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Health / Dear African Parents: 4 Signs Your Child Is Being Abused by Redcheetah: 2:09pm On Jun 06, 2020
Child abuse is sadly on the increase in recent times. Guardians, relatives, instructors or nannies have become perpetrators of these ungodly acts. Before we discuss the signs of abuse, let us first take a brief look at the meaning of child abuse and the different types.

Child abuse is not just physical violence directed at a child. It is any form of maltreatment by an adult, which is violent or threatening to the child. It is physical, verbal, sexual, and/or psychological maltreatment or neglect of a child or children, especially by a parent or a caregiver. When child abuse occurs in the home and the abuser is the child’s parent or care-giver, this is a form of domestic violence. Child abuse can be perpetrated by teachers, instructors, relatives or older children.

Keeping children safe can be challenging since many perpetrators who sexually abuse children are in positions of trust — 93% of child sexual assault victims know the perpetrator. Keeping a child away from the perpetrator may mean major changes in the child’s life.
Below are some of the common signs of child abuse:

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Romance / 5 Reasons Why Husbands Cheat On Wives by Redcheetah: 3:03pm On May 05, 2020
A wife has to be perfect; agree to her husband’s whims in the bedroom, be a fairy witch in the kitchen, dress hot and sexy even while she sleeps, stay slim with perky breast even after 4 kids, and so much more ridiculousness, all so that her husband won’t cheat. While some genuinely believe this to be true, nothing could be farther from the truth. ‘Perfect’ wives have been cheated on time and time again. Beyoncé anybody?

Why husbands cheat will always be up for discussion. It truly has become a mystery. We think we have the mystery solved, then one woman somewhere who was devotedly practicing what we thought was the solution gets cheated on. And we are fast back to ground zero.

What then is the problem? Why do husbands cheat?

He might be going through a "second adolescence."

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Fashion / The Best Ways To Rock Your Footwears [photos] by Redcheetah: 1:32pm On Apr 28, 2020
WRITTEN BY WURA

It’s time for my men! I’d tell you the truth, you are my favorite man and no, I am not trying to whyne you. I actually mean it.Remember the other day you were kind of confused about what shoes to wear to where and what shoes to wear on what? Exactly, I am about to help you unravel that puzzle. You don’t have to bother about how best to style your foot wears anymore. Just come on here and slay that look baby boy.
Are you ready?

MONK STRAPS: Let me start with this, I understand that many people are of the opinion that monk straps are strictly for formal wears and I completely agree. As a matter of fact, it is safer to wear your monk straps on your official wear. On the flip side, you come out cute when you rock those footsteps toning it a little down. Who would have thought a monk strap would look so breathtaking on this casual wear? It’s time for something different.

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Romance / 5 Ways To Get Your Groove Back After A Heartbreakingly Sad Heartbreak by Redcheetah: 3:38pm On Apr 27, 2020
Heartbreak is a great leveler. In Heartbreak town, everyone is equal. The heart doesn’t take into account your big academic degrees or your notable career achievements to determine how devastating and disruptive the hurt will be. When all is said and done, Heartbreak is heartbreak.

One minute, your world is standing right on its axis and you could have sworn that nothing could go wrong. The next minute, the love of your life reaches right through your chest and rips your heart out. Your life literally grounds to a sharp halt, and you genuinely doubt that things will ever be quite the same. It’s an emotional heartbreak, so you get confused as to why you can actually physically feel your heart hurt.

You lose your appetite, lose sleep, lose focus. Gradually, you’ll start losing yourself too. If you do not snap out of it.

It sounds impossible, but if you play your cards right, you will come out of this a better, more centered person. So, let’s list out the cards you have to play.

Let your emotions out.
Heartbreaks plunge us into grief. So, it is definitely very okay to accept the way you feel and allow yourself to mourn. Cry, sob your eyes out, scream and yell. So long as it doesn’t hurt you or anyone else, find ways to release and let go of the pain you may be feeling. The mistake people make is to try to move right along with life like nothing happened despite the pain they feel. The only thing this does is make the hurt grow and fester within you. Honor your feelings sis, it helps you move past them!

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Romance / How To Get Over A Heartbreak by Redcheetah: 3:53pm On Apr 25, 2020
Like a poorly scripted motion picture we comb for clues and trails in our bid to possibly unravel what went wrong. And as we rehash the scenes over and over in our head we ask Why? For starters, let’s blame Simon Sinek. All the possible permutations and combinations of ‘Why’ will neither satisfy nor assuage our mind in its boundless quest for answers. Winch says “There is no breakup explanation that is going to be satisfying, no rationale will remove the pain that you feel”

While we beat ourselves up for either loving too much or loving too little, every answered ‘Why’ will throw up yet another Why! The problem is, you really should not trust your mind at this period. Brain studies have shown that the sudden withdrawal of romantic love trigger the same neurons in our brain that gets stimulated when addicts are withdrawing from meth or cocaine. Your mind is on a high and…

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Fashion / Ankara Doesn’t Have To Be Boring – Here Are Ways To Spice It Up by Redcheetah: 2:01pm On Apr 24, 2020
There is nothing like Ankara is old school in this 21st century. If you own an Ankara, then you one person who doesn’t just pride in her culture, but is also trendy enough to understand Ankara is the real deal.

These days, people see Ankara as clothes that can only be worn to traditional outings but let me shock you girlfriend, you can rock your Ankara anywhere, so far you know how to slay it right.

Let me make this clear, this article is not meant to show Ankara styles, instead its meant to open your eyes to contemporary ways to make your Ankara a beauty to behold. I agree there are so many beautiful styles made from Ankara ranging from dresses, to jumpsuit etc.

This is a different approach and for every piece, you’d see the uniqueness and most definitely give it a shot.
Take your cup of tea and ride along

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Romance / 5 Mind Blowing Reasons Why Women Cheat by Redcheetah: 7:46pm On Apr 23, 2020
The first question that pops when I think of the subject is “why do women have a different reason for cheating?”. Since we are both essentially humans, before gender comes into play, why do we act differently? Why are both genders expected or allowed to act differently under the same circumstance? Practical example; if a couple is stopped by an unarmed thug in a dark alley, it’s okay (acceptable) for the lady to stand behind her husband for protection, hoping he has some Jason Statham tricks up his sleeves.

After all she’s a woman. But if she stands up to the thug and scares him off, we go on to describe her as acting “manly”. On the other hand, if the man stands up to the thug, that’s okay (acceptable). But, if he cowers and hides behind his wife for protection or runs away; leaving her behind, he’s described as a coward or less-of-a-man. Some characters have been tagged masculine while orders have been tagged feminine and it’s the same with various reactions or in this case, an action like cheating. Its funny how we draw these lines.

So then, why do women cheat? Some of the reasons are alike between men and women, but its intriguing that some are totally different. Let’s take a look at some of those reasons.

1. TO SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP: This part is very difficult to explain and funny when you think about it. This is another classical example of ....

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Career / 11 Simple Steps to Self Employment by Redcheetah: 7:34pm On Apr 23, 2020
Are you done with school, and considering job hunting? Why not start with a self employment? Starting a small scale business could be a daunting task to many aspiring entrepreneurs. Most often, where the financial resources are available, the courage is lacking. Have you ever thought about what it takes to start and run a successful small scale business enterprise? Don’t worry, this article gives you the eleven basic but simple steps that every aspiring entrepreneur should take in order to increase his/her chances of success at first trial in business.

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Romance / 5 Ways To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating On You by Redcheetah: 3:35pm On Apr 23, 2020
Long gone are the days when the meaning of the word “cheating” was plain and simple. Now, things have become highly complicated, and simple words like “cheating” have different meanings depending on whom you ask. Some may consider it cheating if their partner emotionally connects with someone else in the Dms, while some do not think it is cheating until pants are down.

And then there are some who think that there are levels to cheating; there in the occasional one-night stands, we-were-drunk romps, we-just-sorta-connected-and-did-it-once, he/she-was-there-when-I-needed-them mistakes, and various other ridiculous scenarios that you really do not want to hear of.

Whatever the definition you decide to stick with, and whatever the level of cheating you think is passable or unforgivable, no one wants to be cheated on. Unfortunately, people get cheated on, on a regular basis. The even sadder thing is that the people who get cheated on are those who genuinely think that they are in an exclusive relationship.

Good thing is; no matter the type of cheating someone’s doing, the signs, cues, body language movements, and signals are pretty consistent. And that is what we will be discussing today. Let’s get right to it.

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Romance / 5 Shocking Reasons Why Men Cheat. by Redcheetah: 10:33am On Apr 21, 2020
Men and infidelity. All over the world, this subject is known to spark a lot of controversies. Someone, In an attempt to defend men in the act, argued that, “Men could cheat without having an emotional attachment; meaning that it doesn’t have to end the relationship, but with women there is definitely an emotional attachment which would mean, essentially, that her heart has drifted away from her initial lover unto another”. Another provoked respondent who seemed to have perceived bias all around the initial argument said “Men cheat all because they can.” “They are predators, always looking for their next prey” she added. Although, the general consensus remains that there is no justification for cheating either with men or women, we cannot outrightly blot out the fact that nothing really happens without a cause.

Based on different experiences shared on social media platforms and other forms of media (TV talk shows, Relationship columns on Newspapers, Magazines, Radio call-ins) we can deduce that men have cheated for a thousand and one reasons, from an attempt at revenge upon finding out the ugly secret of their spouses having an affair with a man with a deeper voice, broader chest or a smug face, to other insane reasons like playing the part and satisfying their spouses curiosity (she kept spying on me, and suggesting that I was cheating so I decided to play the part). However, there are 5 major reasons why men cheat, under which we can sum up the other petty reasons...

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Nairaland / General / (true Life Story)how I Lived Through&managed An Abusive Relationship/marriage :( by Redcheetah: 9:29am On Apr 21, 2020
Let me start by saying that abuse does not just start in one day; there are red flags which are typically ignored
Our marriage started on a very good note, my husband and I met when I was at the university and didn’t start dating until few years later, we got married in the late 90s and I thought we were in love and we were perfect, I married my friend , someone I could share everything with, and I remembered my husbands friends telling that my husband would tell them that his marriage was made in Heaven..hmmmmm…
so what went wrong you would ask? We lived apart during the first few years and only spent time together on weekends . This continued until I was able to secure a transfer to his State .While I was away, I had control of my finances and was responsible for our child’s upkeep. i didn’t have to pay rent because the house I lived was his fathers’..
I however noted that things did not change after I moved in with him .I was still expected to pay the bills for child upkeep and other household expense . Once I complained to him about not been right I would be responsible for almost everything in the house, he asked me “what will you be doing with your own money then?..
As a Muslim , I was raised to be totally submissive to my husband. His income was lower and so in good faith and as a good wife I thought I was been supportive of my husband .
On his request ,I started handing over my monthly salary to him. it was more of me trying to be the submissive wife. . This continued even though I was not happy with it . if I had to get anything for myself, I would need to ask . Most of the time he declined my request
I came home one day to tell him that a colleague of mine had so much in investment and I had nothing after several years of working ,but my husband simply ignored

The Physical Abuse-
Hell broke loose when.......

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Romance / 5 Things Every Lady Must Know Before Getting Married by Redcheetah: 8:46am On Apr 21, 2020
What do you think is the most talked about topic amongst women? I don’t have the numbers, and I didn’t carry out any form of survey. But, quite frankly, the answer to that question isn’t far fetched at all. We women talk about men a whole lot. Much more than we will willingly actually admit. And one of the reasons for that is one single phenomenon; Marriage. From the moment an average Nigerian girl comes of age, one of the things that take up residence in her mind is marriage. The very funny thing though is; you would think that this average Nigerian girl would have ample time to learn all there is about marriage, considering the number of years she spends thinking about the topic. But this isn’t usually the case, she barely even thinks of marriage past the peripheral. As a matter of fact, it is usually one swift free-fall toward the big day.

It is easy to get caught up in marriage fantasies. But you should be more caught up in making sure to have a lasting and happy marriage. Here are 5 things experts recommend you know before you say I do.

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Romance / 12 Types Of Women You Should Not Marry by Redcheetah: 11:35am On Apr 17, 2020
Behind every successful man is a woman. No doubt this is a well thought through statement.
Just like ladies need to be very cautious before walking down the aisle with a man, same also applies to the man.
Your choice of a spouse will greatly impact your outcome in life. This will cut across every area of a man’s life and may be the sole difference between failure and success.

Below are some key points that will guide you

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Nairaland / General / Important Things Every Woman Should Know About Breast Cancer by Redcheetah: 12:46pm On Apr 12, 2020
Cancer is among the leading causes of death in Nigeria. A lot of us know one or two persons who have died from the disease or still battling with it.
The reported death cases arising from cancer in Nigeria has been attributed
largely to late detection, lack of awareness, poor funding from government and relevant organizations. Other factors include lack of equipment and specialized hospitals for treatment, lack of trained oncologists etc.

Among various types of cancer,  breast cancer can be said to be the most
common  among Nigerian women .
Breast cancer is a type of cancer that develops from the breast tissue and it occurs when some breast tissues begin to grow abnormally. It develops in cells from the lining of the milk ducts and lobules that supply the ducts with milk. Even though Men suffer breast cancer, it is nothing compared to the rate among   women.
Usually breast cancer is discovered when the woman feels a lump in her breast. These abnormal cells develop more speedily than normal cells, and  keep accumulating, thereby  forming a lump which is the first noticeable symptom, that feels different from the rest of the breast tissues.
There are various noticeable signs and symptoms of breast cancer that every woman should be aware of,  and they include ……

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Celebrities / Celebrites And Their Marriages; Reasons Behind Their Successes And Failures by Redcheetah: 11:49am On Apr 12, 2020
This is a question that has caused a lot of controversy in recent times, especially, with the rate at which many celebrity marriages have been breaking. The twist to it however, is that, in the midst of all these, there are equally many marriages that have plied the route of success amidst dreadful ordeals. What that tells us therefore, is that, keeping a home is not a product of being a celebrity or not, rather, it is a product of understanding your position and acting in accordance.
If there are people who can maintain their high standard career and still have a blissful home, it means, there are certain things that can be done, in order to manage these two important things. The question of how best it is to keep a home as a celebrity is for no one to answer, but, if one is to consider the lives of celebrities who have been able to keep theirs, one will be able to point out certain things that can aid other celebrities in keeping theirs.

Let’s start with settling down with an understanding partner…..

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Gaming / FIFA Vs PES… Which Is King? by Redcheetah: 2:05pm On Apr 11, 2020
Guys! Get in here! Lets trash this out once and for all.
I know that all of us, or most of us will agree that video games are the best. Our gaming escapades will make for lengthy, thrilling, novels if they were to be documented on paper. Some of us snuck out of school to meet up with friends at game houses and got 10mins of ass whooping in the end. oh well! Double loss. Others spent the best of each day with the neighbors next-door, forfeiting launch and skipping chores, enjoying what was the time of their lives, beating opponents and getting beat in several rounds of mortal combat or soccer. We never really argue about the console; whether its Microsoft’s Xbox or Sony’s PlayStation, as long as it works just fine, supports two game pads and allows two players to get on the end of it to give themselves the ass-whooping of a lifetime, we say yay!

But here’s where we begin to split our votes – the all famous game of football. The rivalry between PES and FIFA lovers go way back. Some say PES is king and FIFA is overrated but others will strongly oppose. However, there can only be one king so let’s put this to bed once and for all.
In an attempt to determine which is superior without “bias”, we will be examining a couple of features that make up the major part of the game…..

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Investment / 5 Practical Ways To Get Rich. Please Note This Is Not A Quick Cash Scheme by Redcheetah: 1:58pm On Apr 11, 2020
I did a poll on twitter to find out what path people thought was the easiest way to get wealthy. People who are born into rich homes or who marry into rich home were not considered, as we are trying to figure out the path that would work for everyday people like you. There are steps to be taken, especially, if you are following the Saver-investor path, to ensure that you can achieve your financial / investment goals. These steps are…..

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Nairaland / General / 5 Practical Ways To Get Rich. Please Note This Is Not A Quick Cash Scheme by Redcheetah: 1:52pm On Apr 11, 2020
I did a poll on twitter to find out what path people thought was the easiest way to get wealthy. People who are born into rich homes or who marry into rich home were not considered, as we are trying to figure out the path that would work for everyday people like you. There are steps to be taken, especially, if you are following the Saver-investor path, to ensure that you can achieve your financial / investment goals. These steps are…..

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Food / Healthy Alternatives To Soda For The Sweet-toothed by Redcheetah: 4:40pm On Apr 10, 2020
Research says there is one big problem to this closeness: excessive soda consumption leads to bad tooth or even diabetes. According to experts, every Can or bottle of sugared soda adds hundreds of calories to your diet but absolutely no nutritional value. Cutting soda out of your daily diet is a great idea, but finding a great replacement.....

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Jobs/Vacancies / How To Deal With Unemployment by Redcheetah: 12:33pm On Apr 10, 2020
Unemployment is a very challenging phase in a man’s life, especially one who is married with a family to cater for. It’s important to apply one's self to his employment and do all you can to keep it at least till you find a better one, it’s, however, important to.....

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Romance / Love And Genotype by Redcheetah: 11:28am On Apr 10, 2020
The issue of love, genotype and relationship has become very rampant these days and it is so painful, considering the number of Sickle Cell and Sickle sickness deaths being recorded by time.
Let’s start from the scratch; this whole brouhaha can actually be avoided from the beginning. So, it is a beautiful thing to be in love and it is more beautiful when it is with the right person, but one of the things that should be considered....

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Romance / How To Remain Attractive To Your Partner During The Lockdown by Redcheetah: 11:22am On Apr 10, 2020
Tell me, what was the first thing that attracted you to your partner? Awww, did that just bring a smile to your face? One question though – Are you still attracted to him/her like the first time you met? If yes, you are doing a great job and if No...

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Nairaland / General / Here Are 5 Things To Do To Have Fun During This Easter Celebration by Redcheetah: 10:56am On Apr 10, 2020
The coronavirus is still on the loose and as such, we all can’t go out as that would mean putting ourselves and our loved ones at risk. We can’t go to church, or a park or any of our favorites spots where we would have loved to celebrate this Easter season. It would seem like our options for fun this season....

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Romance / Re: Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys by Redcheetah: 8:48pm On Apr 08, 2020
xendra:
over-flogged lie, good girls dont love bad boys

a good girl is not by appearance either

there are decent prostitutes, just because they look nice, simple and don't wear makeup doesn't mean they are "good girls " ya'll keep making that mistake.
xendra:
over-flogged lie, good girls dont love bad boys

a good girl is not by appearance either

there are decent prostitutes, just because they look nice, simple and don't wear makeup doesn't mean they are "good girls " ya'll keep making that mistake.

Please read the post. I’m sure your perspective will change after.
Nairaland / General / Shocking Fact: The Only Town In Nigeria Where $1 Is Equal To ₦1 by Redcheetah: 6:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
1 Naira equal to 1 Dollar? YES! Right there in Ado-Awaye in Oyo State, you will get the same value for money as in Glenwood Canyon Colorado. Ado-Awaye has, for a while now, attracted a lot of attention from people and media bodies......

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Romance / Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys by Redcheetah: 6:52pm On Apr 08, 2020
The first mistake many of us make, is to judge good or bad by appearance. Come to think of it, armed robbers these days wear suit and tie; so the mindset that any man who looks good and flashy is a “bad” boy is very myopic.That being said, let’s talk about the “bad” boys and why the girls would rather have them.....

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Health / Love And Genotype by Redcheetah: 5:14pm On Apr 08, 2020
The issue of love, genotype and relationship has become very rampant these days and it is so painful, considering the number of Sickle Cell and Sickle sickness deaths being recorded by time.
Let’s start from the scratch; this whole brouhaha can actually be avoided from the beginning. So, it is a beautiful thing to be in love and it is more beautiful when it is with the right person, but one of the things that should be considered....

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https://redcheetahnews.com/love-and-genotype
Celebrities / Social Distancing Order And The NCDC: Was Funke Akindele Prosecuted Or Scapegoat by Redcheetah: 5:01pm On Apr 08, 2020
Saturday night, Nigerian Twitter went agog with noise of how Nollywood Actress and one-half CEO of Scene One Movies threw an indoor party despite the Social Distancing Order that had been giving by the Governor of Lagos state. The general consensus was that she had to be arrested; she was a role model, people looked up to her. She should have known better, especially since......

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Sports / Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo Were Destined To Be Teammates Until One Decision by Redcheetah: 4:47pm On Apr 08, 2020
Lionel Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo could have been destined to become teammates if it wasn’t for a major decision that soon changed the history of soccer. Messi has represented Barcelona ever since he turned pro. But some fans may not know that Messi’s former agent, Horacio Gaggioli, said the Barcelona superstar could have joined Real Madrid...

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