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Kissing can at times be more intense and emotional than casual love making. It is therefore paramount to know how to kiss a girl well. If you kiss a girl well she could end up falling for you.

Steps to kissing her well:
What happens and what you say when going for a kiss is almost as important as the kiss as Itself.

1). If you want to give the girl a more sensual kiss, starts by holding her by the waist while looking at her eyes, and just telling her how amazing her lips look.

2) get closer to her face but don't just go directly to the lips, you gat to tease her a little. You could go to her neck side and just breath deeply there and whisper how much her skin scents is driving you crazy.! (Play around her neck for a little while.)

3) you can then go to her lips and just softly kiss her lips and quickly remove your lips.(Don't use your tongue). Then you go back and kiss her lightly on the lips, and keep on doing this till she really wants it badly and she grabs you close to kiss you well

4)during the real kiss, do not start using your whole tongue fully. Don't give too much tongue at first, increase the intensity in response to her own momentum. In other words, when you see that she is gradually getting really into the kiss, you can then increase the amount of toungue you give her or put into her mouth to explore.

5) occasional biting of lips is needed! Once in a while during the kiss, you should lightly bite her lower lip and see her response. If she likes it, go ahead. If not, stop.

Read more here:
https://naijadatingtips.com/how-to-give-a-girl-a-good-kiss/

SmellySperm:
all this epistle for just puna?

#op God hates you

Lol OP doesn't care

raydatingtips:
You are just a waste of human being looking for who to piss off and you found innocent me

MariaLavina, hmm thinking about it, you actually succeeded in pissing me off oo. Wow congratulations to that

MariaLavina:
So in a nutshell only married people cheat? You mean when two come together to be in a relationship, they both have right to go out or even get involved sexually or emotionally with other people so far they aren't legally married.
Are you saying faithfulness/loyalty/fidelity isn't necessary or required in dating but only in marriage? Do marriages just happen without dating? Do partners just end cheating and remain faithful as soon as they are married?
Are you saying boyfriends and girlfriends have can not accuse themselves of cheating because they aren't married?
No you mean cheating only applies to married people right?

Well I think you are intellectually sick, stop trying to be some knowledgeable freethinker you are far from being one! lol even in business deals or causal friendship people cheat and betray trust, and you are here claiming Nonsense! see him adding smiley emoji to his beautiful nonsense.

You know why I responded to you initially?

I assumed you were one of those that were smart enough to deserve my response.

If I knew you were just like another female dog that thinks she's got the loudest bark, I would have ignored you like the privileged person you are.

When I come across people like you, I start to wonder "How do you survive being so doggy"

Considering that I'm not here to exchange words with you ladies like you, I'm gonna ignore you now. You are just a waste of human being looking for who to piss off and you found innocent me

MariaLavina:
Yet they come here to wail that women are unfaithful.


Men stabbing themselves at the back since 19BC

It's amazing how painful the truth can be right?

Truth is.... NO ONE (Male or Female) can cheat until they get married. Yes, read the last sentence again well.

What we call cheating is basically just finding your better half until you are finally legally married. Single and Married is the only recognized relationship status. Filling a visa form, you will never see an option for "In a relationship".

Saying a single guy or girl is cheating is like saying they are committing adultery when they are not married. Please guys, read and think first. Don't come infect the innocent readers here with your ignorance

sorextee:
All these write up??
If she says she has a guy, my friend, move to the next available babe.

Which one is all these super story up there.

hahaha... baba L... no available babe dey

The statement "I have a Boyfriend" is 100% normal.  In fact, it is safe to assume that every girl above 10 years old has a boyfriend so this should not discourage you in any way.

With these few tips, you should be able to bypass the very common "I have a boyfriend" problem.

If she tells you she has a boyfriend!!!!!!!!

Tell her you have a girlfriend too, but you would like to have an explicit relationship with her because when you see her, all you see are diamonds and gold. Say you see her as a very special girl and you just can't be friends with her but at the same time you wouldn't want to compromise either of your relationships.

If she then says she can't cheat on her boyfriend!

Tell her a metaphor like you can't know the value of Ghana rice if you only just eat Nigerian rice. Tell her no one has the right to call u his property yet because he have not paid your bride, besides no one has the right to enjoy those her beautiful lips alone. Then tell her it's only cheating if he knows. But you promise you guys would be totally discreet.

When it comes to the stage where she starts sounding confused and saying things like "BUT I AM SCARED OF YOUR GF O. I DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO BREAK MY HEAD"!

TELL her you would give up the world most precious TREASURES to have her because she is the ORIGIN of all TREASURES.  And giving up ur Gf for her is nothing. Tell her you wouldn't tell her to do the same with her boyfriend because it would seem unfair. But you just need a chance to show her your own special type of love even if it's for a probational period!

Mix this up with your own ideas watch how her feelings and mindset towards you changes for you after that day even if she still says NO. And it always makes it easier to do silly things later with her because she starts seeing you as a sensual man!

The point is this:  Do not ever just accept her No. Keep on impressing her with words... not just mere words but "INCREDIBLE WORDS" that would soften her defenses! even if she still insists on the "No", her perspective about you would definitely change and those words you told her would forever stick in her head (her BF probably don't say sweet things like that to her) and this would give you more room to do shits later on easily.

Original Post: https://naijadatingtips.com/what-to-say-if-she-has-a-boyfriend/

carter009:
Have already forgotten mine, there's no big deal...

Very good. Congratulations

Wealthyonos:
The rate at which sex related topics hit fp these days is alarming. I know this one is getting there too.

That would be great, hmm

That happens and I will just change niche

pensator:
Lovely write up..... Keep it up.

Thank you boss

mylogic111:
wrong!!

right!!

Every normal sexually active man would definitely experience situations where is dick wouldn't get erect even in front of a naked lady that is Hot and ready for sex. Although this happens just once in a blue moon, it is definitely bound to happen to every normal guy! Even if it's just once or twice, provided you aren't a robot, it would happen at some point during your sexually active years. But what I want to tell you today, is that it is absolutely normal!

Top reasons why BIG DADDY might fail sometimes:

ANXIETY: Anxiety is one of the top reasons why BIG DADDY might fail. It could be anxiety to perform well to meet the girl expectations! (I would advise you do not let any girl pressure you into being a super stud on the bed. They no dey carry award for sex).  Or it could just be general nervousness about how small your dick might be to the girl.

Medications: some medications can actually make BIG DADDY not function well sexually. An example is Anti-depressant. Most antidepressant could affect the sexual life of the user. It could make it difficult to attain an erection. (So my advice is before going on any antidepressant therapy, make sure it is not during a sexually active period of your life.)

Bad health: general bad health hinders general performance on the bed!

A disturbed mind!: there are a lot of things that could cloud the mind such as getting a job, getting money, living a better life, the recent death of a loved one. Etc all this can affect sexual function.

What to do in a situation where your Dick betrays you just before sex:
- Act as calm as possible. Try not to panic and know it is only normal. Remove your mind from all plans of showing the girl how much of a bad guy you are and just be calm.

- Next to do is to tell you the girl...https://naijadatingtips.com/what-should-i-do-when-my-penis-does-not-stand-for-sex/

How to forget about a girl you love

Guys, in this post I would be writing about how to reduce or control the feelings or emotions you have for a particular lady!

Now the truth is: this thing called "love", "feelings" or "Strongs sensual emotions" is a universal phenomenon that occurs in all walks of life and all cultures and countries worldwide because it is part of what makes us human! That is why this is a very important topic to talk about!

In most men's lives, there is always a point where you would have strong feelings, emotions or love towards a particular girl/guy but he/she would just not feel the same way.  This could probably be because you are simply not her type, or she has someone else in her life.

In some cases, the girl wouldn't want you in her life at all. While In plenty of other cases, she would keep you on the "leash" which is popularly known as the "FRIENDZONE".  The friendzone is a zone so many guys out there are currently in and no one ever has any fun in this zone!

Well, this post is not for the guys that want to remain in their dreadful "FRIENDZONE".

So how do I forget about a girl/guy?

The very best thing you can do...
I think with this few points, you get the idea, however if you still want to know more, continue here: https://naijadatingtips.com/how-to-forget-about-a-lady-guy-you-have-strong-emotions-for/

A conversation is more of a discussion between two people which involves sharing ideas with lots of questions and answers being asked between the parties involved.
Making interesting conversations with a lady has to do with knowing how to ask simple, intriguing and twisted questions that would make her give you more than just a superficial first answer along with teasing her in between conversations.
In other words, ask questions that would not bring just a yes or no answer, ask intriguing questions that would make her answers in form of a sentence so you can easily pick up your next question during her speech as this is key to long interesting conversations.

For example:
Guy: So what do you like to do when you are bored?
Girl; nothing much.. well, I just lay on my bed and chat or just listen to music...

Guy: oh.. hmmmm.. what kind of music do you listen too? You look like the kind of girl that listens mainly to blues. Am I right?

Girl:*smiles* yea blues most of the time... but I still love our naija afro pop too...

Guy: oh.. Okay when it comes to naija songs which artists do you love the most?

Girl: hmmm. Okay, let me say Wizkid.

Guy: hmmmm... Okay if you were to choose between dating a guy like Wizkid.. that is short but with money, or a tall guy who is average financially which would you pick?

Girl: I would pick the short guy ooo.. as far as he is rich... but maybe the tall guy tho if he loves me and can still take care of me...

GUY: so money is probably the main thing right?

Girl: yes oo.. to a large extent

By now I think y"all get my drift right. ? The questions asked above would result in more than a superficial answer which is key in making interesting conversations.
As I said, you need to ask questions that would make her give you more than a superficial first answer so as to easily know what to talk about next and keep her involved in the conversation.

Another thing to note is not to dwell on one topic for a long time. Dwelling on one topic for too long would make the conversation boring.
#Note: Take pauses sometimes, you don't want to talk endlessly and appear like a talkative. Take pauses and just smile while looking at her. If she asks why you smiling tell her you just enjoy talking to her.

Another thing again to note is the kind of topics you should bring.

#Note you don't want to bring boring topics during the conversation.
But generally, ladies love discussing about love and anything that has to do with relationship in general.

So your conversation could go like:

Guy: So who do you think cheats more between girls and boys?

Girl: hmmm it's boys oooo... Boys are damn dangerous...

Guy: well I think it's girls tho. I caught my ex-girlfriend sleeping with my friend...

You could then go like;

Guy: you strike me like a dangerous girl. How many hearts have you broken.?

Questions like the one above would keep her interested in the conversation and would definitely keep her talking and laughing, giggling, etc...

So to wrap it up, if you wanna make interesting conversations with a girl:

Sorry but please resume here: https://naijadatingtips.com/how-to-make-an-interesting-convo-with-a-naija-girl/

Blackivy27:
It depends. If i have heard another guy say the same line it would be lame.

Oh, I get your point. But considering the number of times, a single lady gets toasters daily, it would be difficult to have not heard every line possible. LOL

But actually... it's the circumstances and the way the guy intelligently mixes his lines that matters. That's what differentiates the geniuses from the lame

don4real18:
If she isn't smiling...
You- Excuse me, is anything wrong?
Her- I don't understand you
You- You are walking and frowning like someone hurt you.
Her- No, nothing is wrong.
You- Prove it
Her- How
You- Smile... Please do
(If she does)
Do you know how pretty that makes you? (she will definitely blush). Can we exchange contact?
Her- Why?
You- So that I can always make you smile

That would have worked in a sane economy. We need to think of a revolution instead of pickup lines

hahahahaha.....

I like your style though....

Might "zuckerberg" it to my blog

youngsahito:
ohhhhhhhh! I like this your style cos u are an independent lady.how about if me n you can be friends?

It's a pretty good line too and it works a lot.
The reason I don't like this is that I have seen a lot of guys MISTAKENLY fall into the FRIENDZONE with this line

Wow...
I can see some lines already working in the house.... Nice one guys... quick learners

Blackivy27:
i dont take money from men. Suggest it and i'll just walk away. Thats why those,"i'll take care of you" lines dont work.

They always work miss... Combined with other things like Good looks, Clean English etc.

You cannot just walk up to a lady and ask "Miss Can I get your number?" Lines like that are the ones that would likely not work.....
You cannot just walk up to a lady and stare down at her until she reads your mind and pops out her number.... you need a line... and a good one at that

So like I said earlier. even in 2030, as long as the human race is still around to do sh!!t, pickup lines will be needed

This might be an odd post but you would be amazed how often a lot of guys run out of things to talk about on the first date.

What to talk about on the first date can sometimes be an issue for some guys, so here are some topics you can discuss.
Depending on your preference, you can keep it all plain and simple, or get deeper with each question in a skillful way that she starts to fantasize a little about you.

1. Her state of origin or where she is from.
E.g
Guy: where are you really from?
Girl: I am from Agbor, Delta state.
Guy: hmmm.. I never knew delta girls were this beautiful… etc


2. What she does when she is bored
E.g
Guy: so what do you usually do when you are bored?
Girl: well nothing much, I just chat or sleep. You know the truth is i have a boring life.

Guy: have a boring life? I am sure a pretty girl like you would have loads of friends especially boys so how can you say you have a boring life

Girl: I am kinda the quiet type.

Guy: oh…
Etc

By now I believe you guys get the general idea or concept.

Try to make sure that most of the questions you ask have a little link to the previous question so the conservation becomes what I like to call “fluid in nature”. For example “what she does when she is bored” has a little link to “her hobbies ” as she could go about engaging in any hobby of hers during her boredom moments.

3. her hobbies. (Ask if she can dance or sing)

4. attributes she looks for in a guy before she considers dating him. (If she likes tall or short guys? If she can date a short but rich guy etc)

5. Happiest moment of her life and things she wants to achieve soon.?

6. If she is the stay at home kind of girl or she is the going out party hard kind.?

Read more topic ideas here: https://naijadatingtips.com/2019/07/09/topic-ideas-for-first-date/

2dice01:
Necklace
if she put on some dope designer
Her phone
Her Hair


walk up to her
E.g

Me: Hey morning your necklace looks so beautiful on you
she : Thanks
Me: How much did you get it wanna buy one for someone
she: (smiles) your girlfriend ? ..well my mum got it for me
Me: lol..Mum's girl (wink) ..i want a favor from you ..Help me ask your mum how much she got it..
she: So you are being serious
Me: Yes i am. Got to go now ..Kindly text me your number( Give her your phone)

or Give your compliment card and Bounce

Its good but sounds too cliché. This is 2019, no need beating around the Bush with a girl walking on the street about how wonderful you think her "necklace" is! Well it would be a  wonderful method  for a 13-16 year girl assuming you are a pedophile.
Like I said, on the streets, making your intention known quickly that you are interested in her by giving her a subtle compliment about what attracted you to her delivered in a very perfect manner would do!             

                Wether you tell her you like her necklace or earring, she knows already you wanna get down with her. The difference between going straight to the point and beating around the Bush amount necklaces and earrings is what differentiate the men from the boys.

IamPlato:
Pick Up Lines? Hahahahaha. You Think This Is 2004?


I Pity You... Na Pussy Cream Woman Go Use Do Butter For You

Even in 3030, startup lines or ice breakers popular referred to as "Pick up" lines would still be needed to approach any unknown lady you want to get close too! "Stay smart bro" !

Mathscum:
Everything is about her body, no critical minded thinker of a girl will take u serious.

When opening girls especially on the street, complimenting her body in a nice, confident and friendly manner isn't a bad idea at all. I mean you only just saw her on the street.. you can't start telling her how much of a "deep thinker" she is or how intelligent she looks for crying out loud! Top ways in which those lines wouldn't work would have to be if the girl is way above your "social class", or simply just wrong execution of the lines, or probably you are very very unattractive in which case you would need special and personal help from me!

There are different kind of attractive lines to start a conversation with a girl you find attractive but they don’t always work in all scenarios. Below I would give solid openers to approach any girl on the street.

#1 hello beautiful, I was going to ignore you and mind my business but I just couldn’t get my eyes off your amazing dark eyes ( or you could substitute with “amazing smile”)it really caught me off guard. What’s your name?

#2 hi, sorry to disturb you but I really have to ask you a question, Are you a model? I just love the way you walk and you have a very gorgeous body! ( she would blush) then ask for her name?

#3. Hi, I just saw you walk by and your shape is just right in all ways! Do you workout?

#4 hi, you really look sexy. You have the body of a goddess! What’s your name?

Have it in mind that approaching a girl on the street can be a bit tricky because most people don’t like being stopped on the street. It’s either they are in a rush somewhere or they just feel stopping on the road is a time waster so when stopping girls on the street, you have to make your intentions known fast. For example the opening line ‘above’ tells the girls once that you are interested in her!
Another thing to note when approaching a girl on the street is, the busier the street, the more level of confidence and authority/energy you put in your approach or aura and general demeanor.

A girl walking fast in a moderately busy street would easily give you backlash if you approach her in subtle manner because your energy level is in total dissaray with her’s and the environment, you would appear as being a weirdo.
The code to stopping ladies on the street is to be at same or similar energy level of the girl and the environment to be in tune with her energy level and the energy of the environment.

In short, employ Authority, confidence, let your intentions be known fast when approaching ladies walking fast on a moderately busy street!

But take for example you want to approach the girl in a calmer street with less social pressure on the girl, the girl is walking calmly or basically strolling, you can use the above opening lines but with a more calmer tone or energy level so as to be in tune with the girl. Because being over confident and having too much authority in your tone would make everything so weird for the girl, she won’t even feel too comfortable talking with you because using the same energy level you would use for a girl in a busy street would make you sound needy and desperate which is something you don’t need.
You could further the conversation a little longer and ask simple basic questions like “if she stays around” (note I didn’t say “where do you stay” because that makes you come off as a little desperate to know about her) if for example she replies with I don’t stay around here you could then go ahead and ask where she stays.

Points to note when approaching ladies on a less busy street:
#1 You want to sound as calm as possible. You want to give her the impression you are interested in her but not desperate for anything.

#2 since she isn’t in a rush you want to add a little more humor in the conversation even after the initial praises you shower her during the opening line.

#3 ask one or two basic questions about her such as if she stays around or if she always looks this good 24/7.

Continue reading here https://naijadatingtips.com/pickup-startup-lines-to-approach-a-girl-on-the-street/

This is my first post here so please be nice

Take for example you go to a cyber cafe to do some printing job or to surf the net then you see one of the workers and get attracted to her, you decide to shoot you shot and you get her number. Fast forward all chitchat you guys have before she eventually comes to your house and its time for business.
When it is time for sex with a girl you just met, there are certain things you could use to know if she isn’t a newbie at sex such:
#1 if she is quick to take her clothes while you are still fully clothed without her showing any hint of shyness.

note: a girl that doesn't have sex a lot would be shy at least a little bit in terms of opening her body up for a guy she wants to
screw for the first time.

#2 During sex, if you tell her to bend over for doggy style and she does it fast without hesitation, it’s a very big sign that she isn’t new in the sex game.

note: doggy style tho a very good sexual position, is otherwise known by our subconscious as a bitchy/degrading style that denotes sexual submissiveness or slavery. In short, a girl can only subconsciously feel free to give doggy style to a guy she has previously been having sex with or if she has had multiple sexual patners. So in other words, if she accepts for doggy on you guys first sex, trust me bro, it means she is used to getting down with lots of dudes! (She a bad gal bruh!)

In short, good girls would feel very reluctant giving a guy doggy style on her their first sex.(there are exceptions tho) while bad Girls would easily give a guy doggy style without hesitation or even be the first to initiate the doggy positing.

#3 if after you guys first sex together, she feels very comfortable relaxing with you while still naked, bro she a bad gal!

#4 if when wearing your condom before sex let’s say you wearing a “kiss” condom and she says she doesn’t like that condom that she prefers gold circle or Durex because kiss burst too much, my brother just makes sure the kiss condom you wearing is fucking strong o and it shouldn’t betray you because obviously, she ain't new to the sex game.

Remember this are just a few tips to know if she isn’t new to sex(bad shawty) for a girl you just met and it is your first sex with her. It doesn’t really apply to a girl you have known for long.

Read more tips at https://naijadatingtips.com/

If she is not married, then I really don't think you should fault her for her kids. No matter what, the past is the past as long as the person changed for good.

If however, you still want to forget about her. You will have to avoid her at all costs: avoid her calls, avoid reading her texts (Reading her texts can reignite your feelings for her). Avoid long conversations with her too.

With time, you will begin to forget her

Edit: Seeing how many people need this advice, I decided to write a detailed post on it here: https://naijadatingtips.com/how-to-forget-about-a-lady-guy-you-have-strong-emotions-for/