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lawanson44:Nduka Obaigbena is the owner of thisday and we all know his role in looting money appropriated for weapon procurement. It is terrible that some senseless ppl r still quoting the criminal. The original interview was with liberty radio. You ppl have failed in many of ur devilish propaganda like certificate, health, converting nigeria to islam etc. You shall continue to be backward if u continue this way and the end result will b self-destruction. Ethnic bigotry against a sincerely determined leader acknowledged by world leaders will only ruin your region which is the worst amongst others. Change ur thinking to issue based for u to progress. |
lawanson44:@ the bold, how can gov official who is a SUNNI(u called them ISIS/Boko haram) be waging war against Boko haram (also SUNNI according 2 u) Also, gov(SUNNI) is waging war against Shiites.Don't u think that a reasonable(non-myopic) person will know that gov is waging war against public disturbance/insurgence from any group; be it Boko haram/SUNNI, Shiites and any other group that is trying to cause chaos/destabilization of peace in the country? Let us learn to reason with open mind rather than applying ethnic/religious coloration to our comments. Some ppl don't want this country to progress and I pray that such people and their families will never know peace for concocting falsehood in order to cause trouble. |
seems some beneficiaries of subsidy fraud are using NLC against government. If not, why should they oppose a price reduction that eventually leads to efficiency and elimination of fraudulent practice ![]() |
soulhighman:Yes, I meant ‘Review Status’ in the ‘Application Centre’ but that is where you see notification informing you that you have met the eligibility criteria. Invitation for interview will be in Feb 2016 anyway. |
Has anyone logged in recently? If yes, do you still have the message below under the review application or is no longer there? 'Thank you for your recent application for a 2016 - 2017 Chevening Award. We have reviewed your application, and are pleased to confirm that you have met the required eligibility criteria...' Kindly log in and share your present status. |
agalamanyi:IELTS is mostly conducted twice a month in Abuja, Enugu, Ibadan, Lagos and Portharcourt. The next available test dates are 9th and 23rd of January, 2016. https://ielts.britishcouncil.org/CheckAvailability.aspx for further check. For practice test, visit http://takeielts.britishcouncil.org/prepare-test/free-practice-tests. Best of luck |
khiaa: Show me data that states 90% of black women nag. In Nigeria can women own land? Why is it when some of you on this site speak of your childhood it's always your FATHERS house and not your PARENTS home? Explain to me how women have equal rights to men in your country. I am not defending black women or any other women because I am a woman, It's just that stereotyping and generalizing gets to me.Data can be derived not only from a documented journal but largely from the comment deduced from actual experience of ppl in a given sample. There is no data in the world that captures the entire population but a sample of it on which generalisations are made. Check out social media one of which is this nairaland and hear/read ppl's opinions based on real life encounters. You don't even need to go far, listen to what the black nigga that spoke after the the nipp.le preacher that I posted in my earlier post says about black women in the in the youtube video. As regards land ownership which u have no single idea of how it works; women own lands and properties to any level they have the economic capacity. In fact, my mum owns some landed properties to which she has C of O issued in her name. The fact a woman is married and lives in husband house doesn't prevent her from owning houses and other properties too but an average Nigerian women is naturally dependent and lazy. Only few work hard to be successful. In addition, my grandmum of 85 yrs old has a house she worked and built; so where did u get it that women cannot own land in Nigeria ![]() Take it or leave it, fact cannot change. This thread alone, apart from other related treads has far more numbers of guys complained about nagging/lazy/demanding Nigerian girls than those with no such complaints |
lefulefu: listen to sermon when such boobi dey point at my facelooooooool! |
I don't even av problem with the begging thing but see how they call u all sort of names like stingy man, aka gum and so on if try to ignore the beggars. |
khiaa: #1 You should know that a woman being suductive to get what she wants from a man is a womanly trait, it is not a race trait. Some women nag, it has nothing to do with race, stop stereotyping.Seriously, u r making sense in ur argument but u r leaving out some facts; may b u r trying to defend black women as u r one. I said dgrees which i'd otherwise call prevalence varies among races/groups. A given behaviour would b seen as a way of life of a group if a large % of the group exhibit such behaviour. If 90% of a group nag, then it is reasonable to say the group has A* in nagging. If another group has btwn 5-10% of them nagging, clearly the group has F in nagging and they cannot b referred to as group that nag. About Nigerians, everybody has equal right just that most of the girls are too lazy to earn their living. As we have girls with finacial challenges, so there r guys with financial challenges. Most guys endure and work out some plans which may materialise later while most girls jump to the street and teach each other how to extort money from guys. |
lefulefu: i dey see dat woman boobi ooooHope u were listening to the sermon ![]() |
khiaa: I can't answer this question boo because I am not a Nigerian woman.Then u may not understand what I'm talking about; tho black women generally nag and believe they can get their men/all men do things for them when they r seductive. This is why u see a black American lady pastor preaching with nipp.les showing on http://www.reportghananews.com/watch-video-shocking-female-pastor-who-preaches-with-her-breast-and-nipples-popping-out/ or watch the video on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qhx4E0j_u2U because she thinks that's the only way to get ppl to her church. Well it's better there bcs I know most women over there - black or wite are loyal and supportive to their guys, but i can tell you that u get the biggest shock of of ur life if u see how majority of Nigerian women (young/old, employed/unemployed, single/married) go into relationship for economic/financial gains. The only thing is that the degrees vary among them i.e some can still b managed bcs they r modest about it, but some have several children for several fathers so that they can have share of properties from several men. It's so appaling and all these make me to screen and re-screen Nigerian ladies that come my way and most time they do not worth to b taken as wife. All that have made m understand why there r many broken relationships/homes in Nigeria. |
khiaa: Ok, One Mo Gain.in that case, I can tell u may b only 2% of Nigerian women have all of the qualities put together. other pretend at the instance of material things they want to gain from the man or because they r used n dumped by players. let me ask u: do Nigerian women love unconditionally without puting the factors I mentioned above into consideration? |
khiaa: I repeat, are you not capable of finding you a real woman and leaving the witches alone, now answer the question.definition of real woman is relative. u surely know. u need to ask urself why relatioship breakdown rate is on the increase? |
khiaa: Are you not capable of finding you a real woman and leaving the witches alone?u surely know most of u only act real. but that doesnt mean few r not still real sha. |
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sometimes I wonder what kind of ladies w av in this Nigeria? how do u define romance? give a Nigerian girl flowers on val day or card on b'day n get d biggest humiliation of ur life. u hear stuff like: na flower I go chop? nw card I go pay hairdresser? etc. meanwhile, oyinbo girls appreciate things like flowers, cards, msgs etc. infact, most of Nigerian girls are confused, even d so-called high class babes. their definition of romance is eatery, pocket money and they thnk u by nagging |
Mrs.Chima:may b u don't know the diff between MOST/SOME & ALL |
khiaa: If you wern't being taken advantage of you wouldn't have a complaint. You are right, the woman is black american so how did you manage to bring Nigerian women into the mix. Further more women of all races will ask a man to pay her rent, get her hair done, pay her car note, buy her food, buy her clothes, it's up to the man if he wants to be a SUCKER or not.regularly, they try to. but I do some to allow the bi.tch feel like a champion if I won't feel it much (just helping the bi.tches who believe that they can only get things from guys by displaying their nake.dness) and I walk away from the others that are too greedy |
[quote author=khiaa][/quote]I said: they like to take advantage of... not that they took advantage of. English! the woman preaching with her nipp out is a black but not a Nigerian woman |
Mrs.Chima:may be u inherit such behaviours from ur mother n u r probably thinking of bequiting them to ur daughters as my mother belongs to the few black women with values |
to be sincere, most black women are not real. they like to take advantage of guys. it is only a black woman that remembers she wants to do hair, pay house rent, go shopping etc when a guy talks to them. in fact, some nigerian girls would say they r hungry just bcs u say hi |
ppl misinterprete foolishness for love sometimes. |
luvmijeje: If u are above 30 and u still single pls don't settle for less.I know it is easier said than done but what is the use of getting married and u re unhappy.What defines the word'less'? Aiming too high is the genesis of all these problems. Ladies tends tend to b materialistic than realistic. May God help us all |
But what does it sound like when a lady tells u she is engaged to sm1 outside the country; yet she visted your sibblings and send regards to ur parent regularly? Would u think such person has a good relationship? |
the topic portrays reality but why would d ladies not be plain but play games. sometimes, I wonder if women know what they really want as many of them too cannot offer quarter of what they demand for. They play games n use their unreasonable demands to turn some guys to criminals. |
it is possible, if u have ur God given wife and both of u communicate and understand each other perfectly |
NO, women attitudes n unnecessary conditions are d reasons why men are not getting married these days. |
dj5naira: Yes great grandson.Great grandfather! Why do u like to give advise in parables and short phrase? |
dj5naira: Persistency is padlock and patience the key.@ dj5naira, u know I can't thing straight now; are u using ur proverb to tell me to continue pursuing this person whose mood is completely unpredictable? |
@ 2legit2qwt, eagle,eye and temi4fash thank you, I am already getting over her gradually, though kind of difficult for me bcs of how much love I had(...reducing daily) for her but I know wounds heal with time. |
I think communication is the most challenging. This help to prevent misinterpretation of each other's actions; knowing fully well that misinterpretation leads to disagreement and most times break down of relationship especially when a party feels he/she owns the other no explanation on some sensitive issues. I believe proper communication put every other things right in a relationship. |
Also, gov(SUNNI) is waging war against Shiites.
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Are you not capable of finding a woman who is REAL, aka, loving, respectful, hardworking and God fearing? If you aren't, then I think you should take some advice from the late Michael Jackson and start with the MAN IN THE MIRROR. Geeeeeeee, I hope you get it now. 