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agbonkamen:
boss you want bolder one

Smiles. You ehn

Okay

agbonkamen:
i know boss but we still need to support our man sha

Hmm. Strong woman. Nice new picture. But it's not clear/bold

agbonkamen:
boss Na hustle cause am o

Smiles. Women of this generation sha. Una wan dey drag Jean's with us. A lady doesn't need to hustle but a good man to take care of her and the rest will sort.

agbonkamen:
This man is asslicking the north, u go enter political oblivion soon.

Strong woman. You nor dey do dey available these days. Na wetin happen

Abeg una

I nor want get problem with God

boolet:
I have nothing against this man, walahi. My grouse is with imbeciles who take him serious.

You're a trouble maker walahi

From 21 Trillion Naira loan to 36 Trillion Naira indebted in just 5 years.


Continue mortgaging the future when Nigeria breaks, you'll fight on how to share the debt repayment. Fulls

Sterope:
What do you expect a man that terrorized and threatened his family into converting into Christianity?

Liar If I pinch you dia

Ekemeze:
Mad44 abi Mynd44, lalasnake, Seun and other mods, thunder fire una if you don't delete this thread ASAP.

If it was about a Muslim, you'd delete it long ago.

giving preferential treatment to females and islam go kill una las las. mad people

;DYou're a trouble maker

pk2me:
He said it was done spiritually but the person must be sighted by the evildoer inorder to manipulate it.

Wow


Was it an hospital you got this information from?


I like to experiment on myself so they check if there's pin in me too

I love knowledge don't blame me.


How can you direct me?

calcal:
EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE WELL EDUCATED, YOU CAN NOT STILL PLAN YOUR FINANCIAL LIFE WITHOUT BRINGING IT TO SOCIAL MEDIA. OMASE OOO

You are bitter. Everyone starts from. Somewhere. With all your knowledge, you couldn't also put one single good idea


Let's stop condemning people. You're bitter. Work on yourself

Come and see o. Thattallgirl

pk2me:
This is the stuff. Two was removed from her head, 2 abdomen, 1 at her face others back and her thigh right in front of me.
I then asked the man to check mine too but nothing was found.
When we went there as early as 8am our number was 54 and more people were trooping in both young and old not excluding infants brought by their mothers.

Wow

Did they give any information on how it got into her body or how it developed?

Zzor:
I'm an introvert

Make I come carry you one weekend shake you up?

True

Zzor:
wish us well

Hang out more. Be more social. Events, etc

What is pin?

chachanga:
Prince Edward Island Canada, largely white, strongly Christian Baptist but with tenacious appreciation of diversity and an awakening fascination with multiculturalism, it's been sublime wearing off almost to the boringly plaid. Everyone largely buggers off minding their business till you tick them off and still get lightly brushed off.
Racism if at all, gets nervously passed across in well-couched in awkward humor or deference.

Being largely surrounded by water, relaxation by way of tourism revolves around more waterside attractions for me though its friggin' cold here, single digit heading to zero for a bit now infact.

You get peeps here who largely don't know and couldn't give a flippin crap where you're from until you start chilling together and you tell them experiences and realities from here and they start acting like you're from a real-life wakanda or something. And that's a real blessing considering that the stench of Nigeria's shitty rep hasn't preceded one here as with other places. And thank God say boys neva reach here to begin dey show dem pepper and you'd hardly hear say anyone be yahoo-yahoo victim. I do thanksgiving for that everyday that I'm not getting heavily stereotyped and hanged socially for some other id1ots crimes.

Covid-19 Work-From-Home adjustments have introduced some interestingly new dynamics into life here in one being more house-bound than before.

One other interesting thing's all the Band-8 IELTS wahala left me with a somewhat anticlimatic aftertaste because I've only been using structured English at work, social interactions have been quite normal with commonplace lingo that shouldn't have given any intending immigrant any bothers in wondering whether they'd fit in well or not. If you won't mind the cold but are seriously passionate about better choices and options for your future, come over.

Another thing I've noticed that's ticked me off about some fellow Africans here is the alice n wonderland mentality they carry which makes them erroneously assume that here is already so ok that the next best thing we should henceforth engage ourselves with is settle somewhere on the rat-race ladder, start earning, earning, buying stuff to fit in and repeat that cycle endlessly enough to go back to Naija and build a couple of houses and be landlord, pftt.

I see myself making valuable contributions to their way of life especially starting from the presently badly hit tourism industry where I function here in the nearest future. Africa currently holds the keys to their lack of mysteries and that is a big market waiting to be tapped into.

By and large, life here's a hundred times better than staying back in Nigeria practically battling against Govt's negative policies heating up everywhere socioeconomically and diminishing your best entrepreneurial efforts while paid lackeys like that Lai Mohammed still has the effrontery to spin lies to the contrary.

You said boys haven't gotten there. I'll give them the location. Thanks for the heads up on the next place to exploit

Zaggie:
Many of the Polish people are not racists. They believed all African men have big gbola and sex is free in Africa. They believe it's natural for African men to last an hour or more during sex. They still have some funny stereotypic ideas about Africans, some of them still think Africans live in the forests,that is why many of them find it hard to believe me when I tell them that I saw lions,wolves and elephants for the first time in my life here in Warsaw! They don't even know if there's any country called Nigeria, either you're from Somalia,Zimbabwe or Rwanda, all they know is you're an African.
A big challenge here is that Polish government didn't have any plans to integrate the Africans into the Polish society. There are no projects by the government to help in this integration process, unlike what Germany and UAE is doing at the moment. The African community here in Poland are simply on their own. We learn what we learn,and achieve what we achieve just on our own. There is little or no recognition of our presence here whatsoever. Even after securing a working permit, most companys still demand an attestation letter from your consulate.
I work in a concrete manufacturing company. In my company, they believe I don't have to wear safety gadget before entering the plant because I'm an African, they believe I have a natural immunity to acid and chemical inhalation. They believe we are naturally strong and we shouldn't care about our health.
Incidentally, the African community will for ever remain here in Poland. We will continue to grow in numbers. Many good ones will keep arriving every year.
If you have a valid residency or a working permit here, and you don't pass your boundaries, if you don't beat chest or involve in any illegalities,generally Polish are frdly.

This made my day. I laughed loud reading this comment.


Immunity to chemicals and stuffs. Lol


Thattallgirl come and laugh too

BaddieFreak:
No, what I am saying is that she watches TV a lot that hasn't changed the situation.

You took a bold step forward. The man is just the perfect case of. Incompatible and wrong choice

If you want her to live long, you will really need to be there for her.

BaddieFreak:
The only that can distract her is me and my son, everything else isn't working and can't work. The situation is crazy

She hates TV?

BaddieFreak:
The only time he is distracted is when he is with his friends drinking and the moment he is back, he will start beating my mom

Is that one distraction? Mtchew

BaddieFreak:
There was a time I told her to come spend like a month with my son and I, she came truly but left after a week to go meet her husband.

Lmao. It's their bond that's pulling her back


You're no longer her work. He's now her work. Hence you don't matter. Pele


One month is too much. And destructive. Make it spontaneous 1 week visit and stays. She will do fine that way



Another thing is if there are few things to have her engaged and busied at your end, she gets psychologically tired and want a new environment to spend her energy and attention on. She needs serious distraction like AFRICA MAGIC, ORISUN continous old plays to take her time, kids, churching activities etc

The backbone of the issue is the man has an abundant masculine energy he isn't issuing. And along with lack of distractions he has infinite time


Time

Distractions

Energy

BaddieFreak:
Lol, I understand you but the situation is far beyond that. I even told both of them at a point to see a counselor, my mom was ready but the man refused, can you see what I am passing through?

It's up to you to choose to either leave things as they are or try. Wahala be like bicycle. One has to keep pushing

BaddieFreak:
Lol, that's funny. I have a child already but even that didn't stop my mom from being distracted. And the funny thing is that I don't want my son to see what is happening between my mom and her husband, it is probably going to affect his thinking as he is growing up, I don't want him to be a woman beater too. I usually lie to him about the situation but how long will I keep lying to him.

Have her visit you. Their environment is toxic. You can't take an healthy child in. You can take the victim out of the toxicity. That's how it works. A week visit here and there would stir things up

If you disrupt their lives stylishly things may change. Then watch the process. It's a gamble.


You also need to work on yourself and start detaching emotionally. You're heavily invested and fearful this is another place to fix. You need to come to terms that you both enjoyed a past but your lives won't be the same again as it used to be.. In your past

Getting them an inverter with stable light as a gift with is actually a gift with a motive... Will give them steady light and he will get distracted with TV and activities. This is another way to relax his masculine energy

BaddieFreak:
Hmm, I can't tell him to find something to do, I can only tell my mom and since she has refused, there is little I can do.

If you calm down you can scheme

Another example. One can say mum go visit child a for one week by the time she returns their love reignites. He would have been self distracted while she's away

BaddieFreak:
You forgot to add that when a woman loves a man unconditionally, the man start to see her as a slave that is why every ladies nowadays wants to be liberated from that slavery. An example is my step dad and mom.

Forget ke. An Oracle doesn't forget. I rather took things into perspective. They are both incompatible and don't have much in common. She needed a man however imperfect. Her choice was what matters irrespective of the risks associated. She chose him because she doesn't want to be alone

Truvel:
U Should Explained Dis, Instead Of Using Foul Words. Ur Comment Could Be Idiomatic Or Plain. So, I Saw It As A Plain Statement.

Lmao when they say they can't read or write people were saying it's a lie.

Dude I have an establishment to run, fvck off