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wowmenow:
That does not stop us from looking at the other side of the story that she is a cheating wife.

If the man is redpilled he would have Liv the marriage a long time to avoid this

wowmenow:
Everybody believes the husband of the gospel artist osinachi is abusing her physicaly but nobody believes the wife is having secret relationship with frank edwards another gospel artist.

When it comes to women issue men always put emotions than logic

It might be because of the woman secret affairs that made the man to abuse her.

The world has been feminised only trp can rescue men now

Labadi69:
Stop talking crap before strong yamayama fall on that your bald head

Will Smith is a very well known homosexual in gay circles. Everyone in Hollywood knows. Hollywood loves gays and this is why Will does well. He does well with Hollywood suits and execs as a gay and then fools the world as a family man using Jada.

All that crap he does for Jada is to try to cover up. Jada has his mumu button and will spill all his gayness to the world if he tries any rubbish. That’s after cleaning him out financially.

If anything, give the brother some credit. He’s a very wise guy.

Siberia01:

One might think Davido is worth $1.2 billion

But Yes he's actually worth more than $500million
He's richer than most top tier artists in the US, same goes for some highly paid players in Europe
He owns a luxurious Private jet..... I think he's adding a second one to his fleett
He's already in the league of Kanye West and Elton John's

TheUndercover:
What do you mean by a better image? Do you mean he's "more liked" by people, more popular? Charming or charismatic? Shining more brightly than those around him?

If that's what you mean and the person is not your superior, continue talking, unless you're sure no one wants to listen to you. There's nothing you can do in this case. If people find him charming and likeable, they will be willing to listen to whatever he's saying irrespective of whether he's saying the right thing or not. That's one of the advantages of being likeable and charming. This was all discussed on this thread.

slimjohn2k5:
Is not fair
They normally deliver 25k per week which is less than 7k per day.

The owner of the car knows is not feasible but want a reason to collect his car. The guy may not be able to meet that daily target.

TheUndercover:
"Whenever someone interrupts you when you are speaking, keep speaking without showing any signs of stopping.

If you stop talking, it will signal that you are of lower status than them - because they get to stop you from speaking."

Caveat: If a superior interrupts you whilst speaking, keep calm and remain silent.

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Emeka71:
Did you mean that of bet9ja virtual league ¿

AyarmBoye:
Oya create a league and lets join.... started playing this season (gameweek2) and sh* is making me go crazy

Robinson155:
I play

You got a league

Aug28th:
Good morning
I have no idea if it's still on

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jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??




bros abeg na which kind work from home u dey do, that one concern me pass.
For ur issue, if its a relationship u can't stay in and enjoy, then there is no point marrying her.
Let her know ur mind and move on.