Romance › Re: Please I Advice Me. by Raydans: 12:25am On Aug 30, 2017 |
Bad sharp guy  The guy obviously knows how to manipulate weak girls like the op to sooth himself Oya op repeat after me. #Our mumu don do  Moreover op might be one of those girls dat stalks alot. I hate dat tin  |
Romance › Re: Five Reasons Why Broke Girls Don't Deserve Rich Guys by Raydans: 12:08am On Aug 30, 2017 |
Michael004: That k pain am. Ogbeni losun jare. Gbeborun of Nigeria limited |
Romance › Re: Please Help Us Choose Between This 2 Sentences Which One Is Correct by Raydans: 10:13pm On May 14, 2017 |
gretblue: Since the action has already taken place, then option b comes right. The action already took place in the first format |
Romance › Re: Her Name Is Amaka, If You Get Married To Her, What Sweet Name Will You Call Her? by Raydans: 10:02pm On May 14, 2017 |
Well i can't marry this kinda gurl. They are always promiscuous along the line |
Romance › Re: Please Help Us Choose Between This 2 Sentences Which One Is Correct by Raydans: 9:47pm On May 14, 2017 |
gretblue: Do you still need a soothsayer? Any verb after *Did* goes with present tense. What about having the question in a different form like this 1.) You stand up from where 2.) You stood up from where Which one is correct ? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think Sex Is Gold? by Raydans: 5:46pm On May 14, 2017 |
firstking01: Dude use your brain...she's my friend and she has told me worst...most times we do it on a non-pun-intended level...so, no kuku shook mouth . Lol. Na u no dey use ur brain for dis matter na. Una be friends so u gats turn police upandan How u know say pple wey she dey fflw yarn no be her friend too  Olobe |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think Sex Is Gold? by Raydans: 4:54pm On May 14, 2017 |
firstking01: See what you are typing online ...do you know that you left us with too many suggestions of who you could possibly be offline judging from that your statement ??. This guy sef. Ur matter taya pesin. When you con turn moral doctor abi na police to determine what people should say about theirselves or not. I no understand. If someone is open about theirselves. That shouldn't be a problem na i guess. Abi whr is d unnecessary agitation coming from. I dont think you should care about watever she is offline na. It should be her problem. Abi which one be ur own o deputy Jesus |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think Sex Is Gold? by Raydans: 4:04pm On May 14, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Yes it will happen , used to think it was like some porn fiction then i realised its actually real  But some guys know how to though .. just not seen one yet Meet me in the other room. But you will have to pay though before the magic fingers and touches  No free thing Negotiable tho  |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 9:11pm On May 13, 2017 |
Euphoria19: ladies are complicated and confusing, she was just acting like she doesn't care and was playing hard to get, and when you didn't fall for it she got angry, it's not your fault,she wanted you to call her so that she could feel special and good about herself and that's not wrong but her reaction afterwards was not necessary, she could've just stated that she ended up being free and was disappointed when you didn't call which isn't your fault cause she gave you the impression that she's a busy bee, ladies are complicated, even me sef I don't understand myself sometimes, don't read into it Smh.......Una weh done. Three gbosa for una!!!  |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 9:07pm On May 13, 2017 |
IAmSirMichael: Lol. Don't worry, seeing her in the bank again will rejuvenate that feeling Hehehe. I know my way around trust me. If its about being bad. Just that am retired from the game  I just don't invest so much energy on woman matter again. I let things flow now  |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 8:50pm On May 13, 2017 |
IAmSirMichael: Have you called her?  Not exactly. The zeal is unlike before. She don dull me |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 8:36pm On May 13, 2017 |
jejemanito:
Grab a copy Don't thank me later Lol. which chapter you don read am reach now |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 7:42pm On May 13, 2017 |
Alero3Arubi: Are you sure you are replying the right quote? I mean ignore the signature for now for this post  |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 4:31pm On May 13, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 2:14pm On May 13, 2017 |
Alero3Arubi: You bleeped up big time. You used too much logic. Why do you think ladies always fall for players? It's the chase man. How can you be the one doing the hold up? You got her number you didn't call till much later. That doesn't seem desperate. We love desperate. Makes us feel 10X good looking. Boosts our self ego. You spoke to her and followed her words. Heck we need T feel like we were convinced to go out with you. Doesn't matter if we really want it more than you. Makes us look hard to get and high chick status approval. So yes you messed up her game and she is angry at you. Now go right back and tho time make sure you do all the chasing and persuasions. That's what we thrive on. ATTENTION!!! Hmmm. You ladies feed on attention right but at the same time desperation ìs a turn off. You don't need to put me under à mental stress deciding when to take actions or not. I should be able to take you by words and not otherwise. And anger shouldn't have anything to do with it |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 2:06pm On May 13, 2017 |
cloudyskygrind: Very easy dude. Walk up to her next time. Don't call to her from afar. Be bold and say look, I'm not really good at this, I'm not sure where i went wrong but I'd like to start again. Dinner with me this weekend, after that I'll never bother you again.
Come back and testify. It works like magic Lol. This line sounds like a movie |
Romance › Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 11:01am On May 13, 2017 |
SirMichael1: Yours is really strong o. I think you should have called her that Monday and inquired if she was still gonna be free.
You see, most women want their men to fight for them even when she says no. She thought you would have called and probably had been waiting for you that very Monday.
You could still call and apologize. You can never tell when luck's gonna hit you. I was thinking in that direction too. I never knew it might be a big deal since it was a case of maybe. I actually never wanted to be forward |
Romance › I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 9:50am On May 13, 2017 |
So i was climbing up the stairs and at the same time staring at this beautiful lady coming down. I was lost that I missed a step, i staggared to get my balance and almost fell. When she got to me, she smiled at me and said sorry. I was kind of ashamed, i managed to smile back and thanked her. After my transaction with the bank i summoned the courage to talk to her atleast I have nothing to loose even if she declined. I walked up to her, told her she looked gorgeous, inquired her name, she said she is omolayo i told her i almost broke my leg on the stairs because of her beauty, it would be a sin not have her contact before I leave. She couldnt stopped blushing continously and asked me what I intend to do with her number.I said she would definitely get to find out, she smiled before she scribbled her digits down on a small piece and stylishly passed it to me. I bounced out of the bank feeling fulfilled. I decided not to call her immediately and waited till weekend. I called her up and asked to meet with her but she said her place was very far and besides she takes her weekends to rest and do her chores but she will be working half day the coming monday since its an holiday but she is not promising or assuring me. I understood and ended the conversation. When it was monday, i was free. I decided not to bother or call her since she didn't assure me nor was it certain having at the back of my mind that she would call me if she changed her mind and wished to see me. I took a chill and enjoyed my day.
Later in the week i went to the bank. Stepping into the bank i sighted her, i noticed she saw me from the corner of my eyes but i decided to complete my transaction 1st as the priority before any other thing. So I faced the huge queue and battled for a space.
When i was done. I walked to her waved at her but she was blank cold, i thought she didn't notice so i raised my voice aloud and greeted her but no response. This was someone i was standing directly opposite her desk. Her body language was completely oblivious of my presence. I was shocked, @fter some seconds without any idea and outrightly confused i quickly left not to embarass myself. I was lost in thought as i stepped out wondering what, how, where exactly things went wrong. This was the same damsel that we are both excited smiling and laughing with ourselves the last time.
I thought so hard but couldn't figure something out. I only called her once after that day but her voice was cold and her response was i should call her back that is sleeping. I gave up from that point but still couldn't figure what went wrong. Anytime i visit the bank i hold onto myself and stay on my lane but she still steals glances at me and i always do too. What could have actually gone wrong ?
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Romance › Re: Independent Girls In Nigeria?? Tell Me Why I Should Believe In Love?? by Raydans: 4:54am On May 10, 2017 |
Lunagirl: When I hear stories like this it makes me wonder one thing, where are these broke girls guys complain about?
I look at my friends and my circle of girl gang. I see the way all of us are hustling to make ends meet for ourselves without any assistance from boys or men. I look at us and I see our drive, determination, pride and passion.
Then I come to Nairaland and hear different stories. Then it just makes me wonder, where are these girls? You and your circle of friends are not up to 0.0000000000000001% of actual number of girls in the real world |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Welcomes Second Daughter, Hailey Adeleke by Raydans: 6:18pm On May 09, 2017 |
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Career › Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Raydans: 7:18am On May 08, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: by Raydans(op): 8:38am On May 03, 2017 |
Lunagirl: I think he was too mild though. How can someone you haven't known for long start almost harassing you for money to make hair? The guts of some girls though...
If I were a guy ehhhhh  Lool. So if you be guy wetin you go dey do for babes wey do you like this mama  |
Romance › Re: by Raydans(op): 11:34pm On May 02, 2017 |
dingbang: Isn't her father alive.. D way some girls beg tho.. Would she die if she doesn't make her hair Lol. No mind am. She dey use scope change everything after the nigga don get am  |
Romance › Re: by Raydans(op): 11:26pm On May 02, 2017*. Modified: 4:28pm On May 06, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: by Raydans(op): 11:23pm On May 02, 2017*. Modified: 4:28pm On May 06, 2017 |
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Romance › by Raydans(op): 11:09pm On May 02, 2017*. Modified: 4:27pm On May 06, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Raydans: 10:31pm On May 01, 2017 |
Caricature: All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly. Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one. See as you be like original sex object.
Used to clean stick and dump version |
Romance › Re: Is There Future For This Relationship? by Raydans: 9:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
Professional Association of Nairaland Advisers |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Avoiding Broke Guys Means You Are Also Broke! by Raydans: 8:49am On Apr 29, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies: Avoiding Broke Guys Means You Are Also Broke! by Raydans: 9:58pm On Apr 27, 2017*. Modified: 10:19pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
abike12: I'm not broke and my preference is to date someone that's financially stable. I don't see anything wrong with a woman wanting to date someone with more money than she has.If two broke people date each other, who will help who?  That is you right there my dear. You justified what you are already unconsciously  it is just who you are, you can't be someone else. Your goal in a relationship is to be helped. What else are you saying. Does a person that claims not to be broke needs any financial help again. |
Romance › Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Raydans: 8:21pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Ngokafor: ...My dear they are all clowns ....after massaging their yeye egos here,they will hit the streets with their normal nonsense,no be today.
....A thread was opened on how a random guy on face-book was claiming that sexx is an expression of love for males,therefore its his/their right to demand for it....These Nairaland Liliputians calling themselves males almost drowned the thread with agreements and 'likes'..
..now they are yarning crap and blaming females for not 'having sense and zipping up like a responsible adult should'..who send dem message.??..
..put a lovely picture on your DP and they will almost run you out of this forum with Pms. And if you put the best of the best of your picture and don't get a single like or pm won't you think you have a problem Or you dressed well, tushed yourself, with a sexy and beautifull outfit and stepped out and nobody complimented you or even knew you existed, wouldn't you still think that something is wrong with your head or a generation problem. You will still complain right. You are a two face. |
Romance › Re: Having Sex On First Date, Does It Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Raydans: 8:20pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
luscioustrish: Having sex on the first date or not doesn't guarantee anything.
Only matured men won't see anything wrong with that.. And again
Sex is overrated. Ladies overrate sex the most. If you are open about it you won't even consider sex important or the most thing in your life you have to loose. It doesn't determine commitment |