eyes that the girl is just trying to position me to mumu zone should in case someone told me.
RomanceRe: What Do Women Really Want In Men? by ranmoor: 10:52pm On Jul 16, 2018
An average Naija lady sees a man as a ticket out of poverty!!! They want a puppet that they can absolutely control... Give them beans cake, they will ask for honey ... Bunch of confused people
RomanceRe: Why Igbos Don't Like To Marry Yorubas???? by ranmoor: 10:36pm On Jul 16, 2018
Adamummya:
shut up there
Who is this thing? It is a fact that an average igbo lady is raw material for making fur coats.
RomanceRe: Why Igbos Don't Like To Marry Yorubas???? by ranmoor: 7:12am On Jul 16, 2018
Earthquake1:
Which Igbo men will leave our beautiful damsels to marry ugly idols
Damsels? Seriously? Lots of igbo ladies are like this

RomanceRe: Is It Okay To Date A Married Man? by ranmoor: 8:13pm On Jul 13, 2018
If someone is dating your husband how will you feel?
Most problems these days would have been solved if people have little empathy for one another
RomanceRe: Can A Lady Who Is Materialistic Stop Doing This ?? by ranmoor: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2018
well, it depends on the circumstances n the kind of gift. E.g, if he is someone like her colleague at work that brought gift after holiday trip or occasion , no big deal. But if she go about asking, that's a problem or one casual yeye friend
RomanceRe: Is This Girl Using My Head Pls Help. by ranmoor: 7:47am On Jul 05, 2018
use your head? Nope, she is using your destiny!
RomanceRe: Who Else Experiences This With Nigerian Girls by ranmoor: 7:43am On Jul 01, 2018
iLegendd:
Good suggestion. Any reason for that?
That's the standard bro. Even if u number it, it should not appear on the cover page, next pp can start with ii.
Or have u ever seen a book with the cover page carrying a page number?
RomanceRe: Who Else Experiences This With Nigerian Girls by ranmoor: 7:36am On Jul 01, 2018
iLegendd:
When I click a relationship thread on Nairaland, I read some comments, pick up mistakes, write a book about those mistakes, sell it on Amazon and Draft2Digital to Oyibo people with my Oyibo pen name and make free dollar from it. It's called wisdom. Everybody needs it. What I'm trying to say is: people should use their time wisely.

Robert Greene said whenever he sees people going through power tussle, he crosses his legs and laugh and laugh within himself. cheesy ((Shaking my head 20 times)).

Mrcork, please, cum shake your Peckham head for them.

Men, download our ChatDicted book here: https://wetclef.com/topic330.html

Have a nice day, guys.
Try not to number the cover page @chatdicted bk
RomanceRe: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by ranmoor: 6:03am On Jul 01, 2018
is it heavy? If yes, u should carry it without complaints. Is it more than 1 bag? If yes, u should carry out of it. Any other thing, just leave her, if she likes she should leave it there. do not let any girl start making u do stuffs, do things because u want to. trust me in few months, she will be telling u its your duty to be doing her laundry
RomanceRe: Did You Just Get Married? These are Some Lovely & Affordable Apartments for You by ranmoor: 9:20pm On Jun 19, 2018
khiaa:
Seriously, is it possible to get an apartment for 1,700 for a year like the one that was described? I don't believe it, this has got to be some kind of a scam. Seventeen hundred dollars is one month's rent here and it says for a year. Noooooo way!! undecided
U are so funny, how much do u earn per month? Here in Nigeria, its very difficult to see a job paying 100k (abt $280) in a month... So 600k is kinda like 6months salary for lots of people. So, its not cheap!
RomanceRe: WHEN Was The Moment You Realized That No One Gives A Fûck About You. by ranmoor: 8:36pm On Jun 14, 2018
I left social media, Facebook, Instagram, twitter, whatsapp etc... On my birthday a month ago, the messages I received were from, stanbic ibtc, gtbank, royal exchange...
That day, I realised no body really cares.. People only remember u when they need money or favours
FamilyRe: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ranmoor: 10:07am On Jun 13, 2018
Kobicove:
Is it possible to place Magun on a woman who is not your wife...that's assuming that the thing even works? undecided
Bro, that thing works!!! That story was 100% real. They have to invite some babalawo from Ife to remedy the situation but all to no avail. I dont usually believe in all the spiritual stuff before but things ive seen in this little yrs of living changed my mind. If u see the way promiscuous women talk about their husband, u wont be surprise if d concubine decide to put the man out of his miseries!!!
FamilyRe: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ranmoor: 8:34am On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
The vicious cycle of poverty is real. I can never marry a man without a job.
what if he lose his job few months after wedding?
FamilyRe: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ranmoor: 5:39pm On Jun 12, 2018
pointblank247:
my piple i beg to differ, if that lady was remorseful and the mum has been begging you, i suggest you forgive her, she will be gratefull and humble for life
u made me remember a man dat caught Magun on his wife at ikirun. The first time he caught the wife n sent her out, the families came to beg him cited your logic... Few yrs later, the husband died on her. The Magun was placed by one alfa concubine... My Bro, anything cheat, flee
RomanceRe: Is It Compulsory For Guys To Send Money To A Lady Before She Will Come Visiting by ranmoor: 8:50pm On Jun 11, 2018
fancy4eve:
OI hate mumu question ehhhhhhh.....y not go 2 her end if u tink she's demanding too much. Ur mate dey pay flight ticket, u dey complain 4 just 7k tfare . I tire 4 sum pple.
Just wondering, how did u know the tfare was 7k? Is that standard charge these days?
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Keep Going Back To An Ex? by ranmoor: 9:26pm On Jun 10, 2018
Lalas247:
you've not heard if I need space?

yes people do break up for a while to see if its what they truly want..
If any lady ask me for a space, I will terminate everything sharp sharp.. Which kind yeye space? Well, I hardly have time self, no way I can choke someone.

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