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SeanArden:15k?, I will pick it up tomorrow |
Tsauce:if it can enter the booth of a car, u better call taxify or uber. It's kinda more reasonable |
Ibiyomee:20k, I pick it up by weekend |
Ibiyomee:Picture |
I think we are lumping things together. Nigeria is quite a unique place. We want to blend marriage in Oyinbo and our tradition context together and that is why we are in chaos. In court wedding which is designed in oyinbo's way, man n woman get married to become one. U don't need the parents, no need of any list, no need of party, no need of prostration, so far she is not a minor, all u need is a witness. In that case, Man and Woman are equal and are one. The lady's opinions matters, you can talk of rape in marriage and all the equality probs. In Traditional wedding, the man is acquiring a child bearing, cooking and sex machine. The man pays through his nose to acquire the woman and he is expected to maintain her throughout his lifetime. He probably use his 5-7yrs savings to acquire the woman. Like all boss-slave relationship, it's whatever the man wants. That's why the man can decide he wants another wife (a new machine) and the woman has no say. The woman cannot say no whenever he wants sex and she cannot be raped. She must endure the marriage. in fact she does need to know that man b4 marriage, so far the price is good for her clan. Now let's blend the 2 marriage concept together, u see the confusion? Until we decide which one is good for us in this country there will always be chaos in our marriages. |
Ibiyomee:Whatapp me d pix n price on 07064558900 |
Otnias:Sorry, someone in Lagos! |
Anyone with kitchen cabinets? |
[quote author=912 post=70316286]Dude are you sure you are not just a waiter that is snapping pictures of the drinks in the beer parlour bar and claiming you are high. Because none of the bottles in the second pix is open and the wall and seat in the first picture definitely look like what you will find in a bar and not someone's living room. And why is it that it's only the cheapest wine that looks like Eva wine bottle that you managed to open in the picture Why not open one of the seemingly expensive ones? something tells me that even the wad of cash you sometimes flash here might just be your sales for the day that you are claiming to be your doh. Besides, for someone that is claiming to be doing well, the quality of your phone camera is really poor. Meaning you are using one those cheap Chinese phones. Seeing how heavily filtered all your pictures usually are it is obvious that that phone is not worth more than 12k. I thought he is a memory card seller and cultural dancer/singer? Maybe he has 3 jobs. Computer village in the morning, Bartender at night and cultural dancer on weekends. Surely, something is chasing him |
CAPSLOCKED:Sorry jare, the 10 commandments. Although they're all bull crap! |
Caseless:Why kind therapist? She only visited all this church "therapist" not a professional I think! |
tee59:God or Paul? The only commandments from God is the 20 commandment, and when u read that he only said "Thy shall not commit adultery" There is a huge difference between adultery and fornication. And Paul can only advice! Besides, is kissing, hugging, sex etc evil? |
I believe this is exactly what the guy wants!!! InMyOpinion: |
You are lumping a lot of things together. You love him. You are reluctant to marry him bcoz of future seers. Your highest value is your virginity to the extent of thinking that's all that matters. Truth is that u have let the guy to realize u are about to dump him and he knows how much value u place on hymen. His thinking was, if he deflowers u will be hooked to him. I think he is just a selfish person. Your only mistake is telling him pastors, soothsayer, prophets and heavens are against ur relationship (I'm pretty sure you/someone would have told him). Don't mind ppl saying you shouldn't have gone to his house alone, ain't they doing the same. U are not even citing ABUSE as your reason for not wanting to marry him and I hope you are not pregnant. It depends on what you want : if u love him (pls forget about those yeye pastors stuff) n u can forgive him (both for d past n future cos he will do it again) go ahead and marry him afterall abt 80% married women always claim domestic rape. But if you feel abused, he should be in custody by now. |
chawmartltd:Is it room and parlour or just single room? Besides how many years rent? Any additional monthly expenses? Total Package? |
Flickzvill:U are so naive, well you are young. I remember when I was about your age my gf then told me that one of my area big bro was toasting her, calling him so names bla bla bla. I decided to share it with another big bro who just smiled and told me I should come to him around 8pm. On getting to his place we went to the other bro's house but he said we should wait across the street. Few minutes later I saw my so called gf leaving his house with the big bro telling her 'till tomorrow with a peck' The other bro told me he just wanted me to see it with my eyes that the girl is just trying to position me to mumu zone should in case someone told me. |
An average Naija lady sees a man as a ticket out of poverty!!! They want a puppet that they can absolutely control... Give them beans cake, they will ask for honey ... Bunch of confused people |
Adamummya:Who is this thing? It is a fact that an average igbo lady is raw material for making fur coats. |
Earthquake1:Damsels? Seriously? Lots of igbo ladies are like this
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If someone is dating your husband how will you feel? Most problems these days would have been solved if people have little empathy for one another |
well, it depends on the circumstances n the kind of gift. E.g, if he is someone like her colleague at work that brought gift after holiday trip or occasion , no big deal. But if she go about asking, that's a problem or one casual yeye friend |
use your head? Nope, she is using your destiny! |
iLegendd:That's the standard bro. Even if u number it, it should not appear on the cover page, next pp can start with ii. Or have u ever seen a book with the cover page carrying a page number? |
iLegendd:Try not to number the cover page @chatdicted bk |
is it heavy? If yes, u should carry it without complaints. Is it more than 1 bag? If yes, u should carry out of it. Any other thing, just leave her, if she likes she should leave it there. do not let any girl start making u do stuffs, do things because u want to. trust me in few months, she will be telling u its your duty to be doing her laundry |
khiaa:U are so funny, how much do u earn per month? Here in Nigeria, its very difficult to see a job paying 100k (abt $280) in a month... So 600k is kinda like 6months salary for lots of people. So, its not cheap! |
I left social media, Facebook, Instagram, twitter, whatsapp etc... On my birthday a month ago, the messages I received were from, stanbic ibtc, gtbank, royal exchange... That day, I realised no body really cares.. People only remember u when they need money or favours |
Kobicove:Bro, that thing works!!! That story was 100% real. They have to invite some babalawo from Ife to remedy the situation but all to no avail. I dont usually believe in all the spiritual stuff before but things ive seen in this little yrs of living changed my mind. If u see the way promiscuous women talk about their husband, u wont be surprise if d concubine decide to put the man out of his miseries!!! |
kimbraa:what if he lose his job few months after wedding? |
pointblank247:u made me remember a man dat caught Magun on his wife at ikirun. The first time he caught the wife n sent her out, the families came to beg him cited your logic... Few yrs later, the husband died on her. The Magun was placed by one alfa concubine... My Bro, anything cheat, flee |
fancy4eve:Just wondering, how did u know the tfare was 7k? Is that standard charge these days? |
Lalas247:If any lady ask me for a space, I will terminate everything sharp sharp.. Which kind yeye space? Well, I hardly have time self, no way I can choke someone. |
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