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shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

You ought to have known all these before you went to the altar via reading of marriage oriented books that there are some times in marriage that are called dry season. But with the situation now, it now behooves on you and your wife to love yourself either you feel like it or not.... Some marriage will still crash because we are too in an hurry to jump the preparatory class. You don't learn to shoot gun on the battle field, you learn it before the battle begins. The solution now is to tell you psychology that man, I must make this marriage work. Marriage is hardwork. I pray the Lord would strengthen your heart to take up this challenge. Divorce is never an option.

Naija8240:
“My first experience picking up a car from Tincan Port Lagos to Port Harcourt”

The day started off with me picking up the car from Lagos Port. Thereafter, I proceeded to register it to avoid unnecessary interception from security personnels on the road ensuring all necessary documents were in check.

Knowing how the system functions, I was advised to keep some cash handy for some security personnels I’ll meet at various checkpoints. What I encountered on the road didn’t seem like extortions . In fact! One can say the police, army and every other security officers that are suppose to protect lives and properties of our dear country are the people robbing us.

How did we get here?
Nigeria security services have destroyed this country!
There were about 23 check points all filled with police ,army and customs on the high way. Each had a particular amount stipulated to be paid.
I met like 9 custom officers checking for duty papers. Each asked for a “1k non-negotiable fee” as that was a standard for them. Then the army took 200 naira at each check point.

The police are the worst!
These guys are hardened criminals disguised in uniforms to operate legally on the road. They have no mercy. I spent 2-5k each at checkpoints.
I ran out of luck as I approached Benin where the bigger problem started.

I got to a checkpoint and was told my car is tinted and the registered plate number didn’t reflect on their system. I was taken to their station and asked to pay the sum of 100k. I looked at heaven, left and right for help but none came. I started negotiating the extortion, and we ended up at 40k. After paying I was allowed to leave and so I continued my journey hoping this time the extortions were over.

As God answered my prayers, I didn’t meet any Custom officer from Benin to Port Harcourt just police check points.
In total, I spent 98k on extortions and it saddens me. The questions that still lingers in my head is “why Port Harcourt and Warri Ports are still not functioning till date”?
Why do our Politicians Politicize everything in this country?
If not politics, tell me why the Ports in the South are not operating?
There are lots of readjustments to be made especially where citizens in my country have accepted extortion as norm.
We need to do better!

God bless!!

Pls can I turn this to news for publication?

OneKinGuy:
After collecting hundreds of millions in tithes & other stuffs.

Tomorrow somone will open their mouth and invite me to come church

RUBBISH!

How much is your State Governor paying BSC graduates working for the government monthly?

Olaolufred:
The woman did nothing wrong.
Only Igboho is a criminal forger and counterfeiter.

A criminal land grabber in Ibadan.

Political thugs for AD and PDP.

A guerilla fighter in modakeke.

He is an experienced gun runner.

He himself confessed it in his video.

He is a trained tout by the late granny tout adedibu.

Those you forcefully took their land prayed that you be oppressed also by someone bigger than you.

Seed time and harvest time sha.

May you receive brain to talk with sense when next you'll want to contribute to Igboho's issue......

SexyBabe001:
Bishop Oyedepo addresses issue of Living Faith Rural Churches Low Income:

NONSENSE !
OUR ONLY CRITERIA IS HOW MANY SOULS WON AND NOT HOW MUCH INCOME.

WHEN WE EMPLOYED 7000 PASTORS AT ONCE SOCIAL MEDIA WAS DEAD. WE HAVE MORE EMPLOYEES THAN MOST STATES IN NIGERIA AND WE HAVE NEVER OWED THEM OR TAKEN BANK OVERDRAFT ONCE.

THE PASTORS WERE ASKED TO GO BECAUSE THEY WERE UNFRUITFUL.
MANY OF THE CHURCHES BUILT CAN NEVER PAY FOR THE CHURCH BUILDING IN 30 YEARS.

WE HAVE NO PATIENCE WITH FAILURE HERE.

-Bishop David Oyedepo at CHoP

*We have built more than 1,000 Churches in rural areas where in the next 30 years, they can never generate such fund, with each costing more than 14 Million Naira.
*We are hunting after souls, not income.

People are confused about our Ministry. I learnt some fellows said, “you know, they are not bringing income, that is why they asked them to go.” We asked you to go because you are unfruitful.

Unfruitful! Blatant failure. Doing what there? We have no patience with failure here.
When we employed 7,000 people at a time, Social Media was dead.
We have more employees in this Organisation than most of the States. Church Gist. No one is owed a dime salary and we don’t borrow, we don’t beg. Ask our bank whether we take overdraft.

We are covenant bound, working in the light of God’ Word.
Enjoying an open Heaven.
We have fully delivered the first phase of 1,000 plus buildings to the rural Churches. None of those Churches can generate that fund in the next 30 years. No, we are hunting after souls.

Money: NONSENSE!
We have never lacked it and yet we have never prayed for it, we are just simply obeying God and He is backing up what He is asking us to do. Awesome God.

Now the next set is about to be flagged off, just certifying the landed property issues, nothing else. We have no lack of anything. The world is confused.

Walking in the light of God’s Word. Please obey God to the full and watch out for His manifestations in your life.
Well, you don’t need so much Mathematics to know a thousand buildings; that is not 1000 Naira each, that is not 10 Million (Naira) each, that is not 12 Million (Naira) each, that is not 14 Million (Naira) each.

Some are 35 Million (Naira). At a go!
We have never seen it ourselves. We just watched God doing it.
The only criteria: How many souls have they gotten there? Then, build for them.
How many souls? Not once: “how much money do they have?”
Apart from individuals now investing in promoting the Kingdom of God: building 5 Churches, some building 2, some building 3 Churches.

Just obey God. Church Gist. Obedience will turn you to a living wonder
Have you ever seen raise a prayer point of “O God, send us money”?
You have been here for some time, we pray every day. Now we pray 3 times a day:
Covenant Hour of Prayer;
Covenant Revival Prayer: Morning and Evening.

Going out every day on the streets.
You want to see what we see, go and do what we do. But if you are not saved, there is nothing you do that matters. There is nothing you do that matters.

Note: The Church has spent over 2 Billion naira to built over 1000 church auditoria in the first phase.

#BishopDavidOyedepo
#CHoP22July2021
#ChurchGist

CHoP is an acronym for Covenant Hour of Prayer.

Source:
https://www.facebook.com/444807728996437/posts/2487101721433684/

The criticism that would shake Baba Oyedepo's assertion is not still in existence. He doesn't take steps haphazardly; he takes informed steps. Don't get it twisted. Highly intelligent and eloquent; every of these qualities is traceable to divinity.

[quote author=SexyBabe001 post=103967215]Bishop Oyedepo addresses issue of Living Faith Rural Churches Low Income:

NONSENSE !
OUR ONLY CRITERIA IS HOW MANY SOULS WON AND NOT HOW MUCH INCOME.

WHEN WE EMPLOYED 7000 PASTORS AT ONCE SOCIAL MEDIA WAS DEAD. WE HAVE MORE EMPLOYEES THAN MOST STATES IN NIGERIA AND WE HAVE NEVER OWED THEM OR TAKEN BANK OVERDRAFT ONCE.

THE PASTORS WERE ASKED TO GO BECAUSE THEY WERE UNFRUITFUL.
MANY OF THE CHURCHES BUILT CAN NEVER PAY FOR THE CHURCH BUILDING IN 30 YEARS.

WE HAVE NO PATIENCE WITH FAILURE HERE.

-Bishop David Oyedepo at CHoP

*We have built more than 1,000 Churches in rural areas where in the next 30 years, they can never generate such fund, with each costing more than 14 Million Naira.
*We are hunting after souls, not income.

People are confused about our Ministry. I learnt some fellows said, “you know, they are not bringing income, that is why they asked them to go.” We asked you to go because you are unfruitful.

Unfruitful! Blatant failure. Doing what there? We have no patience with failure here.
When we employed 7,000 people at a time, Social Media was dead.
We have more employees in this Organisation than most of the States. Church Gist. No one is owed a dime salary and we don’t borrow, we don’t beg. Ask our bank whether we take overdraft.

We are covenant bound, working in the light of God’ Word.
Enjoying an open Heaven.
We have fully delivered the first phase of 1,000 plus buildings to the rural Churches. None of those Churches can generate that fund in the next 30 years. No, we are hunting after souls.

Money: NONSENSE!
We have never lacked it and yet we have never prayed for it, we are just simply obeying God and He is backing up what He is asking us to do. Awesome God.

Now the next set is about to be flagged off, just certifying the landed property issues, nothing else. We have no lack of anything. The world is confused.

Walking in the light of God’s Word. Please obey God to the full and watch out for His manifestations in your life.
Well, you don’t need so much Mathematics to know a thousand buildings; that is not 1000 Naira each, that is not 10 Million (Naira) each, that is not 12 Million (Naira) each, that is not 14 Million (Naira) each.

Some are 35 Million (Naira). At a go!
We have never seen it ourselves. We just watched God doing it.
The only criteria: How many souls have they gotten there? Then, build for them.
How many souls? Not once: “how much money do they have?”
Apart from individuals now investing in promoting the Kingdom of God: building 5 Churches, some building 2, some building 3 Churches.

Just obey God. Church Gist. Obedience will turn you to a living wonder
Have you ever seen raise a prayer point of “O God, send us money”?
You have been here for some time, we pray every day. Now we pray 3 times a day:
Covenant Hour of Prayer;
Covenant Revival Prayer: Morning and Evening.

Going out every day on the streets.
You want to see what we see, go and do what we do. But if you are not saved, there is nothing you do that matters. There is nothing you do that matters.

Note: The Church has spent over 2 Billion naira to built over 1000 church auditoria in the first phase.

#BishopDavidOyedepo
#CHoP22July2021
#ChurchGist

CHoP is an acronym for Covenant Hour of Prayer.

The criticism that would shake Baba Oyedepo's assertion is not still in existence. He doesn't take steps haphazardly; he takes informed steps. Don't get it twisted. Highly intelligent and eloquent; every of these qualities is traceable to divinity.

Nemere2020:
https://punchng.com/breaking-interpol-arrested-igboho-wife-in-benin-republic-lawyer/?amp&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter&__twitter_impression=true

Nairaland, can you pls update your website? Igboho is on his way to Germany....

[quote author=lalasticlala post=103774072]Heavy Flooding in Marina, Lagos Drowns Cars.

Are you killing me?

Brexxit:
Igboho is a tout,a street urchin,a land grabber and a criminal.

His people helped to foist the calamity called buhari on Nigerians.

They should enjoy the change they seek.
They are not getting any oduduwa republic.

Can you hear yourself? You sounded like tout

Why are some ladies down in reasoning like this.... You barely said yes this yesterday, you are asking for 60k for wardrobe allowance, uhn uhn you supposed ask for yes allowance.... Oniranu....

No woman, no cry. A girl that barely said yes to me yesterday is demanding 60k from me for wardrobe allowance.

Giving her the money is not the issue. but i fear a relationship built on such ground will collapse in no time.

What happens when hair and feeding allowances enters? i sometime wonder if having a girlfriend is worth it because almost all of them have multiple boyfriends whom they cash out from. i see no difference between them and olosho. petronizing olosho gives much rest of mind than a girl who is yet to be your wife.

Nairalanders, how do you people cope with girlfriends palava in this present state of Nigeria?[/quote]

Just because our fathers in the faith are quiet because someone died, see uproar and wailing all around. For the fact that they showed up in his burial ceremony is never a yardstick to determine his qualification to making it to heaven or not now..... I don't understand how some people's quietness is causing boisterous noise elsewhere oooo..... Just because I'm quiet now, it's now a concern to some people.... Nawa ooo

You aren't actually breaking record if you are complying with court order. If President Buhari had been habitually by pass court orders, who are you? Lawlessness and corruption are principally inherent in the country's system

Victimized in what way?

If we call you mummy now, Nairaland would be looking for us up and down. Can we be reasonable for once?

If we call you mumu now,Nairaland would looking for heads up and down.... Are you living in Kenya....? Let's be reasonable for once pls..... At least for once....

[quote author=SATANICALLY666 post=103298358]https://dailytrust.com/again-7-herders-killed-in-plateau[/qugote]
May God help my heart, I passionately hate all these Fulani...... Unimpactful region to the well being of the country.........

jesusjnr2020:
So what do you understand by believing in Christ, because by Jesus definition of that phrase, it means to keep His Word, which means that no man can be an sinner or worker of iniquity and still believe in Christ.

John 8:30-31 (KJV)

As he spake these words, many believed on him.
Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed;

Hence sin can certainly take someone to hell, because any man who is still a worker of inquity or sinner, but claims to believe in Christ would not be allowed into His kingdom but be taken out and cast into hell.

Matthew 13:41-42 (KJV)

The Son of man shall send forth his angels, and they shall gather out of his kingdom all things that offend, and them which do iniquity;
And shall cast them into a furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth.

That's according to Christ's Gospel of Grace.

God bless.

Generation of one saved is eternally saved don come ooooo.... Spreading flamboyant lies and hellish deceits up and down..... That was how they were sexing themselves on the premise of I'm saved eternally when we were on campus. If you are saved eternally, there shouldn't be anything like beware in the Bible. If you fall for it, forget, you are gone ooooo...... God saved someone like me from their hands ooooo

So you'll still apologize with those gulegule you displayed, radarada......

Okay..... It's becoming more clearer by day that these people want to islamize this country just the way they did to Turkey..... It can't work.... Everybody is exposed...... Under a democratically elected president, all these are happening. You even went as far as killing people in his �. When we disregard history, this is what we get. This same animalistic trait was displayed during his regime in the 1980s. It was recorded in our history books but some foolish people who even witnessed it still gullibly went ahead and vote for him coupled with some old but stupid parents..... Nonsense

Oga what you did on your live Program should not be less to some bosses who believe they can just be using broadcaster's life without pay. Let me share my own funny experience. Two months ago I was working with a radio station reportedly belonging to the governor for on top 29k oooo per month. You now owed us 2 months salary. You know what I did, we were told it's a private radio station but on paper, it's government parastatal. So I gave them a deadline that if they fail to pay our two months salary, my colleagues and I would shut
down the radio station. My boss who has seen as mumu Patriot called me and asked whether I'm part of the movement, me I told him I'm one of the ring leaders, he should forget, we moved. Lo and behold within a week they paid that two months salary. And when you see us in town and discovered we work for government Radio, they'll feel like, give us money now not knowing that we dey suffer. Kudos to that guy Jo....

[quote author=Kriss216 post=102982436]Children are truly blessing from the Lord.




See how the birth of the child brought her freedom.


What if she wasn't pregnant then? She for rot for jail.

Moral of the story;
Have sex.

Pele oooo, teacher (Olukoni).... Have sex ko, go to jail ni........

I've seen hundreds of not thousand of Communication oriented vacancies this year..... Journalism course would ever be relevant and fetch you enough money.... If you are going for it, go digital.... It's not enough to just write for broadcast and print alone... Do yourself favour by learning something like blogging and other digital skills...... Thanks

Are you in this country at all?

O ti ye wa, o se se ye wa ni oooo

abc115:
https://thenationonlineng.net/lagos-mention-not-reference-to-tinubu-says-presidency/

[quote author=Ezemarcel post=101855826]This ur hospital nawoo….see English wey u d blow for mouth[/quota
Ah ah

If you can give me go ahead, I'll air this issue on my radio program, record and send it to you.... My program allows aged and experienced people to call and advise people that are confused regarding certain issue in their life.... Drop your WhatsApp number

I'm an OAP with a radio station in Ekiti state and I run a program which is tagged AFM live STORIES. The program receives stories like this for the aged and experienced to advise the concerned..... However, if the concerned is far away, I can record and send to the person in question via WhatsApp. I think I'm permitted to air this story for people to advise you.. Thanks

Who would convince me that this one is not demonic like this? What's the rationale behind this foolishness?

donbachi:
When u dey open ur legs,u no call nigerians to help u fix ur legs.."married baby daddy".

I should leave fight against Herdsmen and I should come and join my force with yours to fight what in the first place?