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DoroBad:
Gone yet?

Not yet, will let you know

DoroBad:
Nah, they didn't say, and I didn't ask. . . As long as my issue is resolved.

I went to their office in lekki. Very close to my home.

Lol, same here too.

DoroBad:
Their office is the way to go. Book an appointment and go. My car has been registered.

Thanks a bunch, but did they say why we were having that issue @ dorobad

chekz169:
Can i get your contact no? Or any medium to reach u?

Don't worry, I'd reach out to you.

chekz169:
@rebella, I stay in Ajah (Sangotedo)

That's good, I'd contact you soon, once I register my car

DoroBad:
nope. not yet. i booked an appointment with them on wednesday morning. would update you.

Thanks, I have been mailing them and they said I should go to their office to register the car.. so waiting on your feedback.

@chekz169, where exactly in Lekki do you stay, I am looking for someone around that axis.

Hi Kumero and dorobad, please any feedback on the 2012 to 2017 issue. I am having the same issue

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Mama was right pls, I would be grateful to have a mother inlaw like that. The issue here, may probably stem from the wife vexing about her mil entering her kitchen. Why that is an issue, I still don't understand.

MissMorayo:
I wish you can give this same advise if the man in question happens to be your brother or your son. I'm not condemning the lady in question but what if she has damaged her womb through youthful exutbecances and recklessness? Are you saying the man isn't right to find his way?
The op should take heart as what has happened has happened but this is a lesson to all that our actions today will always have a consequence tomorrow. I know of many ladies who have had more 10 abortions, if their Fiance dump them tomorrow we will be crying foul that men are being pretentious.

If you go to my last post on this topic, you'd see the answer to your questions.
I am not in support of abortion, but the deed has been done.

lastpage:
Just saw this:

Did it also occur to you that there might have been things the man saw (warning signs, as you put it), to make him insist he wants to be sure the marriage can bear fruits (even as God commanded), before putting his head into it?

Or is it not in this world where women (and men too) do all sort of things in their spinsterhood, only to come back to look for one mugun husband to settle with?
Go to churches and go and see them.... dem dey do worker" because dem dey find one mugun brother.

"Shine your eye" nor be Dog name, abeg.



Lastpage!

I do understand what you are trying to say, but marriage is for better for worse, what about if the fault is from him. I would advice her to stay if she loves him. Not all fertility issues are from women.

@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

Individuals on birth control pills are at a higher risk of having blood clots, that's why smokers aren't advised to go on the pill. It's always in the leaflet in the pack. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages. BC'S also reduce the risks of having certain cancers.

Birth control pills were primarily designed for family planning, however they are now used for other hormonal purposes. For her to take a BC that let's her see her period a couple of times in a year, I suspect it is for the latter.

OP educate yourself well on the topic before jumping to conclusion.

@ baldman, na wa 4 u oh.

What do you have to offer a woman, apart from your bald head, what degree do you possess, most importantly are you are virgin

Yam pounder aren't new they've been around for over 30 years. They were initially manufactured by National before they went under.

uwagimboo:
sorry to ask, was urs Mucha Habermann or chicken pox

Since then, have u had any recurrence?

lool, its not chicken pox, too be honest I cannot recall what it was called, but it looked like what u have and I remember the docs talking about ultraviolet light if it lasted longer than 3 months

@uwagimboo, so I had this back in 012, docs said it will resolve on its own. As I like to form fine girl, I went online and did my research.
It can stay for a long a ten years oh!, anyway here what I did an it cleared up within 2 weeks.
I took my bath every day with heads and shoulders, anti dandruff. No soap involved. Then I took milk thistle pills.

You should find milk thistle in any big pharmacy.

Domestic violence goes both ways, I have personally seen a situation where a woman was talking down at her husband in the presence of family and friends and everyone of us just sat there staring at her. If you are a man and your wife is abusing you either physically or verbally please send her back to her parents house, it has a way of restoring factory settings, if you are a woman and you are in an abusive relationship, leave!

look at this story, the woman can press charges against the man and she'd win big in any sane court. The man should have sent her away instead getting her blind and getting himself into trouble.

@ armyofone, BC's aren't that bad. I use Microgynon and it works well with my system. The trick is finding what works for you.

As for side effects, mood swings, swollen boobs happened when I first started and it stopped after a few weeks. Most people complain about the weight gain, but I was very lucky, I didn't add at all, I even lost a bit without trying at all.

Just make sure you don't have fibroids, cos they grow with the pill.

he should have given you an antibiotic alongside the painkillers. You have an infection

Thanks @tearoses. I'd give my small widows mite. She will also be in my prayers

Chomsky1967:
No vex ma, but is this a sauce, soup, pottage, meal on its own? What do you eat it with?

It's a sauce, I took wit rice, on some days I just ate it alone. But it's meant to go with something

My spin on chili con carne, made with shrimps, mackerel, Green, yellow and red bell peppers, scotch bonnet peppers, tomatoes etc

taryour:
hi dearie, I hope you get to see this cause it's kinda urgent. please kindly send me a message on this number. 08061385853. thanks

seen, can't wait to see my cake

tearoses:
let me send you a pm
maybe it it will work

seen, replied your PM.

tearoses:
rebella saw ur msg but cant get to my Email

Ok, pls is there any other way I can reach you it's important

Sorry the Vacancy has been, closed, for those who applied, the shortlisted candidates will get an email from me before the close of the day for an interview.

Vacancy closed

tearoses:
Thanks dear
May God give us wisdom

Glad to be of help

@ tearoses, yes it has been long oh, well considering your son has his own cupboard, then it would be a good idea for him to have his. But pls tell him the idea behind the cupboard oh. Cos it may backfire and look as if, u are just providing a house not a home.

The chores are a great idea, cos one more person may add a whole lot more clutter to your home and that would be a great way to check that doesn't happen, while creating a bond with your guest.

@ tearoses, I feel it's better not to give him his own cupboard, let him feel free to use everything in your kitchen, and concerning meals, he can eat either from what is home or whatever he feels like cooking. You can ask him when you're doing your weekly shopping if he wants anything.
This way I feel he'd integrate quicker into your family.

For chores, please give him chores to do after you feel he has settled

@ OP I know exactly what your neighbour's wife is going through. She should check for endometriosis, hopefully she doesn't have it.

3 -4 days before the start of her period she should start taking her pain relievers, she should continue taking it when the period starts and take before the pain comes back.

Tbh pain relievers only make the pain bearable so she can carry on her daily activities.