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Faithlovve:
Hello mama's in the house. I'm very new year.

I'm so much in a confused state here. I'm 5seeks 2days gone pregnant according to scan yesterday. My issue is I'm not married and my bf doesn't want the baby but I strongly do because I think I'm not that fertile. I created a thread previously in the family section where I asked for advise on what to do with the pregnancy before telling my BF. This

https://www.nairaland.com/4761832/please-need-advice-nairalanders-just#71655488

Now I've told him and he doesn't want me to keep it. I'm so depressed now. We started dating this year and he was planning we could get married late next year but he says he doesn't want to get married like this. Now I've even decided he doesn't have to marry me but I would keep the baby. Now I'm so so in a depressed and confused mood.

I hope single pregnant ladies are allowed in here.

Thank you all ma'am as I wait your advises.

These are screenshots of our chats below .

Bunny19:
I have been so emotional reading all ur mentions.... So many of them that I am still shocked with d show of love and prayers. Wow! I don't know what to say, God in His infinite Mercy will reward u all and grant u ur heart desires. AminH

I couldn't do the two procedures again cos when d director evaluated me again, he realised d gestational age was reading 13weeks when I was supposed to be 20weeks as at that time. He said the baby was reducing in size since it was lifeless n no blood supply to it again so it can come out from my cervix. He decide to induce me so I can go into labour.

Mamas na there I see hell and back. Horrible experience that I will never forget,i kept having contractions from that evening till d following day, I threw up like 10times n became week. The doc on duty checked me n said I was 4cm dilated. I had it to my neck, and told my husband to tell dem to evacuate me. So they wheeled me to d theatre in d morning n carried out d procedure. The doctor later told my husband that if I had been patient for some few hours that it would have come out itself cos when they opened my cervix in d theatre the head was already showing.

My patience no reach there o, Kai women r trying. So I got discharged today Alhamdulillah. Will be going for evaluation in a month's time then d doctor will book me for d myectomy by November

I thank God for everything and I know this has opened up d way for me for more blessings from God. Am hopeful

Thanks my lovely sisters I can't mention u all but know that I appreciate u all n love u so much. Ur prayers for me kept me going. My twinny @Dazzlinganio... God bless u n Lo n she will be my god daughter. Mama zaynie I saw ur pm I can't access my email. Pls reach me on this line . Congratulations to all d mamas that have just put to bed, may ur Los be d coolness of ur eyes and those still waddling I wish u all safe delivery, they shall be no loss. I will be back again inshaAllah

UmmuFareed:
Thanks to you all for your wonderful messages, may you all carry to full term and deliver with ease. There shall be no more loss.

Owasgirl:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

Issa girl family. My princess and first fruit came into my world exactly 3:43 a.m. today, 3rd October through VD with cut.

Like play like play, I don be person mama
Join me to give glory to the most high God for crowning me with such honor.

Mother's fine except for the pain from the cut.
Baby's doing great, Dh and all extended family are over joyed.

My appreciation goes to all mamas and mamas to be in the house for your contributions to this thread which has serve as a guide to information seeking mothers and mothers to be. Our joy will never be cut short in Jesus name.

Those in line for delivery, you shall all meet your los in good health and sound mind, in Jesus name, Amen.

BS soon by God's grace.



Congrats mama

zaynie:
She's back

Trippleblessing:
Amen

Lehwah:
Me is fine oooo. Eating well now.

Lehwah:
TTC will be given ooooo
Thank God cappo is back, don't worry mama the taste bud will come back.

zaynie:
Maybe not on your first day but injection is sure ó.
Anti-tetanus shots.

Joomie:
Looooool, i think they sing and dance everywhere. It's a form of exercise.

Joomie:
All these mamas giving me unbalanced percentage, my next roll call won't be funny oo, i go tear bra tear pant ooo if i hear less than 80% packing . Issokay. I wee not vex now, till Monday.

There's this song in our ANC : E Bami rababa f'oko mi o, Oko Olori ire to fun mi l'oyun (meaning 'join me to praise/worship my excellent husband that got me pregnant.')
Mama Zaynie, do and pack, u hear.

Chili89:
thanks sis..I am telling u oo.
To think that I was waiting for af to show so I can try clomid for the first time in my life. I guess God does not want to share his glory with any fertility drugs in my case.

Chili89:
It's bfp!!!
Join me in thanking the lord for answering my prayers sisters.
My ttc journey for a second baby started in april after my first turned a year & six months in March.
As usual we bd in may but my period came, in June I bought omega 369 nd started taking till ovulation nd I stoped, my period still came.

Then in July I hd hormonal assay done because even
after weaning my baby, I still bring out milk when I press, the result came back that my prolsctin was a bit high with 30, I placed myself on bromegon nd had a hvs done which revealed a scanty growth of staph, I treated it with cef iv, my period still came even though we bd.

Then came August, I decided to let God be God by stoping all medications, I prayed my rosary everyday, visited the blessed sacrament in the chapel nd attend weekly masses, we bd during ovulation nd after I started taking vit b complex one tablet morning nd evening, zinc tablet 20mg daily for ten days nd vit c I000mg and Viola !! I missed my period. I tested today circle day 29 nd saw two red lines staring at me mamas.

whyworryPH:
It's best to steer clear of pineapple especially it it's your first time as it may dilate the cervix. Body differs and it might not affect you like it did not affect my co wife. But better safe than sorry.
Wait until 36 weeks.

For pepper soup, I started taking mine from 1st trimester. The difference is that I made them myself and so I only added uda, ehuru and uziza seed in minute quantity and it was mostly catfish pepper soup.

If you must, it's best you prepare it yourself as joints and bars may use those ingredients in large quantities which might not be too good for you.

SwtDove:
3rd trimester when you are close to Edd..

gracygem100:
BA BA
To the glory of God, I welcomed my handsome prince on the 4th Sept. weighing 3kg.
The Lord be praised.
BS coming!

Lehwah:
God is great...the ministry is moving gradually. We are approaching week 14,13,12, and 11. May God continue to strengthen us all. If you are team March and you are still hiding, you are wrong grin

MS will not stop our shine. Ndo all team march mama's, it'll ll end in praise soon. To all mama's in the house, smooth Preggy journey and smooth delivery will be our portion.

MS should be wearing out soon and yanga will start

We should be preparing to begin ANC soon and start submitting our EDDs. May God see us through.

TEAM MARCH ROLL CALL (team Godwin)
Moniker EDD SEX
1. Rbae.
2. Sparklebee
3. kokolet007
4. Frozenelsa
5. lehwah............. 1st march 2019
6. diamondc
7. Jaygrl

All peepers should come out and register oooooo
Cc:Rbae

Dbryan:
BA BA BA!!!
With joy in my heart I wish to announce the birth of my princess today being the 5th of sept from the initial date of 17th sept without tear weighing 3.0kg by 10 past 11
BS later....mother and child doing great and the father grinning from ear to ear......

Enkay12:
Good morning my fam! I welcomed my baby girl yesterday at 39+1weeks via cs.. God never cease to remain faithful.. Bs will come later

Shollzycute:
Good morning blessed mother's. I want to thank you all for your prayers. I am a blessed mother after waiting for five years what a marvelous God. My beautiful princess was born on Monday september 3rd 7:15pm.
Mother and baby OK father rejoicing. BS coming soon.

Thanks so much our blessed august capo...my baby port to September.

Lehwah:
My sister it is well. May God strengthen you, just take things easy and embrace the package. It will soon pass. Ndo, pele

ayabadamilola:
I laugh in Chinese! See this woman o, who forming epp? Belle dey comot all poshness from person body, you no know ni? Thank God for Iya Kewe and Iya Amara o!

Bunny19:
Am good my dear! Eyyah so sorry about d weakness, no wonder we didn't see ur post for a while. Hope u get better soon. Abeg hold Iya Amara and Mama Kewe tight for now ooo, cos u need to eat by fire by force . Take care mama