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I read thoroughly without comments the other thread about tithing and debts. I believe in tithing and honestly think Christians should pay it without asking questions or checking how the pastor or church council is spending it but one person wrote that tithing is not about the money but about obedience to God and this made me to ask :

You've paid your monthly bills, all is taken care of and the remaining change is for your tithe when a relation calls from home asking for the equivalent of your tithe to save her father or mothers life. Do you apply the obedience rule and ignore her or do you give her the money to save the life and disobey God?

You are very funny!!!!! Playas don't date freeloaders. Grin Cheesy Grin
You really expect a geezer who hates time-wasting to date chics that want credits on their oyster cards, phone vouchers, rents, cars, utility bills?
Girls are in abundance. . . . .Matter of fact, there are many single professional women every corner u turn so why get maself involved with a complete tramp who would constitute a liability in ma challenge. No way Jose!!!!!

Are you aware that some chics you think are rich and professional are actually leeches that will suck you dry before you see the edge of her bra. Guys have an ego problem and most women capitalize on that to hit them below the belt or will you tell a chic no I cant afford this when you presented a superb picture of yourself from day 1? You never jam.

Very simple answer.

You apply the risk-based analysis. Is this target worth pursuing or should i count ma losses and back off?
It depends on the goals ones have set before embarking on the project so it depends on the individual.

Sometimes you think a woman that is not particularly preety or hot will be an easy lay but the more you delve into her affairs, the more she plays you. The more you think about your trap paying off, she keeps shifting the anointing day and keeps increasing her monetary requests that may range from pay my rent to help me complete the money for a new car. Do you really think any playa will have the heart to back off before reaping from an investment like this?

Redhotchick is back again thinking she knows men, Grin But she has no clue.

PrOfessional sweetheart, can you please let me in on men. If i recall very well, I accused both genders at the beginning of this tread and one woman already accepted being a playa because you guys are always quick to believe that it's only your likes that have a tight game plan.

why they fall is because most girls love to feel important and appreciate and most guys use this as a front to get to them by making them feel like they are all they have just to hit and run. But some girls do the same to guys. I like to call it drain-the-account-and-run. Grin so that is why we hit first so as to not get drained.

Some guys get drained before they 'score' if i may borrow jackals vocbulary. How do you guys play it when you are spending so much but it seems that scoring is not anywhere near, may be the chic is clever enough to know your game? Count your losses and move on or continue investing in the land till it bleeds oil? I need an answer especially from Jackal.

all this talk talk, you have to understand that when the hormones are talking no one dares to interupt. My dear it's not fair but what can we do to help ourselves

Thanks for giving me a good laugh this evening.

It's not about their asses not having control.
Back in the Uni days, it was a game. You are having a drink with your mates and a gorgeous diva walks by. . . . . .
The pack picks on a dude and dare him to walk up to the woman and SCORE.
Most times, it's a bet. This fills a man's ego up and adventure is one of the many characteristics of young adolescents. . . IT WAS FUN. Tongue

I wonder how you guys will feel if women play that kind of game with you. Personally, how will you feel if you, your sister or your daughter fall victim for that kind of game in the name of street credibility? What about guys that follow one chic for 6 months just to score once, is that still a game?

Ulaaalaah, this game probably lasted longer than the English premier season.

Hit and Run is just a very stupid idea!!

Some guys don't think so. They think it helps sow their royal seed smoothly.

J-girl Shocked Shocked Shocked you've become more aggressive Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Me thinks seun needs to start banning you. . .instead of me for aggressiveness

I think everyone here should have his/her own opinion dished out equally.

How much resources are we talking about here? Hundreds of GB pounds?
Puhleeeeeeaze. . . . . Men lose that in betting shops anyways so the loss is insignificant.
Hit and Run is centred around many motives. . . . Naturally, most men do it to see if they can get away with it.

I don't think so. Guys do not indulge in hit and run just to see whether they can get away with it especially in Nigeria because they usually get away with it anyway. I think they do it because their Hot ass has no damn control.

Hit and run, hit and run. . . . . . . . .reminds me of a certain animal

roflmao

don't need or want street credibilty

I do it purely for the thrill

Ok, knock yourself out. Just stay off hitting your neighborhood before they brand you a LovePeddler because it's only guys that can win the street credibility.

Its called the thrill of the chase. . .

and yes its worth it, nothin beats the feeling of satisfaction when u finally get your prey

At least a woman is also preying on men too. Who gets the street credibility this time?

It was worth every penny. Cool Cool Cool

Back in em days in ma borough, that single act earns a geezer STREET CREDIBILITY.
You can do the math.

Did you consider whether the resources you lost can can be equated or less than the value of the notorious "credibility" you earned on the street?

This question goes to most men that consider themselves playas and a few percentage of women that indulge in that act. "Hit and run" is simply sleeping with someone and bailing almost immediately. Most guys spend their hard earned money, time, risk losing all they have, STD's etc just because of few minutes of pleasure. It's a different thing if you approach someone with the intention of starting a relationship with her/him but the ones am concerned about are those that approach someone, spend their resources, waste valuable time, put a lot at risk for just few minutes of sexual gratification.

Question: After reading the cons above, Is it really worth it from your own point of view? If you think about about your escapades and all you lost for that short pleasure, was it worth the stress?

I`m beginning to think towards specializing in gyneacology

You don't have to be a gynae to strip women naked in your office. Nigerian politicians have the license to do that too. So you can as well work towards becoming your local govt chairman, governor,senator or minister for sewage affairs.