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Romance / Re: “A Girl Who Loves You Would Never Feel Comfortable To Ask You For Money” – Lady by Raydans: 8:07am On Mar 30, 2020
Riele:
Watch how broke men will quickly agree to this . SMH

I agree with her Sha . A man who truly loves you will feel uncomfortable asking you for sex too .
As if naturally on your own, you sometimes don't have that tingling sensation between your legs to get a good dickk and f.uck the hell out of it. Except if you are lying to yourself
Romance / Re: What Keeps Women Together? by Raydans: 12:33pm On Mar 20, 2020
Davash222:
Gossip!











Oyindidi, paxie55, Jacqueline22, I lie
Couldn't agree less

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Romance / Re: Ladies!!! I Don't Understand This Habit by Raydans: 8:43pm On Mar 18, 2020
This is mostly done by runs girls. They wake up before you do, some will wake you up and leave very early as possible under the shadows of dawn

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Romance / Re: NigerianGuy Humiliate His Girlfriend With Fake Proposal To Get Back At Her Video by Raydans: 5:00pm On Mar 11, 2020
Ladies and marriage. The guy was desperate for a revenge and got it. Serves them right

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 2:46pm On Mar 10, 2020
kongolo:

Your post is superb but I just have to discuss the bolded. l am a fan of ubunja but he has contradicted himself numerous times on this thread with his posts.Is he on the side of males or females?He made thesame erroneous claims in the thread below which is still his worst article till date
https://www.nairaland.com/5521642/ubunjas-miseducation-pleasures-cash-women
Pheww!
Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 2:33pm On Mar 10, 2020
ubunja:
as long as you need a woman to have money then your financial standing is not sound. Simply switch roles and Chase women with money. Two people financially independent won't last in a relationship.

Don't be so simple as to be confused that I teach men to pump and dump and at the same time I teach women to be gold diggers. If you were smart enough you would know the opposite of a Player is a Gold Digger. (virgin actually. But virginity is temporary). We just flipped the concepts. You need to keep up.. Obviously I wouldn't give an Impala and a Lioness the SAME EXACT ADVISE on survival. C'mon.

Players and Gold Diggers are really one and the same. One gets free sex another gets free money. They both are scammers. If you have a conscisence the lifestyle is not for you.

Tho. I enjoy your posts but i dont agree with you on this. I will only pick the good side of your teachings and leave you to the rest as i have a mind of my own.
Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 2:19pm On Mar 10, 2020
ubunja:
if we teach men to scam women for sex then it won't be a farfetched reality that we teach women to scam men for money. This lifestyle is not for the soft hearted. Players and Gold Diggers are both scanners. I dont know about you, but I would rather my sisters and cousins be scamming men for money rather than be the ones scammed by men for sex. Only the smart will survive.
Pray that your sister don't meet men like me if I find her attractive enough to my standard and get committed to her case. Not only will she loose her coochie for free but also spend her hard earned cash and borrow from you that is the brother. She will see the lifestyle and the money without touching a dime

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 1:31pm On Mar 10, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


In which part of my post did I say I was looking for a rich man? Or do you pick out the part you want to see and leave the rest?

I've had experiences that moulded me to learn how to be financially independent, and I've seen that this trait does not correlate with being subservient or submissive to a man. If I'm not getting at least half of my financial needs from my man, the humility will not be there.

Don't misunderstand my post.
There is no need of micing words. I see through your post and the end game. If you are not humble to your man when you are financial independent what makes you think golddigging him and keeping the coochie away would. It is your self that you need to work on and not conducting a research on how to be a successful golddigger without opening the coochie. You just have to pick one.

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 12:15pm On Mar 10, 2020
Digmygold:


Coronavirus brain. You keep "advicing" people who are living better quality lives than you. When are you going jump into the lagoon and end your miserable life of bitterness. ANCESTRAL AMBASSADOR OF POVERTY.
Who are you. Why not put down your arguments in a logical manner like an adult so we can have your view. Instead of ranting and blabbing over his post

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 12:07pm On Mar 10, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Don't pity me. I know what I'm doing. Have always had my head screwed on tight before I came on here. But I agree with what he said. You can raise your value by making yourself have worth. Character-wise, loyalty and humility will endear a man to you. Financial dependency is relative. A rich man will require much dependency, an average guy will require little to none.

In essence, value yourself first, and watch it increase in the eyes of men.
Good luck in your quest searching for a rich man. I hope you know there are millions of your type that has been searching for same....Reality will always take its place.

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 9:03am On Mar 10, 2020
ubunja:
a woman of high value is a woman who has value. Or who brings value. Value doesn't necessarily have to be financial or monetary. A woman has value because she's valuable. She has worth. She Can be valuable characterwise or genetical she's pretty and healthy)

rich men are rich SIMPs. That's what you must know. Case in point The Richest Man In The World at the moment Jeff Bezos. Very few rich men are actually alpha. As in Sexual Alpha. Most are just business alphas with zero game. That's why most of their women are fvcking broke thugs at the side.

This thread has no billionaires getting Red Pilled is the reason most rich men are not red Pilled in the first place.
because they don't move in the circles where Game is discussed in depth because they use money to get women. So they don't feel the need to dissect female nature to the minutest details as we do here.

I Don't see how this thread contradicts the overall message we have been giving till now.
Good. Now let me break it down for you
A high value woman is a woman of virtue that adds value to you without necessarily depleting the state of yourself. Values such as financial worth, character value, genetical value etc. It has to be complete that is why it is high value.
If you are now saying a broke girl that has nothing going on for her who uses manipulations to syphon money from men is high value then it is contradictory.

You support and encourage girls golddigging and at same preaches to men freedom from manipulations of women. This is erroneous.
Manipulation is the master of a woman craft and a lot of men suffers this days in their relationship or outside because they have been manipulated to become magas

I will personally choose an independent woman who is financially, character and genetically worthy of me over an empty or some broke ass lass with no other value aside a natural pus.sy and a manipulative subtle golddigging tactics.

Even if am a billionaire. You have to have a verified unique life of your own going on for yourself before you can catch my attention. You cant just be an empty nobody with only a piece of pus.sy. Ned became popular because of Regina Daniel, she was an actress. Ronaldos gf georgina was a model etc.

I pity Sixfeetbelle that wants to learn how to syphon money from men without getting bleeped instead of building up herself and adding quality complete values to her worth. I hope you won't come back here to rant on how you were brutally raped in your quest. A simple click bait strategy will distabilize your orientation. You should be contempted with what you have or work hard on yourself. Greediness will cause you harm.

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 5:14am On Mar 10, 2020
ubunja:
you don't know how tiring it is to deal with people like you.

You just say I'm in error. Full stop. How about you point out where I'm in error and then table your view so we can discuss it
Hehe. Its middle of the night you know
ubunja:
financial independence makes a woman low value. A woman with her own money is a liability.


Anyways, I like your moniker
Having gone through all your comments on this thread here is where the error starts from.

Now what does the word 'value' means in the english dictionary to start with.

Secondly. According to you all billionaires are rich SIMPs.

Thirdly. How many billionaires do we have have on this thread/NL getting redpilled including yourself.

The basis of your teaching is to be free from the manipulation of women but at same time contradicting from this singular thread.

You need to have a clear defined part to avoid erroneous teachings

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Romance / Re: Understanding A High Value Woman by Raydans: 3:40am On Mar 10, 2020
ubunja:
that's why I point all women to the gold digger SheraSeven1. If you won't believe me, then go get it from another woman who's living that principle.
Only Pickmeishas insist on paying their own way through life in a world full of rich men willing to do that for them.
Ubunja your teaching is somewhat erroneous

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Romance / Re: Glad I Found You. by Raydans: 3:55pm On Mar 04, 2020
Logoobenz:
lol,no be everything your brain go reach.
Try sit this one out.
I don't need to know somebody personally to be able estimate what he or she is worth.
It will be a miracle if that guy is worth 2m naira undecided
No be she use her mouth say they got to know each other when the guy was looking for a selfcon somewhere in lagos?
Abi people weh get 20m dey look for selfcon undecided
Also,kindly tell me what a medical degree is worth,since you assume I don't know.
Don't be stupid,no be everything you suppose put mouth.
Some might be bigger than you.
This guy is looking for or is attracted to what might come from funmi,be is prestige,money,security etc and not love.
If this guy had 20m as net worth,trust me funmi will be last choice.
You can check his DP to see his 20m ass,ode. grin
Your words are heavy and funny cheesy Take it easy
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Exhibit These Strange Behaviours ? by Raydans: 9:51am On Mar 03, 2020
Lol. One recently told me she was a virgin. I told her its fine but I will have to confirm to be on the safer side. She asked if I was gonna take her for a virginity test. I said no since I can easily make use of my God given gift. I had promised myself to keep her if she truly was. She became defensive. Right there and then i knew it were all lies.

She managed to somehow manipulated everything, guilt tripped me on trust that I started to feel guilty for wanting a confirmation in the first place. I gave her an example of a friend who in similar situation was deceived by her supposed gf until it was too late for him.

So many confusing questions ran through my mind but I held on to my resolve that you can't completely understand a woman. And sometimes you have to let it go.

Later got to know she was a pro. But in my mind she already lost me.

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Romance / Re: Are Nigerian Ladies Wired To Act Hungrily? by Raydans: 11:27pm On Feb 28, 2020
victorian:
[s][/s]







Who is looking for husband?

Ode!

Ekpa!

I'm balling my life with fine friends around me, u are talking of looking for husband.


Sho fe gbo?

I'm balling this weekend in Lagos with one of the most Handsome and frosh guy, that's one . I feel like spending. You have a problem with it? Useless orangutan smhhhh

I'm balling next month in US with my child hood friend, for like a week. He's also most handsome over there, all bills on him., ticket and all.


So, Just STFU!

And stay one side with your miserable hungry looking Self! Smhhhh.


Lemme jaye ori mi with nice cute people.

What's your addiction with the handsome male specimen ?
Politics / Re: President Buhari Visits Ondo, Commissions Industrial Hub, Flyover (Photos) by Raydans: 7:29am On Feb 26, 2020
maynation:

Tpia/Tpiar/Nlposter

I AM FROM ONDO STATE.
I AM ORIGINALLY FROM IKARE AKOKO, BORN AND RAISED IN EDE OSUN STATE.
I NOW STAY IN AKURE.

Have I answered you?
Akure oloyemekun cool

I grew up in ore and finished school in akure. Lived in akure for many years.

Akure is still infrastructurally underdeveloped. Even ondo state in general. All the intertown road networks linking major town in the state are still single lanes in this 21st century. Starting from akoko area to owo to akure to ondo to ore to okitipupa. All through the length and breadth of the state. Can you imagine. That's why accidents are always prone to the roads

There are only two pedestrian bridge in the whole of the state. One in oja oba akure and one in yaba ondo.
I think the highest story building in the state is about 3 or 4 storey building Lol. And that's in Alagbaka. The most beautiful place in ondo state. I hope that waterfall scam mimiko did at fiwasaye roundabout is still functioning cheesy
What part of akure are you.
Romance / Re: What Men Want From Women...... by Raydans: 8:33am On Feb 19, 2020
ubunja:
Sex
Respect
Cooking.



That's my summary.
My ultimate is Respect

Then Sex,

Support (emotional, finances etc),

Intelligence (decision making, intellectual interest/discussion)

And Good carriage (beauty, comportment)

You have my total control if you possess these things. Sadly a lady with these is very hard to come by as trivial as it appears.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancé Is Asking I Sign A Prenup by Raydans: 2:14pm On Feb 12, 2020
You need to sign the prenup if you truly want to be with him. You've had tough issues in your relationship yet you keep making up with him. What is your drive? Don't tell me LOVE cause that's a momentary mirage.

You keep coming back because he takes care of you well and he is a money bag. Why not just walk away. We are all humans, you should sign the prenup to clear all atom of doubt or walk away and never look back if you are not comfortable with it. It is very simple.
Moreover you have nothing to loose signing it.
Romance / Re: I Am Beginning To Hate Men by Raydans: 8:15am On Feb 02, 2020
Sugarrveiii:
Seriously they are wicked n heartless !! What r their usefulness btw? Sex!! . Women give them so much importance , so they treat us the way they like!! Men r scums!! Don’t generalize is what they say but still turn out being like the rest .
First it was yoruba men. Now it's Men generally. What's it with you and the male you this little child. Can't you stay on your own and let them be. You are still immature for what you're getting yourself into

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Romance / Re: Can I Travel To The Usa From Africa By Ship? by Raydans: 12:19pm On Jan 31, 2020
It might be less expensive but more stressful which will take a toll on your health. It will take a longer time in days before you get there. And I even doubt if there is a direct ship. Bon voyage.

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Romance / Re: They Are Actually Yoruba Demons by Raydans: 9:55pm On Jan 30, 2020
Sugarrveiii:
more women need to be aware of this , if I knew faster Won’t hv fallen so deep
More women needs to be aware that a particular tribe is a bad one according to you. And what if more women are now aware. What changes and how does it add value to you. Does it stop the men from the tribe from getting married or dating still. I can't even comprehend your level of reasoning.
Meanwhile you are not yet a woman. You're still a girl child. You reek of naivety and so much inexperience
Romance / Re: They Are Actually Yoruba Demons by Raydans: 6:32pm On Jan 30, 2020
Sugarrveiii:
So the other day , I Opened a thread asking about yoruba men based on my encounter with one !! Mehn sadly he was like the others,, did some digging , n realized he actually has a kid, asked him n he couldn’t answer the question , lies! so much lies!! Every instinct I had about him was correct .guess what? Because I kept asking he blocked me ,, n never actually said No I don’t hv a child or a girlfriend,,thank God we never had sex, Mehn it hurt me big time, But why are yoruba men like this? It’s a big shame on the yoruba tribe, that when a woman says she’s involve with a Yoruba man , people look at her as foolish .. I know many will call this tribalistic!! Doesn’t stop it from being the truth . All tribe got their bad egg !! But yoruba men no Dey shame . Yoruba men please leave Igbo women alone!!
Why are you pained that he blocked you. You mentioned that he didn't have sex with you. Move on with your life instead putting a particular tribe in a bad light because you are pained that things didn't go your way. That's selfish and foolish. I have a feeling that you are still a child
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Awolowo Signs ONE Endorsement Deal (Photos) by Raydans: 8:37pm On Nov 08, 2019
This is the best ambassadorial deal as far as bbn is concerned.

It has to do with intellect unlike vain show of body parts.


Its a call to share ideas that impact lives.

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Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Rocks See-through Trousers by Raydans: 8:25pm On Nov 05, 2019
Toke. Always forcing herself to be relevant. I will pass. I'm not attracted to short girls

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Family / Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Raydans: 6:35pm On Oct 21, 2019

Is it robot that these men are cheating with. It is same women that they're cheating with.

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Romance / Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Raydans: 8:05am On Oct 15, 2019
hotwax:
All the ladies I am fcking right now are in serious relationship...

Men can't compete with women when it comes to cheating.

It's resources intensive...women don't need any resources, all they need to do is go to the venue and open their legs.

I can't agree less
Celebrities / Re: Oppo Mobile Gifts Tacha Android Phone by Raydans: 8:16pm On Oct 11, 2019
She looks humbled and pity attracting

That's what bad attitude can cause amidst your peers

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Romance / Re: I'm Confused by Raydans: 8:54am On Oct 11, 2019
You broke up with him because of a simple misunderstanding that you both can collectively come to a mutual understanding.

Your loss. Wasted years of courtship, You loose someone who is ready to wed you, you loose the pregnancy.

You should have looked for someone he respects or hold in high esteem to talk him out and assure him there is nothing to worry about rather than harshly taking a random decision.
Romance / Re: I Need A Military Man To Fight For Me by Raydans: 9:19am On Oct 09, 2019
BetterPoison:
no be the bf she wann make people go beat... Read between the lines grin
Who knows. How will a stranger you didn't do anything to just harrass you and still have the tendacy to come back for you if he wasn't someone you know before or there is something between both of you.

And how do you know where you will trace him to in the first place if there is nothing connecting you guys

She should share the full/true story of what transpired here if she mean business else she is just another random girl out to manipulate people against each other because of her selfish emotions and nobody will take her serious
Romance / Re: I Need A Military Man To Fight For Me by Raydans: 10:33pm On Oct 08, 2019
With all those your old topics. Them suppose beat you pass that one comot three of your teeth. Lol

Who knows that was even the attitude you exhibited that got you harassed in the first place

Any soldier man that helps you should also collect very huge amount of money from you else no show

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Romance / Re: He Wants To Forfeit His Job And Life In Nigeria For A Rich Stranger by Raydans: 8:01am On Oct 08, 2019
Greed. Sheer Greed is your friends problem.

He already has a decent earning in Nigeria earning in 6 figures. He has also benefited immensely from the rich lady What else does he want.

Now he wants to resign for an uncertain future outside nigeria leaving his fate in the hands of a stranger.

Greed has beclouded his sense of reasoning and the end of it all could lead to regrets and destruction.

I will advise him to take control of himself, not to ever try to resign and be contented with what he has here in nigeria

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