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xpac01:
My brother,wether you like it or not that no.1 is not a mere believe but a reality. When you're rich, all ladies will brand and pose like wife material you can ask Mikel Obi. You find them ladies, the ones at lower class seeing the rich folk as an answer to their high class wishful life fantasy and those at the high class sees you as a match and security. But if you can find a girl who can love and respect you even while you're down struggling then that's epitome of unconditionally true love. She's a woman with vision. She will definitely be with you through all thick thin. She's the wife materials. So its not just a believe bro. Though I aint saying there are no wife material among the rich folks, but they are few and so are they also few among the poor class.
Nice write up tho.

Since u know we have few wife materials on both sides, what's the essence of this 'finding love when still struggling'?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Why is his mode of expressing himself or passing a message hitting your nerves? [/color]

Just what I wanted to say

Itzmodella:
This your modus operandi is getting boring!!
Why cant you just make your point and move on? Must you write long epistles to pass your message across?

Read and learn! Don't be too lazy!

prettythicksme:
Nice write up op but i dont want to agree with u on dat cos money is very good ooo u cant understand!Bleep love without money

Same thing here mami I know money is good hence my advice

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I totally agree with you Op for the first time. [/color]

Locum cicartum!!! Wonders shall never end! First time naijaboiy is in agreement with me!

CC: Ishilove and Rocktation

ronald4lif:
Another banger from the stables of rapmoney.

I agree with number 2. There are a lot of couple you see struggling and doing menial jobs that can hardly fend for themselves but keep breeding kids basking in the euphoria that these kids are blessings from God. The challenges and conditions these kids go through while growing up is sometimes unsavoury for even animals. Some end up hawking wares on the streets because their parents couldn't fund their education. Yet they say they are blessings. Two people fxck each other and produce kids that they can't take care of and say they are blessings from God. Why not stop fxckin' and breeding if you are not sure of providing them with the basics of life?.

At your number 4 point yes they should have some financial leanings and stability before marriage too, no matter how little their earnings are. It would go a long way to alleviating the financial burdens on the man. But I don't think it should be a problem for a man to set up a business for his wife. Every responsible man should be able and proud to that. Not a problem.

On the 5th point I will just

I see u bro! Though, I didn't say it is wrong if a man opens business for a woman but what I am against is women sitting idly, waiting for a man to come and set them up

Princecalm:
the annoying part is that guys will still knowingly/unknowingly fall for this.

That's why this thread is necessary

Dotwillis1:
this thread wouId v gotten more response if it'd bn in the rap battle section

Cc
Ibime
Coogar
Mikuz
Emaprince
Guykhena
Limerick
Kr0ne
Ksslib
Darkrebel666
Elymaxiimus
Fuckyouhard
YoungDaNaval
Teddybiyasi
Lagunna
Warriblood
Loonat11kk
Streetwize
Obainojazz
007Bruce
Ojoawo
Thunderstorm
Theprekky
Glazierz
Illness
Elvisonjack2
Sosiqdude
Deepthoughts
Gottoboy
Jigsawkillah
Paulthor
Iceskidd
Wrongturn
Ckushy
Devilmaycry
Testerfuze
Sammcarter
Geoxpress
Heywhizzy
Captainflash
Willofsteel
Dj5naira
Krizzkutz
Giyazz
Kingdimes
Richommie
Rapacme
Reyginus
Jonlamar
Bars
Aeio
Aminda
Redjohn2
Sarmiie
Macsika
Olusharp
Goshikid
lhood
jreyez
obesemf
sosiqdude
danbrowndmf
laykorn
dhavids
Hema
nerdfrost
SonofSam2

etc

Thanks bro! Pls peeps I need suggestions and support. Where are all the real heads?

chowlade:
u r on point

Thanks dear

Itzmodella:
I hope your fellow niccurs sees this

Surely, they will

KAPOVee:
nice write-up

Thanks

I know majority of Nigerians too lazy to read but it pays to most times

Below are some common fallacies most Nigerian guys have been pressured and deceived over the years to believe . You might hold a different opinion from these but emerging 'trends' and 'happenstances' in our society clearly point to the fact that these common beliefs no longer hold weight and logic and therefore, may be seen as nonsense!

1) #You can only find someone who truly loves you when you are still struggling#: Bullcrap! Nonsense! So we were told while we were younger! Now, we know better . It is as good as saying 'only poor men find real love'. Imagine that!!! It means 2Face Idibia must have married a bad wife; a woman who doesn't have real love for him because he met her after he attained fame! How fallacious this sounds! Whether you like it or not, there are classes in our society and one should strive to attain the class he feels he wants his would-be wife to come from . I just feel people who still hold this opinion are suffering from a psychology that promotes inferiority complex! Finding a good wife or a woman that truly loves you has nothing to do with struggling! If you are comfortable and finds a woman that is as comfortable as you and in your class, would you say she's after your wealth?

2) #Even if there's no money, when we give birth, children will bring blessings#: Don't allow anyone deceive you, folks. Yeah, blessings come but do not put the life of somebody's daughter at risk and endangering the lives of the tiny legs you would produce because you don't have enough to cater for them!!! Even Jesus Christ, in the Bible(the synoptic gospels), admonished Christians to calculate the cost of something before embarking on it, else the enemies mock the person that he couldn't maintain what he started (call me Pastor Rapmoney ) Truth be told, it would take the grace of God to maintain peace and ensure fidelity in a home that lacks money in these modern times!

3) #Beautiful women have bad attitude#: We can as well say 'ugly women have nice attitude No one is perfect! What you might admire in someone could be different from what the next man would admire in them. Who says a woman cannot be beautiful within and in the outside? It doesn't mean you should place all your bets on big buttocks, pointed boobs and pretty face but I tell you today, marrying a woman who is very presentable doesn't make you a fool or criminal! I love beautiful women

4)#A man should set a woman up financially#: Another bunkum!!! Marriage involves two people who are emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and financially mature! I strongly believe that ladies should as well be financially ready before they get married. It is not just a man's thing. If he goes out to win the bread, you as the woman, should also go out to win the akara. You would attract more respect by such from the man. Men hardly misbehave when they are aware that their wife is financially strong too . It is better to marry a woman that has acquired her degree or into one profession, business, trade or occupation than to get married to a woman who does nothing, sits and folds her hands, waiting for a man to come and marry her in order to take away her burden! Are you getting married to a human being or a burden?

5) #Money is not all; what matters is love#: This is what most girls use to deceive guys on social media, including Nairaland. I always say it that it is only on NL and other social media that girls are quick to say this trash! Most girls can't practise it in real life. They only say this to create what I call 'social media good face' . Same girl that says this online will operate in the opposite offline. Don't let them fool ya fellas!!! . Don't believe this! If you believe this, then you will surely believe anything. It existed in the past...not now. The society has transformed to something else and it is either you follow up or get left behind; simple truth! Make good money and you won't even have time to listen to such trash!!!

A word is enough for the wise!

Good day folks!

Dotwillis1:
You pIan on sponsoring it too?

Depends on people's response

Suggestions please! Real heads come in!

On the 29th of May, 2015, I plan to start The Nairaland 'Rep Your City' Mixed Tape!

RULES OF THE GAME~

1. Upload a certified original rap song done by you.

2. The song or lyrics of the song should represent where you come from! (Your city in Nigeria).

3) Your song MUST NOT contain ethnic, racial or tribal statements! You can diss sha

4) Your song MUST NOT promote any clandestine organisation or its activities!

5) Your song should not be more than 6 mins in length.

6) You can use your original beats produced by you or anyone else. You can also use beats from a any rapper of your choice; both naija and foreign (that's why its called mixed tape)

I created this thread to gather suggestions on the following:

* What the prizes will be for winners
* How winners would emerge
* How to select/nominate judges

Suggestions from real heads in here is highly needed! Let's come together...join hands together and crown someone 'king of Nairaland Rep Your City Mixed Tape!!!

searching4lovee:


GEJ INTENTIONALLY DECIDE TO PUNISH THE SOUTH WEST AND THE NORTH FOR VOTING GMB. THERE IS NO SCARCITY OF FUEL IN THE SS/SE ALL BECAUSE THEY VOTED PDP. NO WONDER THE IGBOS CALL HIM THEIR HERO. THE MORE YOU LOOK THE LESS YOU SEE. GEJ'S BODY LANGUAGE HAS SHOWN THAT HE CARES ABOUT ONLY THE IGBOS AND THE SS.


I HOPE THE IGBOS WONT CRY VICTIM WHEN THINGS DONT GO THEIR USUALL WAY UNDER GMB. THEY BETTER ENJOY THE REMAINING DAYS OF PDP WHILE IT LASTS

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Dia fada!!!

Akkord4gov:
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O boy, na so u wicked? Na sentence be dat abi na wetin?

Some food combo are just so wow! It doesn't matter how they come...you just love it like...hmmmm...yummy yummy!!! They can be local (down to the African street) or foreign (continental)!!!

Here are mine:

1) White rice with fresh fish stew and banana! Omo, nothing compares to this! Give me a plate of this and you have made my day...absolutely!

2) Groundnuts, sugar, milk and cold water!!! This one na street to the core! Omo, if u never try this one, then u never chi chomtin

3) Porridge beans with ripe plantain and ijebu garri

4) Ogbono soup with beef and correct yellow garri (Delta garri)

5) Hot akara and fresh soft bread straight from the bakery!!!

Abeg, share yours too o!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]savigne
Winnieberry
Laykorn
Rapmoney
Sparkleboy
Emmysexxy
Sarahatuba
Sweetyie
Daviyjones
Abumikey

Please come and cast your votes for twaci. [/color]

My guy, nor worry. I dor already vote for Twaci! She deserves it!

It's Rapmoney in the building!!!
Warri First Son!

On this day, 22nd May, 2015, I vote for Twaci!!! Let it be known!

CC: NLJega

Nigeria...such a hell to live in! Unemployment...the most pressing problem of the youths!

ProphetUdeme:
BRILLIANT WRITE UP. The best so far on this thread. Lalasticlala pls hit this as an FP material. Our guys really need to be enlighten and emancipated from this dating slavery. Thanks o.p.
cc : misogynist2014

Thanks bro!

Strongfaze:
Bro, your thoughts are valid on one side of the coin. On the other side of the coin is that if you wait for when you have it all, then no woman will say no to your advances. We are warned to get a girl before you have it all because if she sticks with you at that time, she is a WIFE MATERIAL. Imagine that you have a car, a house, and you are gainfully employed, which SENSELESS LADY who wants to settle down can say NO to you? NON, EVEN IF SHE IS PLUTO!

I didn't say one should acquire everything before entering a relationship. What I mean is that you should set ur priorities straight! One should not be struggling...just get focused on ur plans first...try as much as possible to be comfortable...u must not have millions first...now, do you think ladies of our time would want to get serious with a dude who has nothing? Most times, we run away from reality! Too bad!

Adaobi12:
Sounds like a lazy dude.

Adaobi, stubborn babe

Setaje:
I swear. Who no like good thing. What the guy said is true but it's so difficult to get a good woman when a man is rich. By that time the kind of women they want sef are not women they would ordinarily date if they were poor. The richer a man is, the higher his taste.

So we were told when we were younger but now we know better!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]So how Long do wee need to keep "Hustling" and "struggling" before we start finding love?

Some people's success may meet them when they are 40 years or even older. Is that when they should begin to talk about settling down to love someone and marry?

Does Love wait for someone?

This write-up is flawed to me.[/color]

It seems you don't understand the post . How do you expect a struggling dude to get tied in a relationship where he still needs to spend? Do you think he will achieve anything? It would only be tolerable for him if the lady helps him financially! How many of such women do we still have in our society? Wake up and face reality! Life nor be beans! People wey never see still dey brag!

Ishilove...wetin una dey wait before una carry this thread go front page?

oyin17:
may God bless ur hustle

Thanks

oyin17:
Rapmoney who is playing with your heart? Girls are not smiling.

I nor even get heart wey person wan play with

My hands are always itching...busy to count good money at the close of work Mon-Fri