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One particular thing about the older Mellenials is that they transited in dating from one era to another...yes, the era of no electronic gadgets to an era that ushered the advent of electronic gadgets and social media. Below are characteristics of 80s and 90s romance and dating. 1. Getting a response from a girl could take up to one, two, or even three months. Some of us never got any response till we stopped seeing each other. 2. If you impregnate a girl as a young man, the whole area would know because the girl's parents and extended family members would bring fight to your parents' house. 80s and 90s things. ![]() 3. There was no phone, tab, or social media. We used to send handwritten letters to our crush through someone. Back then, writing the letter was not a problem. The problem was who would deliver it to her? 4. There were stricter parents then. You would most likely talk to a girl if she was on errands, or sending a trusted person to call her from home. You dare not near her house. Her father's lion's roar would make you scamper for safety. Some boys chop beating sef. 5. There was no social media. You would not be bothered that your partner was chatting or communicating with someone else. 6. Long distance relationship was equal to maximum torture. If you send letter to your babe in Lagos and you dey Warri, she would receive it from Nigeria Postal Service after 3 months. Then you must have been in another relationship. 7. You could date a girl for 6 months, and you have not seen her pants. Nor be joke! 8. Baby mama was not common as it is today. If you give girl belle, dem go force you to marry her. Before 6pm that same day, her bags would be in your house. Na so Bros Ogbole take marry albino that year. 9. Many people entered relationships with marriage as the intention. Today, many people dey inside situationships 10. You could stay for days or weeks without speaking with your girlfriend/boyfriend, and both of you reside in same town. How una wan take see? 11. Guys that were fainthearted and could not toast females paid other bold guys to talk to babes they liked on their behalf. Some mischievous guys utilized the opportunities and converted the girls to theirs. 12. People bought request cards on radio to dedicate love songs to their partners at night. We disturb Radio Delta that year, nor be small. 13. There was no billing for iPhones and Peruvian hairs. Gifts were modest. 14. If una venture quarrel for inside relationship, just know say the quarrel fit reach 2 months if care is not taken. 15. Reputation mattered a lot. E get the kind person wey your parents go warn you say deh nor wan see you with again. 16. Having a date was simple. You could share one meat pie and a bottle of Fanta with your date. Please don't try that in these modern times, or else you go enter social media. Last words: Even if every era has its own challenges, I usually view this with a nostalgic feeling.
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idris646:That is a messed up thing to say right now, right? Oh I see. Nigerians should start asking these questions in 2030. I don't think there is any need debating with people like you. |
idris646:So Nigerians should not ask questions because the children returned safely? The way some of you reason is terrible. And to think anyone who asks questions is an Obedient is even more terrible. |
Colonel Leo Abara, a retired military officer, has reacted to the rescue of the schoolchildren and teachers who were kidnapped in Oriire Local Government Area of Oyo State. Speaking in an interview with AIT, Col Abara said he was disappointed that it took the government more than 50 days to rescue the victims. He said he has not seen any kidnapper killed or captured during the rescue operation. Col Abara said he did not see any sign that there was physical confrontation between the security operatives and the kidnappers. He said this could mean a ransom was paid for the victims' release In Col Abara's words: "We don't know the conditions upon which they were released. I stand to be corrected that the violence entrepreneurs have made it again. We did not see any kidnapper captured or dead, so that means there was no confrontation. It means that maybe ransom was paid" Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqt03ai0OaM&pp=ygUiRGVtb2NyYWN5IHRvZGF5IDEwdGggSnVseSAyMDI2IEFJVA%3D%3D |
The man will not trend. Neither will he be celebrated. He is not selling fish pie while screaming 'fish pie'! |
Few days ago, Special Adviser to the president on Media and Policy Communications stated that Nigerians earning 60,000 Naira in Nigeria are better off compared to Nigerians earning about 2,600 Pounds in the United Kingdom. I am not a politician; neither am I a member of any political party in Nigeria, but one thing I have mastered over the years is studying people and patterns. I am going to tell you this for free today. Patterns do not lie. The best way to understand humans is to study their patterns. I have consistently study Daniel Bwala, and with every atom of honesty, inconsistency runs in his blood. The same person that told you that a Nigerian earning 60k in Nigeria is better than a Nigerian in the UK earning 2.6k Pounds will sing another song tomorrow when he is no longer benefitting from the government. That is his pattern! Sometime ago, I made a post where I encouraged young Nigerians who want to seek greener pastures abroad not to be deceived or distracted by anyone. Some people came from different angles to attack me, but I really do not care because I will keep stating the truth and the obvious. It is true that not everyone will travel, but it is even truer to say Nigeria is not for every young Nigerian. Not everyone can achieve success no matter how intelligent and creative you are, in a society where there are so many squares pegs in round holes. In a society where you must know someone who knows another person in government or politics to get a job. So what is the essence of education, intelligence, creativity, and expertise in the system? If you knew the number of dumb 3rd Class graduates that are occupying many sensitive positions in Nigeria, you would weep for the country! They are not there because they merit the positions. They are there because someone placed them there. That is how things work in Nigeria. That is why the public sector is a huge mess! The same Daniel Bwala was living in the UK before he got a government appointment. The problem with many Nigerians is that they don't carry out thorough research, and they find it difficult to think deeply. Go and do your research. Where is Daniel Bwala's wife and children? His wife and children are living in Reading, United Kingdom. His wife works there and his children school there. A man whose wife and kids live in the UK permanently is discouraging you not to travel out. Shouldn't Nigeria be a better place for them to live? How many Nigerians earning 100k in a month can comfortably save 10k? Let us be sincere to ourselves. How many married men with children in Nigeria earning 300k a month can comfortably save 50k? How many Nigerians even earn up to 300k in a month? That your brother or sister in Europe, America, Australia, etc that sends you 100k, 200k, 300k...ask yourself if he or she could do that if they were living in Nigeria. Nor be cho cho cho. The Gospel Truth: Whether you like it or not, many Nigerians will NEVER count the Naira in millions until they leave the shores of Nigeria. You can save this anywhere! Nor be mouth. Just like I stated earlier, not everyone will travel, but if you are a young person with high creativity and intelligence, and you don't have the usual connection that some few people use in Nigeria, do not allow anyone to discourage you from travelling, or else, you will regret it in your later years when your bones are weak and your sight becomes blurry. You may not achieve much.
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Najaatu Mohammed Revives Allegation Linking Ali Modu Sheriff To Boko Haram Over Peter Obi AttackSource: https://independent.ng/najaatu-mohammed-revives-allegation-linking-ali-modu-sheriff-to-boko-haram-over-peter-obi-attack/
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There are big men in Abuja and other northern parts of the country who are sending these bastards to the south to kidnap for ransom. It is now a full blown business. |
All terrorists must be flushed out of Delta State forests. Our state cannot be the hiding place for fleeing terrorists. |
Delta State security outfit, SafeCity Security Service, in collaboration with operatives of the state police command, has arrested a notorious wanted bandit, Abubakar Usman. The arrest followed the kidnapping of one Mrs Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede Kingdom, who was abducted on 2nd July, 2026, along the Ani-Ifekide Farm Road, Ubulu-Uku. The kidnappers had demanded a ransom of N100 million from her family. Spokesperson for the SafeCity Security Service, Harrison Gwamnishu, made the disclosure in a post on X on Wednesday. According to Gwamnishu, upon receiving the information, he escalated the matter, and the Delta State Police Command’s Anti-Kidnapping Squad, Asaba, led by CSP Osakpolor, swung into action. He said using their Hydra Tech Surveillance System, a coordinated rescue operation was launched, Mrs Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede, was successfully rescued alive and unharmed along the Ubulu-Unor/Ashama Road. Delta State security outfit, SafeCity Security Service, in collaboration with operatives of the state police command, has arrested a notorious wanted bandit, Abubakar Usman. The arrest followed the kidnapping of one Mrs Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede Kingdom, who was abducted on 2nd July, 2026, along the Ani-Ifekide Farm Road, Ubulu-Uku. The kidnappers had demanded a ransom of N100 million from her family. Spokesperson for the SafeCity Security Service, Harrison Gwamnishu, made the disclosure in a post on X on Wednesday According to Gwamnishu, upon receiving the information, he escalated the matter, and the Delta State Police Command’s Anti-Kidnapping Squad, Asaba, led by CSP Osakpolor, swung into action. He said using their Hydra Tech Surveillance System, a coordinated rescue operation was launched, Mrs Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede, was successfully rescued alive and unharmed along the Ubulu-Unor/Ashama Road. After her rescue, he said the team immediately launched a manhunt for the fleeing kidnappers until the early hours of Wednesday when their surveillance system located the gang to their hideout in the Ogwashi-Uku/Adonta Forest of the state. “A gun battle ensued, during which our combined team overpowered the criminals. One of the most wanted suspects, Abubakar Usman, was successfully captured, while other members of the gang escaped into the forest with their firearms. “Investigations reveal that Abubakar Usman and his gang have been responsible for several kidnapping operations across Igbodo, Umunede, and surrounding communities, where they have extorted millions of naira in ransom from innocent families,” he said. Source: https://dailypost.ng/2026/07/08/notorious-wanted-bandit-abubakar-usman-captured-in-delta-forest-photo/ Cc: Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Nlfpmod OAM4J Dominique Fergie001
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Suicideboy:Even if some parents give birth to too many kids that they cannot cater for, we should not fail to admit the wickedness of such women who maltreat kids under their care. It was high time legal actions are taken swiftly against such folks. |
pocohantas:Thank you for your input and your case of personal experience. It is really worrisome, I must say. |
1. Asking people when they will get married when you are not very close to them is plainly stupid. Marriage is part of a person's private life. That should not be your concern. 2. Being overweight and big in size and expecting others to squeeze themselves for you in public transport. They are not the cause of your big size. You lack discipline because you eat too much without exercising. Pay for an extra seat instead of inconveniencing others who might have paid same fare as you. 3. Entering a public place with body and mouth odours and expecting people to respect you. You lie! You have already abused and disrespected yourself by entering a public space in such condition. 4. Impregnating a girl, and expecting others to contribute to the upbringing of the child. Do you think your penis is bigger and more functional than theirs? 5. Informing your boss of your resignation over dissatisfaction, and accepting the job back again after he/she pacified you. Na premium sack and disgrace dey front gidigba dey wait you. 6. Fighting someone who will lose less than you if things go wrong. Not every fight is worth the stress. 7. Staring at strangers for too long and in an unnecessary manner. It makes people scared and uncomfortable. 8. Talking to people you do not know about your life in public transport. 9. Do not switch immediately to answering a call while discussing with somebody, without seeking their permission to opt out. When you are discussing with someone and a phone call comes in, excuse the person and take the call. The person is not a tree. He/she deserves to be regarded. 10. When you are walking on a tiny space and someone is at your back moving at a higher speed than yours, give them allowance to pass. They are not your bodyguard. 11. Going on a date and pressing your phone throughout the period. You should have told the other person that both of you would be having a phone pressing challenge instead of a date. 12. Using your fingers to pick your nose and still expecting others to shake you when you stretch out your hand. 13. When you meet someone who is way older than you, allow them to stretch out their hand for a handshake, and not the other way round. 14. When someone calls you on phone, you speak first, except the call is suspicious. Don't keep quiet and allow the caller to speak first. 15. Do not enter someone's house with dirty feet, or use their toilet without flushing. You will never know the stress it took them to put their house in order. 16. When you borrow something from someone, return it after use. Do not allow them to ask you for it or come to you to get it. You can add yours. |
Nigeria’s digital creator’s community was thrown into mourning on Monday following reports that TikTok content creator Akube Nation died in an auto crash in Lagos.Source: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/893553-five-things-to-know-about-tiktoker-akube-nation-amid-reported-death.html https://x.com/i/status/2074079419753201982
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I have been thinking about this lately, and I have been looking for the best possible way to express my mind. I do not want this to look like an ethnic post, or appear like ethnic profiling, but I am bothered and we must face the truth at all times. I have noticed that cases of child abuse such as causing grievous body harm to children are always linked to our sisters from the east. Why is it so? Out of every 10 cases of women abusing maids, 8 or 9 would be perpetrated by women from the east. I don't want to believe that the modern Igbo woman is cruel to children placed under her care. And in such cases, I usually wonder why the husbands of such women keep quiet while evil is perpetuated. I would suggest that women from the eastern part of the country use this year's August meeting to focus and talk about this. It is getting too much. Women who are caught maltreating maids and young people placed in their care should be dealt with and excommunicated in the society. It should serve as a deterrent for others who would want to follow same path. They should make it part of the efforts towards community development. Cc: Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Nlfpmod OAM4J Dominique Fergie001
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He won't trend because he is not selling fish pie or doing something stupid. |
I keep saying it that the Education Ministry in Nigeria is filled with 'uneducated' set of people. They play politics with the education system. These people know that there is nothing creative and progressive they have to offer, so what they do is to dish out policies without concrete tests to show that they are active. |
When Uneducated Minds Change the Education System, by Owei Lakemfahttps://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/07/when-uneducated-minds-change-the-education-system-by-owei-lakemfa/
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EmmyMaestro:Fear Nairaland people. They must check her out on various platforms. |
whitebeard:I usually don't have time to argue with kids like you. The internet has made it possible to share space with people who normally would not dare enter places where you are invited to make speeches. You have to identify the type of people you do your funny chitty-chatty with on Nairaland. |
Former adult film actress, Jazmine Cashmere has embraced Christianity years after walking away from the adult entertainment industry. The ex-performer, now known as Nicole B. Jones, is reportedly leading a ministry in Chicago. A viral before-and-after video showing her transformation has reignited conversations about faith, redemption and second chances.Source: https://www.legit.ng/entertainment/celebrities/1717499-popular-adult-film-actor-turns-pastor-notable-church/
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whitebeard:You just exposed how shallow and empty you are. You attack people instead of countering their opinions with intelligence. To people like you who find it difficult to think brilliantly, insult is equal to intelligence. |
banku:I can clearly see that you need a brain surgeon. |
opera1:I usually do not have time to argue with people who are too lazy or docile to carry out simple research.
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It is obvious that Nigeria as a country has lost most of her best brains to the economies of other countries in Europe, North America, Australia, and even Asia. Every year, seasoned professionals leave in droves in what we normally call the 'Japa Syndrome'. Many brilliant medical practitioners, bright engineers, wonderful accountants, astute technicians, and outstanding educators have left. They did not leave because they hated Nigeria, but they did not want to get stuck in an environment where their skills and expertise are usually rewarded with peanuts. If you don't want a tree to grow, you must start from the roots, and not the trunk, branches, leaves, or fruits. This is the case with Nigeria and the Japa Syndrome. Whenever the government want to fight a problem, they start from the trunk, branches, leaves, and fruits, instead of the roots. Spending huge amounts of funds on Anti-Japa programmes on National TV and radio will never solve the issue. Making long speeches and organising endless seminars will never solve the problem. The brain drain and japa syndrome will continue in Nigeria due to the following reasons: 1. The 'Stay back and build Nigeria' is an illusion. It is easy to ask Nigerian youths to stay back and build Nigeria, but the young ones are not blind. They can clearly see how the people who keep telling them to stay back and build are coordinating themselves and the affairs of the country. Public officials embezzle outrageous amounts of funds meant for development and nothing is done. In fact, they still contest elections and force themselves into elective offices, and you still expect the youths to stay back and build? Build on what exactly? Isn't it pure madness that the people who control the resources to build are squandering the same resources, while still asking young people to stay back and build? 2. Better renumeration in the western world: I have seen highly skilled individuals in Nigeria receiving peanuts as salaries. Imagine a medical doctor, after years of strenuous training receiving 250k as salary! A data scientist receiving 120k as salary! A seasoned teacher with an MEd receiving 80k as salary. If these people don't leave, they might continue to go round in the vicious circle that has been created by the system and die wretched. The authorities do not care! 3. The increasing level of insecurity in the country : There are a lot of Nigerians who relocated, and others who are planning to relocate, not because of increase in pay or making more money, but to be in an environment where they can move freely at anytime of the day without fear of being kidnapped or killed by terrorists. It is as terrible as that. People can no longer move freely from Benin to Lagos, from Onitsha to Ondo, from Katsina to Abuja, from Kogi to Osun. It is a huge slap on Nigeria as a country. It is a core duty of the government to protect its citizens, and not the other way round. If you don't know this as an adult, your education is a total waste! 4. Better education for their children : The educational system in Nigeria needs total overhauling. What Nigeria currently has is a carade. It is a caricature of education. An education that teaches children what to think instead of how to think is a huge problem. Many Nigerians want better education for their children, so moving out becomes non-negotiable. The policy makers are more concerned with changing the NYSC uniform to Ankara! 5. Ridiculously low human capital development : Real development goes beyond construction of coastal roads. What is real development? Real development is what the average citizen does, what he earns in a month, and the things that his earnings can fetch for him in the market. That is where you start from. That is human capital development. That must come first before we begin to talk about other things like coastal roads and the rest. You put the horse before the cart, and not the other way round. What concerns the average Chinedu, Aliyu, Adewale, or Rukevwe with coastal roads when he has no light to power his small business? You can only transport goods through coastal roads if you are producing. Is the environment conducive to produce? The government focuses more on survival than on human capital development. Last take: I have chosen not to be politically right. And it is deliberate, because I have observed that things go astray because many of us always want to be politically right. We see spades, and call them spoons. Before you argue with me, go and do a thorough research on the Social Contract of modern nations. You will discover that there are so many areas your government cheats you on. Providing security and a conducive environment for economic activities is not and has never been your duty. Most people are just politically miseducated. Cc: Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Nlfpmod OAM4J Dominique Fergie001 JustWise Disguy
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It is obvious that Nigeria as a country has lost most of her best brains to the economies of other countries in Europe, North America, Australia, and even Asia. Every year, seasoned professionals leave in droves in what we normally call the 'Japa Syndrome'. Many brilliant medical practitioners, bright engineers, wonderful accountants, astute technicians, and outstanding educators have left. They did not leave because they hated Nigeria, but they did not want to get stuck in an environment where their skills and expertise are usually rewarded with peanuts. If you don't want a tree to grow, you must start from the roots, and not the trunk, branches, leaves, or fruits. This is the case with Nigeria and the Japa Syndrome. Whenever the government want to fight a problem, they start from the trunk, branches, leaves, and fruits, instead of the roots. Spending huge amounts of funds on Anti-Japa programmes on National TV and radio will never solve the issue. Making long speeches and organising endless seminars will never solve the problem. The brain drain and japa syndrome will continue in Nigeria due to the following reasons: 1. The 'Stay back and build Nigeria' is an illusion. It is easy to ask Nigerian youths to stay back and build Nigeria, but the young ones are not blind. They can clearly see how the people who keep telling them to stay back and build are coordinating themselves and the affairs of the country. Public officials embezzle outrageous amounts of funds meant for development and nothing is done. In fact, they still contest elections and force themselves into elective offices, and you still expect the youths to stay back and build? Build on what exactly? Isn't it pure madness that the people who control the resources to build are squandering the same resources, while still asking young people to stay back and build? 2. Better renumeration in the western world: I have seen highly skilled individuals in Nigeria receiving peanuts as salaries. Imagine a medical doctor, after years of strenuous training receiving 250k as salary! A data scientist receiving 120k as salary! A seasoned teacher with an MEd receiving 80k as salary. If these people don't leave, they might continue to go round in the vicious circle that has been created by the system and die wretched. The authorities do not care! 3. The increasing level of insecurity in the country : There are a lot of Nigerians who relocated, and others who are planning to relocate, not because of increase in pay or making more money, but to be in an environment where they can move freely at anytime of the day without fear of being kidnapped or killed by terrorists. It is as terrible as that. People can no longer move freely from Benin to Lagos, from Onitsha to Ondo, from Katsina to Abuja, from Kogi to Osun. It is a huge slap on Nigeria as a country. It is a core duty of the government to protect its citizens, and not the other way round. If you don't know this as an adult, your education is a total waste! 4. Better education for their children : The educational system in Nigeria needs total overhauling. What Nigeria currently has is a carade. It is a caricature of education. An education that teaches children what to think instead of how to think is a huge problem. Many Nigerians want better education for their children, so moving out becomes non-negotiable. The policy makers are more concerned with changing the NYSC uniform to Ankara! 5. Ridiculously low human capital development : Real development goes beyond construction of coastal roads. What is real development? Real development is what the average citizen does, what he earns in a month, and the things that his earnings can fetch for him in the market. That is where you start from. That is human capital development. That must come first before we begin to talk about other things like coastal roads and the rest. You put the horse before the cart, and not the other way round. What concerns the average Chinedu, Aliyu, Adewale, or Rukevwe with coastal roads when he has no light to power his small business? You can only transport goods through coastal roads if you are producing. Is the environment conducive to produce? The government focuses more on survival than on human capital development. Last take: I have chosen not to be politically right. And it is deliberate, because I have observed that things go astray because many of us always want to be politically right. We see spades, and call them spoons. Before you argue with me, go and do a thorough research on the Social Contract of modern nations. You will discover that there are so many areas your government cheats you on. Providing security and a conducive environment for economic activities is not and has never been your duty. Most people are just politically miseducated.
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Kingrshd3:You are definitely the one that needs to shut up and hide your face. I have already gotten the evidence that stands as the background of your warped thinking, so I do not need to debate with you anymore, because your opinion has nothing to do with intelligence or experience, but laced with ethnic and partisan politics. Don't mention me again. Rubbish. |
Chucks13:The thread is not for everyone. If you are a Gen Z, you can swerve! We don't need you here. |
Happy 69th Birthday to Bret Hart! Bret Hart is a Canadian retired professional wrestler best known as one of the greatest technical wrestlers in the history of the sport. Nicknamed "The Hitman," he rose to international fame through his career in professional wrestling, earning acclaim for his in-ring skill, storytelling, and championship success. His notable achievements include multiple world championship reigns in both the World Wrestling Federation (now WWE) and World Championship Wrestling. He is also known for legendary rivalries and matches against stars such as Shawn Michaels, Stone Cold Steve Austin, The Undertaker, and Owen Hart. Hart has been inducted into the WWE Hall of Fame twice—individually and as a member of the Hart Foundation. This man made our childhood fun!
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YoungBlackRico:What exactly is your purpose on this thread? |


