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franchasng:
Stop supporting nonsense.



The op didn't genuinely broke up with her at all. If you break up with someone, you stop giving them attention of any kind. How can you break up with a girl and when she still visits you unannounced you off her clothe and do the do and still expect the girl to believe you guys have broken up? She might think giving him sex reconciles them, so she kept doing it and the op kept enjoying it.



The girl fit deal with him lol and she will have my blessing cos no idiot can dare such nonsense with my daughter, God forbid.


It took him 3 good years to notice all those balderdash he wrote up there?


If he was serious, he ought to have told her 1 year ago that he has found the right person he wants, and possibly cause a coincidental meeting of both at his place, that would send a strong message to her.

Hey guy, this sex thing is not a gift from a lady to a man. In most cases, it is the guy doing the babe a favor.

I hate it when some men considers sex as a gift from women. It shows how immature you are. You are there thinking she wants me to be happy that's why she is giving me while, in reality, she is enjoying you all for herself.

Women enjoys sex more than men. Pls, I don't have the time to lecture you on that.

And on the other part where you said it took him 3 years to.... Look, you need to read and understand. The relationship was 3 years and according to OP, he had told her they are not going anywhere from the first month. I guess he has been trying to correct her for 3 years straight without changing. Now, that he has found someone he can live with, it is time to go. Please stop judging wrongly. This kinda relationships are always toxic at the end. Am sure if OP decides to start beating the babe, she will still continue coming back until the violence gets out of hand and yall starts condemning the guy. He needs to get out of the relationship. The babe needs someone that can manage her excesses.

talk2hb1:
Dunno why everyone is castigating the guy, he doesn't want something. Now everybody is trying to blackmail the guy emotionally

I don't even understand sef. It's like these people no dey read. According to the story, he has tried to break up with the babe several times. I can relate with the story ooo. There are some girls that don't want to break up with you and don't want to stop flirting. Me I don even beg my own make she please date those guys she dey flirt with, she no gree. Iffa see another babe, na to port asap. Cos these ladies just take advantage of your calmness ooo. If you turn violent, dem go talk. If you correct them, dem go talk sorry and still repeat the same thing. Now, man wan move on and yall still condemning him. For wetin na?

The funny thing I have realized in all this is that if the girl find someone bigger, richer, finer, and better, she go don Port ooo. And nobody will say anything. So, in all, dem just use person as at all at all

You should and will marry her. She will change. Just be praying

People don't read. It's soo shameful sha

Still available famz

obynzo:
Another eye service comment. There are other ways govt can empower it's citizens not a full blown slavery scheme.

Lol. What are the other ways na?

You guys act like you are smart but can't even mobilize just 5 people to vote for your preferred choice not to talk of bring out ideas that can save ur a$$ from poverty. But here you are on a faceless forum wondering why government (filled with clueless people like you) can't find 'other ways'

Abeg getaaat!!!

Let's just agree that governing Nigeria and Nigerians is almost impossible. The fact that people see infrastructures as problems and still ask for infrastructures is funny to me. Yall only see problems and more problems. OK, oga tweeter, what is your solution laikdz? Should LASG buy fresh cars and distribute it for free so yall can be happy?

I want to sell my HP Probook 4515s 4GB 320HDD

kyber:
I’m Giving It To My Girlfriend Sister Without Her Knowing

Just bought my girlfriends sister a new Tecno spark 5 pro without my babe knowing

Her sister has been phone-less for 3months now
She’s been begging me to get it for her but her elder sister who is my babe refused saying “she doesn’t deserve it” reasons best know to her though.

I also feel it’s not my responsibility but she keeps on bugging me to buy it for her and that I shouldn’t don’t tell her elder sister !!!

Well I just decided to buy it for her today at a mini Plaza close to my area

(Picture below)

Have I made the right decision

Even though it is clear you have the money, you are inviting trouble slowly. What you are doing now will have repercussions later. Trust me, it will. Except if you don't have the intention of being a in-law sha. Else, just tell your babe to avoid wahala.

Reverse Psychology. Reno is trying to hard. He should rest.

Working laptop still available for sale. Send me a message and I will deliver to you straight up. No delays.

Still interested? Send me a message today

Timidangote:
Still available?

Send a message to my WhatsApp nu

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

See bro, it is generally not ryt for you at your late 20s/early 30s to stay with matured ladies. Common, what were you expecting? Are you a rock or something?? Even if you are married, do you think your wife, being sensible, will allow her to live with you? Why? Because she understands what you don't want to admit.

You better find ways for her to relocate, else, na wahala you dey invite ooo.

Funny thing is that she myt not even have any idea of what is going on in your mind or how it is affecting you. And the devil, appearing in the form of a wicked konji, may be telling you she likes you. Next thing be say make you disgrace yourself in front of a woman. Abeg, free her. Women matter no be here ooo. It is better she hates you for sending her away than hate you for.... *winks*

Before you follow any well-meaning advice here, abeg send her packing first. Sha first look for ways she go take comot that place.

Brighton1:
Saphiere, pocohantas, Jennyclay, datboredberry, Ladyhippolyta88, CandidladyTemp, Iyaebe..... Oya, Food don ready ooo

Lol. U Don sabi dem true true. Dey go too blast am ehnn

Still available now

Common guys. This laptop is more than 30k abeg. Like I told the guys that sent me messages on WhatsApp, the current battery lasts for 1hr but you can get a new battery for 7k. The new battery lasts up to 4hours depending on usage. Pls, I can only remove the price of the battery from the 50k.

Only serious buyers in lag and Abeokuta should message me with good bids abeg. Thanks

Send me a message if u want to negotiate the price.

AoifeNightfall:
'She literally asked what was their most expensive drink. The waiter met my eyes and the bro code kicked in. He just kept saying everything was out of stock. God bless him where he is now. I went back to give him a tip but he declined."


Please how do I report this waiter to his manager?

He's spoiling his boss's business because of some stupid "bro code"

On the contrary, i think he saved the business from wahala. What if the guy no get money nko? Will washing plates bring back the food he bought. Kudos to him for recognizing a nigga in distress sharp sharp.

He actually saved the whole community from trouble. An hero!!!

Nonpartisan1:
It seems the PDP has given up in Osun.

Even their vibrant Nairaland urchin is not even opening threads against APC, ad he used to.


God Bless Our Mentor Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

We Stand Anywhere You Stand Sir!

The noise of division in Osun APC has thrown them into confusion. Instead of Osun PDP to continue their campaign massively, they are busy trending Aregbe vs Tinubu upandan.

I doubt if these people understand politics very well sef.

If you still need a good low-budget working laptop, hit me up. I can only deliver to you if you are in Lagos or Abeokuta

Laptop still available

scally11:
Let me pay 38k. Come and deliver at Alakuko. What is the battery span like

You will pay 38 and I go still come deliver to you. What if you don't like it? Who will bear the cost? Increase the price and message me

Still up for sale famz

Jennyclay:
Get out of my mention!!!

Who is breeding all these men dogs??

JESUS CHRIST!!!

Lol....

This may be unrelated but do you know I love feminists? They really make good points about them being independent. They just always ignore the fact they need good men on their side to be able to drive their points home. But how u gon have a good man on ur side with a closed and rigid mind? Shey u get my point babe

pocohantas:
Why shouldn’t it be switched to you? Didn’t you type the highlighted parts of your previous post?

Minister of Hopelessness.

Rotflol @bolded.... Wetin be minister of hopelessness bayii

It is even pointless arguing with you. Atleast I know you saw the remaining part of the post. But you picked the side that you don't like. Rest pls

IamRegal:
When you spend 5 minutes with someone everyday seeing just their positive side, you will like them.

Men are very soft, easy to get to with little kind gestures. The way she has been taking care of your child and home in general, have sent a continuous signal to your brain to see as as been a perfect fit. She possibly does things your wife has been failing at.

Then your wife absence isn't helping matters.

You have to pick the one that is most important to you between her and your family.

Let her and leave, when she's gone sit your wife down, let are know you love her and want her for forever but she's not helping you.

A man should be able to control is emotions, control yourself sir.

@OP here is another good advice to follow. Also, they try control yourself. But don't hesitate to send the girl away pls. I see some comments about treating her like ur daughter. Please don't ever do that. You are the one that needs treatment first ooo

pocohantas:
Place your right hand on your head and repeat that to yourself.

You are really the hopeless one fr. How did you even manage to switch the topic over to me.. Abeg waka

pocohantas:
Does it change the fact that she is 15?

I am sure if a dog take style resemble human being, you go fûck am. You are the hopeless one.

I offered to help someone in need of help not condemnation.

Funny thing is: I don't have dirty thoughts and I am not a slave to sex. So, keep ur insult abeg. But make una try to dey get sense

Jennyclay:
You this pervert and peadophile, don't let the devil use you.

I just pity the poor girl. I wish I know the way to your house, I would sue you for attempted sexual assault.

Pervert!!!! Men are dogs oooo

I am honestly hoping that you have never had dark thoughts flooding your mind before?

Because I don't know why you will condemn someone for opening up about their thoughts.

If a grown man can summon the courage to talk about their problems, don't you think they are looking for solutions?

If you can't offer to help, you should just shout out your comment in the mirror first. Trust me, it is always the first step

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Look stop listening to those hypocrites accusing you of being a pedophile. This is the same argument I was having the other with some hopeless dudes on Telegram.

Some 15 year old today look more matured than 20 year olds and that's a fact.

Assuming you have not had anything with the girl, here is what you should do straight up: You must send her away, sit your wife down and tell her the truth. Tell her she is effing up big time and that has led to ur warped thinking which is normal because you are sex-starved.

Now, if she no listen, just send the maid away and take one of these choices: either decide on your own to go celibate for the purpose of cleansing ur mind of these dark thoughts or go find yourself a side chick. Simple. Sha send the maid away once and for all.

And if u have had anything with the girl, just know that you are in trouble. I have nothing to say to you on that.