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RomanceRe: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 7:53pm On Apr 22, 2017
MarieSucre:
Maybe you don't make them cum, you just cum and roll off that's why they don't like having sex with you.
Lol. I bet you wouldn't wanna know
RomanceRe: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 1:08pm On Apr 22, 2017
zanga420:
lol. Now I get what you mean. Been know about it, see it as childish. Nothing beats a matured lady, despite of age. Have seen a matured mind of 23 and a childish mind of 35.
Lol. it has worked for me to have a balanced sexual relationships in the past. The kind that is not one sided In the interest of a particular party alone.
Same thing applies to several other matured ladies have met. They are all the same
RomanceRe: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 12:13pm On Apr 22, 2017
ILoveLight:
Dealing with them that you are who?
If they aren't doing you a favour, then they should be the one asking you for sex. So guy, they are doing you a great deal of favour.
So you expect every girl to just open up to you cos u are, Hot right?
Wake up, sex is sacred and shouldn't be done with just anybody, including u regardless of what u think of urself.
What is this one saying that is not sweet in her mouth.

Do you even have a matured understanding atall

Your look to me like a kid and i don't need to say anything to you. Your understanding will come sooner as you grow more
RomanceRe: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 11:58am On Apr 22, 2017
zanga420:
Way of dealing with them? Is there anything you need to tell those having it rough?
I don't know if it works for all but as for me.

Once a lady is hot i know from her reaction. I will flow with her, make her wet to the extreme that she cant stand it no more till she becomes helpless. once its time for penetration. I withdraw
I can fake to receive a call demanding for my immediate attention or declare outrightly that am not in the mood.
The last girl i did this to at that height almost died cheesy,
She was begging passionately and vigorously. It was after i felt pity for her that I gave in
Nothing hurts a Hot woman more than this.
Since then she has become open about it that not only wen she feels hot alone but wenever i feel too.
RomanceRe: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 4:49am On Apr 22, 2017
I like when a girl is open with her sexuality unlike some stingy/selfish idiots who think it only when they feel Hot that they think is the right time for sex to take place and are entitled to having their way + exchanging sex for favors.
Sex is a mutual thing from the contribution of both parties involved. Without two there can't be sex. This is why I laugh when some of them even think that they are doing you a favor by having sex while enjoying theirselves cheesy

I have my way of dealing with them sha grin
RomanceRe: Would You Marry For Love Or For A Secured Future? by Raydans: 9:38am On Apr 17, 2017
Bumbae1:
No wait o u go just old grin
No need to old again
I don get grey hair already grin
Sha reply that pm wink smiley
RomanceRe: Would You Marry For Love Or For A Secured Future? by Raydans: 9:24am On Apr 17, 2017
Bumbae1:
Future secured ! If i do marry it will be solely for LOVE
Hmmn

Am sha waiting on you cool cool
RomanceRe: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans:
cooldood:
Oga,its how nature wired the genders,in those countries you mentioned there's a trade off which is gender equality which I completely don't agree with.Over there also,ladies can talk to their husbands or spouses the way they like cos they're even more protected than the males.That won't work here oga.It's not everything about the west that are positive.Take it or leave it,the female gender is wired to look up to the male.If you like let them have millions in their accounts,its not a lazy mentality,don't fight it.
[b]

So if Nigeria adopt same. You think this place won't be a better place, developed, equipped and condusive like the west for us all or do you it is by magic that it is done.

Where is the gender equality that our great feminist screams about.
Well i don't blame them because they are the same, one sided and delusional about it. That's why it couldn't manifest as they are NIGERIAN women.


Nigerian ladies are the laziest species of ladies in the world and it affecting our developmental and economical growth.
Check out ordinary south africa there.Their ladies accepted their men are more lazy than them.

They praise and make compliment about Nigerian men as hardworking which even results to the xenophobic attack.

In one way or the other southafrica might be better than nigeria so to say.
It is because majority of our ladies are broke, lazy and dependent thereby increasing the number of hardworking men in nigeria and a number of men trooping out in mass because they can't satisfy our broke ladies and prefer foreigners.
Or travel out to hustle and come back to impress the weakling of a nigerian lady.


Majority of nigerian men have died in the process trying to impress or satisfy a Nigerian women because of the way you claim your imaginary nature wired them


Another is the issue of Europeans and america. Why do you think it is their women that get easily scammed from the yahoo boiz
Or nigerian men wanting to get papers.

Many nigerian men that were forced into such have been jailed, killed and sentence to death because of trying to have a family and make it because of our lazy nigerian ladies

You cant compare all these ladies with our own nigerian ladiez that had the reasoning of entitlement.

That is why we are backward

How many of the lazy Nigerian girls can u really scam wen they even have nothing but nothing.

This is drastically affecting Nigeria economically and financially but we may not be conscious of it because we see everything normal to us.

I know I should have created a thread or really need to write an article on this with standard statistics for you and us all but am not just good with words and writing.
But i know plenty and better writer that got my point can take it from here for a reasonable article[/b]
RomanceRe: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 11:33pm On Apr 16, 2017
cooldood:
If truly you've followed my comments, you'd find nowhere that says please a gal.
And dont go into a relationship expecting contribution from a gal.Again ladies are wired to follow a man's lead, if she's into you, she'd follow your lead once she sees your hardwork.The point is try your best to provide basics and expect little from your babe, it will save you psychological blow if she decides not to financially contribute, so if she contributes, that's fantastic for you.An example,you only have money for a 2 bedroom flat in Ikorodu,but she wants 3 bedroom flat in Lekki, then either she follows you to Ikorodu or she contributes to what you have so you go to Lekki (anyways, I wont advise a man to part-finance rent, its your ego at risk).So again, cut your suit according to your size, give yourself little stress about gals n enjoy your hustle.
Nigeria won't grow with your kinda mentality

You placing the female folks on a kinda lazy entitlement

If that's the way it is been done in the Us and Uk
You think Nigeria wouldn't be far ahead of them by now with our smartness.

Both male and females work for their money
No one sends the other.

I don't understand where your own wiring of ladies is coming from
Nairaland GeneralRe: 10 Habits The Average Nigerian Should Let Go Of! by Raydans: 10:58pm On Apr 16, 2017
RomanceRe: How Easter Went Right There by Raydans(op): 9:18pm On Apr 16, 2017
Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy is the 3rd commandment o

Make una no misquote the bible grin
RomanceRe: How Easter Went Right There by Raydans(op): 8:51pm On Apr 16, 2017
Alesandese:
You were saying....
Am saying how far wetin do you

Where you dey undecided
RomanceRe: How Easter Went Right There by Raydans(op): 8:49pm On Apr 16, 2017
SINZ:
Baba I dey ma house o, drunk as fvck too smiley.
Correct

Its necessary bro
RomanceRe: How Easter Went Right There by Raydans(op): 8:40pm On Apr 16, 2017
SINZ:
Okayhuh
Whr u dey nigga.

How far
RomanceHow Easter Went Right There by Raydans(op):
Would have loved to host nairlanders around me, male, females, married, unmarried.

HAPPY MOOD



The Dj is crazy here and The easter groove is top notch

Where is your location

And how is it going
Maybe we could hook up

Mind you am different outside NL shocked
RomanceRe: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 4:31pm On Apr 16, 2017
FelixFelicia:
Pathetic as$licker, giving unwarranted explanation/analysis on the 17th page, you think you're doing me? undecided
Loool cheesy cheesy. You've got a bad mouth bro
RomanceRe: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 4:06pm On Apr 16, 2017
Instead of stating that ladies should be on the watch out to claim the rich or broke but focused guys.
You could have advised ladies to use that time to be rich and focused instead
Your advice should be with much emphasis directed at ladies being INDEPENDENT
Not to be on the watch out as that is not a priority

Making watching out a priority already killed the point of the message thereby revealing the deep and unconscious truth

I hope you pick something from this

Happy Easter Y'all
RomanceRe: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 3:30pm On Apr 16, 2017
Safiaa. I got your point and you are correct

But it only the way you chose to explain your first post, laid emphasis and one sided that is wrong which makes readers not to understand


Perhaps you may want to modify it
EventsRe: How Much Did Your Wedding Cost You, How Much Are You Budgeting For Your Wedding? by Raydans: 2:47pm On Apr 16, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
50k.
12k for the gown materials.
I will sew it myself.
My shoe and bag will be 8k.
The gele 4k.
My mum's clothes will be 12k too.
My hubby's cloth 13k.
Transport to and fro registry 2k.
Wedding Bibles 1k.
Omo na economics you go read for school ni
RomanceRe: Anitateddy Busted!!! (pictures) by Raydans: 10:52am On Apr 16, 2017
Bumbae1:
Still thinking grin hope u not expensive
Am not that expensive for you not afford na wink We fit sharply just reach dubai come back abi wetin you feel grin
RomanceRe: Anitateddy Busted!!! (pictures) by Raydans: 10:05am On Apr 16, 2017
Bumbae1:
Lol grin U sure say na bust u wan do or na lipsrsealed
No go waste your time, energy , data , wifi , calories grin
Happy easter cheesy
Choi...ur mind is deri mehn. Lol. cheesy
Happy Easter dear, where u wan carry me to now cool
RomanceRe: Anitateddy Busted!!! (pictures) by Raydans: 9:52am On Apr 16, 2017
Bumbae1:
grin he don turn NL FBI
At least his saving so ppl from wooing dick instead of pussay cheesy
Happy Easter iyawo wink
Na you remain next wey i wan bust now grin
RomanceRe: Who Wants To See Lashort?? by Raydans: 9:46am On Apr 16, 2017
Lashort:
smiley
No borii grin grin

It is Lalong we want to see grin
RomanceRe: Do You Prefer Weed Or Alcohol Before Or After Sex?? by Raydans: 9:35am On Apr 16, 2017
Taking alcohol before it is like a punishment. You last for too long without enjoying, the lady alone enjoys cause of ur energy.

I last impressively enough even without anything

Taking it after is refreshening
RomanceRe: When U Finally Meet The Lady Of Your Dreams by Raydans: 8:54am On Apr 16, 2017
Lol. She still has a long way ahead of her. And anything can happen along the line due to distance, time, circumstances and environment.
You can't just judge yet

Trust women, they are like chameleon and very unstable

Don't propose to her yet, just keep your fingers crossed and keep observing her till she becomes more matured.

If you notice any change
From there you know the next thing to do
RomanceRe: I Need Your Help Please by Raydans: 8:23am On Apr 16, 2017
ToriBlue:
PH, Enugu, Akwa ibom.
Pick these for southsouth

And pick Ogun, Lagos, Oyo for southwest
RomanceRe: Please Guys How Do You Refuse Giving A Lady Your Number Without Upsetting Her? by Raydans: 3:47pm On Apr 14, 2017
I crack jokes till she forgets about the number
RomanceRe: If You Were To Become A Man For One Week, What Will You Do With It? by Raydans: 6:37pm On Apr 12, 2017
Bumbae1:
Lol so its hard work to burst hole grin
Tink say una dey enjoy am
Enjoy fire.
Na women dey enjoy am pass in the absence of pretense
They put the expectations on the man to impress while at it.
Na den u go dey hear funny funny tongues grin
Different tongues for diff ladies

Am sure you have your own unique one too wink
RomanceRe: Hi Guys Am New Here And I Need A Friends... by Raydans: 5:13pm On Apr 12, 2017
You are new and u don sabi how to open thread sharp sharp, how to post, comment, add emoji and package ur profile. Isokay. Weh don sir!
RomanceRe: If You Were To Become A Man For One Week, What Will You Do With It? by Raydans: 1:42pm On Apr 12, 2017
Bumbae1:
Men, I would be best hubby material
And a boss cool ok we'll already doing that sooo ..
maybe just fvk everybody since its ok for guys to be lipsrsealed at least no one will call me olosho instead they will hail me grin


On a serious note .. wont want to be a guy ... as it wont change anything really just the fact you male .
Lol. Them go dey hail you and you dey happy.
Thank God u no be man den o b4 u burst up every of their hole finish grin
Una think to be man dey easy.

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