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Romance / Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Raydans: 3:13pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:

I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.
You havent spend a dime on a guy before. That solves it all.

How did you arrive at the conclusion that he is a mama's boy. That is illogical. Did you hear his own part of the story or you knew him

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Romance / Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Raydans: 2:44pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.
What is the highest amount that you have spent for a guy that spent his time with you before

If its not up to 4.2m then your opinion about the guy is more hateful than relevant

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Romance / Re: What's The Appeal Of Candy Crush? by Raydans: 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2019
The addiction is the desire to see the end of the game
Romance / Re: Oil Meets Defence In Amazing Pre Wedding Photos by Raydans: 7:53pm On Jun 25, 2019
nellybadas:
Chexk our this amazing Pre wedding photos of an oil company staff and a Nigerian Army officer.

Simply amazing....... courtesy Arabmoney$$$$$

Best wishes to them.

The Lady is an Air Force Officer. Not Army

BTW who get money pass. $$$$0yel
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Raydans: 8:12am On Jun 21, 2019
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Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by Raydans: 2:03pm On Jun 20, 2019
BrownCarton:

Fact.. I ve moved on.. But not without a crazy ending
And what is the ending....... Care to share
Romance / Re: How Can I Be Disciplined Sexually. by Raydans: 9:10pm On Jun 19, 2019
Go for 300days fasting and prayers. Then relocate to Mozambique
Romance / Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Raydans: 4:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
Bizmagnet:
Arrange a guy to call and warn him to stay clear of his girl friend now. I knw sey he go withdraw
Try this. You can as well arrange with another guy to pretend as your brother in the military to call and threaten him with arrest if he keeps disturbing your peace.

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Celebrities / Re: Pretty Mike Celebrates Father's Day With Unclad Ladies (PHOTOS) by Raydans: 11:21pm On Jun 16, 2019
Odd

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Business / Re: Friend's Message Cursing His Friend For A Debt Of 5 Years by Raydans: 10:48am On May 30, 2019
Lol. There was one time like that my cousin requested I borrow him 5k he was going to return in a week. I laughed in my mind *you return fire in 1week make I bend*. I still went ahead to borrow him.

He contacted after a week pleading to give him till weekend. I just laughed hard because i knew he was fooling himself deep in my mind I knew I borrowed him to decline further future request that may arise from him. I never for once even asked him.

That was the last time I heard from him till date cheesy

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Romance / Re: Think Twice Before Dumping Him!!!! by Raydans: 6:00pm On May 25, 2019
united442:
lolxx...o.p you are right anyway..

this remind me of the night i broke up with my ex..

i knew she was cheating,bt she nvr notice.

she was arrangimg her stuff n said she went 2 travel n want 2 see someone first at the airport(the new dude).

she keeping saying stuff like,
*"i am looking for someone 2 buy me iphone",
*"am looking for someone that will give me international passport",
*"i am looking for someone that will build mansion for me" grin..

this is a girl that normally has nothing in her headgrin, no hand work, no skill, was still fighting to make her jamb for the second time, way too lazygrin,

i knew she wasn't referring to me cus she knows i wasn't financially buoyant yet despite assuring her to be patient with me..

well after everything, she left and latter discover the dude she sold her self to has 3 extra chicks and one was pregnant for her..grin
She learnt her lessons. Such type of girls usually comes back with regret
Romance / Re: Think Twice Before Dumping Him!!!! by Raydans: 1:03pm On May 25, 2019
dairykidd:
In as much as i believe girls should be loyal i do not buy this soliciting for her to continue to be suffering when she can always enjoy the good things of life... an already made guy can still genuinely love any girl and a broke guy can still play his loyal babe in the end.. I think people should stop associating true love or loyalty with poverty or wealth.. It doesn't make sense. Whether a guy is true or not has little or nothing to do with his bank statement. This type of cornering is not right.. players will play, hoes will keep digging for the gold, who will be loyal will be loyal...guy or babe

If a guy is broke and a girl is leaving because of that for another guy. She is empty, worthless and has no value of her own.

Her value is determined and limited to what other people want it to be. She is like a wind without direction and worse/poor than the broke guy she is leaving.

What happens to working with your two hands and being independent on your own. Having your own values without prejudice rather than jumping from place to place looking for who is rich to depend on

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Romance / Re: Need To Know If Am Doing The Right In A 6 month Old Relationship. by Raydans: 10:29pm On May 22, 2019
luminouz:

U were making sense till I got to the 'sit her down and talk to her part' and u lost it. I dislike that quoted above,u lots think women are some underdeveloped cretins who have no sense yet u continue being fooled by them. They are not as weak as u think. She knew already she goofed and should be disciplined,yet u advocate throwing a party for her? With which money o? Urs or hers or the business's? For me,no party anything,maybe a small gift and I will let her know the capital is the cause of that. That I need the capital back to boost my own business. That way,u teach her that business is business and defaults have consequences. She will get that money back(if she was sincere in the first place) and work harder to gain ur trust. That's how to teach discipline, not sitting her down after some birthday party issh...she might not see the seriousness of ur so-called financial lecture! undecided

Such treatment would have been perfect for a normal girl which the op has no plan for. Like the common kinda dating. He might not even throw a party talkless of gifts

He stated that she did well with business and it yielded good returns. Some girls would have lavished the capital on frivolities to start with without doing anything

He also particularly stated that he really loved the girl and would like to settle down with her. If it is true then such strict measures is not logically applicable in this case.

Afterall I did not negate the fact that the op has to get his capital back to maintain business discipline
Romance / Re: Need To Know If Am Doing The Right In A 6 month Old Relationship. by Raydans: 9:04pm On May 22, 2019
You said you both confirmed the returns from the business was okay. Just that she couldn't return the capital

It shows she can manage a business and she is a good girl. She made a mistake and your duty is to teach her what she needs to learn.

Throw the party for her and buy her the gifts if you can afford it

Then sit her down and talk to her. Tell her reasons why she should return the capital and see to it that it is returned. In business it is called discipline.

You can choose to support her with more capital after.
Romance / Re: How I Survived Drowning by Raydans: 2:09pm On May 21, 2019
Something similar happened to me some years back at continental suites & cinemas ibara, abeokuta Ogun state. I am average when it comes to swimming. I was trying to navigate from the deepest part of the pool to the other side which I had done countless times earlier. But that particular one when i got to the middle i realised i was exhausted and could no longer throw my hands and legs like before. I began to struggle and drown. I was helpless and death was flashing through my eyes. Fear overwhelmed me and i was heartbroken when i thought of my parents and my people. All of a sudden i realised there was a guy sitting by the pool side that saw me gasping for breath. He immediately streched is legs and i grabbed it with my last strength and he pulled me out. I later realised that nobody was conscious that i was drowning except the guy. Everybody else in the pool includings few girls must have thought i was just doing my thing. I just finished my service year and we were having fun the booze must have weakened me. I thanked my stars. The thought of the moment alone stills frightens me till date. Any time I goto the pool now I don't pass my boundary. If I don't have the super strength to swim across the distance I have already calculated I don't dare it
Celebrities / Re: Christians Shouldn't Judge Naira Marley - Daddy Freeze by Raydans: 8:18pm On May 20, 2019
LiveByNight:


It behind with the leadership!! The government should show sincerity and integrity and naturally people.will start to gravitate towards this kind ser when they see consistency and seriousness of the government angry

The government cannot on one hand be telling me that the video evidence against gaduje is not enough to convict him yet expecting me to now turn around and condemn naira Marley ?

Why is Mainna the pension fraudster still working for buhari ??

What are we saying here ?? Charity begins at home!! Start in aso rock and the rest of Nigerians will follow

Now does it means that because of that every fraudulent act whatsoever keeps going until it becomes a generally acceptable thing.
Yes charity begins at home. It begins with me and you
Celebrities / Re: Christians Shouldn't Judge Naira Marley - Daddy Freeze by Raydans: 8:06pm On May 20, 2019
LiveByNight:
This is a clear case of.corrupt.politcians vs the youth

The politicians and government are stealing and don't want to your to steal.too.. when the youth steal.the politicians use the price and efcc to intimidate the youth why?

I don't.supoort fraud but the efcc should start with the government!!

The government should lead by example and stop allowing corrupt politicians work and get appointments

It's called leading by example.. gaduje was caught in bribe yet the government came out to stand by him and you don't want the youth to follow example and stand behind naira Marley?

Minna was found culprit in stealing billions in pension funds yet buhari have him a new post after he resurfaced from.being on the run!!

Tinubu is indicated in so many corrupt charges ,. Even has a drug related indictment from the 90s in America yet he is APC national chairman! He lived bullion vans of money during a national election yet if any of you withdraws over N10 million efcc will kick down your doors

Amaechi has so many cases against him, yet he is a serving minister

Abeg free these boys and when the government starts doing right all will follow

There is evidence that keystone bank and 9mobile where bought in the names of Aisha buhari and his son yet efcc didn't do nothing
This government politicians are the biggest Yahoo boys !!
Are the youth fôòls ni? no!!

No bad followers only bad leaders

angry
This is the problems I have with us Nigerians. We use a wrong to justify a wrong. Therefore making so many ills justifiable. When will we get a right if our orientation is this way.
We will only end up multiplying the ills of our society in abundance
Romance / Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Raydans: 7:47pm On May 19, 2019
Funny
Romance / Re: by Raydans: 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2019
Splinz:


You dey form hard man. "I be strong man! I dey dribble dem like Ronaldo and play dem like Messi!".

Las las antelope don enter trap. Na now you go know sey " Nemesis Was Here" tru tru.

Tough man! Nothing dey happen...

You don't know anything
Romance / Re: by Raydans: 7:30pm On Mar 23, 2019
Styluscrib:

You already said you are responsible for what you read.
Leave her then if you are shiit scared
Abeg make we rest
I just hope am not in love. If na love. I pray am in control
Romance / by Raydans: 7:05pm On Mar 23, 2019
Car Talk / Re: Amazing New Cars From The 2019 Geneva Motor Show by Raydans: 12:46pm On Mar 08, 2019
The lowest of them all is Mercedes Benz. Lol
Romance / Re: I Didn't Have Sex With Her But She Lied by Raydans: 11:30pm On Mar 06, 2019
Saffi:
Why would she tell you she’s pregnant for you if she didn’t have sex with you, please stop lying
How did you know it's a lie. You haven't come across desperate ladies I guess
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After He Refused To Use Her Picture On Val Day by Raydans: 8:35am On Feb 17, 2019
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Politics / by Raydans: 9:47am On Feb 08, 2019
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Romance / by Raydans: 12:10am On Feb 08, 2019
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Romance / Re: I Think My Ex Is Confused by Raydans: 7:48am On Jan 22, 2019
Attend the wedding but not alone. But with a hotter gf

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Romance / Re: Real Men Prefer Breast To Ass - Nigerian Slay Queen Says (Photos) by Raydans: 7:35am On Dec 25, 2018
Women and their manipulation tactics. Simply because you have boobs with no ass makes you a standard to tell what a real man likes. Another one will come again and say real men prefer ass to boobs because of her flat chest

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Romance / Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Dated You When You Were Poor by Raydans: 2:38am On Dec 14, 2018
prettyesther20:
It's just like saying its not necessary to reward your parents for making you who u are today because it's their "job"

You appreciate people because of the sacrifices they made for you which appears to be rare in this present society and not because of "why" they did it

Op, it's not everything in life u apply logic to. It is what it is.
Your comparison does not logically follow. Your parents brought you to life, raised you up, cared for you, gave you education, taught you morals, feed you and guided you to the right direction etc. It is only normal to be appreciative when you make it out of life. How then do you compare it to an ordinary girl that both of you are dating yourselves. Nobody is doing anyone a favour, you are broke and so she is. Why then must you reward her on a mutual level of dating eachother. It only logically follows if she rewards you when she makes it because you dated her while she was broke

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Romance / Re: Guys It's High Time You Know Some Nigerian Girls Have Nothing To Offer You by Raydans: 11:03pm On Dec 03, 2018
This guy sef and im foreign babes. If we all ditch nigeria girls. Who go come marry dem, you wan make dem waste. Have pity

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Romance / Re: Please I Need Wife by Raydans: 3:54pm On Dec 02, 2018
Saffi:
I’m so sorry. Bye for now
Okay,Thats fine. Good luck

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